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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well peeps tonight I got a message off a couple asking for pics so sent a few and they liked, they asked for a number but I refused to give it out, however I did say I would do a social first or skype call.
I basically got this as a reply saying I was a player and I don't have a clue about swinging. Followed by a bit more abuse
My question is am I a player for not giving my number out to people I don't know?
Could I of done anything different?
Was I right to stick to my guns?
I'm not desperate to jump into anything rushed for the sake of a fuck, or do people like them really exist that because I'm a single bloke I'll do anything I'm told to get laid, as according to them I'm a player and making excuses.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you absolutely sure they were a couple?
But to answer you're questions, no you're not a player, no, you shouldn't have done anything different and yes, you were very right to stick to your guns
I only give my number out to those I've chatted to on here for a while so I trust them and when I know a meet is likely to take place. Only three men on Fab have my number! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do what you feel comfortable with and ignore the abuse. I always meet socially first and have had abuse and been called a time waster for it but do I really care, do I want to meet someone with an attitude like that? Certainly not. Genuine people are happy to meet socially and definitely never feel the need to abuse others. |
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