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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am fed up of this term! And how does this have anything to do with swinging??
I would like respect and friendship from the people that I meet through swinging so yes there are strings attached.
Grrrrr!! Ok hot bath to calm down now.
Sorry about the rant.
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To me nsa means that we don't expect an obligated relationship to come out of our meetings and we hope the people we meet feel the same.
Of course we treat people with respect, friendliness and consideration ......we just don't expect to be involved in their lives at anything other than a fairly superficial level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im doing this behind someone's back, front and any other position. But why cant I have friendship and respect too?"
Erm is that not called "dating"? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im doing this behind someone's back, front and any other position. But why cant I have friendship and respect too?
Erm is that not called "dating"? Lol"
No. Dating is with a _iew to wanting more such as romance and lo've. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me NSA is meeting someone with fun and both of us know it's just sex, that's it, not looking for commitment or a relationship etc.
That's not to say that I don't respect them because of course I do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im doing this behind someone's back, front and any other position. But why cant I have friendship and respect too?
Erm is that not called "dating"? Lol"
Did I mention dating? No I did not but on that subject would you date someone you didn't like or respect? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am fed up of this term! And how does this have anything to do with swinging??
I would like respect and friendship from the people that I meet through swinging so yes there are strings attached.
Grrrrr!! Ok hot bath to calm down now.
Sorry about the rant.
B x"
So now you've had your little tantrum, maybe you can explain what you mean "yes there are strings attached" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am fed up of this term! And how does this have anything to do with swinging??
I would like respect and friendship from the people that I meet through swinging so yes there are strings attached.
Grrrrr!! Ok hot bath to calm down now.
Sorry about the rant.
B x"
To me NSA means I'm not looking for a relationship from my meets. If I thought someone didn't or wasn't going to respect me, then I wouldn't meet them. Why would I? But I don't think that wanting friendship and respect from people I meet on Fab necessarily means there are strings attached. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My post was out of frustration, yes I know I'm doing what I do behind my partners back and yes NSA can mean respect still. I am just increasingly fed up of getting messages from men in a position where they offer the information that they do not have sex with their wife or partner anymore and are looking for a regular FB. Then go on to say that they are not really into swinging that much and just want a regular F@#k.
Surely an escort would be a better option?? Oh.... That costs money doesn't it?!
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"My post was out of frustration, yes I know I'm doing what I do behind my partners back and yes NSA can mean respect still. I am just increasingly fed up of getting messages from men in a position where they offer the information that they do not have sex with their wife or partner anymore and are looking for a regular FB. Then go on to say that they are not really into swinging that much and just want a regular F@#k.
Surely an escort would be a better option?? Oh.... That costs money doesn't it?!
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You want what you want, they want what they want and if the 2 don't match up then surely you just move on to others that want what you want? 
And why would an Escort be a better option if that is not what they want?  |
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"My post was out of frustration, yes I know I'm doing what I do behind my partners back and yes NSA can mean respect still. I am just increasingly fed up of getting messages from men in a position where they offer the information that they do not have sex with their wife or partner anymore and are looking for a regular FB. Then go on to say that they are not really into swinging that much and just want a regular F@#k.
Surely an escort would be a better option?? Oh.... That costs money doesn't it?!
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Nope! I'm confused now. You want respect with strings attached but if a guy says he wants a regular fb its wrong. You aren't in a position to offer any more than that yourself are you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My post was out of frustration, yes I know I'm doing what I do behind my partners back and yes NSA can mean respect still. I am just increasingly fed up of getting messages from men in a position where they offer the information that they do not have sex with their wife or partner anymore and are looking for a regular FB. Then go on to say that they are not really into swinging that much and just want a regular F@#k.
Surely an escort would be a better option?? Oh.... That costs money doesn't it?!
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But you are in exactly the same position. Having sex behind husbands back isnt swinging either - so the escort option is always availavle for you too.
I doubt many men want friendship with a woman playing away - whats the point ? and yes such a situation can lead to lack of respect too. I would imagine most men reading your profile, circumstances and the fact that you are constantly horny would see you ( whether rightly or wrongly ) as a quick easy shag and the strings attached are on you to your husband. Maybe tone down the anger in the profile to appear more friendly ?
I dont play with married or attached,not so much from a moral high ground but because its a nightmare to arrange meets etc |
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"My post was out of frustration, yes I know I'm doing what I do behind my partners back and yes NSA can mean respect still. I am just increasingly fed up of getting messages from men in a position where they offer the information that they do not have sex with their wife or partner anymore and are looking for a regular FB. Then go on to say that they are not really into swinging that much and just want a regular F@#k.
Surely an escort would be a better option?? Oh.... That costs money doesn't it?!
But you are in exactly the same position. Having sex behind husbands back isnt swinging either - so the escort option is always availavle for you too.
I doubt many men want friendship with a woman playing away - whats the point ? and yes such a situation can lead to lack of respect too. I would imagine most men reading your profile, circumstances and the fact that you are constantly horny would see you ( whether rightly or wrongly ) as a quick easy shag and the strings attached are on you to your husband. Maybe tone down the anger in the profile to appear more friendly ?
I dont play with married or attached,not so much from a moral high ground but because its a nightmare to arrange meets etc "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me nsa means that we don't expect an obligated relationship to come out of our meetings and we hope the people we meet feel the same.
Of course we treat people with respect, friendliness and consideration ......we just don't expect to be involved in their lives at anything other than a fairly superficial level."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm confused... As surely if your married your just looking for sex too... And don't see how someone being honest with you about they are playing away and just looking for extra fun is any different from what the op is after..
Maybe I'm just having a thick day.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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NSA = no strings attached = no commitment
Where does it say anything about respect or lack of it?
FWB = friend with benefits = a friend you can share intimate moments with
Fuck Buddy someone you meet for intimate liaisons and not much else.
I don't really see why you would not respect anyone you meet whatever the circumstances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me NSA is meeting someone with fun and both of us know it's just sex, that's it, not looking for commitment or a relationship etc.
That's not to say that I don't respect them because of course I do."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So, guys who are cheating on their partners are not swingers... but you, who are cheating on your husband, are?
How on earth did you come to that hypocritical illogical conclusion?
Why don't you worry less about getting respect from random people on the internet and more about respecting your own husband. |
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"To me nsa means that we don't expect an obligated relationship to come out of our meetings and we hope the people we meet feel the same.
Of course we treat people with respect, friendliness and consideration ......we just don't expect to be involved in their lives at anything other than a fairly superficial level."
That's how I see it too. I'm not going to invite someone who doesn't like or respect me into my home, I'm just not interested in the minutiae of their lives or want to involve them in mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im doing this behind someone's back, front and any other position. But why cant I have friendship and respect too?"
There are plenty of people. Out there that swing and are friends we have married joint friends that are cheating or swinging And also have our own friends . That are married or cheating etc
We have friends where just the guy talks to me or Paula and vice versa
Ps Paula was an alibi for our single female friend Tuesday night lol
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"My post was out of frustration, yes I know I'm doing what I do behind my partners back and yes NSA can mean respect still. I am just increasingly fed up of getting messages from men in a position where they offer the information that they do not have sex with their wife or partner anymore and are looking for a regular FB. Then go on to say that they are not really into swinging that much and just want a regular F@#k.
Surely an escort would be a better option?? Oh.... That costs money doesn't it?!
But you are in exactly the same position. Having sex behind husbands back isnt swinging either - so the escort option is always availavle for you too.
I doubt many men want friendship with a woman playing away - whats the point ? and yes such a situation can lead to lack of respect too. I would imagine most men reading your profile, circumstances and the fact that you are constantly horny would see you ( whether rightly or wrongly ) as a quick easy shag and the strings attached are on you to your husband. Maybe tone down the anger in the profile to appear more friendly ?
I dont play with married or attached,not so much from a moral high ground but because its a nightmare to arrange meets etc "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't nsa involve respect and friendship? "
Because when a friendship develops, strings become attached, no strings, means no attachment, except for the time you are together |
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