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"Na rather not kids nd stis happen already got 2 nd little un on the way nd prefer not to feel a bit sore ndntender down below "
Not sure this post will help you look like the good guy here. |
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over a year ago
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"Na rather not kids nd stis happen already got 2 nd little un on the way nd prefer not to feel a bit sore ndntender down below
Not sure this post will help you look like the good guy here. "
And the fact he wants a relationship too so maybe he's on the wrong site ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"as ive said b 4 when u meet a new partner how long do people go before bbacking bet its not long and how long do some relationships last ????"
us, it was around 6 weeks before we went bare, and that was cuz we were waiting for the results back from the clinic.
wrapped up before then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All these bareback threads make us laugh. We've seen people post on here saying they never have and never would then had messages of the same asking for bareback.
The fact is 80% who say they never do, in fact do but won't admit it. |
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over a year ago
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"All these bareback threads make us laugh. We've seen people post on here saying they never have and never would then had messages of the same asking for bareback.
The fact is 80% who say they never do, in fact do but won't admit it. "
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over a year ago
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"All these bareback threads make us laugh. We've seen people post on here saying they never have and never would then had messages of the same asking for bareback.
The fact is 80% who say they never do, in fact do but won't admit it.
proof of the figures? "
just a wild guess from experience, could be as low as 50% or as high as 90% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do bareback all the time !!
Then we shoot up with shared needles
Do a few tequila suicides
and finish off with a game of Russian roulette
fuck it live a little......
(please note the extensive use of sarcasm in this post)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely people are educated enough to know the sexual health risks associated with a lifestyle such as swinging. However it is down to individual choice whether to use protection against those risks.
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over a year ago
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"anyone dnt give a fuck and prefer a bit of barebacking"
I personally do prefer bare back .... BUT I do give a fuck !!!! So don't go there !! No way !!! Just not worth the risk !!! Shame but that's life !!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"anyone dnt give a fuck and prefer a bit of barebacking
I personally do prefer bare back .... BUT I do give a fuck !!!! So don't go there !! No way !!! Just not worth the risk !!! Shame but that's life !!!!!! "
Totally agree with you, not sure anyone likes to faff about with condoms but is it worth risking your health for a bit of fun? Personally in this lifestyle I think bareback is madness but each to their own, people are free to live their lives as they wish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally don't play bareback and even though use condoms, always get tested regularly, but what gets my back up, is not the ones who do play bareback, its the ones who state Safe Sex ONLY then go around playing bareback and with people they know ONLY play bareback!
Just wish they would make their fecking minds up ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined in this lifestyle I was quite naive and old fashioned (thought it was his job to have the condoms) I was shocked on a number of occasions where I turned up at a meet started playing only to find out they did not have a condom !!! They were then shock when I said "no condom no way" now I make sure its clear b4 hand and I always take my own ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"anyone dnt give a fuck and prefer a bit of barebacking
A hell of a lot more than will ever admit to it on an open forum
yup a load of hypocrits on here lol "
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You meet a nice clean looking person and think mmmm ok just this once wont hurt . But he/shes also done it with one other person , that person did it with 3 others, the 3 others do it all the time . So just once means that technically you might be having sex with possibly a thousand other strangers . Would really not like those odds . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"anyone dnt give a fuck and prefer a bit of barebacking
A hell of a lot more than will ever admit to it on an open forum
yup a load of hypocrits on here lol
proof?"
I've seen it first hand. Profiles that scream safe sex only ... Yet have approached us both in clubs and privately for bareback and on talking to them they admit they pretty much always go bare.
I've had to pull many a woman away from lee during play because they were trying to rub bare pussy over him... And try to slip him in.. I watch his back so to speak and he watches mine. But many try it. And a guy even refused when I said it had to be safe recently.
I don't belittle anyone as I used to never ever play safe... And yes I was lucky... I still won't do oral with a condom and accept that risk.. although I do get a little iffy now if a couple approaches us that state they prefer bare. Mostly because I know it increases my risk.
Would love a fluid bonded couple for us to play with but it takes a lot of trust |
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I treat all new partners as if I don't know their full sexual history (because I don't) and their profile might not be entirely truthful and so I use condoms with all except one, and we spoke at length about it and are both regularly tested...neither of us play bare with anyone else. It works for us and I'm sure there are many in the same boat. I'm even more cautious though now because I know that if I have a slip then it's him I'm putting at risk too not just me.
Those who bareback and are honest about it though get a bit more respect from me than those who assume that because they use condoms they are completely safe and don't need to have regular testing. They really scare me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I nvr use protection n nvr have caught anything. "
How often do you get tested. And I was like that till a few years ago. Now I only play bare with my play partner and him with me. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I nvr use protection n nvr have caught anything.
How often do you get tested. And I was like that till a few years ago. Now I only play bare with my play partner and him with me. X"
bareback has a nasty effect on your vowels.... |
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