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is a local meet good or bad?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Found somebody genuine who is a few minutes away is this good or bad to arrange a social meet first or is it best to keep away from very close swingers for personal and safety reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer local and have met a lot of them..... even bump into each other in supermarkets etc... and its never a problem.
Its not as if we have "we have shagged each other" T-Shirts on is it 
In fact its no different to meeting anyone local |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a couple of locals I meet quite regularly not been a problem so far. I use and trust my gut instinct, if it says no believe it. Once paid the price for not doing. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I thought of it more as after the meet the potential awkward moments when your around with family and bump Into them "
If you are both discreet then there should not be a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We actually only go for local area couples, we always have a social meet first so it is far more convenient and economic to meet local couples.We have never found it a problem meeting them in town etc since as said earlier, no-one else there knows what you have been doing with that couple.We also like to build friendships as well as have sexy fun with couples so again local is far better for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me anymore , I met someone local, did not want to meet anymore and he found out where I lived by seeing my car on my drive and became a stalker !!!!  not good !!! So now I look just a tad further away !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The more local the better for me.
As long as you draw boundaries regarding discretion and they can be trusted there shouldn't be a problem,"
Well I'm only down the road!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought of it more as after the meet the potential awkward moments when your around with family and bump Into them
If you are both discreet then there should not be a problem. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The more local the better for me.
As long as you draw boundaries regarding discretion and they can be trusted there shouldn't be a problem,
Well I'm only down the road! "
I'm afraid you don't have the equipment I require!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tend not to play within a 15mile radius of home because of Donna's work, also when she is on a girls night out we feel its best there are no awkward moments with single blokes we may have had a 3some with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought of it more as after the meet the potential awkward moments when your around with family and bump Into them
If you are both discreet then there should not be a problem. "
If your both adults this will not be a problem  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were always dubious of locals incase they knew family or friends of ours. However, we cautiously met 2 local couples after some chat first and then swapping face pics.
Both couples were great and discreet, no worries of them blabbing as they are same as us. Last meet we had was pretty mind blowing .
It's far cheaper for a start, no travel, hotels etc.
Just be cautious to begin, if your picky I'm sure you'd be fine. |
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"Found somebody genuine who is a few minutes away is this good or bad to arrange a social meet first or is it best to keep away from very close swingers for personal and safety reasons "
Personal preference. I only meet locally, I don't want meets turning up sweaty and smelly after travelling for hours. Other half lives 15 minutes away, works perfectly for me. |
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"We prefer local and have met a lot of them..... even bump into each other in supermarkets etc... and its never a problem.
Its not as if we have "we have shagged each other" T-Shirts on is it
In fact its no different to meeting anyone local"
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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago
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"I thought of it more as after the meet the potential awkward moments when your around with family and bump Into them "
Have swinging friends who have met family members and never been an issue. As local people easy to just explain as friends. Nobody asks anymore as it's not sort of thing you would think of |
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Personally I prefer local, I don't know anyone in my area anyway, so it's not like I'd awkwardly know their family or friends. I had a couple who wanted to meet but decided no because I'm a couple of miles from them. They assumed I'd probably know them, their neighbour's & friends. In actual fact, the only locals I know are the downstairs neighbours & a wee old woman across the road.
Real life isn't like coronation st anymore, people don't know everyone who lives nearby. The chances are you'd spot them once from a distance in the local supermarket in a year's time. So just go for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I prefer local, I don't know anyone in my area anyway, so it's not like I'd awkwardly know their family or friends. I had a couple who wanted to meet but decided no because I'm a couple of miles from them. They assumed I'd probably know them, their neighbour's & friends. In actual fact, the only locals I know are the downstairs neighbours & a wee old woman across the road.
Real life isn't like coronation st anymore, people don't know everyone who lives nearby. The chances are you'd spot them once from a distance in the local supermarket in a year's time. So just go for it "
We are only interested in local people. It's no different to running into someone you had sex with in vanilla life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has its pros and cons I guess. When swinging with the wife we had a fuck buddy who lived half mile up the road. Great for spontanious meets but I guess awkward if your down the pub with friends !!......seriius note always good to have a social first. |
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"I thought of it more as after the meet the potential awkward moments when your around with family and bump Into them
If you are both discreet then there should not be a problem. "
I agree with that and anyone that is NOT discreet should be banned from this site |
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