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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm kinda assuming that if you have winked at someone and they didn't respond, you wouldn't bother again? Bad form/stalking etc
The reason I ask is that, sometimes, it's hard to keep up with all this and we often leave the iPad logged on at fab and see winks many hours after said wink, when the time seemed to have passed, as it were... We 'try' and reply at least with a 'ta' but have deffo missed some I'm sure...
In fact as I write this I'm answering my own question. We have winked at some and had no replies and wouldn't dream of re-winking so there's my answer I guess.... Unless we are weird, which is possible, but unlikely
I was just worried that we may have missed some diamonds in the whatsit that's all...in the end I guess that's just tough shit I guess... Move on etc
Just interested in your thoughts.... PS FFs don't send loads of erm, er.... No time tonight lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Strangely, I often receive multiple winks from people, yet should I ever use one as a 'nudge' to someone I'm, already chatting to, I get told I've already sent one in the past 30 days and thusly it doesn't get sent - is that just another liberty single males aren't entitled to on here? |
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Think I've only ever winked at about 4 people on here and I don't check mine so no idea if there's repeat winkers but I wouldn't repeat wink if I were in fact a winker myself....
(Can't type winker without hearing the French copper from Ello Ello  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think winking is a bad thing to be fair there are the odd times I forget who I have winked and some times ive re winked a person in case they had so many just deleted them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ta people
It's comming through with 'zero distortion' as Keanu would say
Eeeee point break!! Top film x "
FUCK
You are good...... My all time fave
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have one who winks all the time, as of yet I have repeat deleted, shouldn't that tell him something, like I am not interested  "
Tell him (and I bet it's a him) to drop the 'I' And add an 'A' and he would have an idea of how you feel about him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ta people
It's comming through with 'zero distortion' as Keanu would say
Eeeee point break!! Top film x
FUCK
You are good...... My all time fave
/carry on
I've probably seen it twenty times!! X "
Me too BUT bet u didn't see it at the movies on the day of release lol
I am a surfer, and was a must see at the time... Obviously now have DVD
Right that's it.... David Blaine in a bit then PBS
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"Ta people
It's comming through with 'zero distortion' as Keanu would say
Eeeee point break!! Top film x
FUCK
You are good...... My all time fave
/carry on
I've probably seen it twenty times!! X
Me too BUT bet u didn't see it at the movies on the day of release lol
I am a surfer, and was a must see at the time... Obviously now have DVD
Right that's it.... David Blaine in a bit then PBS
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No but I was only 12!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i tend to delete them every couple of weeks, so have no recollection of those we have winked.
however it seems some keep them for a while as we get a wink, then try to return it and it gives out the 30 day message.
so we just leave it at that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strangely, I often receive multiple winks from people, yet should I ever use one as a 'nudge' to someone I'm, already chatting to, I get told I've already sent one in the past 30 days and thusly it doesn't get sent - is that just another liberty single males aren't entitled to on here?"
If the wink is deleted you can re-wink, but if it isn't deleted you can wink again till it is or till the 30 days is up. Same with friends invites, if you delete they can resend but if you don't then it just stays as an unaccepted request and you cant be re-requested. For this reason I don't bother deleting anymore as it stops the constant winks/invites from people I have no interest in. I do check my new winks though to see if there's anyone I want to wink back at! Friends invites I only really bother with if I've been speaking to someone and am expecting it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I realised I was doing this and started to keep notes in the relevant area on a profile for when winked etc I have lapsed and am sure I have serial winked."
If you're a site supporter it'll show anyway when you click on their profile if you've ever winked/messaged them or if they've ever winked/messaged you...should save you some time then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its never a good idea to assume anything on this site, a lot of people may have 'assumed' you were so inundated with messages, winks and invites that they thought they'd been overlooked! |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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Don't know if this has been said as I haven't read the whole thread, but people can only wink once in 30 days. What you may be reading on the winks is the last time they were logged on - not the time they winked as that does not show up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm kinda assuming that if you have winked at someone and they didn't respond, you wouldn't bother again? Bad form/stalking etc
The reason I ask is that, sometimes, it's hard to keep up with all this and we often leave the iPad logged on at fab and see winks many hours after said wink, when the time seemed to have passed, as it were... We 'try' and reply at least with a 'ta' but have deffo missed some I'm sure...
In fact as I write this I'm answering my own question. We have winked at some and had no replies and wouldn't dream of re-winking so there's my answer I guess.... Unless we are weird, which is possible, but unlikely
I was just worried that we may have missed some diamonds in the whatsit that's all...in the end I guess that's just tough shit I guess... Move on etc
Just interested in your thoughts.... PS FFs don't send loads of erm, er.... No time tonight lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't know if this has been said as I haven't read the whole thread, but people can only wink once in 30 days. What you may be reading on the winks is the last time they were logged on - not the time they winked as that does not show up."
every 30 days unless it gets deleted |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Don't know if this has been said as I haven't read the whole thread, but people can only wink once in 30 days. What you may be reading on the winks is the last time they were logged on - not the time they winked as that does not show up.
every 30 days unless it gets deleted"
I thought it was every 30 days regardless. |
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By *av1970Man
over a year ago
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"I realised I was doing this and started to keep notes in the relevant area on a profile for when winked etc I have lapsed and am sure I have serial winked.
If you're a site supporter it'll show anyway when you click on their profile if you've ever winked/messaged them or if they've ever winked/messaged you...should save you some time then!"
It shows all the time if you have messaged but the 'you winked them' disappears if they delete the wink...so therefore your 'private notes' keeps you informed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hardly ever wink at anyone I'll have a look at who's winked at me but I leave them there so they can't wink again for 30 days. I'd rather someone messaged me if they were that interested. |
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(well, it only means I repeatedly found the person attractive, haha!)
I could go through them and see if anyone has re-winked but honestly I dont want to know the answer that much 
