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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lots of verifications mention spending a whole night (and sometimes more) together. I've never spent the night with someone i've met here despite having brilliant fun. Am I in the minority/majority?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never stayed the whole night with someone as I have kids to go home to but one night I would like to but they would have to be someone I saw regular |
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Very very very rare for a whole night. Actually in the last 5 years + only my ex & 1 girl friend can say I've spent a night with them. Although both can say it happened more than once.
Some nsa meet, nope. I don't accom & don't stay over because no matter what i get up too Im home for my children when they wake up  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I like to wake up in my own bed, even if it means travelling back in the early hours.
Apart from that, I would look vastly different in the morning. It would be like a scene from a lesser known John Candy film of the 80's when some fratboy has had his drink spiked and he is thrown into the Blue Oyster.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh gawd this was the sticking point between me and a fella recently. I can't stay the night.
Other girl can.
Guess who got the meet 
His loss "
Actually it felt like mine too |
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I'd really rather not. I want my own space when we've had our fun. I did offer someone I was seeing on a semi regular basis to stay the night once as he was starting work 5 mins walk from my house at 6 the next morning, and it was midnight, but he'd left his uniform drying at home  |
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"Oh gawd this was the sticking point between me and a fella recently. I can't stay the night.
Other girl can.
Guess who got the meet
His loss
Actually it felt like mine too "
Very sad all round. Was it stopover or nothing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love my own space in my own bed too much to share it with anyone but have had guys stay on the sofa if there was any time left after a session to sleep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh gawd this was the sticking point between me and a fella recently. I can't stay the night.
Other girl can.
Guess who got the meet
His loss
Actually it felt like mine too
Very sad all round. Was it stopover or nothing?"
Nah, but my quick afternoon shag doesn't really compare with a 24hr sexathon. So I think most men would choose the same thing!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of my meets have been all nighters. That's usually because we've been speaking for a while and got on like a house on fire.
...day meets are fab too. But, not many are free to meet for the day but rather the weekend.
Still not found that relatively local meet to have a day/evening meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have previously stayed over and had people stay when I was meeting as a single. Usually a combination of alcohol/distance/logistics.
These days I'm not comfortable having couples stay unless we have met them at least once before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only person who stays over is my fb. I don't meet in other people's houses. "
I like this idea. The only one I want to wake up next to is mine, not some random |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a lovely stop over in a hotel with a couple just before Christmas. We had two double beds. The lady started in mine for some pre-sleep fumbling (we'd already played for a few hours) and then went back to hubby's bed for the rest of the night.
It was awesome! Was a couple I'd known for many years but it occurred to me it was the first 'sleep over' I'd ever done in my swinging career. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really don't like the idea of sleeping next to a stranger. Leaves you far too vulnerable. Someone I'd got to know and trust, maybe. But definitely not till I'd met them a few times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done on many occasions but that was only done so because of the 5 hours driving distance.
Was worth it as i got my brekkie made for me in the mornings  |
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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago
Middlesbrough |
After years of playing had our first experience of staying the night with another couple a few months ago. We'd already played with them a few times and the idea came up of hiring a cottage. Have to say it was worth waiting for, spent most of the weekend naked, relaxed and had loads of fun.
Certainly something we'd consider again with the right folks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once went up to Preston from London for a MMMF meet.
It eventually finished at 4am. There was no way I was going home straight away after that.
We also had a meet planned where the lovely lady would be staying overnight but the meet was unfortunately cancelled.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish. Would love it. Never happened.
Careful what you wish for "
If it's no good I can always lace his breakfast with a laxative that'll keep him entertained on the way back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had all, cpl hours, over night and weekender...
Have to say though, all my meets I have taken weeks, months even to get to know before I invite someone to come stay!! (I always let a few mates know that I have company too, just to keep myself safe) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what we get up to, for some being kept confined 24 hours, floats their boat, longest meet was 3 days, for 2 days the guy was on a suction table, so we didn't actually sleep together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to spend the night with my previous FB, and have had one or two over night stays but it's not the norm for me...can feel a bit weird waking up with someone you only plan to see once |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy an over night stay .. No clock watching, can have a drink, morning sex and I don't have to get up and get dressed and drive home in the cold late at night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had overnight stays but again only with those I have played with regularly.
Once had a meet at 12:45pm on a Saturday, went out for lunch & drinks, and finally left at 9:45pm on Sunday. Absolutely great time. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would not want to sleep with another couple ( would be a tight squeeze anyway lol), and always spend the night just the two of us. However, we have stayed over at peoples homes once we knew them well, just made sure we went back to " our" room once the fun was over.
We have never spent whole weekends with another couple, not saying it will never happen, just has not yet.
Quite like the idea of a weekend somewhere nice with the right couple, but have yet to do this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wouldn't plan to and it would only happen in our house if we'd got to know the person/people well enough to trust them. As others have said, we have kids to think of too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been asked to say over a number of times (but not always), familiarity I agree is key. People who become friends often ask me to stay. You can't beat breakfast sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's something very intimate about sleeping with someone...it's a line we wouldn't want to cross as a couple...particularly with a casual meet up with a stranger...even if I met as a single it wouldn't be for me within a swinging dynamic...it smacks if something more to be honest...
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The couple i had that used to stay for weekends on ends,, was a really nice situation, we became great friends more then just a fuck and go... i like how we were that relaxed together to have normal everyday fun and good times mixed in with the naughty times... i enjoyed they kinds of weekends more then quick meets.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it all falls down to trust at the end of the day. I wouldn't expect someone to invite me over to their house for the day, let alone the night if they didn't trust me.
Trust is the basis of all my meets. As long as they trust me that i will respect their house, their bodies and so forth..then, i'm more that willing to meet them for whatever duration.
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Apart from being shattered, I put all my energy into meets, I like space after a meet to reflect and think about the experience. Any one else like this,?
No problem with meets coming back in morning tho))) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends how the meet has gone. Ive had a good few stop over
They always had to go back to wherever.
Even after a lovely meet. ;/"
Hoping my next overnight meet will be a very special one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends how the meet has gone. Ive had a good few stop over
They always had to go back to wherever.
Even after a lovely meet. ;/ Hoping my next overnight meet will be a very special one "
I envy the lucky lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Overnighters yes (in a hotel).
Sleep... Not on your nelly  
I like a relaxed overnighter, spooning, wake-up sex, a bit of brekky then back to bed. "
Given the chance - god yes |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
I have done both. On occasions when I have attended a club with someone we have normally stayed over together over night.
There is nothing nicer to me than sleeping with someone and falling into bed exhausted. To then be stirred awake with more sex during the night is very erotic. I only sleep well with only a very few people. In actual fact I just counted up and its very very few.
To open your eyes in the morning and see the face of someone special is a great feeling x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we got asked if we would once, but didnt as busy the next day.
have a spare room here so they could stay, but whether we played all night or shared a bed would be debatable |
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ive done it a few times only last week lol had a sexy lady stay the night had 4hours fucking her sat night 3hours sunday morning but did make her a cup of tea served with cock lol very good meet but have met befor so she was ok staying the night xxxx don't like quick sex all night fun is better xxx then morning sex mmmmmmmmmmmmm xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive done it a few times only last week lol had a sexy lady stay the night had 4hours fucking her sat night 3hours sunday morning but did make her a cup of tea served with cock lol very good meet but have met befor so she was ok staying the night xxxx don't like quick sex all night fun is better xxx then morning sex mmmmmmmmmmmmm xxxx"
totally agree with that |
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By *denlouWoman
over a year ago
bideford |
I love overnight meets whenever possible.
Have often had dinner, few drinks, then lots of fab naughtiness, with no clock watching or worries about travelling at stupid o'clock alone.
Have always remained friends after that quality time too |
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Yep, overnighters but usually with someone I see more than once. My playmates are people I would enjoy spending time with in the vertical world too so the occasional supper and a bit of shopping has happened too.
And lots and lots of sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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love overnighters. can relax, have a drink, a bit of a giggle and then spend the night shagging. Of course you need a break for occassional toasty and cuppa but then its back to it quick smart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of my meets apart from clubs are overnighters, nothing like relaxing and getting to know each other over coffee, before having a few hours of teasing fun, a small snooze, more sex, more snooze then coffee in bed followed by yet more sex |
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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago
South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire |
We don't have a problem with having nice couple over nighting it with us especially if they have traveled or enjoyed a little too much alcohol due to the amount of fun they have had |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Lots of verifications mention spending a whole night (and sometimes more) together. I've never spent the night with someone i've met here despite having brilliant fun. Am I in the minority/majority? "
We generally don't do over nighters as it's not something we feel comfortable with. Plus I am a moody bitch in the mornings and best avoided. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, overnighters but usually with someone I see more than once. My playmates are people I would enjoy spending time with in the vertical world too so the occasional supper and a bit of shopping has happened too.
And lots and lots of sex "
'Vertical world'.... I like that! |
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"Yep, overnighters but usually with someone I see more than once. My playmates are people I would enjoy spending time with in the vertical world too so the occasional supper and a bit of shopping has happened too.
And lots and lots of sex
'Vertical world'.... I like that! "
I'm pretty sure Lickety gave me that one Steel. It could be her or Minxie but I love it. I describe myself as vanilla in my sexual tastes but that's doing my love of sex a displeasure, especially as one of my colleagues admits to blowing her hsband for three minutes and not a second longer. She sets an egg timer to it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, overnighters but usually with someone I see more than once. My playmates are people I would enjoy spending time with in the vertical world too so the occasional supper and a bit of shopping has happened too.
And lots and lots of sex
'Vertical world'.... I like that!
I'm pretty sure Lickety gave me that one Steel. It could be her or Minxie but I love it. I describe myself as vanilla in my sexual tastes but that's doing my love of sex a displeasure, especially as one of my colleagues admits to blowing her hsband for three minutes and not a second longer. She sets an egg timer to it!"
...talk about a scrambled egg.
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"Yep, overnighters but usually with someone I see more than once. My playmates are people I would enjoy spending time with in the vertical world too so the occasional supper and a bit of shopping has happened too.
And lots and lots of sex
'Vertical world'.... I like that!
I'm pretty sure Lickety gave me that one Steel. It could be her or Minxie but I love it. I describe myself as vanilla in my sexual tastes but that's doing my love of sex a displeasure, especially as one of my colleagues admits to blowing her hsband for three minutes and not a second longer. She sets an egg timer to it!
...talk about a scrambled egg.
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I know! I just stood there and did the blinky fish impression.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, overnighters but usually with someone I see more than once. My playmates are people I would enjoy spending time with in the vertical world too so the occasional supper and a bit of shopping has happened too.
And lots and lots of sex
'Vertical world'.... I like that!
I'm pretty sure Lickety gave me that one Steel. It could be her or Minxie but I love it. I describe myself as vanilla in my sexual tastes but that's doing my love of sex a displeasure, especially as one of my colleagues admits to blowing her hsband for three minutes and not a second longer. She sets an egg timer to it!"
Ah yeah it does sound like a Licketyism.
3 minutes!!! That's aaaages!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of verifications mention spending a whole night (and sometimes more) together. I've never spent the night with someone i've met here despite having brilliant fun. Am I in the minority/majority? "
Yeah quite a few times - had a 20 yo stay on Sunday and 19 yo last night. Both came by public transport so easier to stay xx |
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