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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always wondered that too but never dared ask.
Men! Why???  "
Now that's got my curiosity as well , especially when you see the girl with a wine glass full of semen .
Perhaps this is part of the conspiracy that all swinging females and couples will drop everything to have sex when you receive a " meet me in a car park now so I can fuck you"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you enjoy/get out of a bukkake party or gangbang?
I am genuinely interested in why men would stand in a circle to cum together. Although there is a song lyric there.
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See I always wonder for a true bukkake session as there is no contact from the female... See if we have done it I love to help... Xx |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What do you enjoy/get out of a bukkake party or gangbang?
I am genuinely interested in why men would stand in a circle to cum together. Although there is a song lyric there.
See I always wonder for a true bukkake session as there is no contact from the female... See if we have done it I love to help... Xx"
There really is no contact from the female? I am even more confused. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I've always wondered that too but never dared ask.
Men! Why???
Now that's got my curiosity as well , especially when you see the girl with a wine glass full of semen .
Perhaps this is part of the conspiracy that all swinging females and couples will drop everything to have sex when you receive a " meet me in a car park now so I can fuck you"
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Is everyone aiming into the same wine glass? |
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over a year ago
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Probably the visual of seeing her dripping with cum, maybe the naughty aspect of her being 'used' by men.
Never been to a proper Bukkake but one lass liked me to simply cum on her face, nothing more. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Couldn't you ask that question about all fantasies? Everyone has different fantasies and likes I suppose  "
I understand that people have different likes and yes you can ask it about any of them. Other threads about liking something usually garner more responses than this, fairly quickly.
What I am trying to understand is the particular appeal of bukkake and, as an aside, gangbangs.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Probably the visual of seeing her dripping with cum, maybe the naughty aspect of her being 'used' by men.
Never been to a proper Bukkake but one lass liked me to simply cum on her face, nothing more."
Thanks. Your experience has been one to one? Did you get something back from just cumming on her face? Did you do anything else together?
The being used by men aspect is one that I wonder about and why men would enjoy getting together to use someone along with others.
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Used Knickers not necessary lol
Its mostly a porn thing, i developed in japan and was a way of showing subjugation of a woman without all the bondage side where they had a much stricter control of explicit imagery. Some people claim it has basis history as a way men would traditionally punish and humiliate unruly women but this is rubbish.
In the 90s it was picked up by western porn producers where it moved it became an extension of gangbang shoots and became much more hard core than the japanese stuff. Bukkake became more popular with the rise of the internet it was cheap to produce and did not require the part time "talent" to keep an erection for a long period of time.
Bukkake has leached its way into the swinging scene through osmosis and regular viewing. Some men and women are turned on by viewing it and want to try it some find they enjoy it. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Used Knickers not necessary lol
Its mostly a porn thing, i developed in japan and was a way of showing subjugation of a woman without all the bondage side where they had a much stricter control of explicit imagery. Some people claim it has basis history as a way men would traditionally punish and humiliate unruly women but this is rubbish.
In the 90s it was picked up by western porn producers where it moved it became an extension of gangbang shoots and became much more hard core than the japanese stuff. Bukkake became more popular with the rise of the internet it was cheap to produce and did not require the part time "talent" to keep an erection for a long period of time.
Bukkake has leached its way into the swinging scene through osmosis and regular viewing. Some men and women are turned on by viewing it and want to try it some find they enjoy it. "
Thank you. I do have some knickers that say "I met him on the web" are you sure you don't want them?
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By (user no longer on site)
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maybe its the domination aspect of it.
i know this is the reason why V is keen to try it as she likes being held down and dominated while we have sex, and likes the thought of looking up to see men looking down on her.
same with watersports |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably the visual of seeing her dripping with cum, maybe the naughty aspect of her being 'used' by men.
Never been to a proper Bukkake but one lass liked me to simply cum on her face, nothing more.
Thanks. Your experience has been one to one? Did you get something back from just cumming on her face? Did you do anything else together?
The being used by men aspect is one that I wonder about and why men would enjoy getting together to use someone along with others.
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For mine it was a CPL where they wanted men to simply cum on here face while M took pics - she did however get a little carried away and soon sucked me too. In fact they wanted more males to arrive but no one else did so they invited me back for a MMF
For me it was curiosity to try new things |
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I've never been to such a party and doubt I'd ever do in my lifetime, but I can sort of see the appeal.
Rather than it being about 'using' the woman, I think it's more about witnessing a woman who is sexually confident enough to 'hungrily' work through a pack of animalistic men and do what many women would consider horrifically disrespectful, if not downright disgusting.
Not expecting this to make sense to most of you, but it's one way of seeing it. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"oh, and the fact that it is as far away from her natural demeanour too, as she is far from submissive in the real world"
That's what V gets out of it and I guess there are men that like domination in this way. Is the domination diluted by having lots of men together (who is the dominant one?) or is it intensified in someway?
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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"What do you enjoy/get out of a bukkake party or gangbang?
I am genuinely interested in why men would stand in a circle to cum together. Although there is a song lyric there.
See I always wonder for a true bukkake session as there is no contact from the female... See if we have done it I love to help... Xx"
If me or my girlfriends hold a bukkake party there is always oral contact or wanking the guys off...would be a bit boring no contact at all lol! |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I've never been to such a party and doubt I'd ever do in my lifetime, but I can sort of see the appeal.
Rather than it being about 'using' the woman, I think it's more about witnessing a woman who is sexually confident enough to 'hungrily' work through a pack of animalistic men and do what many women would consider horrifically disrespectful, if not downright disgusting.
Not expecting this to make sense to most of you, but it's one way of seeing it."
Thanks, have a pair of knickers. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Probably the visual of seeing her dripping with cum, maybe the naughty aspect of her being 'used' by men.
Never been to a proper Bukkake but one lass liked me to simply cum on her face, nothing more.
Thanks. Your experience has been one to one? Did you get something back from just cumming on her face? Did you do anything else together?
The being used by men aspect is one that I wonder about and why men would enjoy getting together to use someone along with others.
For mine it was a CPL where they wanted men to simply cum on here face while M took pics - she did however get a little carried away and soon sucked me too. In fact they wanted more males to arrive but no one else did so they invited me back for a MMF
For me it was curiosity to try new things"
Thanks. I think I now owe you two pairs of knickers.
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I've always preferred smaller meets, but if I like people and the GB thing works for them I'm happy to play my part and get pleasure from seeing them happy. I guess if bukkake genuinely involves the woman only as a target, then I've never actually done it as meets that have involved that have involved rather more interractipn between me and the lady.
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"oh, and the fact that it is as far away from her natural demeanour too, as she is far from submissive in the real world
That's what V gets out of it and I guess there are men that like domination in this way. Is the domination diluted by having lots of men together (who is the dominant one?) or is it intensified in someway?
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who knows lol.
if you actually look at it a little deeper, its actually the woman thats the dominant one.
your response actually made me think about it, but you are sat there, i dunno, say rubbing your breasts, licking a cock or 2 or wanking them, and you have th e power to make these men cum.
you are making these men hard
you have 3/4/5/6 however many men lusting over you enough to want to show you how much by spunking for you.
you also have the power to stop it all and tell them to fuck off lol.
so, actually the modern day bukakke scenario, for pervy play rather than punishment its the guys that are submissive, although they may not see it that way |
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your response actually made me think about it, but you are sat there, i dunno, say rubbing your breasts, licking a cock or 2 or wanking them, and you have th e power to make these men cum.
you are making these men hard
you have 3/4/5/6 however many men lusting over you enough to want to show you how much by spunking for you.
you also have the power to stop it all and tell them to fuck off lol.
so, actually the modern day bukakke scenario, for pervy play rather than punishment its the guys that are submissive, although they may not see it that way"
Exactly. From the pov of a male, that's what's hot about a woman who enjoys it. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"oh, and the fact that it is as far away from her natural demeanour too, as she is far from submissive in the real world
That's what V gets out of it and I guess there are men that like domination in this way. Is the domination diluted by having lots of men together (who is the dominant one?) or is it intensified in someway?
who knows lol.
if you actually look at it a little deeper, its actually the woman thats the dominant one.
your response actually made me think about it, but you are sat there, i dunno, say rubbing your breasts, licking a cock or 2 or wanking them, and you have th e power to make these men cum.
you are making these men hard
you have 3/4/5/6 however many men lusting over you enough to want to show you how much by spunking for you.
you also have the power to stop it all and tell them to fuck off lol.
so, actually the modern day bukakke scenario, for pervy play rather than punishment its the guys that are submissive, although they may not see it that way"
I am not into the D/s scene but I am beginning to think that subs have the power.
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By (user no longer on site)
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The woman is the dominant ...in my meets they want to come on me because of me- I'm the dominant -if I don't want their cock I refuse it or don't let them cum on me ....hence they are the sub. There's always sucking or wanking involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"oh, and the fact that it is as far away from her natural demeanour too, as she is far from submissive in the real world
That's what V gets out of it and I guess there are men that like domination in this way. Is the domination diluted by having lots of men together (who is the dominant one?) or is it intensified in someway?
who knows lol.
if you actually look at it a little deeper, its actually the woman thats the dominant one.
your response actually made me think about it, but you are sat there, i dunno, say rubbing your breasts, licking a cock or 2 or wanking them, and you have th e power to make these men cum.
you are making these men hard
you have 3/4/5/6 however many men lusting over you enough to want to show you how much by spunking for you.
you also have the power to stop it all and tell them to fuck off lol.
so, actually the modern day bukakke scenario, for pervy play rather than punishment its the guys that are submissive, although they may not see it that way"
That all makes sense to me. The woman has the power to make them cum and that's the appeal for her.
Still not sure why it appeals to guys though. I'll keep reading... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Now then!
I may not have been able to confidently differentiated between a gangbang and a bukkake, but i guess I've now made some progress from this post 
If bukkake is a collection or congregation of men wanking themselves to cum into a lady's wine glass, then, it might not be my thing (but if the lady wanks the men off then, I might be tempted...) 
Like many other sexual fantasies, this might be like one of them which if it's not your thing it might not seem so arousing... |
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"What do you enjoy/get out of a bukkake party or gangbang?
I am genuinely interested in why men would stand in a circle to cum together. Although there is a song lyric there.
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Not something I've ever been interested in, or gang bangs. I'd much rather have the time and freedom to give a woman my full and undivided attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now then!
I may not have been able to confidently differentiated between a gangbang and a bukkake, but i guess I've now made some progress from this post
If bukkake is a collection or congregation of men wanking themselves to cum into a lady's wine glass, then, it might not be my thing (but if the lady wanks the men off then, I might be tempted...)
Like many other sexual fantasies, this might be like one of them which if it's not your thing it might not seem so arousing..."
Lots of things don't appeal to me but I think I can understand why other people get turned on by them. Just knowing that people are horny makes me horny... if that makes sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now then!
I may not have been able to confidently differentiated between a gangbang and a bukkake, but i guess I've now made some progress from this post
If bukkake is a collection or congregation of men wanking themselves to cum into a lady's wine glass, then, it might not be my thing (but if the lady wanks the men off then, I might be tempted...)
Like many other sexual fantasies, this might be like one of them which if it's not your thing it might not seem so arousing...
Lots of things don't appeal to me but I think I can understand why other people get turned on by them. Just knowing that people are horny makes me horny... if that makes sense. "
It does make sense and now you said it you've made me horny... Where do I shoot the load? Bukkake please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me, I love the act of Bukkake because I have a cum fetish.
Being bisexual I also love cum. I love seeing men masturbate and cum over a woman. For me the woman must enjoy it and take pleasure from it.
For me it's not about humiliation, quite the opposite, the woman is demonstrating her sexual power and presence with all these men masturbating over her!
For me I guess it could more of a cuckold theme as I would love her to make me lick her clean,
I guess it does something different for everyone.
Hope this helps... x |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"For me, I love the act of Bukkake because I have a cum fetish.
Being bisexual I also love cum. I love seeing men masturbate and cum over a woman. For me the woman must enjoy it and take pleasure from it.
For me it's not about humiliation, quite the opposite, the woman is demonstrating her sexual power and presence with all these men masturbating over her!
For me I guess it could more of a cuckold theme as I would love her to make me lick her clean,
I guess it does something different for everyone.
Hope this helps... x"
Are you as satisfied if you are denied the opportunity to lick her clean?
Thank you. Have a pair of knickers.
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"Used Knickers not necessary lol
Its mostly a porn thing, i developed in japan and was a way of showing subjugation of a woman without all the bondage side where they had a much stricter control of explicit imagery. Some people claim it has basis history as a way men would traditionally punish and humiliate unruly women but this is rubbish.
In the 90s it was picked up by western porn producers where it moved it became an extension of gangbang shoots and became much more hard core than the japanese stuff. Bukkake became more popular with the rise of the internet it was cheap to produce and did not require the part time "talent" to keep an erection for a long period of time.
Bukkake has leached its way into the swinging scene through osmosis and regular viewing. Some men and women are turned on by viewing it and want to try it some find they enjoy it. "
Men like it either to show off their cocks or to see who cums the biggest load I guess...
I'd love to be the target at a bukkake party one day. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Used Knickers not necessary lol
Its mostly a porn thing, i developed in japan and was a way of showing subjugation of a woman without all the bondage side where they had a much stricter control of explicit imagery. Some people claim it has basis history as a way men would traditionally punish and humiliate unruly women but this is rubbish.
In the 90s it was picked up by western porn producers where it moved it became an extension of gangbang shoots and became much more hard core than the japanese stuff. Bukkake became more popular with the rise of the internet it was cheap to produce and did not require the part time "talent" to keep an erection for a long period of time.
Bukkake has leached its way into the swinging scene through osmosis and regular viewing. Some men and women are turned on by viewing it and want to try it some find they enjoy it.
Men like it either to show off their cocks or to see who cums the biggest load I guess...
I'd love to be the target at a bukkake party one day."
Thank you! I hadn't thought of it in that sort of competitive way. Have a pair of knickers.
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By *roggMan
over a year ago
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"Used Knickers not necessary lol
Its mostly a porn thing, i developed in japan and was a way of showing subjugation of a woman without all the bondage side where they had a much stricter control of explicit imagery. Some people claim it has basis history as a way men would traditionally punish and humiliate unruly women but this is rubbish.
In the 90s it was picked up by western porn producers where it moved it became an extension of gangbang shoots and became much more hard core than the japanese stuff. Bukkake became more popular with the rise of the internet it was cheap to produce and did not require the part time "talent" to keep an erection for a long period of time.
Bukkake has leached its way into the swinging scene through osmosis and regular viewing. Some men and women are turned on by viewing it and want to try it some find they enjoy it.
Men like it either to show off their cocks or to see who cums the biggest load I guess...
I'd love to be the target at a bukkake party one day.
Thank you! I hadn't thought of it in that sort of competitive way. Have a pair of knickers.
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I think that you will have to go shopping for some more knickers to replace those you have given away in this forum thread |
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I'm not sure about these posts claiming the woman is the dominant one but I can see your reasoning.
I've only ever seen it in porn movies and the woman is viewed in pretty derogatory terms in the ones I've seen.
It's usually a case of her being manipulated and moved between guys until her face is covered and then she's told to wipe it off with her hand and swallow it, that's the usual script. None of it seems like she's the one in control.
It may well be different in real meets but so much of people's sexual opinion, particularly younger peoples, is formed by porn on the net now that any semblance of female dominance may well be eroded entirely in the future.
However if you're the lady telling me you feel in control then I'll defer to your first hand experience. Obviously some ladies enjoy it as I've met ladies who like it in a one to one scenario and that usually means there's ladies who will like it in other scenarios.
Maybe it's a case of both the women and the men thinking they're the dominant one and the other is the submissive, that could reason pretty well?
Like I say I've seen a few and come to the conclusion it's not really for me.
As for cumming on a lady's face in a one to one sense, I'm so bloody English, I'll be right into it and as soon as it's done instead of admiring my manly work I run and get a tissue and say here let me help you with that  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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Thank you! I hadn't thought of it in that sort of competitive way. Have a pair of knickers.
I think that you will have to go shopping for some more knickers to replace those you have given away in this forum thread"
The sales are on. This is the perfect way to create space in my knicker drawer.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure about these posts claiming the woman is the dominant one but I can see your reasoning.
I've only ever seen it in porn movies and the woman is viewed in pretty derogatory terms in the ones I've seen.
It's usually a case of her being manipulated and moved between guys until her face is covered and then she's told to wipe it off with her hand and swallow it, that's the usual script. None of it seems like she's the one in control.
It may well be different in real meets but so much of people's sexual opinion, particularly younger peoples, is formed by porn on the net now that any semblance of female dominance may well be eroded entirely in the future.
However if you're the lady telling me you feel in control then I'll defer to your first hand experience. Obviously some ladies enjoy it as I've met ladies who like it in a one to one scenario and that usually means there's ladies who will like it in other scenarios.
Maybe it's a case of both the women and the men thinking they're the dominant one and the other is the submissive, that could reason pretty well?
Like I say I've seen a few and come to the conclusion it's not really for me.
As for cumming on a lady's face in a one to one sense, I'm so bloody English, I'll be right into it and as soon as it's done instead of admiring my manly work I run and get a tissue and say here let me help you with that "
I like a man that cleans up after himself. Have a pair of knickers.
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"I'm not sure about these posts claiming the woman is the dominant one but I can see your reasoning.
I've only ever seen it in porn movies and the woman is viewed in pretty derogatory terms in the ones I've seen.
It's usually a case of her being manipulated and moved between guys until her face is covered and then she's told to wipe it off with her hand and swallow it, that's the usual script. None of it seems like she's the one in control.
It may well be different in real meets but so much of people's sexual opinion, particularly younger peoples, is formed by porn on the net now that any semblance of female dominance may well be eroded entirely in the future.
However if you're the lady telling me you feel in control then I'll defer to your first hand experience. Obviously some ladies enjoy it as I've met ladies who like it in a one to one scenario and that usually means there's ladies who will like it in other scenarios.
Maybe it's a case of both the women and the men thinking they're the dominant one and the other is the submissive, that could reason pretty well?
Like I say I've seen a few and come to the conclusion it's not really for me.
As for cumming on a lady's face in a one to one sense, I'm so bloody English, I'll be right into it and as soon as it's done instead of admiring my manly work I run and get a tissue and say here let me help you with that
I like a man that cleans up after himself. Have a pair of knickers.
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"Its a power thing for the women to make a lot of guys cum xx."
This is very true - think it needs to be looked at from two aspects - make AND female - and there are quite a few different "angles" for each side
Male : dominance , subjugation if women , submissively kneeling there waiting to be "used" by the man as a target for his cum. However, the opposite end of the spectrum the fact that there are women out there (and I'm one of them) who GENUINELY gets turned on with lots of cum over their face, from multiple men. So these men are doing it to actually give pleasure to the lady. Also can be a degree of dominance on the part of the woman as the men are all stood around her "worshipping" her and wanking off over her face to give her what she wants.
Women : submissiveness, being "used" by men as a target for their cum, to be degraded. Again, also them actually being the dominant one and having men spending themselves for the woman's pleasure and at her behest.
Personally I've never felt degraded doing bukkake (or gangbangs) and felt it is a mix if both submissiveness and dominance on my part , it is my "choice " to portray myself as submissive and to be "used" by men for their pleasure , and therefore always felt it could be interpreted as the men actually being "used" by me - after all - they're guving me what I want - lots of cum over my face
In reality it's probably best described as a symbiotic relationship where I get what I want ( lots of cock and cum ) and the guys get what they want ( sex , and hopefully some of them consider me sexy in which case its sex with a sexy girl if they do)
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It's a dominant thing. The ability to make a number of men cum is very powerful. If the woman suddenly gets up and walks away, then it's all over, think about the power in that
it's not just guys playing with themselves, there's fondling and sucking involved too.
As for a gang bang, it's the same feeling
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Its a power thing for the women to make a lot of guys cum xx.
This is very true - think it needs to be looked at from two aspects - make AND female - and there are quite a few different "angles" for each side
Male : dominance , subjugation if women , submissively kneeling there waiting to be "used" by the man as a target for his cum. However, the opposite end of the spectrum the fact that there are women out there (and I'm one of them) who GENUINELY gets turned on with lots of cum over their face, from multiple men. So these men are doing it to actually give pleasure to the lady. Also can be a degree of dominance on the part of the woman as the men are all stood around her "worshipping" her and wanking off over her face to give her what she wants.
Women : submissiveness, being "used" by men as a target for their cum, to be degraded. Again, also them actually being the dominant one and having men spending themselves for the woman's pleasure and at her behest.
Personally I've never felt degraded doing bukkake (or gangbangs) and felt it is a mix if both submissiveness and dominance on my part , it is my "choice " to portray myself as submissive and to be "used" by men for their pleasure , and therefore always felt it could be interpreted as the men actually being "used" by me - after all - they're guving me what I want - lots of cum over my face
In reality it's probably best described as a symbiotic relationship where I get what I want ( lots of cock and cum ) and the guys get what they want ( sex , and hopefully some of them consider me sexy in which case its sex with a sexy girl if they do)
It's not for everyone - but it works for me/us "
Thank you for that first hand explanation. I do appreciate it.
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"Its a power thing for the women to make a lot of guys cum xx.
This is very true - think it needs to be looked at from two aspects - make AND female - and there are quite a few different "angles" for each side
Male : dominance , subjugation if women , submissively kneeling there waiting to be "used" by the man as a target for his cum. However, the opposite end of the spectrum the fact that there are women out there (and I'm one of them) who GENUINELY gets turned on with lots of cum over their face, from multiple men. So these men are doing it to actually give pleasure to the lady. Also can be a degree of dominance on the part of the woman as the men are all stood around her "worshipping" her and wanking off over her face to give her what she wants.
Women : submissiveness, being "used" by men as a target for their cum, to be degraded. Again, also them actually being the dominant one and having men spending themselves for the woman's pleasure and at her behest.
Personally I've never felt degraded doing bukkake (or gangbangs) and felt it is a mix if both submissiveness and dominance on my part , it is my "choice " to portray myself as submissive and to be "used" by men for their pleasure , and therefore always felt it could be interpreted as the men actually being "used" by me - after all - they're guving me what I want - lots of cum over my face
In reality it's probably best described as a symbiotic relationship where I get what I want ( lots of cock and cum ) and the guys get what they want ( sex , and hopefully some of them consider me sexy in which case its sex with a sexy girl if they do)
It's not for everyone - but it works for me/us "
I love that. I guess it's possible for both the woman and the men to be the 'dominant'. In your example you are acting sub to get what you want. They can think whatever they like in their heads- you are actually in charge. |
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In my opinion bukaka and gangbangs are totally different things...
The gangbangs I have attended are effectively parties where a very few very horny women get to be the centre of attention and get a constant supply of all the cock they want! They are really great fun and well recommended(by me).
Bukaka is a different matter and not something I am interested in but I would guess its more of an ego thing for the woman and that there is little that the men get out of it other than the hope that pleasing the fem will result in another meeting for the male (could be very wrong about that tho). |
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"In my opinion bukaka and gangbangs are totally different things...
The gangbangs I have attended are effectively parties where a very few very horny women get to be the centre of attention and get a constant supply of all the cock they want! They are really great fun and well recommended(by me).
Bukaka is a different matter and not something I am interested in but I would guess its more of an ego thing for the woman and that there is little that the men get out of it other than the hope that pleasing the fem will result in another meeting for the male (could be very wrong about that tho)."
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I liked to be watched while I wank and while I have never tried it I think its about the lady wanting to be covered in cum (no wine glass) for those ladies that love cum.
Wanking alone can be boring, this adds pleasing a woman and having a wank while being watched. Probably safer sex than penetration and much better than wanking all alone.
I think I might try and find a party to try, could be fun thinking about it!! |
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We regularly hold gangbangs and bukkake parties, group sex is our thing. I like to GB with lots of guys as I like the attention of multiple lovers at once and each is very different so much more pleasurable. If we do a bukkake then the guys won't be fucking me, but I will willingly wank/suck them off so they can cum all over me. I love to be covered in cum and it always gets my partner hard watching me pleasure so many guys at once.
Basically there is women who like cum and those that don't. I'm very much the former, so I tend to favour group sessions as I get more from it. |
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By *ob_nwMan
over a year ago
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"What do you enjoy/get out of a bukkake party or gangbang?
I am genuinely interested in why men would stand in a circle to cum together. Although there is a song lyric there.
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"I've always wondered that too but never dared ask.
Men! Why???
They are not rushing to answer the question.
I'll offer a pair of used knickers for all answers provided. "
Can I have a pair please? |
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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago
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Very interesting subject. We witnessed and took part in a bukkaki many years ago at a club . The women was very attractive and was kneeling and her dominant partner was corralling the men to take part. It was a exciting to watch and though de grading for the women but when her partner said to stop she insisted on more. That's when I took part and found it interesting and exciting to watch and know she was enjoying it. It was a fantasy fulfilled . Have seen many more since then but not took part. Also it is a chance for single guys to do something with a women who might not otherwise have an opportunity to have fun that night. Talking about the club scene here . That's the apeal of our hobby to realise a fantasy come true.  |
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Sometimes I think people just want to do the next naughty, dirty or socially unacceptable thing. For many this will be the turn on.
I like the idea or cumming on a woman with plenty of others to join in...it is all about the woman enjoying it for me. The wine glass thing I don't get though! In or on the woman or it's wasted! |
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"Sometimes I think people just want to do the next naughty, dirty or socially unacceptable thing. For many this will be the turn on.
I like the idea or cumming on a woman with plenty of others to join in...it is all about the woman enjoying it for me. The wine glass thing I don't get though! In or on the woman or it's wasted!"
My thoughts exactly. The wine glass thing I find a bit 'eeewwW' but cumming on a womans face seems so 'dirty' and to see a woman enjoy it is a huge turn on.
Funnily enough, neither of us enjoy the videos of Japanese bukkake, where it all seems to be about the woman NOT enjoying it,but videos of a woman loving it makes us want to book a hotel room and organise one! |
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"Used Knickers not necessary lol
Its mostly a porn thing, i developed in japan and was a way of showing subjugation of a woman without all the bondage side where they had a much stricter control of explicit imagery. Some people claim it has basis history as a way men would traditionally punish and humiliate unruly women but this is rubbish.
In the 90s it was picked up by western porn producers where it moved it became an extension of gangbang shoots and became much more hard core than the japanese stuff. Bukkake became more popular with the rise of the internet it was cheap to produce and did not require the part time "talent" to keep an erection for a long period of time.
Bukkake has leached its way into the swinging scene through osmosis and regular viewing. Some men and women are turned on by viewing it and want to try it some find they enjoy it.
Thank you. I do have some knickers that say "I met him on the web" are you sure you don't want them?
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
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"I liked to be watched while I wank and while I have never tried it I think its about the lady wanting to be covered in cum (no wine glass) for those ladies that love cum.
Wanking alone can be boring, this adds pleasing a woman and having a wank while being watched. Probably safer sex than penetration and much better than wanking all alone.
I think I might try and find a party to try, could be fun thinking about it!!"
Let us know if it's your thing after you have given it a go.
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"you put your willy in
you turn your backside out
in out in out spurt cum all about
you do the bukakke all around
thats what its all about
all togevva now "
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I love it been to a fair few never really thought about who has the power not really bothered at the end of the day I get sucked and wanked the fact there is a group of other guys there really does not bother me one bit. If it gets filmed or pictures taken I feel like a porn star nothing wrong with that. The girls that organise them love sucking cock so tend to be good at it not just going thru the motions because they think its expected |
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"I love it been to a fair few never really thought about who has the power not really bothered at the end of the day I get sucked and wanked the fact there is a group of other guys there really does not bother me one bit. If it gets filmed or pictures taken I feel like a porn star nothing wrong with that. The girls that organise them love sucking cock so tend to be good at it not just going thru the motions because they think its expected"
I think you may have hit the nail on the head!
There may be some deep seated psychological reason why some men and women like it,but for us, ultimately it comes down to the fact that I enjoy cumming on a womans face, and mrs bendy loves having someone cum on her face |
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Each to their own but not high up my bucket list.