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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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yes, you have the wrong end of the stick.
if you can gain no enjoyment from sexual contact, and it is all about fucking someone, then you lack the creativity we would need from a single male playmate.
we have had an mmmf before now, with no penetrative sex, and both other parties fully enjoyed themselves |
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?"
No it isn't you .
But it's different strokes for different folks.
We can't see the point of mmf with no penetration ., but other scenarios can be just as good like ffm or ffmm . |
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"My very best meets have been ones where I've never even got my bits and bobs out, so all is possible  "
I like CFNM so don't even get undressed sometimes. I seldom have penetrative sex with meets but we all enjoy the encounter. We all like different things.  |
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I am reminded of a time many years ago when I was seeing a girl while I was at uni. She lived with her parents but they were away one weekend and she invited me over to stay. She was a good, well quite naughty, Catholic girl and I knew from the start that there wouldn't be any penetration but we did slowly get naked. We explored each other kissed cuddled licked sucked for hours. We both came lots. It was a simply magical night that I will never forget and there have been many times I would have wished to be back there doing exactly what we did.
I know we're all grown up now and we do more grown up things but I think sometimes we lose sight of the sheer beauty and pleasure there is to be had simply from being with someone.
So in answer to the OP I'm sure it's not just you but for some of us it's not the be all end all. |
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?"
Some couples choose to soft play...some of our horniest meets have been soft with no penetration of each others partners...if people don't play the way you want to, establish that before you meet then you can choose whether or not to go ahead and meet there'll be no getting all hot to be disappointed now will there?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?"
If told in advance then just walk away if not your thing ( it certainly wouldnt be mine !) .... If told when you get there I would be pretty pissed off ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?"
As others have said, everyone has different preferences. I (fem) won't have penetrative sex with another bloke, because it doesn't do anything for me but we've had a few experiences with single blokes joining us and they definitely have not gone home all 'hot for nothing' they have still cum & been satisfied. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?"
It depends when they tell you, if you looked like the photos they had previously seen and if there was attraction on meeting it's hard to comment without more information. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the original post is getting lost here ....
He said mmf !
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havent seen anyone lose sight of the OP though.
most of them have said when some arent interested in penetrative sex with other men
whether that takes shape in an mfmf/mmf/mmmm or whatever, as i said in our first post, you can ask either of the guys we met, and they both left happy without having full sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the original post is getting lost here ....
He said mmf !
What...so penetration is compulsory for those meets now is it?"
Not at all , but soft swap with couples is not an mmf .
If a guy is invited to join a couple for fun , the general concensus would be for him to fuck her , and if not it would be difficult to see what he is going to get out of the meet.
However , I accept that it's not everyones bag and some couples have enjoyed non penetrative mmf and some single guys would no doubt be happy with it . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the original post is getting lost here ....
He said mmf !
What...so penetration is compulsory for those meets now is it?
Not at all , but soft swap with couples is not an mmf .
If a guy is invited to join a couple for fun , the general concensus would be for him to fuck her , and if not it would be difficult to see what he is going to get out of the meet.
However , I accept that it's not everyones bag and some couples have enjoyed non penetrative mmf and some single guys would no doubt be happy with it ."
 can't disagree with this . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?"
It is a privilege to join a couple for fun. Why does penetrative sex have to be on the cards ? Can kind of understand some annoyance if this hasn't been made clear before a meet, but even so, we feel there should be no expectations either way, on any meet. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?"
i think it says as much about your expectations from a mmf......
but as others have said, i they have said that beforehand then i suspect you are as much not for them as they would seem to be not for you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
It is a privilege to join a couple for fun. Why does penetrative sex have to be on the cards ? Can kind of understand some annoyance if this hasn't been made clear before a meet, but even so, we feel there should be no expectations either way, on any meet."
Sorry to take issue here but we don't see it as a privilege at all .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
It is a privilege to join a couple for fun. Why does penetrative sex have to be on the cards ? Can kind of understand some annoyance if this hasn't been made clear before a meet, but even so, we feel there should be no expectations either way, on any meet."
It's also a privilege for a couple to have a guy join them - or another couple or single fem. Theres no hierarchy, superiority or pecking order.
As for the MMF situation? I've had plenty if fun without penetration - with MF couples, single fems and in fact 2 fems together. Sex doesn't revolve around penetration!  |
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
It is a privilege to join a couple for fun. Why does penetrative sex have to be on the cards ? Can kind of understand some annoyance if this hasn't been made clear before a meet, but even so, we feel there should be no expectations either way, on any meet.
Sorry to take issue here but we don't see it as a privilege at all . "
Correct again ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the original post is getting lost here ....
He said mmf !
What...so penetration is compulsory for those meets now is it?
Not at all , but soft swap with couples is not an mmf .
If a guy is invited to join a couple for fun , the general concensus would be for him to fuck her , and if not it would be difficult to see what he is going to get out of the meet.
However , I accept that it's not everyones bag and some couples have enjoyed non penetrative mmf and some single guys would no doubt be happy with it ."
My first ever mmf was no penetration. It started with the lady asking both men to get naked. She left the room and came back dressed in some sexy lingerie. The hubby then sat and watched and wanked while she gave me a slow sensuos bj. She then moved up my body until we were standing and kissing. She called her hubby across and took turns kissing us while wanking our cocks. Slowly we both undressed her and finger fucked her until she waa soaking. Then we lay her down, one licking her pussy while the other knelt over her getting a bj. Then we swapped. We continued until she came uncontrollably. Once she had gathered her senses she took both of us in her mouth, sucking and blowing us, edging us until she made both of us cum over face and tits at the same time. A fabulous first time mmf with no penetration! |
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
It is a privilege to join a couple for fun. Why does penetrative sex have to be on the cards ? Can kind of understand some annoyance if this hasn't been made clear before a meet, but even so, we feel there should be no expectations either way, on any meet."
It's just as valid to say is a privilege for any couple to have a guy give up his time and effort to grace them with his presence. |
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at first pass, i guess its right to assume fucking is on the agenda however i played in group and spent 3/4 hrs with massage wanting and lots of oral
that was so slow and built to a point of excitment that was very explosive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?"
..I'm with you mate on that POINTLESS |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the original post is getting lost here ....
He said mmf !
havent seen anyone lose sight of the OP though.
most of them have said when some arent interested in penetrative sex with other men
whether that takes shape in an mfmf/mmf/mmmm or whatever, as i said in our first post, you can ask either of the guys we met, and they both left happy without having full sex."
Id leave happy after having your mrs play with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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mrs hedo doesn't want penetration from other guys , our meets are allways hot and guys and cples leave satisfied ,
foreplay oral kiss touch is also very sexy , we play on our own sometimes and just tease each other, agreeing no penetration , in the end we both wank infront of eachother just as much fun sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
It is a privilege to join a couple for fun. Why does penetrative sex have to be on the cards ? Can kind of understand some annoyance if this hasn't been made clear before a meet, but even so, we feel there should be no expectations either way, on any meet.
Sorry to take issue here but we don't see it as a privilege at all . "
It isn't a right, therefore it is a privilege. I wasn't suggesting it wasn't equally a privilege for the couple to be joined by a male or female, or another couple, or any given combination. It is not a given that a guy can turn up and expect full penetrative sex. Even if it has been implied that he can expect it, it still is not his right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
It is a privilege to join a couple for fun. Why does penetrative sex have to be on the cards ? Can kind of understand some annoyance if this hasn't been made clear before a meet, but even so, we feel there should be no expectations either way, on any meet.
Sorry to take issue here but we don't see it as a privilege at all .
It isn't a right, therefore it is a privilege. I wasn't suggesting it wasn't equally a privilege for the couple to be joined by a male or female, or another couple, or any given combination. It is not a given that a guy can turn up and expect full penetrative sex. Even if it has been implied that he can expect it, it still is not his right."
Ah.
But your post simply stated that it's a privilege for a guy to join a couple for fun.
Not any clarity about what that fun may entail. It's as much a 'privilege' - if that's the word of choice - for any individual or couple to meet another individual or couple. 'Fun' can be found in a variety of ways, chat, drinks, foreplay, full sex - covering all involved in whipped cream and chocolate and eating it off each other.
The implication was that single guys should feel in some way 'privileged' to meet a couple that is in fact seeking single guys and therefore would be short of said 'fun' without said single guy! 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
It is a privilege to join a couple for fun. Why does penetrative sex have to be on the cards ? Can kind of understand some annoyance if this hasn't been made clear before a meet, but even so, we feel there should be no expectations either way, on any meet.
Sorry to take issue here but we don't see it as a privilege at all .
It isn't a right, therefore it is a privilege. I wasn't suggesting it wasn't equally a privilege for the couple to be joined by a male or female, or another couple, or any given combination. It is not a given that a guy can turn up and expect full penetrative sex. Even if it has been implied that he can expect it, it still is not his right.
Ah.
But your post simply stated that it's a privilege for a guy to join a couple for fun.
Not any clarity about what that fun may entail. It's as much a 'privilege' - if that's the word of choice - for any individual or couple to meet another individual or couple. 'Fun' can be found in a variety of ways, chat, drinks, foreplay, full sex - covering all involved in whipped cream and chocolate and eating it off each other.
The implication was that single guys should feel in some way 'privileged' to meet a couple that is in fact seeking single guys and therefore would be short of said 'fun' without said single guy!
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Eh??? I say again, it is a privilege, not a right. And as you correctly point out, it is also a privilege for a couple to be joined by a single,a couple, or any given combination. It is not a right, but then I have already said this. It is a privilege for a friend to be invited to tea. It isn't his right to help himself to your food just because he is a friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
It is a privilege to join a couple for fun. Why does penetrative sex have to be on the cards ? Can kind of understand some annoyance if this hasn't been made clear before a meet, but even so, we feel there should be no expectations either way, on any meet.
Sorry to take issue here but we don't see it as a privilege at all .
It isn't a right, therefore it is a privilege. I wasn't suggesting it wasn't equally a privilege for the couple to be joined by a male or female, or another couple, or any given combination. It is not a given that a guy can turn up and expect full penetrative sex. Even if it has been implied that he can expect it, it still is not his right.
Ah.
But your post simply stated that it's a privilege for a guy to join a couple for fun.
Not any clarity about what that fun may entail. It's as much a 'privilege' - if that's the word of choice - for any individual or couple to meet another individual or couple. 'Fun' can be found in a variety of ways, chat, drinks, foreplay, full sex - covering all involved in whipped cream and chocolate and eating it off each other.
The implication was that single guys should feel in some way 'privileged' to meet a couple that is in fact seeking single guys and therefore would be short of said 'fun' without said single guy!
Eh??? I say again, it is a privilege, not a right. And as you correctly point out, it is also a privilege for a couple to be joined by a single,a couple, or any given combination. It is not a right, but then I have already said this. It is a privilege for a friend to be invited to tea. It isn't his right to help himself to your food just because he is a friend."
I guess we just have different views on the term 'privilege'! But that's fine !
I just work on the basis that if people have agreed to meet, play (soft, full or whatever!) or simply have tea - then it's a mutually beneficial situation and therefore no more of a 'privilege' to one party tan the other.
But if I'm being an argumentative sod - apologies - I blame Mr Wolf Blass! (A veritable genius with wine!)  |
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
It is a privilege to join a couple for fun. Why does penetrative sex have to be on the cards ? Can kind of understand some annoyance if this hasn't been made clear before a meet, but even so, we feel there should be no expectations either way, on any meet.
Sorry to take issue here but we don't see it as a privilege at all .
It isn't a right, therefore it is a privilege. I wasn't suggesting it wasn't equally a privilege for the couple to be joined by a male or female, or another couple, or any given combination. It is not a given that a guy can turn up and expect full penetrative sex. Even if it has been implied that he can expect it, it still is not his right.
Ah.
But your post simply stated that it's a privilege for a guy to join a couple for fun.
Not any clarity about what that fun may entail. It's as much a 'privilege' - if that's the word of choice - for any individual or couple to meet another individual or couple. 'Fun' can be found in a variety of ways, chat, drinks, foreplay, full sex - covering all involved in whipped cream and chocolate and eating it off each other.
The implication was that single guys should feel in some way 'privileged' to meet a couple that is in fact seeking single guys and therefore would be short of said 'fun' without said single guy!
Eh??? I say again, it is a privilege, not a right. And as you correctly point out, it is also a privilege for a couple to be joined by a single,a couple, or any given combination. It is not a right, but then I have already said this. It is a privilege for a friend to be invited to tea. It isn't his right to help himself to your food just because he is a friend.
I guess we just have different views on the term 'privilege'! But that's fine !
I just work on the basis that if people have agreed to meet, play (soft, full or whatever!) or simply have tea - then it's a mutually beneficial situation and therefore no more of a 'privilege' to one party tan the other.
But if I'm being an argumentative sod - apologies - I blame Mr Wolf Blass! (A veritable genius with wine!) "
We are with you on this one xx,Well said.xxxx |
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It depends on how my wife feels on the night .we mainly do mmf threesomes .she may decide to invite a guy or guys to watch .if she likes them I let them touch her .she may evening give a few blow jobs if she really likes them she will ask me if its ok if he is allowed to fuck before she may just let them Cum on her .it really depends on the night we have gone to club and just played alone with them just watching.all in all its just down to the female and us guys must except it And be glad we have got horny wife's .we are going to club on Saturday I hope she is horny as hell .want to make last meet of the year the best one lol pity these blokes who's wife's prefer bingo lol |
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"I think the original post is getting lost here ....
He said mmf !
What...so penetration is compulsory for those meets now is it?
Not at all , but soft swap with couples is not an mmf .
If a guy is invited to join a couple for fun , the general concensus would be for him to fuck her , and if not it would be difficult to see what he is going to get out of the meet.
However , I accept that it's not everyones bag and some couples have enjoyed non penetrative mmf and some single guys would no doubt be happy with it ."
Oral sex, hand job, tit wank....the list goes on. Just because he doesn't get to fuck her there are loads of things he can enjoy in a Mmf without actually having sex with the f.
Perhaps it's a lack of imagination on the OP and your part that are limiting your options? |
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"I think the original post is getting lost here ....
He said mmf !
What...so penetration is compulsory for those meets now is it?
Not at all , but soft swap with couples is not an mmf .
If a guy is invited to join a couple for fun , the general concensus would be for him to fuck her , and if not it would be difficult to see what he is going to get out of the meet.
However , I accept that it's not everyones bag and some couples have enjoyed non penetrative mmf and some single guys would no doubt be happy with it .
Oral sex, hand job, tit wank....the list goes on. Just because he doesn't get to fuck her there are loads of things he can enjoy in a Mmf without actually having sex with the f.
Perhaps it's a lack of imagination on the OP and your part that are limiting your options? "
...That is not a mmf 3some that's just playing or as some call it soft swop ,If I was having a mmf 3some I better be getting fucked by both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the original post is getting lost here ....
He said mmf !
What...so penetration is compulsory for those meets now is it?
Not at all , but soft swap with couples is not an mmf .
If a guy is invited to join a couple for fun , the general concensus would be for him to fuck her , and if not it would be difficult to see what he is going to get out of the meet.
However , I accept that it's not everyones bag and some couples have enjoyed non penetrative mmf and some single guys would no doubt be happy with it .
Oral sex, hand job, tit wank....the list goes on. Just because he doesn't get to fuck her there are loads of things he can enjoy in a Mmf without actually having sex with the f.
Perhaps it's a lack of imagination on the OP and your part that are limiting your options? ...That is not a mmf 3some that's just playing or as some call it soft swop ,If I was having a mmf 3some I better be getting fucked by both "
how is that not an mmf threesome?
there are 3 people involved
just because it doesnt fit in with your idea of what swinging should be, but dont dismiss it as not being something when in fact, it actually is. |
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"I think the original post is getting lost here ....
He said mmf !
What...so penetration is compulsory for those meets now is it?
Not at all , but soft swap with couples is not an mmf .
If a guy is invited to join a couple for fun , the general concensus would be for him to fuck her , and if not it would be difficult to see what he is going to get out of the meet.
However , I accept that it's not everyones bag and some couples have enjoyed non penetrative mmf and some single guys would no doubt be happy with it .
Oral sex, hand job, tit wank....the list goes on. Just because he doesn't get to fuck her there are loads of things he can enjoy in a Mmf without actually having sex with the f.
Perhaps it's a lack of imagination on the OP and your part that are limiting your options? ...That is not a mmf 3some that's just playing or as some call it soft swop ,If I was having a mmf 3some I better be getting fucked by both
how is that not an mmf threesome?
there are 3 people involved
just because it doesnt fit in with your idea of what swinging should be, but dont dismiss it as not being something when in fact, it actually is."
..Look it up if 2 men are only playing with the girl no fucking its foreplay not a mmf 3some,A mmf 3some is 2 guys playing and fucking the girl..W.T.F is some people on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?"
you seem a bit selfish expecting pen sex during mmf, don't just assume thats gonna happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?"
you seem a bit selfish expecting pen sex during mmf, don't just assume thats gonna happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's just as valid to say is a privilege for any couple to have a guy give up his time and effort to grace them with his presence."
Nah, I think single guys on the most part are just desperate for any action, couples browse and choose their "fodder" and the guys run after them like dogs with their tongues hanging out.....
Cats, pigeons etc etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the original post is getting lost here ....
He said mmf !
What...so penetration is compulsory for those meets now is it?
Not at all , but soft swap with couples is not an mmf .
If a guy is invited to join a couple for fun , the general concensus would be for him to fuck her , and if not it would be difficult to see what he is going to get out of the meet.
However , I accept that it's not everyones bag and some couples have enjoyed non penetrative mmf and some single guys would no doubt be happy with it .
Oral sex, hand job, tit wank....the list goes on. Just because he doesn't get to fuck her there are loads of things he can enjoy in a Mmf without actually having sex with the f.
Perhaps it's a lack of imagination on the OP and your part that are limiting your options? ...That is not a mmf 3some that's just playing or as some call it soft swop ,If I was having a mmf 3some I better be getting fucked by both "
Absolutely ..... if it's mmf and advertised as such then that's exactly what it should be !
If advertised as soft mmf then that's different altogether . |
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"I think the original post is getting lost here ....
He said mmf !
What...so penetration is compulsory for those meets now is it?
Not at all , but soft swap with couples is not an mmf .
If a guy is invited to join a couple for fun , the general concensus would be for him to fuck her , and if not it would be difficult to see what he is going to get out of the meet.
However , I accept that it's not everyones bag and some couples have enjoyed non penetrative mmf and some single guys would no doubt be happy with it .
Oral sex, hand job, tit wank....the list goes on. Just because he doesn't get to fuck her there are loads of things he can enjoy in a Mmf without actually having sex with the f.
Perhaps it's a lack of imagination on the OP and your part that are limiting your options? ...That is not a mmf 3some that's just playing or as some call it soft swop ,If I was having a mmf 3some I better be getting fucked by both
Absolutely ..... if it's mmf and advertised as such then that's exactly what it should be !
If advertised as soft mmf then that's different altogether . "
Thank you Well said xx,Glad somebody knows the difference between,soft mmf and a proper mmf 3some. |
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
you seem a bit selfish expecting pen sex during mmf, don't just assume thats gonna happen"
So a couple advertise for a man to join them for a mmf meet . The guy is told he can join them and gets to meet . And moments before he is told no penetration .
The expectation of the meet is not unreasonable but the fact that he hasn't been told till the last minute is .
If it's made clear first , no problem .
The op has said it's a bit like a tease and we agree with him . It's what may be implied or not that's the issue here . A non penetrative mmf should be clearly identified from the off .
And to the poster who suggested we have no imagination - utter tosh , we are merely making points relating to the op . Where relevant we can and are as imaginative as the next person !
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?"
We find a lot of guys dont get as far as penetration. |
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
you seem a bit selfish expecting pen sex during mmf, don't just assume thats gonna happen
So a couple advertise for a man to join them for a mmf meet . The guy is told he can join them and gets to meet . And moments before he is told no penetration .
The expectation of the meet is not unreasonable but the fact that he hasn't been told till the last minute is .
If it's made clear first , no problem .
The op has said it's a bit like a tease and we agree with him . It's what may be implied or not that's the issue here . A non penetrative mmf should be clearly identified from the off .
And to the poster who suggested we have no imagination - utter tosh , we are merely making points relating to the op . Where relevant we can and are as imaginative as the next person !
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well, when we had our mmmf it was stated as soon as contact was made, so whats the problem?
i would expect everyone to make proper contact and find out boundaries before agreeing to any form of meet, let alone a 3some of any kind.
why would anyone expect to get a fuck if they agree to a 3 some with a soft play couples anyway?
thats just letting your little head rule your big head, but hell, isnt that what we have come to expect from some.
i dont agree that having someone watch is a 3some, but if everyone else is involved, ITS A PROPER 3SOME, no matter what form it takes.
its moronic to suggest otherwise |
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"ah well excuse us for not being proper swingers.
why is everything to do with swinging only ever 'proper' if it involves shagging a stranger.
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No one said you weren't proper swingers .
It's just as to what is expected or not .
You make it clear what works for you . And that's great .
But would you advertise for an mmf and not tell the guy till he arrived that there was to be no penetration ?
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"ah well excuse us for not being proper swingers.
why is everything to do with swinging only ever 'proper' if it involves shagging a stranger.
No one said you weren't proper swingers .
It's just as to what is expected or not .
You make it clear what works for you . And that's great .
But would you advertise for an mmf and not tell the guy till he arrived that there was to be no penetration ?
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of course we wouldnt.
and bihotsexy are suggesting soft swing isnt real swinging, so yes, we have actually been called 'not proper swingers' as is suggested by the post above this one.
but the real question is, why would anyone contact us for a 3some, and we have had loats af requests for such, btw, and expect to have sex, when its clearly not on the table? |
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"Is it just me? Asking for mmf but then saying no penetration. Seriously, what's the point? Get the guys all hot for nothing or have I got the wrong end of the stick?
you seem a bit selfish expecting pen sex during mmf, don't just assume thats gonna happen
So a couple advertise for a man to join them for a mmf meet . The guy is told he can join them and gets to meet . And moments before he is told no penetration .
The expectation of the meet is not unreasonable but the fact that he hasn't been told till the last minute is .
If it's made clear first , no problem .
The op has said it's a bit like a tease and we agree with him . It's what may be implied or not that's the issue here . A non penetrative mmf should be clearly identified from the off .
And to the poster who suggested we have no imagination - utter tosh , we are merely making points relating to the op . Where relevant we can and are as imaginative as the next person !
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sorry didn't know it was last minute lol well I can understand that then haha |
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"ah well excuse us for not being proper swingers.
why is everything to do with swinging only ever 'proper' if it involves shagging a stranger.
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Apparently there's some kind of dictionary where we have to look it up...or maybe there was a memo from properswingers.com that we missed...
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We have had so much fun with others while never having sex. Even had a guy travel 4 hour round trip for a hand job and a play with our glory hole. She has now fucked a stranger which was great to see but this will never be a major part of our play |
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