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Two str8 blokes that want to try bi.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been chatting to a bloke on here that is str8. Started as just chat on chat rooms about other people on here and activities etc. but it's ended up with the subjection we meet and try wank and poss bj. The problem in my mind is if we meet and I don't enjoy it will I be filled with guilt the I've been with a bloke. Or if I enjoy it do I then call myself gay. No affence to gay people but I don't see myself as gay. I just want to see what it is like. |
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"I've been chatting to a bloke on here that is str8. Started as just chat on chat rooms about other people on here and activities etc. but it's ended up with the subjection we meet and try wank and poss bj. The problem in my mind is if we meet and I don't enjoy it will I be filled with guilt the I've been with a bloke. Or if I enjoy it do I then call myself gay. No affence to gay people but I don't see myself as gay. I just want to see what it is like."
Nah your not gay, just Het exible  |
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"I've been chatting to a bloke on here that is str8. Started as just chat on chat rooms about other people on here and activities etc. but it's ended up with the subjection we meet and try wank and poss bj. The problem in my mind is if we meet and I don't enjoy it will I be filled with guilt the I've been with a bloke. Or if I enjoy it do I then call myself gay. No affence to gay people but I don't see myself as gay. I just want to see what it is like."
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"I've been chatting to a bloke on here that is str8. Started as just chat on chat rooms about other people on here and activities etc. but it's ended up with the subjection we meet and try wank and poss bj. The problem in my mind is if we meet and I don't enjoy it will I be filled with guilt the I've been with a bloke. Or if I enjoy it do I then call myself gay. No affence to gay people but I don't see myself as gay. I just want to see what it is like."
no harm in trying it.what do you have to loose.and at the end of the dayif it wasnt for you,you just move on.if you liked it wayyyyyy hayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy |
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Anth, did you want to ask a question, ask for other people's opinions, want us to reassure you, or something else... ?
Don't quite get the point of your post, apart from to say that you are a tad concerned over the sexual labelling which should be applied to two straight blokes who may play together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone gives you an opportunity which you are interested in or curious about, take it. Forget labels. You learn from mistakes but can end up regretting missed opportunity for a long time |
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"really is this a joke  "
You've been here long enough to know sadly it isn't. As a straight woman there is no way on God's earth would I be remotely interested in meeting another woman for anything sexual, yet on here...  |
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"Anth, did you want to ask a question, ask for other people's opinions, want us to reassure you, or something else... ?
Don't quite get the point of your post, apart from to say that you are a tad concerned over the sexual labelling which should be applied to two straight blokes who may play together."
No matter what parallel universe you live in two men sucking each other off, who knows, perhaps burying themselves balls deep in each other...ain't...straight! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been chatting to a bloke on here that is str8. Started as just chat on chat rooms about other people on here and activities etc. but it's ended up with the subjection we meet and try wank and poss bj. The problem in my mind is if we meet and I don't enjoy it will I be filled with guilt the I've been with a bloke. Or if I enjoy it do I then call myself gay. No affence to gay people
but I don't see myself as gay. I just want to see what it is like."
i dont think that would make you gay. bi perhaps? but what the heck if it did!!
i have the same quandry to be honest.
consider myself straighter than straight but have found over the last few years of enjoying wanking in cam chat rooms that most of the _iewers have been guys.
have had many 1-2-1 cam wanks and find myself facinated with the idea of same room wank and possibly wanking another guy off. no more than that but lets be honest, i know that things could build from there and lead to who knows what.
i am happily married and have as much sex with the good lady as a guy my age could ever hope for but i now have three open ended offers to meet up with other bi curious guys for mutual fun, watch some porn have a wank and maybe help eachother cum.
i changed my profile to reas bi curious a while back.
i guess it scares me a bit but i am equally hooked on the idea and want to try it if i can feel sure i am safe.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You are under that big blue sky fir a limited and ever dwindling number of days. Don't waste them. If you wanna do it, do it. If you are worried about labels, do it with someone you will never have to see/meet again if you din't like it(ie not your neighbour or brother in law!). If you are worried about 'crossing a line' well sorry, your mund has already done that!!!! Too late!!! A celibate gay person is still gay. Same with straight. I'm sure you have ither secrets in your life you plan to take to the grave. Add this one to the list if you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why put yourself on a guilt trip ? If you try some bi fun and decide it's not for you then it's simply a case of nothing ventured,nothing gained.
If you try and enjoy it that's when your real dilemma starts. Do you actively start seeking males? or like most pretend to be straight and meet males on the quiet ?
Depends what type of person you are and your circumstances in life but good luck with whatever you decide. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why would you feel guilty? I've got straight on my profile although I had a ffm meet about a year ago and had a bit of a play with the female. I enjoyed as they were a lovely couple. I was curious at the time, tried it and decided that I didn't really want to try again. I don't feel guilty though, why should I? Who knows, maybe the urge might pop up again one day. Try it and see. If you don't like, put it down to experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If 2 guys play with each other your not straight.your eva bi or gay END OF.If you dont want the title dont do the deed.
Not if you decide you don't like it and don't ever want to do it again. "
Isnt that what god said to adam...before eve tempted him with the apple, The OP is obviously, more
ADAM and STEVE x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If 2 guys play with each other your not straight.your eva bi or gay END OF.If you dont want the title dont do the deed. "
where the hell does gay come into it if they like women?? hahaha
they curious and if like it they be bisexual..dohhhhh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to explore the Kinsey scale. In fact most of my meets are with other married men.
The sex is great, but nobody labels themselves.
There are loads of men who have had sex with other men. Some do it again, some just put it down to experience.
Whatever you decide is up to you. I know I love cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If 2 guys play with each other your not straight.your eva bi or gay END OF.If you dont want the title dont do the deed.
where the hell does gay come into it if they like women?? hahaha
they curious and if like it they be bisexual..dohhhhh"
im making a valid point.its a forum after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If 2 guys play with each other your not straight.your eva bi or gay END OF.If you dont want the title dont do the deed.
Not if you decide you don't like it and don't ever want to do it again
Youve still gone with another guy so donr matter. "
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"If 2 guys play with each other your not straight.your eva bi or gay END OF.If you dont want the title dont do the deed.
where the hell does gay come into it if they like women?? hahaha
they curious and if like it they be bisexual..dohhhhh
im making a valid point.its a forum after all."
Wouldn't say its valid. Just because you try something once doesn't make them bi/gay. I've tried plenty of things once, didn't mean I liked it and I've not tried it since. |
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So say you've been bought up as a vegetarian.. But one day curioisity gets the better of you and you try a bacon butty. You hate it and never eat another piece of meat, are you no longer a vegetarian? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If 2 guys play with each other your not straight.your eva bi or gay END OF.If you dont want the title dont do the deed.
where the hell does gay come into it if they like women?? hahaha
they curious and if like it they be bisexual..dohhhhh
im making a valid point.its a forum after all.
Wouldn't say its valid. Just because you try something once doesn't make them bi/gay. I've tried plenty of things once, didn't mean I liked it and I've not tried it since. "
ive got my _iews you have yours.its a free world after all.most guys have a prob calling themselves bi.there the ones with a problem not me.dont make them any less of a man
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Straight blokes do not engage in sexual activity with other men. They're either bi or gay."
thank god i aint the only one being made out to be the bad guy on here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been chatting to a bloke on here that is str8. Started as just chat on chat rooms about other people on here and activities etc. but it's ended up with the subjection we meet and try wank and poss bj. The problem in my mind is if we meet and I don't enjoy it will I be filled with guilt the I've been with a bloke. Or if I enjoy it do I then call myself gay. No affence to gay people but I don't see myself as gay. I just want to see what it is like."
This is the funniest thing I've read in ages. 
You'd better watch out OP, if you're thinking of sucking another mans cock.....you're gonna catch 'the gay'!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If 2 guys play with each other your not straight.your eva bi or gay END OF.If you dont want the title dont do the deed.
where the hell does gay come into it if they like women?? hahaha
they curious and if like it they be bisexual..dohhhhh
im making a valid point.its a forum after all.
Wouldn't say its valid. Just because you try something once doesn't make them bi/gay. I've tried plenty of things once, didn't mean I liked it and I've not tried it since.
ive got my _iews you have yours.its a free world after all.most guys have a prob calling themselves bi.there the ones with a problem not me.dont make them any less of a man
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it isnt valid though..FACT a gay guy only goes with guys!!!
so they would be classed as curious, and if go with a guy then Bisexual..as they both like women!
do u not know what GAY means hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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the comments on that straight blokes become gay if they they go with another guy...so funny!!!
if someone likes women and men they aint gay..so i dont know where that comes into it pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If 2 guys play with each other your not straight.your eva bi or gay END OF.If you dont want the title dont do the deed.
where the hell does gay come into it if they like women?? hahaha
they curious and if like it they be bisexual..dohhhhh
im making a valid point.its a forum after all.
Wouldn't say its valid. Just because you try something once doesn't make them bi/gay. I've tried plenty of things once, didn't mean I liked it and I've not tried it since.
ive got my _iews you have yours.its a free world after all.most guys have a prob calling themselves bi.there the ones with a problem not me.dont make them any less of a man
it isnt valid though..FACT a gay guy only goes with guys!!!
so they would be classed as curious, and if go with a guy then Bisexual..as they both like women!
do u not know what GAY means hahaha"
wot i do know is a guy that goes with another guy.no matter wot the scenerio is not straight.a straight guy does not think about going with another guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's very possible to enjoy same sex fun without the emotional connection or even a particular desire for the person.
Trying it doesn't make you gay or even bi. Wanting to then keep doing it would suggest you are bisexual. It's just a convenient label for others.
The one thing I would make you aware of is that one or both of you will want to leave shortly after orgasm. As the lust diminishes space will be wanted in order to process. Just don't take it personally.
Usually I find sex with another guy much more direct, more aggressive and orgasm focused. |
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"If 2 guys play with each other your not straight.your eva bi or gay END OF.If you dont want the title dont do the deed.
where the hell does gay come into it if they like women?? hahaha
they curious and if like it they be bisexual..dohhhhh
im making a valid point.its a forum after all.
Wouldn't say its valid. Just because you try something once doesn't make them bi/gay. I've tried plenty of things once, didn't mean I liked it and I've not tried it since.
ive got my _iews you have yours.its a free world after all.most guys have a prob calling themselves bi.there the ones with a problem not me.dont make them any less of a man
it isnt valid though..FACT a gay guy only goes with guys!!!
so they would be classed as curious, and if go with a guy then Bisexual..as they both like women!
do u not know what GAY means hahaha
wot i do know is a guy that goes with another guy.no matter wot the scenerio is not straight.a straight guy does not think about going with another guy."
yes which is true, but u said about being gay, which the guy asking likes women and thinking of trying with a guy...so he wouldnt be gay would he!! which u said earlier. post is about guys who like women but want try a guy. so GAY doesnt come into it if like both sexes really lol |
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"the comments on that straight blokes become gay if they they go with another guy...so funny!!!
if someone likes women and men they aint gay..so i dont know where that comes into it pmsl"
seems your stirring the big spoon here.
Read it if a guy goes with guys only.hes gay.if a guy gos with both men & women hes bi.but one things for sure.he aint straight |
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"If 2 guys play with each other your not straight.your eva bi or gay END OF.If you dont want the title dont do the deed.
where the hell does gay come into it if they like women?? hahaha
they curious and if like it they be bisexual..dohhhhh
im making a valid point.its a forum after all.
Wouldn't say its valid. Just because you try something once doesn't make them bi/gay. I've tried plenty of things once, didn't mean I liked it and I've not tried it since.
ive got my _iews you have yours.its a free world after all.most guys have a prob calling themselves bi.there the ones with a problem not me.dont make them any less of a man
it isnt valid though..FACT a gay guy only goes with guys!!!
so they would be classed as curious, and if go with a guy then Bisexual..as they both like women!
do u not know what GAY means hahaha"
That can't be right because you can bugger Arsenal's first 11 but if you also take on the women team you can say you're straighter than a roman road! |
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"the comments on that straight blokes become gay if they they go with another guy...so funny!!!
if someone likes women and men they aint gay..so i dont know where that comes into it pmsl
seems your stirring the big spoon here.
Read it if a guy goes with guys only.hes gay.if a guy gos with both men & women hes bi.but one things for sure.he aint straight"
not stirring anything, when its there in black and white what u said!
i commented that GAY doesnt come into it if a guy likes women but wants try with a guy. thats fact!
i know what gay is...im gay! just makes me laugh how guy always add the gay label to a guy whos bisexual or to guy who wants try with a man whos straight.
like i said gay has nothing do with it when op is straight and likes women.
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"really is this a joke
You've been here long enough to know sadly it isn't. As a straight woman there is no way on God's earth would I be remotely interested in meeting another woman for anything sexual, yet on here... "
Oh don't be so miserable, come here and pucker up  |
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"really is this a joke
You've been here long enough to know sadly it isn't. As a straight woman there is no way on God's earth would I be remotely interested in meeting another woman for anything sexual, yet on here...
Oh don't be so miserable, come here and pucker up "
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"the comments on that straight blokes become gay if they they go with another guy...so funny!!!
if someone likes women and men they aint gay..so i dont know where that comes into it pmsl
seems your stirring the big spoon here.
Read it if a guy goes with guys only.hes gay.if a guy gos with both men & women hes bi.but one things for sure.he aint straight
not stirring anything, when its there in black and white what u said!
i commented that GAY doesnt come into it if a guy likes women but wants try with a guy. thats fact!
i know what gay is...im gay! just makes me laugh how guy always add the gay label to a guy whos bisexual or to guy who wants try with a man whos straight.
like i said gay has nothing do with it when op is straight and likes women.
So wot your saying is away from this thread if a guy only goes with guys he aint gay? Because i allways thought that was the case.i was using it as a example.your eva bi or straight if you go with a man.
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"the comments on that straight blokes become gay if they they go with another guy...so funny!!!
if someone likes women and men they aint gay..so i dont know where that comes into it pmsl
seems your stirring the big spoon here.
Read it if a guy goes with guys only.hes gay.if a guy gos with both men & women hes bi.but one things for sure.he aint straight
not stirring anything, when its there in black and white what u said!
i commented that GAY doesnt come into it if a guy likes women but wants try with a guy. thats fact!
i know what gay is...im gay! just makes me laugh how guy always add the gay label to a guy whos bisexual or to guy who wants try with a man whos straight.
like i said gay has nothing do with it when op is straight and likes women.
So wot your saying is away from this thread if a guy only goes with guys he aint gay? Because i allways thought that was the case.i was using it as a example.your eva bi or straight if you go with a man.
Bi or gay might i add lmao
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"the comments on that straight blokes become gay if they they go with another guy...so funny!!!
if someone likes women and men they aint gay..so i dont know where that comes into it pmsl
seems your stirring the big spoon here.
Read it if a guy goes with guys only.hes gay.if a guy gos with both men & women hes bi.but one things for sure.he aint straight
not stirring anything, when its there in black and white what u said!
i commented that GAY doesnt come into it if a guy likes women but wants try with a guy. thats fact!
i know what gay is...im gay! just makes me laugh how guy always add the gay label to a guy whos bisexual or to guy who wants try with a man whos straight.
like i said gay has nothing do with it when op is straight and likes women.
So wot your saying is away from this thread if a guy only goes with guys he aint gay? Because i allways thought that was the case.i was using it as a example.your eva bi or straight if you go with a man.
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i replied to your words...twist it how u may...i know what i said and was after your gay comment and being gay doesnt apply to the op |
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I'm not saying if you do it and go back for more then your not bi because I would say in that case you are.
I'm saying if the guy hasn't tried it get but gives it a bash once out of curiosity and decides it's not for him then that doesn't make him bi. So no point trying to label yourself till after you've had a go and decided if it's for you or not. |
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"the comments on that straight blokes become gay if they they go with another guy...so funny!!!
if someone likes women and men they aint gay..so i dont know where that comes into it pmsl
seems your stirring the big spoon here.
Read it if a guy goes with guys only.hes gay.if a guy gos with both men & women hes bi.but one things for sure.he aint straight
not stirring anything, when its there in black and white what u said!
i commented that GAY doesnt come into it if a guy likes women but wants try with a guy. thats fact!
i know what gay is...im gay! just makes me laugh how guy always add the gay label to a guy whos bisexual or to guy who wants try with a man whos straight.
like i said gay has nothing do with it when op is straight and likes women.
So wot your saying is away from this thread if a guy only goes with guys he aint gay? Because i allways thought that was the case.i was using it as a example.your eva bi or straight if you go with a man.
Bi or gay might i add lmao
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funny how u say "Away from this thread" suddenly..and your saying that to me..who is gay!! i think i know about being gay hence why commented in first place hahahaha |
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"I'm not saying if you do it and go back for more then your not bi because I would say in that case you are.
I'm saying if the guy hasn't tried it get but gives it a bash once out of curiosity and decides it's not for him then that doesn't make him bi. So no point trying to label yourself till after you've had a go and decided if it's for you or not. "
I agree with this...hence why earlier i said wouldnt be gay |
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