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over a year ago
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I have come across quite a few profiles that state that they will perform just about every sexual act but will not kiss. I find this quite strange as I believe kissing is very important during sexual activities. For me, kissing is sexy, intimate and just so horney that I would not meet anyone who refused to kiss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have come across quite a few profiles that state that they will perform just about every sexual act but will not kiss. I find this quite strange as I believe kissing is very important during sexual activities. For me, kissing is sexy, intimate and just so horney that I would not meet anyone who refused to kiss. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We decided we wouldnt do the kissing thing when we started, changed that after the first meet as it just wasnt right without it, without it seemed almost clinical  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing..absolutely love it...helps me feel closer to the person and gets me turned on..nothing worse than a sloppy kisser though...I remember kissing one bloke and it was like a big wet slimy slug was in my mouth..was retching after lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some couples choose to keep it for themselves... What's hard to understand... It's there choice..
I love to watch lee kiss the ladies we play with but can take it or leave it with the guys when it comes to myself... I love lee kissing me.. I love to kiss the other ladies.. I just tend to not always kiss the other guys.
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i can understand why some people do not like it as it is a very intimate act but then isn't kissing a bit further down south even more so, not gonna turn that down are they!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i can understand why some people do not like it as it is a very intimate act but then isn't kissing a bit further down south even more so, not gonna turn that down are they!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I couldnt meet without kissing, even if he was a Lee Halfpenny lookalike  Kissing is what turns me on in the first place 
Done the sex without kissing once. Never again. "
I met one man years ago who obviously wasn't really into kissing and it all felt a bit too clinical and cold for me. Never again here too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i can understand why some people do not like it as it is a very intimate act but then isn't kissing a bit further down south even more so, not gonna turn that down are they!! "
I actually often don't have oral on me for that reason... But for me it comes down to a trust aspect... So kissing does take more for me than any other aspect of sex x |
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In a 1-2-1 situation I can understand people wanting to kiss but in swinging it's not always that cut and dried.
We play in group situations with bi men and in a club setting - kissing isn't a requirement. In fact, it would detract from the overall 'kinky' experience we prefer. So there we have it... yet again it's all down to circumstances and preferences. I don't understand why people struggle with that concept. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In a 1-2-1 situation I can understand people wanting to kiss but in swinging it's not always that cut and dried.
We play in group situations with bi men and in a club setting - kissing isn't a requirement. In fact, it would detract from the overall 'kinky' experience we prefer. So there we have it... yet again it's all down to circumstances and preferences. I don't understand why people struggle with that concept."
I respect others' preferences - but especially the above one I cannot share. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've found it is rarely even questioned when I "cali" doesn't kiss or kisses very limitedly.. and before I partnered up with lee I just didn't kiss.. yet can happily just kiss each other for ages... Although lee does like to see me kissing... So I won't totally avoid it.
However we tend to mostly play in clubs with groups or with couples and can't say it's a problem.. the irony here is that if a woman doesn't want to kiss lee or her partner wont let her it totally spoils it for me...
But my point is that so many guys are saying it's important.. yet I can count on my fingers the times I've actually had a guy try to kiss me during a play session... But I guess as I haven't done meets really outside of clubs, or one on one meets ( lee is my exception) it's a bit different..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i can understand it and we'd always respect others boundaries/choices. However we both enjoy a good kiss, with each other or others. He loves watching me kiss another girl
Ruby x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i can understand it and we'd always respect others boundaries/choices. However we both enjoy a good kiss, with each other or others. He loves watching me kiss another girl
Ruby x"
with tongues...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We decided we wouldnt do the kissing thing when we started, changed that after the first meet as it just wasnt right without it, without it seemed almost clinical "
agree with this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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See this is what confuses me... People saying it's clinical... So how come I've had a handful of guys only ever try to kiss me.
However I have not done the meets one on one with one exception... So it's always been at a club. Yet when I watch my play partner with women he always starts with a kiss... And I love to watch it.. maybe I just have a don't kiss me look lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See this is what confuses me... People saying it's clinical... So how come I've had a handful of guys only ever try to kiss me.
However I have not done the meets one on one with one exception... So it's always been at a club. Yet when I watch my play partner with women he always starts with a kiss... And I love to watch it.. maybe I just have a don't kiss me look lol. "
did you have a mouthful of cum at the time, cali? lol
we met with a couple, didnt know they didnt kiss until we went to kiss them, and they each turned their faces away.
very off putting and feels a little robotic, like there is no connection.
its the being close, looking in their eyes and seeing lust.
maybe you just have met blokes that are only interested in hiding the pickle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See this is what confuses me... People saying it's clinical... So how come I've had a handful of guys only ever try to kiss me.
However I have not done the meets one on one with one exception... So it's always been at a club. Yet when I watch my play partner with women he always starts with a kiss... And I love to watch it.. maybe I just have a don't kiss me look lol.
did you have a mouthful of cum at the time, cali? lol
we met with a couple, didnt know they didnt kiss until we went to kiss them, and they each turned their faces away.
very off putting and feels a little robotic, like there is no connection.
its the being close, looking in their eyes and seeing lust.
maybe you just have met blokes that are only interested in hiding the pickle."
Lol nooo don't think I had Cum on my face.. see I love the way ladies kiss lee.. I love the way he kisses me.. I have to be fair found the guys that have kissed me made it Ewww.. tongues straight down my throat etc.. or sucking my face off.. I still find that most guys in couples don't want to kiss me... Although I've seen a few bad reactions to lee kissing the ladies..
I have found I love a 3 way kiss though.. me and the lady kissing.. then one of us kissing lee etc..
But as I said I'm getting over some huge issues for me and till this year I didn't kiss... But it's a learning curve for me.. and life is a grand adventure and I'm exploring it with fantastic company xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Kissing is a must for me. It is so erotic. As foreplay is more important than penetration in terms of real enjoyment of a meet for me, then meeting without kissing would seriously limit my pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing is a must for me. It is so erotic. As foreplay is more important than penetration in terms of real enjoyment of a meet for me, then meeting without kissing would seriously limit my pleasure. "
You know it's going go sound dumb but I just realised something.. foreplay when playing with another couple or in a group tends to be done with your own partner.. so I'm guessing that by the time I start with another guy.. foreplay is about done..
Thank you... You may just have helped me realise something that could be an important point to me xx
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I totally adore kissing and it's right at number one in my list but can appreciate some find it abit too personal. For me, you can express so many feelings and emotions through a single kiss. Love it |
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I love kissing too... Iv had women say I could tell the sex would be good just the way you kiss... A kiss or a snogothon is the best turn on in the world..... I suppose I could have sex without it but it just wunt feel right. I love the intimacy involve.... But understand in a gb or a dogging sesh etc it just wouldnt be right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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 Dunno about the rest of you who love kissing but this thread has made me feel quite horny. Especially after a quick peak at some of the profiles of the ladies and couples waxing lyrical about kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have said that we save kissing to ourselves and have found couples we have met feel the same. Theres nothing more of a turn on than watching MrsLeics with another woman.
We have relaxed a bit and don't mind sensual kissing, neck, shoulders etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For us, kissing is very personal and intimate - we kissed each other on our wedding day to seal our love, so will always keep it just for us."
Not wanting to be crude, but you will have celebrated your wedding night in the usual fashion to seal etc, and....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate it when during passionate play you suddenly find out they don't kiss you as part of the whole thing. It makes me feel uncomfy.
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Rhankfully that's never happened but god I'd hate it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In a 1-2-1 situation I can understand people wanting to kiss but in swinging it's not always that cut and dried.
We play in group situations with bi men and in a club setting - kissing isn't a requirement. In fact, it would detract from the overall 'kinky' experience we prefer. So there we have it... yet again it's all down to circumstances and preferences. I don't understand why people struggle with that concept."
I'm not struggling with it, just find it a bit strange that's all! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've found it is rarely even questioned when I "cali" doesn't kiss or kisses very limitedly.. and before I partnered up with lee I just didn't kiss.. yet can happily just kiss each other for ages... Although lee does like to see me kissing... So I won't totally avoid it.
However we tend to mostly play in clubs with groups or with couples and can't say it's a problem.. the irony here is that if a woman doesn't want to kiss lee or her partner wont let her it totally spoils it for me...
But my point is that so many guys are saying it's important.. yet I can count on my fingers the times I've actually had a guy try to kiss me during a play session... But I guess as I haven't done meets really outside of clubs, or one on one meets ( lee is my exception) it's a bit different..
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I kind of understand that a club situation would be a bit different. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Of course I understand that everyone has preferences and respect that totally. But I just love a guy (or girl) who knows how to give a good long snog lol! |
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"In a 1-2-1 situation I can understand people wanting to kiss but in swinging it's not always that cut and dried.
We play in group situations with bi men and in a club setting - kissing isn't a requirement. In fact, it would detract from the overall 'kinky' experience we prefer. So there we have it... yet again it's all down to circumstances and preferences. I don't understand why people struggle with that concept.
I'm not struggling with it, just find it a bit strange that's all!"
What, strange that I don't fancy kissing three or four guys in a bi group session? It's not a scenario that requires intimacy so kissing just isn't on the agenda. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See this is what confuses me... People saying it's clinical... So how come I've had a handful of guys only ever try to kiss me.
However I have not done the meets one on one with one exception... So it's always been at a club. Yet when I watch my play partner with women he always starts with a kiss... And I love to watch it.. maybe I just have a don't kiss me look lol. "
In a club I never go in for the kiss first even when I really want to because it would just kill it dead if she went "no stop I don't kiss". I guess a lot of guys might feel that way in clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See this is what confuses me... People saying it's clinical... So how come I've had a handful of guys only ever try to kiss me.
However I have not done the meets one on one with one exception... So it's always been at a club. Yet when I watch my play partner with women he always starts with a kiss... And I love to watch it.. maybe I just have a don't kiss me look lol.
In a club I never go in for the kiss first even when I really want to because it would just kill it dead if she went "no stop I don't kiss". I guess a lot of guys might feel that way in clubs"
Guess that could be it but also foreplay is pretty much done with in clubs... Or in my case lee and I tend to start with one another then swap over or start to share... I often kiss the lady,lee always kisses the lady.. just the guy rarely kisses me.. or if he does I tend not to do so for long as for a start I cant watch and kiss lol |
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"Kissing for me is a very important part of the connection with who I'm having fun with, in fact I can't imagine how it would be fun without it  "
I think it may be different if your playing one on one or totally swapping.. rather than playing as a group.. as I said I have found recently 3way kisses with lee and another lady very sexy.. it's just kissing the other guy I seem to not do much. Xx |
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"See this is what confuses me... People saying it's clinical... So how come I've had a handful of guys only ever try to kiss me.
However I have not done the meets one on one with one exception... So it's always been at a club. Yet when I watch my play partner with women he always starts with a kiss... And I love to watch it.. maybe I just have a don't kiss me look lol.
In a club I never go in for the kiss first even when I really want to because it would just kill it dead if she went "no stop I don't kiss". I guess a lot of guys might feel that way in clubs"
In that case she would fail the snog test. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In that case she would fail the snog test.
I've found my mouth around a guys cock seems to bypass that test
There is no bypass"
But as I only meet in clubs I don't need the test.. as I just tend to kiss lee for ages mmmmm |
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"I hate it when during passionate play you suddenly find out they don't kiss you as part of the whole thing. It makes me feel uncomfy.
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same goes for me. Sex includes lots of smooching in my book even with strangers. I can handle it if the lady of a couple is cool on the subject if she is with her man but would not be chuffed in a one to one if there was no kissing.
If shes a smoker c'est la vie.... |
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"In a 1-2-1 situation I can understand people wanting to kiss but in swinging it's not always that cut and dried.
We play in group situations with bi men and in a club setting - kissing isn't a requirement. In fact, it would detract from the overall 'kinky' experience we prefer. So there we have it... yet again it's all down to circumstances and preferences. I don't understand why people struggle with that concept."
It depends on the meet for me. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Doesn't bother me either way. |
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"I have come across quite a few profiles that state that they will perform just about every sexual act but will not kiss. I find this quite strange as I believe kissing is very important during sexual activities. For me, kissing is sexy, intimate and just so horney that I would not meet anyone who refused to kiss. "
Yes I agree with this I would find it harder to get in the mood without it |
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"I couldnt meet without kissing, even if he was a Lee Halfpenny lookalike Kissing is what turns me on in the first place
Done the sex without kissing once. Never again.
I met one man years ago who obviously wasn't really into kissing and it all felt a bit too clinical and cold for me. Never again here too!"
And a third here too. He was pretty much perfection in every other way but I just couldn't get my head round the no kissing so there was no rematch despite his trying  |
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"I have come across quite a few profiles that state that they will perform just about every sexual act but will not kiss. I find this quite strange as I believe kissing is very important during sexual activities. For me, kissing is sexy, intimate and just so horney that I would not meet anyone who refused to kiss. "
I don't understand that either.
I too adore kissing (if they can kiss properly, you will be surprised) and can get turned just by kissing. However I would not kiss if I could smell halitosis!! |
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I'd feel cheap without kissing. As if I'd be only good enough for giving relief.
So the person above who said he'd postpone the kissing just in case she'd say 'no' - the sooner you find out the better. |
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We like to keep our kissing for each other. Just that one thing.
I'd say most people prefer to kiss but it hasn't ever been a problem for us regarding meets/play.
I (fem) do kiss women as its a turn on for us both. Just not the opposite sex. |
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