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Wife still looking, how difficult can it be
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well endowed, regular lover for my wife. How difficult can it be to find the right guy.We are not looking for quantity just one quality chap who won't let her down.Must be one out there somewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps you're being too fickle and what you imagine you seek doesn't exist? After all yes, you're letting someone into a very personal aspect of your life, but they are letting you into theirs too ? I'm sure an effort to probe and question a few respondents would narrow it down ? You have to put the effort in too ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're looking for what's known as the unicorn! Yes it is difficult, RG and I have the same problem. Reliability is the issue as well as someone you both get along with!
We offer a true gf experience for the right man, sex on request and the option to fuck alone once we have the trust. Harder than it seems though!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We want a young slim well endowed lover for her. Not just a one off shag. Has to be a friend to her and myself as we only meet at our home and we wouldnt just invite anyone into our home. |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well endowed, regular lover for my wife. How difficult can it be to find the right guy.We are not looking for quantity just one quality chap who won't let her down.Must be one out there somewhere."
So basically you're looking for a slim young white guy whom is intelligent enough to read your full profile first, that lives near you whom is willing to drop whatever their doing to fit into your lifestyle....
I guess you can be picky
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not willing to drop everything. We are realistic about these things. We have had 3 meetings but it just wasnt right. Invited one back for a second meeting but he didnt turn up, no message, no excuse. Just didnt turn up.Forgive us if that experience makes us picky and careful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not willing to drop everything. We are realistic about these things. We have had 3 meetings but it just wasnt right. Invited one back for a second meeting but he didnt turn up, no message, no excuse. Just didnt turn up.Forgive us if that experience makes us picky and careful."
Like I said its early days, three meets isn't a lot if you're seeking a regular, perhaps you weren't what he was looking for either! Works both ways, he's not a cock on a stick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not willing to drop everything. We are realistic about these things. We have had 3 meetings but it just wasnt right. Invited one back for a second meeting but he didnt turn up, no message, no excuse. Just didnt turn up.Forgive us if that experience makes us picky and careful.
Like I said its early days, three meets isn't a lot if you're seeking a regular, perhaps you weren't what he was looking for either! Works both ways, he's not a cock on a stick."
Well said.it does work both ways |
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When I was single I had a social meeting with a couple and it was more like a job interview. No conversation as it was just a series of questions, they even had a checklist printed out.
When I got a message a while later asking if I wanted to meet up at theirs (2nd interview?) and I declined politely they got all arsey. I could just imagine a meet with one of them ticking things off a to do list  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not willing to drop everything. We are realistic about these things. We have had 3 meetings but it just wasnt right. Invited one back for a second meeting but he didnt turn up, no message, no excuse. Just didnt turn up.Forgive us if that experience makes us picky and careful.
Like I said its early days, three meets isn't a lot if you're seeking a regular, perhaps you weren't what he was looking for either! Works both ways, he's not a cock on a stick."
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have had this kind of a friendship with a cpl and I understand what u mean by reliability and all that. Yes u r not asking much. Wife is sexy and all but 9 weeks is not that long since u started your quest. be more patient and I am sure the right guy will show up. From a guys perspective I suggest to omit the condition of one liners in a first message r a no go. Single guys here find it difficult to get a reply and most first contacts are not replied due to the fact that attractive cpls and females dont get the time to reply and check the 100's of mails they get every day. so he has to contact 30 or 40 ppl every day before he gets a reply. Simply a guy can not write an assignement with every 1st contact or make much effort in it just to be wasted. That wd be like makung the effort for a full time job lol. If someone says hi how u doing or any classic intro. give them a chance a.d say hi back and see what they got in the brain and personity. He wd make the effort after that if u do make the effort to reply. gd luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well endowed, regular lover for my wife. How difficult can it be to find the right guy.We are not looking for quantity just one quality chap who won't let her down.Must be one out there somewhere."
If it was your wife looking she would get someone easily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Will reply assuming you meant us.
One liners are tedious, to save them the wait if a reply, it's already there assuming they've read the profile! If we then get a message asking how we are, we instantly know they've not even read our profile so will be deleted.
It isn't a charity on here, we know single guys have a tough time but a lack of thought or effort in a message won't get a sympathy fuck either
Just our thoughts, everyone has their own take on what's required so the one liners might work, in which case, crack on.
"I have had this kind of a friendship with a cpl and I understand what u mean by reliability and all that. Yes u r not asking much. Wife is sexy and all but 9 weeks is not that long since u started your quest. be more patient and I am sure the right guy will show up. From a guys perspective I suggest to omit the condition of one liners in a first message r a no go. Single guys here find it difficult to get a reply and most first contacts are not replied due to the fact that attractive cpls and females dont get the time to reply and check the 100's of mails they get every day. so he has to contact 30 or 40 ppl every day before he gets a reply. Simply a guy can not write an assignement with every 1st contact or make much effort in it just to be wasted. That wd be like makung the effort for a full time job lol. If someone says hi how u doing or any classic intro. give them a chance a.d say hi back and see what they got in the brain and personity. He wd make the effort after that if u do make the effort to reply. gd luck "
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I m always surprised why single guys equate volume of messages makes things easier often it muddys the waters quantity doesn t equal quality
Op you May find it eadier to seek what you re looking for (you may already be) however at the lower end of your age range , myself at that age I wouldn t have been all that reliable I had so many things in my life going on, your requirements are quite specific so it may take you longer to find that person,
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"We want a young slim well endowed lover for her. Not just a one off shag. Has to be a friend to her and myself as we only meet at our home and we wouldnt just invite anyone into our home."
I have that type of relationship with another couple that I meet.
I would be interested in filling the position.
Totally understand where your coming from as it also about building relations between each other as well.
Have a look at my profile and drop me message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP: You need a change of attitude. The whole 'poor us, it just isn't that hard is it?' line is entitled and condescending.
You say you're looking for a quality guy? Well, remember that quality tends to have options. If he ticks your couple dozen boxes, chances are he ticks a lot of other peoples boxes as well. Also remember that if a quality guy is looking to start something regular, it likely *isn't* going to be with a couple.
Also your profile (in the circumstances, I believe it's fair game): I personally wouldn't even bother with any profile written by *him* on *her behalf*. I have no interest in being the lead character in some married guy's fantasy. I'm probably not the only one. Get her to write it. And that doesn't mean pretend to be her and write it again.
(And to the other respondents, the original post is no different to when a guy comes on here moaning about how he can't get any, yet I notice a marked difference in the tone of the responses. All positive and helpful all of a sudden. I wonder why?) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a couples version of a look at me thread. Been on 9weeks. It takes time. Also how can the lady be gorgeous? You aint spoke to her or seen any face pictures...stop being a brown nose, its not a good look guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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noticed recently there are lots of couples posting in forums who seem to be inserted well up their own arse lol.
comments such as we are picky we need right people...who do you think you are, other people are picky too thats why they may not of picked you two!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP: You need a change of attitude. The whole 'poor us, it just isn't that hard is it?' line is entitled and condescending.
You say you're looking for a quality guy? Well, remember that quality tends to have options. If he ticks your couple dozen boxes, chances are he ticks a lot of other peoples boxes as well. Also remember that if a quality guy is looking to start something regular, it likely *isn't* going to be with a couple.
Also your profile (in the circumstances, I believe it's fair game): I personally wouldn't even bother with any profile written by *him* on *her behalf*. I have no interest in being the lead character in some married guy's fantasy. I'm probably not the only one. Get her to write it. And that doesn't mean pretend to be her and write it again.
(And to the other respondents, the original post is no different to when a guy comes on here moaning about how he can't get any, yet I notice a marked difference in the tone of the responses. All positive and helpful all of a sudden. I wonder why?)"
I would also get rid of the meathead and something between the ears comment too. Sounds a bit rude and patronizing. Single men have feelings too  |
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"OP: You need a change of attitude. The whole 'poor us, it just isn't that hard is it?' line is entitled and condescending.
You say you're looking for a quality guy? Well, remember that quality tends to have options. If he ticks your couple dozen boxes, chances are he ticks a lot of other peoples boxes as well. Also remember that if a quality guy is looking to start something regular, it likely *isn't* going to be with a couple.
Also your profile (in the circumstances, I believe it's fair game): I personally wouldn't even bother with any profile written by *him* on *her behalf*. I have no interest in being the lead character in some married guy's fantasy. I'm probably not the only one. Get her to write it. And that doesn't mean pretend to be her and write it again.
(And to the other respondents, the original post is no different to when a guy comes on here moaning about how he can't get any, yet I notice a marked difference in the tone of the responses. All positive and helpful all of a sudden. I wonder why?)"
The more selective you are, young, slim, well endowed, intelligent, patient, reliable, chemistry with both of you etc, the longer it's going to take to find. Also as had been stated he sounds like a good catch he's going to have options what makes you so attractive to him? |
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What you are looking for isn't what most of the single guys here are here for.
Everyone does things differently but it sounds like you are wanting a friends with benefits.
Go to clubs & socials & meet people that way
you've said it yourself in your profile, you're not really swingers. What you describe is more of a lifestyle & that does take longer
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"Not willing to drop everything. We are realistic about these things. We have had 3 meetings but it just wasnt right. Invited one back for a second meeting but he didnt turn up, no message, no excuse. Just didnt turn up.Forgive us if that experience makes us picky and careful."
I appreciate what your saying and we've been there with others - meet, get in great, disappear etc etc and it can be frustrating.
The risk you run is that the more "mandatory" items you have in place doesn't mean your fine tuning to match your criteria, it usually means your narrowing your search to the better blaggers.....
The best thing we ever did was wipe all our criteria off the table.
The best meets we've had by far and the best people would never have got through our search criteria. Some have awful pics and profiles on here too but in person they are great.
Like you said, connection is important and you sometimes find that in unexpected places.
I bet when you do find "the one" and look at them, they won't be what you had in your head when you started out.
I'm not saying whore yourself out but the only way of finding gold is panning through shit.
Get out there, clubs, meets, socials and just be open.
Good luck, I'm sure you will find them.
D&K. X
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"We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well endowed, regular lover for my wife. How difficult can it be to find the right guy.We are not looking for quantity just one quality chap who won't let her down.Must be one out there somewhere."
I'm not a bloke, but after the initial excitement at the thought of meeting your stunning wife I'd be very hesitant of contacting you.
The profile/this thread is written by the male half. Everything seems to evolve around what the male half wants. The dynamics would make me uncomfortable. It could be as an independent woman used to asking and stating what I want I struggle with the idea of a man speaking on my behalf telling others what I want.
That said, all are catered for here, so good luck. |
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"We want a young slim well endowed lover for her. Not just a one off shag. Has to be a friend to her and myself as we only meet at our home and we wouldnt just invite anyone into our home.
I have that type of relationship with another couple that I meet.
I would be interested in filling the position.
Totally understand where your coming from as it also about building relations between each other as well.
Have a look at my profile and drop me message."
Tut! You didn't read their profile did you?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What you are doing is the equivalent of using a dating site to find a perfect new wife.
The best fuck buddies are selected from a list of tried and tested applicants. She may well have to fuck several before she finds the right one. If he is any good he may not want to tie himself to a relationship with an older married woman. I presume you would prefer he only goes with your wife?
At the lower end of your age range you are seeking men young enough to be your wife's son. That can be an issue too. |
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"OP: You need a change of attitude. The whole 'poor us, it just isn't that hard is it?' line is entitled and condescending.
You say you're looking for a quality guy? Well, remember that quality tends to have options. If he ticks your couple dozen boxes, chances are he ticks a lot of other peoples boxes as well. Also remember that if a quality guy is looking to start something regular, it likely *isn't* going to be with a couple.
Also your profile (in the circumstances, I believe it's fair game): I personally wouldn't even bother with any profile written by *him* on *her behalf*. I have no interest in being the lead character in some married guy's fantasy. I'm probably not the only one. Get her to write it. And that doesn't mean pretend to be her and write it again.
(And to the other respondents, the original post is no different to when a guy comes on here moaning about how he can't get any, yet I notice a marked difference in the tone of the responses. All positive and helpful all of a sudden. I wonder why?)"
Exactly how I saw it and I'm a woman! |
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I get that you only want the best for your wife but I'm afraid that your profile will put guys off. In my opinion there are around 10% of single guys on here that really get what swinging is about and these are the guys that find success on a regular basis. The rest are just looking for a speculative shag and there's nothing wrong with that. The cream of the single guys have choices and I'm afraid your profile just reads as too much hassle.
Why doesn't your wife write her own single profile and be clear that you will be involved until you're comfortable enough not to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP: You need a change of attitude. The whole 'poor us, it just isn't that hard is it?' line is entitled and condescending.
You say you're looking for a quality guy? Well, remember that quality tends to have options. If he ticks your couple dozen boxes, chances are he ticks a lot of other peoples boxes as well. Also remember that if a quality guy is looking to start something regular, it likely *isn't* going to be with a couple.
Also your profile (in the circumstances, I believe it's fair game): I personally wouldn't even bother with any profile written by *him* on *her behalf*. I have no interest in being the lead character in some married guy's fantasy. I'm probably not the only one. Get her to write it. And that doesn't mean pretend to be her and write it again.
(And to the other respondents, the original post is no different to when a guy comes on here moaning about how he can't get any, yet I notice a marked difference in the tone of the responses. All positive and helpful all of a sudden. I wonder why?)"
Nicely wrought response
Indeed - that difference in tone is quite puzzling. I noticed it, too. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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Ask your wife to speak up rather than mr speaking all the time.
Your profile is written by the man. Does your wife not know how to write about herself.
I think your profile is not good. It sounds like you expected it to be easy to find what you are looking for. Choosing a special person takes time. You also need to remember its not all about you. The single guy needs to be thought of too. What does he want. Do you fit in with what he wants.
I cant see any pics of mrs face which is understandable. I have no idea if she attractive or not.
Just think your profile comes across controlling x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You ask how difficult it can be? Very. You are looking for another person to share in your relationship. We all know how hard relationships can be with just 2 people, let alone with an extra person. It took me well over a year before I going someone suitable enough to consider being my lover, someone that hubby and I could get on with, and someone who understands how it all works. It takes a very unique person to be able to enter a couples relationship and do it right.
My advice would be, for the wife to write the profile, the husband to pass control to his wife, and for the wife to get out there and meet people. It's the only way you truly know if you connect. |
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Your wife isn't looking though, you are? If your wife actually knows anything about this get her to write your profile and post in the forum. My guess would be that this is your fantasy and the lady is going along with it but hoping that by not participating at all it will die a natural death.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience, the way the profile is worded it sounds to me like I'll be conversing with the husband throughout most of the contact...he might even get me wanking on cam,just to see how the wife would get it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My serious answer: almost as I said before, I hate being 'must do' this and 'must do that'.
I also hate profiles stating I have to meet them more than once, before I can meet them...
good luck anyway OP,lovely pics too |
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"In my experience, the way the profile is worded it sounds to me like I'll be conversing with the husband throughout most of the contact...he might even get me wanking on cam,just to see how the wife would get it "
Such cynicism in one so young
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though |
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"Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though"
In that case you need a rewrite because so many people don't get the wrong idea for no reason at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well endowed, regular lover for my wife. How difficult can it be to find the right guy.We are not looking for quantity just one quality chap who won't let her down.Must be one out there somewhere."
There's nothing wrong with being fussy but expect it to take time...and unfortunately with your specific requirements you're in competition with a multitude of younger and/or sexier couples and singles femmes. Perhaps YOU don't meet the guys' requirements?  |
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"Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though"
Really?
blimey, so he doesn't really get involved but has the final word.....hmmmm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though
In that case you need a rewrite because so many people don't get the wrong idea for no reason at all. "
Agree. If we all got it wrong then so will the guys you're tyring to attract |
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"Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though"
So he didn't write the OP then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though
Really?
blimey, so he doesn't really get involved but has the final word.....hmmmm."
I'm confused by that as well. If this OP had been written by a single man he'd have been ripped to shreds by now!! |
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"Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though
Really?
blimey, so he doesn't really get involved but has the final word.....hmmmm.
I'm confused by that as well. If this OP had been written by a single man he'd have been ripped to shreds by now!!"
I'm not confused by it any more I think its crystal clear what's going on here. |
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"Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though
Really?
blimey, so he doesn't really get involved but has the final word.....hmmmm.
I'm confused by that as well. If this OP had been written by a single man he'd have been ripped to shreds by now!!"
Funny that: I was thinking the same thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will reply assuming you meant us.
One liners are tedious, to save them the wait if a reply, it's already there assuming they've read the profile! If we then get a message asking how we are, we instantly know they've not even read our profile so will be deleted.
It isn't a charity on here, we know single guys have a tough time but a lack of thought or effort in a message won't get a sympathy fuck either
Just our thoughts, everyone has their own take on what's required so the one liners might work, in which case, crack on.
I have had this kind of a friendship with a cpl and I understand what u mean by reliability and all that. Yes u r not asking much. Wife is sexy and all but 9 weeks is not that long since u started your quest. be more patient and I am sure the right guy will show up. From a guys perspective I suggest to omit the condition of one liners in a first message r a no go. Single guys here find it difficult to get a reply and most first contacts are not replied due to the fact that attractive cpls and females dont get the time to reply and check the 100's of mails they get every day. so he has to contact 30 or 40 ppl every day before he gets a reply. Simply a guy can not write an assignement with every 1st contact or make much effort in it just to be wasted. That wd be like makung the effort for a full time job lol. If someone says hi how u doing or any classic intro. give them a chance a.d say hi back and see what they got in the brain and personity. He wd make the effort after that if u do make the effort to reply. gd luck "
You assume am talking about and I have never been in touch with u in my whole life!! Lol
U assume that if someone sends a one liner message that makes him he haven't read your profile! and u assume that my post is a request for a charity shagg which is very rude and presemptuous. U r assuming that guys are desperate for a shagg and therefore u can afford to talk them down with a tone of superiority. This is a site for ppl to have fun not to boost your ego and take advantage of any situation. The poster is not desperate for a shagg and defo not looking for a charity one. I have rejected 5 requests this week from women and cpls and I only meet when I feel those I meet are interesting nice ppl. Not because there is finally a meat hole available to digg |
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So in a nutshell, you've come onto a swingers site; not to swing but to find a young single man, that does swing; to give up swinging; to be at your beck and call... And are confused why this hasn't worked?
I'm no expert but maybe a site for a poly type of relationship is more suitable to what you seek? |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though"
It sounds to me ye are into the cuckold scene and I can see how ye are finding it difficult to meet a genuine guy who actually understands the scene from both partners perspective. Do keep looking and perhaps go on cam and chat to guys that way you might have a better chance of ing out the fakes and pretenders. Best of luck with it. J x
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though"
but then... he did the writing of the profile... so you can understand why some people would be confused!!!
anyway... since you apparently know what you are after...can i suggest something really radical.....
ready......
why dont you do the searching and contact the people who you may be interested in... rather than waiting on them to come to you.......
people always complaining... but always wait on the mountain to come to them! |
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A 21 year old isn't likely to want to become social friends with people knocking on 50. They want NSA sex and that's not what you are offering.
You want a discreet person but expect them to smile pretty for photos and vids they will have no control over? |
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"Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though"
Have you really wrestled the keyboard from your partner's hands only to contradict yourself in a single paragraph? Or is this still him typing? |
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"Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though
Have you really wrestled the keyboard from your partner's hands only to contradict yourself in a single paragraph? Or is this still him typing? "
Lol. He only reads in passing of course its her...  |
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over a year ago
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"Me thinks this thread didn't quite run to plan Confused the hell out of me. Thank goodness I know what I'm looking for and answerable to just me!  "
...it's because your lovely and fab!
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"I have had this kind of a friendship with a cpl and I understand what u mean by reliability and all that. Yes u r not asking much. Wife is sexy and all but 9 weeks is not that long since u started your quest. be more patient and I am sure the right guy will show up. From a guys perspective I suggest to omit the condition of one liners in a first message r a no go. Single guys here find it difficult to get a reply and most first contacts are not replied due to the fact that attractive cpls and females dont get the time to reply and check the 100's of mails they get every day. so he has to contact 30 or 40 ppl every day before he gets a reply. Simply a guy can not write an assignement with every 1st contact or make much effort in it just to be wasted. That wd be like makung the effort for a full time job lol. If someone says hi how u doing or any classic intro. give them a chance a.d say hi back and see what they got in the brain and personity. He wd make the effort after that if u do make the effort to reply. gd luck "
Very very good point!! You have changed my mind about one line messages. |
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"Afraid your wrong there. I do the talking and decide who I like and if they are a possible for a meet. My husband reads the messages in passing but doesn't really get involved. He has the final word on who we meet though
Have you really wrestled the keyboard from your partner's hands only to contradict yourself in a single paragraph? Or is this still him typing?
Lol. He only reads in passing of course its her... "
Of course it is, just like it was her that wrote about "my wife" in the OP |
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"We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well endowed, regular lover for my wife. How difficult can it be to find the right guy.We are not looking for quantity just one quality chap who won't let her down.Must be one out there somewhere."
Nice figure but maybe its the age you seek. Wev had many pointless discussions over looks in 13yrs, Age/Looks, both pathetically shallow and for us no guage of whether someone is fun  |
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"Me thinks this thread didn't quite run to plan Confused the hell out of me. Thank goodness I know what I'm looking for and answerable to just me!
...it's because your lovely and fab!
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over a year ago
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"OP: You need a change of attitude. The whole 'poor us, it just isn't that hard is it?' line is entitled and condescending.
You say you're looking for a quality guy? Well, remember that quality tends to have options. If he ticks your couple dozen boxes, chances are he ticks a lot of other peoples boxes as well. Also remember that if a quality guy is looking to start something regular, it likely *isn't* going to be with a couple.
Also your profile (in the circumstances, I believe it's fair game): I personally wouldn't even bother with any profile written by *him* on *her behalf*. I have no interest in being the lead character in some married guy's fantasy. I'm probably not the only one. Get her to write it. And that doesn't mean pretend to be her and write it again.
(And to the other respondents, the original post is no different to when a guy comes on here moaning about how he can't get any, yet I notice a marked difference in the tone of the responses. All positive and helpful all of a sudden. I wonder why?)
The more selective you are, young, slim, well endowed, intelligent, patient, reliable, chemistry with both of you etc, the longer it's going to take to find. Also as had been stated he sounds like a good catch he's going to have options what makes you so attractive to him? "
these two dudes have a very valid point.... agree with "most" of it (the only bit i don't is the starting something regular with cpls... but that is minor) however, just because there are lots of men here... the popular ones are still going to be... popular...
so what are you bringing to this... because the answers you bring so far aren't attaching the people you seek!
it sounds like you are expecting them to jump thru your hoops... when it is more likely to be very much a 2 way street, because they will have options..... |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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After the ops wife has commented I am amazed. He makes the final decision? ?? Really??
When I was a couple briefly we made the final decision not him. We both expressed if something was going to go ahead but we Both made that final decision.
Your hubby wrote the profile. Your hubby wrote the original post. Sounds like he is doing it all including the final decision. Sorry but it sounds to me all wrong. If it works for you then ok but nobody makes the final decision for me. Its my body so I make that if me and a partner are both happy.
Doesn't sound like he is dipping in at all. It also would concern me for any men to meet your hubby with no visible pics on your couple profile. I feel for any man about to approaching your request. I would be scared to know how controlling he is xxx |
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over a year ago
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Without meaning to sound rude but your post does sound very much like you think being a couple somhow entitles you to the pick of the best men and they should all come flocking to your door bearing gifts and a cv in hand. The qualities you look for basically describes the most desired qualities for most people searching for a male the more boxes they are expected to tick the less of them there will be,
therefore more in demand and they then become the one with the choices as couples searching what he has are then 2 a penny and its up to you to therefore tlick his boxes and hope he chooses you !!! Its hard to belive but single men do actually think with there brains and not just thier cock and as such will choose the best options not just, the only option !!! Power to the single males...... |
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over a year ago
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why not just meet people and see if you can hit it off with one of them?
its very difficult to get any connection with words on a screen.
you could well have dismissed your perfect fb just because he didnt come across well in messages. |
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"why not just meet people and see if you can hit it off with one of them?
its very difficult to get any connection with words on a screen.
you could well have dismissed your perfect fb just because he didnt come across well in messages."
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"Without meaning to sound rude but your post does sound very much like you think being a couple somhow entitles you to the pick of the best men and they should all come flocking to your door bearing gifts and a cv in hand. The qualities you look for basically describes the most desired qualities for most people searching for a male the more boxes they are expected to tick the less of them there will be,
therefore more in demand and they then become the one with the choices as couples searching what he has are then 2 a penny and its up to you to therefore tlick his boxes and hope he chooses you !!! Its hard to belive but single men do actually think with there brains and not just thier cock and as such will choose the best options not just, the only option !!! Power to the single males......"
Some real sense here . I wouldn't even attempt to contact you for fear of falling at the first hurdle. I think I punch above my weight on here , but it's because people have looked beyond the pictures. |
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over a year ago
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See I don't get this thread you might meet Sumone who ticks everybox" looks endowed and can chat online " ,then you meet him and he has the personality of a peanut !!! Friendship had to be built !!! Simples and personality for me goes further than everything xx leexx |
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"See I don't get this thread you might meet Sumone who ticks everybox" looks endowed and can chat online " ,then you meet him and he has the personality of a peanut !!! Friendship had to be built !!! Simples and personality for me goes further than everything xx leexx "
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"Without meaning to sound rude but your post does sound very much like you think being a couple somhow entitles you to the pick of the best men and they should all come flocking to your door bearing gifts and a cv in hand. The qualities you look for basically describes the most desired qualities for most people searching for a male the more boxes they are expected to tick the less of them there will be,
therefore more in demand and they then become the one with the choices as couples searching what he has are then 2 a penny and its up to you to therefore tlick his boxes and hope he chooses you !!! Its hard to belive but single men do actually think with there brains and not just thier cock and as such will choose the best options not just, the only option !!! Power to the single males......"
Quite so. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I have chatted with lots of men and met lots too.
There has been chemistry before and during. But it takes on hell of a man for me to want to meet again. I have done that with very few x |
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Cant believe you've missed one important factor!! 
You're in Bridgwater!
Seriously though (and Somerset is full of hotties! ) - never forget that whilst you have your preferences so do those you seek. As others have questioned - are you actively searching yourselves or simply waiting for the inbox to fill? Are you meeting for socials to get to know people? Are you looking further afield than your own doorstep? Have you considered the male halves of couples?
From reading your profile and your contributions to this thread i have to agree with the others that it appears to be a situation dominated by the male - rightly or wrongly. And given what you're looking for you may have more success in your search if 'the wife' was to set up a single female profile and seek company from there. After all - you're looking for company for her - not you both! |
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"Cant believe you've missed one important factor!!
You're in Bridgwater!
Seriously though (and Somerset is full of hotties! ) - never forget that whilst you have your preferences so do those you seek. As others have questioned - are you actively searching yourselves or simply waiting for the inbox to fill? Are you meeting for socials to get to know people? Are you looking further afield than your own doorstep? Have you considered the male halves of couples?
From reading your profile and your contributions to this thread i have to agree with the others that it appears to be a situation dominated by the male - rightly or wrongly. And given what you're looking for you may have more success in your search if 'the wife' was to set up a single female profile and seek company from there. After all - you're looking for company for her - not you both! "
The Voice of Reason. Blimey! |
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over a year ago
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It's ashame you guys are so far away from me as I think I sound like the kind of guy you are looking for. Why are all the good one's always so far away?  |
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over a year ago
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I know if Trace wanted to meet a young guy it would be her who wrote the profile, her who vetted the replies and her who made the final decision but that's just us.
Maybe the O.P could try going down that road as it does seem to be the common consensus of opinion and he was asking for advice. 
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over a year ago
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"You're looking for what's known as the unicorn! Yes it is difficult, RG and I have the same problem. Reliability is the issue as well as someone you both get along with!
We offer a true gf experience for the right man, sex on request and the option to fuck alone once we have the trust. Harder than it seems though!!
Good luck in your hunt though "
Wilmslow eh? Do you have an application form? :p |
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" From a guys perspective I suggest to omit the condition of one liners in a first message r a no go. Single guys here find it difficult to get a reply and most first contacts are not replied due to the fact that attractive cpls and females dont get the time to reply and check the 100's of mails they get every day. so he has to contact 30 or 40 ppl every day before he gets a reply. Simply a guy can not write an assignement with every 1st contact or make much effort in it just to be wasted. That wd be like makung the effort for a full time job lol. If someone says hi how u doing or any classic intro. give them a chance a.d say hi back and see what they got in the brain and personity. He wd make the effort after that if u do make the effort to reply. gd luck "
This is very true, but how comes no one ever says this to single females when they go on their rants? |
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over a year ago
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Big response on this one. If you have had loads of replies maybe you just need to compromise the criteria. Narrow it down to ten or so arrange a few social meets narrow it to a few less and take it from there.
Sex pistols mug on profile? Does she like "stiff little fingers?" |
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over a year ago
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I feel for you guys. We are in the same boat. We are into couples mainly but would like to find a guy also, just for Amber. Can't find anyone. Seem to get let down a bit. |
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"I feel for you guys. We are in the same boat. We are into couples mainly but would like to find a guy also, just for Amber. Can't find anyone. Seem to get let down a bit. "
fancy a shag |
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"I feel for you guys. We are in the same boat. We are into couples mainly but would like to find a guy also, just for Amber. Can't find anyone. Seem to get let down a bit. "
fancy a couple? lol |
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"We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well endowed, regular lover for my wife. How difficult can it be to find the right guy.We are not looking for quantity just one quality chap who won't let her down.Must be one out there somewhere."
we all are I am guessing lol
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"I feel for you guys. We are in the same boat. We are into couples mainly but would like to find a guy also, just for Amber. Can't find anyone. Seem to get let down a bit.
fancy a couple? lol"
no they dont....I wish couples like u would butt out of these things!!!!!! |
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"We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well endowed, regular lover for my wife. How difficult can it be to find the right guy.We are not looking for quantity just one quality chap who won't let her down.Must be one out there somewhere."
I read your profile and it is clear what you want. Quality not quantity but must be well endowed. No meatheads and local. He exists somewhere im sure but where? I'm glad I'm here alone with no-one to tell me what is what and decide who I meet and who I don't. After all, you are the one who will be entertaining him and I understand your oh wants to make sure you are safe but there are limits. Good luck with your hunting
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"I feel for you guys. We are in the same boat. We are into couples mainly but would like to find a guy also, just for Amber. Can't find anyone. Seem to get let down a bit.
fancy a couple? lol
no they dont....I wish couples like u would butt out of these things!!!!!! "
they dont want you either so rrrrrrrrrrssssssssssssssssppppppppppp |
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"I feel for you guys. We are in the same boat. We are into couples mainly but would like to find a guy also, just for Amber. Can't find anyone. Seem to get let down a bit.
fancy a couple? lol
no they dont....I wish couples like u would butt out of these things!!!!!!
they dont want you either so rrrrrrrrrrssssssssssssssssppppppppppp "
as its christmas(ish) I wont be mean or rude OR childish...but I've just had several lots of iwannafuckU messages from wome and couples on this thread...seeyas latarz stinkarz! |
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"I feel for you guys. We are in the same boat. We are into couples mainly but would like to find a guy also, just for Amber. Can't find anyone. Seem to get let down a bit.
fancy a couple? lol
no they dont....I wish couples like u would butt out of these things!!!!!!
they dont want you either so rrrrrrrrrrssssssssssssssssppppppppppp
as its christmas(ish) I wont be mean or rude OR childish...but I've just had several lots of iwannafuckU messages from wome and couples on this thread...seeyas latarz stinkarz! "
and we havent?
i have lost count of the amount of 'fuck you!' messages we have had.
im tellin ya, the amount of action we are gonna get is immeasurable |
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"I feel for you guys. We are in the same boat. We are into couples mainly but would like to find a guy also, just for Amber. Can't find anyone. Seem to get let down a bit.
fancy a couple? lol
as its christmas(ish) I wont be mean or rude OR childish...but I've just had several lots of iwannafuckU messages from wome and couples on this thread...seeyas latarz stinkarz!
and we havent?
i have lost count of the amount of 'fuck you!' messages we have had.
im tellin ya, the amount of action we are gonna get is immeasurable"
I didn't.even get a wink 
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"I feel for you guys. We are in the same boat. We are into couples mainly but would like to find a guy also, just for Amber. Can't find anyone. Seem to get let down a bit.
fancy a couple? lol
no they dont....I wish couples like u would butt out of these things!!!!!!
they dont want you either so rrrrrrrrrrssssssssssssssssppppppppppp
as its christmas(ish) I wont be mean or rude OR childish...but I've just had several lots of iwannafuckU messages from wome and couples on this thread...seeyas latarz stinkarz!
and we havent?
i have lost count of the amount of 'fuck you!' messages we have had.
im tellin ya, the amount of action we are gonna get is immeasurable"
I might send some, maybe in the new year, will venus wait for me? |
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"I feel for you guys. We are in the same boat. We are into couples mainly but would like to find a guy also, just for Amber. Can't find anyone. Seem to get let down a bit.
fancy a couple? lol
no they dont....I wish couples like u would butt out of these things!!!!!!
they dont want you either so rrrrrrrrrrssssssssssssssssppppppppppp
as its christmas(ish) I wont be mean or rude OR childish...but I've just had several lots of iwannafuckU messages from wome and couples on this thread...seeyas latarz stinkarz!
and we havent?
i have lost count of the amount of 'fuck you!' messages we have had.
im tellin ya, the amount of action we are gonna get is immeasurable
I might send some, maybe in the new year, will venus wait for me?"
sorry, she is full until mid 2015 |
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over a year ago
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It's really interesting reading all the comments in this post! It's never something I have considered as I didn't realise couples would want a more regular relationship with a younger guy. However after reading all this I would be particularly interested in meeting a couple and finding out more. |
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"why not just meet people and see if you can hit it off with one of them?
its very difficult to get any connection with words on a screen.
you could well have dismissed your perfect fb just because he didnt come across well in messages."
Ezactly and unfortunately most ppl.are quick to judge missing out on genuine guys who dont really know the ins and outs n all the politics that goes with swinging through the net. |
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"We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well endowed, regular lover for my wife. How difficult can it be to find the right guy.We are not looking for quantity just one quality chap who won't let her down.Must be one out there somewhere.
I read your profile and it is clear what you want. Quality not quantity but must be well endowed. No meatheads and local. He exists somewhere im sure but where? I'm glad I'm here alone with no-one to tell me what is what and decide who I meet and who I don't. After all, you are the one who will be entertaining him and I understand your oh wants to make sure you are safe but there are limits. Good luck with your hunting
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Hard to make sense out of it but sadly its true there lots of women whoss brains process in such unlogic way!!! Really!! You come to fab open an account spend so much effort and time in it and God knows how many other profiles u have in other websites... and you make yourself beleive that you'll be the one e.tertaining the guy you are seaking?!!! Its a 2 way thing. You r here to get entertained and entertain in return. No one is doing single guys a favour by meeting them. In most cases its the opposit coz Quality guys here are entertaining in most cases women way bellow their level of attraction |
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"No one is doing single guys a favour by meeting them. In most cases its the opposit coz Quality guys here are entertaining in most cases women way bellow their level of attraction "
And here we go again...  |
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" Quality guys here are entertaining in most cases women way bellow their level of attraction "
Really? How have you come to that conclusion? And what do you class as bellow level attraction? |
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" Quality guys here are entertaining in most cases women way bellow their level of attraction
Really? How have you come to that conclusion? And what do you class as bellow level attraction? "
Just the way it is on fab. A huge Candy shop of men. Candies are treated cheap not because they r low quality but because there is too many to chose from. So be fussy as u wish. Just look at women's profiles its all rants and conditions and rules for men. Women in the 50's putting age restriction 18-30. Fat ugly women saying he must be very handsome and must be athletic. No face pic no reply ect lol |
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"We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well endowed, regular lover for my wife. How difficult can it be to find the right guy.We are not looking for quantity just one quality chap who won't let her down.Must be one out there somewhere.
I read your profile and it is clear what you want. Quality not quantity but must be well endowed. No meatheads and local. He exists somewhere im sure but where? I'm glad I'm here alone with no-one to tell me what is what and decide who I meet and who I don't. After all, you are the one who will be entertaining him and I understand your oh wants to make sure you are safe but there are limits. Good luck with your hunting
Hard to make sense out of it but sadly its true there lots of women whoss brains process in such unlogic way!!! Really!! You come to fab open an account spend so much effort and time in it and God knows how many other profiles u have in other websites... and you make yourself beleive that you'll be the one e.tertaining the guy you are seaking?!!! Its a 2 way thing. You r here to get entertained and entertain in return. No one is doing single guys a favour by meeting them. In most cases its the opposit coz Quality guys here are entertaining in most cases women way bellow their level of attraction "
That's a little up your own arose if you're entertaining below the level of your attraction what does that say about you..... the deal in finding a regular fb is attraction, compatibility and common ground.....not shagging for the sake of it.....who looks shallow now??????.... |
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" Quality guys here are entertaining in most cases women way bellow their level of attraction
Really? How have you come to that conclusion? And what do you class as bellow level attraction?
Just the way it is on fab. A huge Candy shop of men. Candies are treated cheap not because they r low quality but because there is too many to chose from. So be fussy as u wish. Just look at women's profiles its all rants and conditions and rules for men. Women in the 50's putting age restriction 18-30. Fat ugly women saying he must be very handsome and must be athletic. No face pic no reply ect lol "
and why can these ugly women, as you put it, act this way?
because your fellow males have the attitude any hole is a goal, so you worship these below average women as goddesses.
you cant blame those that stand on the pedastal, merely those that gave them a hand to climb up there |
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" Quality guys here are entertaining in most cases women way bellow their level of attraction
Really? How have you come to that conclusion? And what do you class as bellow level attraction?
Just the way it is on fab. A huge Candy shop of men. Candies are treated cheap not because they r low quality but because there is too many to chose from. So be fussy as u wish. Just look at women's profiles its all rants and conditions and rules for men. Women in the 50's putting age restriction 18-30. Fat ugly women saying he must be very handsome and must be athletic. No face pic no reply ect lol
and why can these ugly women, as you put it, act this way?
because your fellow males have the attitude any hole is a goal, so you worship these below average women as goddesses.
you cant blame those that stand on the pedastal, merely those that gave them a hand to climb up there"
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Not being shallow or up my arse. I treat others with respect and politness but the tone guys are spoken to and when they r nice they are taken as looking for a charity shagg as One has did above. You must wake them up and tell them the truth as it is. Most females here are after boosting their ego because of failure to do so in the dating scene |
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" Quality guys here are entertaining in most cases women way bellow their level of attraction
Really? How have you come to that conclusion? And what do you class as bellow level attraction?
Just the way it is on fab. A huge Candy shop of men. Candies are treated cheap not because they r low quality but because there is too many to chose from. So be fussy as u wish. Just look at women's profiles its all rants and conditions and rules for men. Women in the 50's putting age restriction 18-30. Fat ugly women saying he must be very handsome and must be athletic. No face pic no reply ect lol "
What a charmer you are! I'm probably one of the fat ugly women you so kindly described with a preference for tall fit younger men however, I chat to my potential meets for quite a while on here first to make sure they're interested in ME and not just out to shag anything that moves! I also have a social meet first and I'm very happy to say that every single gorgeous and sexy man I've met on here have been back for a second, third and fourth meet!
So if it's ok with you I'll continue to be as fussy as I wish and for the record I never treat any of my candies cheaply! |
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"Not being shallow or up my arse. I treat others with respect and politness but the tone guys are spoken to and when they r nice they are taken as looking for a charity shagg as One has did above. You must wake them up and tell them the truth as it is. Most females here are after boosting their ego because of failure to do so in the dating scene "
I take that back you're just deluded.... get over it.... we entertain single guys.. a few regularly... we are polite and respectful..... I have no ego to boost apart from putting arseholes in their place ..... |
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"We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well endowed, regular lover for my wife. How difficult can it be to find the right guy.We are not looking for quantity just one quality chap who won't let her down.Must be one out there somewhere.
I read your profile and it is clear what you want. Quality not quantity but must be well endowed. No meatheads and local. He exists somewhere im sure but where? I'm glad I'm here alone with no-one to tell me what is what and decide who I meet and who I don't. After all, you are the one who will be entertaining him and I understand your oh wants to make sure you are safe but there are limits. Good luck with your hunting
Hard to make sense out of it but sadly its true there lots of women whoss brains process in such unlogic way!!! Really!! You come to fab open an account spend so much effort and time in it and God knows how many other profiles u have in other websites... and you make yourself beleive that you'll be the one e.tertaining the guy you are seaking?!!! Its a 2 way thing. You r here to get entertained and entertain in return. No one is doing single guys a favour by meeting them. In most cases its the opposit coz Quality guys here are entertaining in most cases women way bellow their level of attraction "
After I wrote that I realised what I had put. I know its a two way street. I have met quality guys and as I'm inexperienced still should really watch what I say but I do know what I'd like in a guy
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"I can be a charmer when treated with same respect trust. You speak on a superior tone I face you with the ugly truth"
No not superior....like others confident in what I like and expect |
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over a year ago
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"Not being shallow or up my arse. I treat others with respect and politness but the tone guys are spoken to and when they r nice they are taken as looking for a charity shagg as One has did above. You must wake them up and tell them the truth as it is. Most females here are after boosting their ego because of failure to do so in the dating scene "
I don't think you're being shallow or up your own arse, and you are just saying what a lot of men on here think about us single women. Which is why we have to try so hard to find someone who doesn't think like you. |
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"Not being shallow or up my arse. I treat others with respect and politness but the tone guys are spoken to and when they r nice they are taken as looking for a charity shagg as One has did above. You must wake them up and tell them the truth as it is. Most females here are after boosting their ego because of failure to do so in the dating scene
I don't think you're being shallow or up your own arse, and you are just saying what a lot of men on here think about us single women. Which is why we have to try so hard to find someone who doesn't think like you."
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"Not being shallow or up my arse. I treat others with respect and politness but the tone guys are spoken to and when they r nice they are taken as looking for a charity shagg as One has did above. You must wake them up and tell them the truth as it is. Most females here are after boosting their ego because of failure to do so in the dating scene
I don't think you're being shallow or up your own arse, and you are just saying what a lot of men on here think about us single women. Which is why we have to try so hard to find someone who doesn't think like you."
LOL from that description u r looking for someone blind or stupid |
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over a year ago
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"Not being shallow or up my arse. I treat others with respect and politness but the tone guys are spoken to and when they r nice they are taken as looking for a charity shagg as One has did above. You must wake them up and tell them the truth as it is. Most females here are after boosting their ego because of failure to do so in the dating scene
I don't think you're being shallow or up your own arse, and you are just saying what a lot of men on here think about us single women. Which is why we have to try so hard to find someone who doesn't think like you.
LOL from that description u r looking for someone blind or stupid "
Not really. There are plenty of people on here who are happy to respect others choices about who they wish to meet. And they manage not to post derogatory posts all over the forums too.
Although I understand it is Catch 22 for you. You struggle to meet, so your attitude is that there is something wrong with the women on here, so you make it known that us women are all fat failures, and still find you struggle to meet.
It's a mystery! |
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"Not being shallow or up my arse. I treat others with respect and politness but the tone guys are spoken to and when they r nice they are taken as looking for a charity shagg as One has did above. You must wake them up and tell them the truth as it is. Most females here are after boosting their ego because of failure to do so in the dating scene
I don't think you're being shallow or up your own arse, and you are just saying what a lot of men on here think about us single women. Which is why we have to try so hard to find someone who doesn't think like you.
LOL from that description u r looking for someone blind or stupid "
. A definite arsehole who maybe has no luck with pleasing a lady....what do you guys think???? |
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"I get you're a real hit with the ladies both on and off this site!
Not being shallow or up my arse. I treat others with respect and politness but the tone guys are spoken to and when they r nice they are taken as looking for a charity shagg as One has did above. You must wake them up and tell them the truth as it is. Most females here are after boosting their ego because of failure to do so in the dating scene "
Nothing to do with looks or being an attraction to girls. Its my opinion that someone has to stand for the truth coz ppl tend be superficial and take advantage of every situation to boost themselves by talking down to others |
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Definite candidate for deleting ones profile and starting again! Or perhaps just deleting and moving on
"Not being shallow or up my arse. I treat others with respect and politness but the tone guys are spoken to and when they r nice they are taken as looking for a charity shagg as One has did above. You must wake them up and tell them the truth as it is. Most females here are after boosting their ego because of failure to do so in the dating scene
I don't think you're being shallow or up your own arse, and you are just saying what a lot of men on here think about us single women. Which is why we have to try so hard to find someone who doesn't think like you.
LOL from that description u r looking for someone blind or stupid . A definite arsehole who maybe has no luck with pleasing a lady....what do you guys think????"
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dont blame the player ,blame the game .now if anyone knows of a site where young very fit ladies out number old bald guys in the fifties let me know and ill go be a big fukin diva |
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"I get you're a real hit with the ladies both on and off this site!
Not being shallow or up my arse. I treat others with respect and politness but the tone guys are spoken to and when they r nice they are taken as looking for a charity shagg as One has did above. You must wake them up and tell them the truth as it is. Most females here are after boosting their ego because of failure to do so in the dating scene
Nothing to do with looks or being an attraction to girls. Its my opinion that someone has to stand for the truth coz ppl tend be superficial and take advantage of every situation to boost themselves by talking down to others"
Is this not the pot calling the kettle black.....you have an opinion about ugly opionated ppl.... but have you not admitted to lowering your standards for a fix and the whole crux of the discussion is a couple with standards that are looking for somebody suitable not just a will do for now?? |
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"Not being shallow or up my arse. I treat others with respect and politness but the tone guys are spoken to and when they r nice they are taken as looking for a charity shagg as One has did above. You must wake them up and tell them the truth as it is. Most females here are after boosting their ego because of failure to do so in the dating scene
I don't think you're being shallow or up your own arse, and you are just saying what a lot of men on here think about us single women. Which is why we have to try so hard to find someone who doesn't think like you.
LOL from that description u r looking for someone blind or stupid
Not really. There are plenty of people on here who are happy to respect others choices about who they wish to meet. And they manage not to post derogatory posts all over the forums too.
Although I understand it is Catch 22 for you. You struggle to meet, so your attitude is that there is something wrong with the women on here, so you make it known that us women are all fat failures, and still find you struggle to meet.
It's a mystery!"
The sexy lady that just spent 48 hours at mine is still chatting to me as I speak and my veris summarry is their for u to see that am not struggling to meet at all. I just find it offensive the way guys in general are treated in this place. As example in this thread when a guy is being nice he is looking for a charity shag, many think they r doing the guy a favour by meeting him (he is the one being entertained!!!) and all the rude way many females/cpls profiles are written
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"I have had this kind of a friendship with a cpl and I understand what u mean by reliability and all that. Yes u r not asking much. Wife is sexy and all but 9 weeks is not that long since u started your quest. be more patient and I am sure the right guy will show up. From a guys perspective I suggest to omit the condition of one liners in a first message r a no go. Single guys here find it difficult to get a reply and most first contacts are not replied due to the fact that attractive cpls and females dont get the time to reply and check the 100's of mails they get every day. so he has to contact 30 or 40 ppl every day before he gets a reply. Simply a guy can not write an assignement with every 1st contact or make much effort in it just to be wasted. That wd be like makung the effort for a full time job lol. If someone says hi how u doing or any classic intro. give them a chance a.d say hi back and see what they got in the brain and personity. He wd make the effort after that if u do make the effort to reply. gd luck
Very very good point!! You have changed my mind about one line messages. "
So, am i allowed to send you one now? |
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I don't see anything about a charity shag in the thread? A mention was made about a pity fuck but that was in relation to one line messages and the fact they get men no where.
"Not being shallow or up my arse. I treat others with respect and politness but the tone guys are spoken to and when they r nice they are taken as looking for a charity shagg as One has did above. You must wake them up and tell them the truth as it is. Most females here are after boosting their ego because of failure to do so in the dating scene
I don't think you're being shallow or up your own arse, and you are just saying what a lot of men on here think about us single women. Which is why we have to try so hard to find someone who doesn't think like you.
LOL from that description u r looking for someone blind or stupid
Not really. There are plenty of people on here who are happy to respect others choices about who they wish to meet. And they manage not to post derogatory posts all over the forums too.
Although I understand it is Catch 22 for you. You struggle to meet, so your attitude is that there is something wrong with the women on here, so you make it known that us women are all fat failures, and still find you struggle to meet.
It's a mystery!
The sexy lady that just spent 48 hours at mine is still chatting to me as I speak and my veris summarry is their for u to see that am not struggling to meet at all. I just find it offensive the way guys in general are treated in this place. As example in this thread when a guy is being nice he is looking for a charity shag, many think they r doing the guy a favour by meeting him (he is the one being entertained!!!) and all the rude way many females/cpls profiles are written
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I am starting a similar message as a single guy and I am sure I would get all these lovely cuddly suggestions and encouragements...
I just woke up I must have been dreaming |
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"I don't see anything about a charity shag in the thread? A mention was made about a pity fuck but that was in relation to one line messages and the fact they get men no where.
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That was your post and you used the expression "It isnt a charity here" "Sympathy fuck" and the whole post is exactly a good example of the kinda attitude am talking about |
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"I don't see anything about a charity shag in the thread? A mention was made about a pity fuck but that was in relation to one line messages and the fact they get men no where.
That was your post and you used the expression "It isnt a charity here" "Sympathy fuck" and the whole post is exactly a good example of the kinda attitude am talking about"
and im afraid some of your vitriolic posts are why a lot of couples and women have such a problem with some of the blokes on here.
a sense of entitlement and a very aggressive nature. |
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"I don't see anything about a charity shag in the thread? A mention was made about a pity fuck but that was in relation to one line messages and the fact they get men no where.
That was your post and you used the expression "It isnt a charity here" "Sympathy fuck" and the whole post is exactly a good example of the kinda attitude am talking about"
You have a unique ability of taking things right out of context! I'd call it a day on this one, you're doing yourself no favours and I'm certainly not here to argue with a stranger.
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"I don't see anything about a charity shag in the thread? A mention was made about a pity fuck but that was in relation to one line messages and the fact they get men no where.
That was your post and you used the expression "It isnt a charity here" "Sympathy fuck" and the whole post is exactly a good example of the kinda attitude am talking about
and im afraid some of your vitriolic posts are why a lot of couples and women have such a problem with some of the blokes on here.
a sense of entitlement and a very aggressive nature."
In all my verifications. Ppl mention how a gentelman and polite I am. I can be agreesive though with someone who is his own arse and think they r doing me a favour when I entertain them or even just by replying to my one liner message |
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"I don't see anything about a charity shag in the thread? A mention was made about a pity fuck but that was in relation to one line messages and the fact they get men no where.
That was your post and you used the expression "It isnt a charity here" "Sympathy fuck" and the whole post is exactly a good example of the kinda attitude am talking about
and im afraid some of your vitriolic posts are why a lot of couples and women have such a problem with some of the blokes on here.
a sense of entitlement and a very aggressive nature.
In all my verifications. Ppl mention how a gentelman and polite I am. I can be agreesive though with someone who is his own arse and think they r doing me a favour when I entertain them or even just by replying to my one liner message"
but no one on this thread has said they are doing you a favour, or indeed any other single man.
i have absolutely no doubt you are a gentleman with your meets, and indeed in the way you carry yourself in the lead up to such, just the way your posts are coming across on this subject are less than gentlemanly.
we, as a couple, have never asked anyone to jump through hoops in order to get meets
i have said it before and i will say it again, many single men create hoops for themselves to jump through by not ready a profile properly and consisely |
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we, as a couple, have never asked anyone to jump through hoops in order to get meets
So I did all that hurdle practice for nothing? "
you did that becuse you likethe feeling of your balls rubbing the top of the hurdle on the way over, and you know it. |
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"I don't see anything about a charity shag in the thread? A mention was made about a pity fuck but that was in relation to one line messages and the fact they get men no where.
That was your post and you used the expression "It isnt a charity here" "Sympathy fuck" and the whole post is exactly a good example of the kinda attitude am talking about
and im afraid some of your vitriolic posts are why a lot of couples and women have such a problem with some of the blokes on here.
a sense of entitlement and a very aggressive nature.
In all my verifications. Ppl mention how a gentelman and polite I am. I can be agreesive though with someone who is his own arse and think they r doing me a favour when I entertain them or even just by replying to my one liner message
but no one on this thread has said they are doing you a favour, or indeed any other single man.
i have absolutely no doubt you are a gentleman with your meets, and indeed in the way you carry yourself in the lead up to such, just the way your posts are coming across on this subject are less than gentlemanly.
we, as a couple, have never asked anyone to jump through hoops in order to get meets
i have said it before and i will say it again, many single men create hoops for themselves to jump through by not ready a profile properly and consisely"
I am sure most single guy see and feel what I mean. May be u cant because u only see things from your perspective and as it suits your needs. You have advantages as a cpl and I cant blame you for taking them to reach your own objectives. What I am trying to say here is that it cost nothing to be conciderate and put yourself on someonelses shoes before you make your judgements about them based on assemptions. Treat others the way u want to be treated. Someones who sends a simple classic introduction is doing nothing wrong and not necessarily means he didnt read your profile and even if he didnt read your profile that doesnt mean he cant be a good catch. Its most likely because he doesnt havent the time to read every profile to the end which is very likely going to be the same boring rant and unrealistic rules and then write an assignment for every contact he makes just for 1% chance that its going to be read and replied to. Guys are not joing me in this debate coz they dont want to make it harder for themselves by another rant. The more they rant the less attractive they r. Me in the other hand I dont give a shit coz cab is not my life and I say the truth as I see even if others will hate me for that
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"We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well endowed, regular lover for my wife. How difficult can it be to find the right guy.We are not looking for quantity just one quality chap who won't let her down.Must be one out there somewhere.
I read your profile and it is clear what you want. Quality not quantity but must be well endowed. No meatheads and local. He exists somewhere im sure but where? I'm glad I'm here alone with no-one to tell me what is what and decide who I meet and who I don't. After all, you are the one who will be entertaining him and I understand your oh wants to make sure you are safe but there are limits. Good luck with your hunting
Hard to make sense out of it but sadly its true there lots of women whoss brains process in such unlogic way!!! Really!! You come to fab open an account spend so much effort and time in it and God knows how many other profiles u have in other websites... and you make yourself beleive that you'll be the one e.tertaining the guy you are seaking?!!! Its a 2 way thing. You r here to get entertained and entertain in return. No one is doing single guys a favour by meeting them. In most cases its the opposit coz Quality guys here are entertaining in most cases women way bellow their level of attraction
That's a little up your own arose if you're entertaining below the level of your attraction what does that say about you..... the deal in finding a regular fb is attraction, compatibility and common ground.....not shagging for the sake of it.....who looks shallow now??????...."
In fairness he's not saying he is playing below his standard and though perhaps not well or eloquently made he has some valid points. The statistics ie women to men are such that women have their pick. The number of men who are, as has been so delicately described, "any holes a goal ' is very high it's not hard to do the rudimentary maths. The fact is that on here women can afford to be picky and will still get laid. Men have to look at each opportunity and decide whether it's for them or not and we all know what a lot of men think with. |
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Once I came across a cpls profile and I was impressed by the smart sensible aproach they put in their profile. Saying please dont waste your eforts in sending us a big introduction. If u wink us we will 100% go and check your profile. If we like we will message u. Very smart and avoid lots of efforts wasted for both. They keep their mail box under control at the same time they have no need to put unrealistic crude and rude rules in their profile |
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"We are still looking for a young,slim, reliable well
you are the one who will be entertaining him and I understand your oh wants to make sure you are safe but there are limits. Good luck with your hunting
Hard to make sense out of it but sadly its true there lots of women whoss brains process in such unlogic way!!! Really!! You come to fab open an account spend so much effort and time in it and God knows how many other profiles u have in other websites... and you make yourself beleive that you'll be the one e.tertaining the guy you are seaking?!!! Its a 2 way thing. You r here to get entertained and entertain in return. No one is doing single guys a favour by meeting them. In most cases its the opposit coz Quality guys here are entertaining in most cases women way bellow their level of attraction
That's a little up your own arose if you're entertaining below the level of your attraction what does that say about you..... the deal in finding a regular fb is attraction, compatibility and common ground.....not shagging for the sake of it.....who looks shallow now??????....
In fairness he's not saying he is playing below his standard and though perhaps not well or eloquently made he has some valid points. The statistics ie women to men are such that women have their pick. The number of men who are, as has been so delicately described, "any holes a goal ' is very high it's not hard to do the rudimentary maths. The fact is that on here women can afford to be picky and will still get laid. Men have to look at each opportunity and decide whether it's for them or not and we all know what a lot of men think with. "
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