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over a year ago
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I'm finding just lately we get loads of interest for meets (well meet for fucking). When the kids are at home. I'm not sure about having anyone round while there asleep. I know people do. And mr would but I'm not sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It totally depends on you and how you feel about it. I meet with my lil one at home, but i dont do couples, only single men, i only use lounge if lil one is asleep upstairs, and have lock on the door, and i wouldnt even consider it if lil one wasnt settled, i am also very honest about the situation. No doubt as lil one gets older this will change.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont have kids, but i wouldnt.
imagine all getting carried away in the lounge and little johnny wakes up with a nightmare, or wanting a glass of water.
little johnny will be having nightmares of mummy being bent over the back of the sofa by some random bloke, whilst daddy has his face sat on in front of the tv....
bet that aint in many parenting books lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm finding just lately we get loads of interest for meets (well meet for fucking). When the kids are at home. I'm not sure about having anyone round while there asleep. I know people do. And mr would but I'm not sure."
No, I wouldn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have kids but no chance, not only due to what they could see or hear but the risk of having total strangers in the house or knowing where I lived. |
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I used to have my fb here when my lad was asleep but he was in a cot so there was no chance of him waking and walking in.
Now he's in a proper bed there is no way (unless it was a long term fb again but they would have to understand that if my son woke poorly or whatever they would have to leave) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys. Made my mind up. Not gonna happen. They will have to wait..x "
i would have hoped your mind was already made up before you posted this, you were ust looking for reassurance you had made the right choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't in a million years. Your primary role as a parent is to safeguard your children. I'm sure you don't need reminding of that fact -these are strangers you are inviting into your house. No brainer really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt be comfy. My sons are late teens and I am still cautious about dad being caught "hangin out the back "of someone.
Door bolted and chained just in case!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never entertain having a virtual stranger in my house let alone when the most precious people in my life were tucked up in bed..!
Get a hotel room, share the cost, more fun for you and keeps the children's house as it should be ~ a home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never entertain having a virtual stranger in my house let alone when the most precious people in my life were tucked up in bed..!
Get a hotel room, share the cost, more fun for you and keeps the children's house as it should be ~ a home."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single guy I had private meets where the children were nowhere to be seen, and others I met the children.
The first occasion was with a single female whom I'd met twice in a hotel but she felt comfortable enough with me stepping into her home. No doubt they probably heard us shagging during the late evening.
The second occasion involved a couple who were on my case and I decided to meet them on the spur of the moment.
The hubby picked me up and showed me photos of mmf's and gangbangs they took part in (really and truly it was only the wife getting involved).
Anyway, halfway down the motorway he drops the bomb on me saying his son (who was about 11-12) might be up and that I shouldn't worry as he'll go to sleep and won't notice a thing.
This did worry me but I hoped he would be sleeping by the time we got there.
So... we arrive and what do you know, the son is in the living room and I'm having a convo with him before anything happens. To say it felt awkward talking to him is a bit of an understatement.
After the son went to bed another single male arrived straight from another swingers party to take part in a MMF.
Judging by the amount men I saw in their pics I can only imagine the amount of guys the boy must've come across.
It's not what happened, but it does happen.
Silk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have to admit, we had a social meet with a couple that had their kids out with them (couldnt get a sitter) so there was no swing business discussed.
it was just friends meeting for a drink.
was lovely knowing there was absolutely nothing going to happen so no pressure to worry about things later on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single guy I had private meets where the children were nowhere to be seen, and others I met the children.
The first occasion was with a single female whom I'd met twice in a hotel but she felt comfortable enough with me stepping into her home. No doubt they probably heard us shagging during the late evening.
The second occasion involved a couple who were on my case and I decided to meet them on the spur of the moment.
The hubby picked me up and showed me photos of mmf's and gangbangs they took part in (really and truly it was only the wife getting involved).
Anyway, halfway down the motorway he drops the bomb on me saying his son (who was about 11-12) might be up and that I shouldn't worry as he'll go to sleep and won't notice a thing.
This did worry me but I hoped he would be sleeping by the time we got there.
So... we arrive and what do you know, the son is in the living room and I'm having a convo with him before anything happens. To say it felt awkward talking to him is a bit of an understatement.
After the son went to bed another single male arrived straight from another swingers party to take part in a MMF.
Judging by the amount men I saw in their pics I can only imagine the amount of guys the boy must've come across.
It's not what happened, but it does happen.
Silk"
It's not *right what happened I was meant to say  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single guy I had private meets where the children were nowhere to be seen, and others I met the children.
The first occasion was with a single female whom I'd met twice in a hotel but she felt comfortable enough with me stepping into her home. No doubt they probably heard us shagging during the late evening.
The second occasion involved a couple who were on my case and I decided to meet them on the spur of the moment.
The hubby picked me up and showed me photos of mmf's and gangbangs they took part in (really and truly it was only the wife getting involved).
Anyway, halfway down the motorway he drops the bomb on me saying his son (who was about 11-12) might be up and that I shouldn't worry as he'll go to sleep and won't notice a thing.
This did worry me but I hoped he would be sleeping by the time we got there.
So... we arrive and what do you know, the son is in the living room and I'm having a convo with him before anything happens. To say it felt awkward talking to him is a bit of an understatement.
After the son went to bed another single male arrived straight from another swingers party to take part in a MMF.
Judging by the amount men I saw in their pics I can only imagine the amount of guys the boy must've come across.
It's not right what happened, but it does happen.
Silk"
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Good god no
I don't even have anyone over when they are not here. I keep my persobal life and sex life separate at all times. My regular fb doesn't even know where I live. I trust him completely
I just ccouldn't look my kids in the eye knowing the things I would get up to in their home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nope nope nope, i only meet when my son is at his dads over night.
i would never forgive myself if my son woke up
my little ones needs are way before my need for nookie x |
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"It totally depends on you and how you feel about it. I meet with my lil one at home, but i dont do couples, only single men, i only use lounge if lil one is asleep upstairs, and have lock on the door, and i wouldnt even consider it if lil one wasnt settled, i am also very honest about the situation. No doubt as lil one gets older this will change. "
sounds completely reasonable  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do but only With Someone i Know very very well. like a fb or Friend. I dont even like random meets at mine when my Kids are Not even here doesnt feel right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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NO WAY am i bringing a guy from a site back to mine if my kid is home! I can't believe people do that. A guy once told me he met a woman from here in her car for the first time and she had her two kids in the back seat. They went back to hers. Just can't undertand why a woman would run the risk of bringing a virtual stranger into her child's company. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't go to someone's house to play knowing there were kids there...I wouldn't be able to relax so wouldn't enjoy myself so I just don't entertain it |
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