"dont ask for advice, you will always get contradicting messages. do what is right for you in terms of your profile and pics etc
beat me to it!
call me quick draw McGraw  "
Only if you ask nicely . Do you remember Quick Draw McGraw...well obviously you do...I'll get me coat  |
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over a year ago
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If you message a couple, remember there are two people in their relationship.
Having the decency to at least acknowledge the male half goes a long way. After all .... he may share his wife with you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't write whiny status' or forum posts about not getting meets when you have made no effort on your profile to sell yourself"
Don't even if you have put an effort into your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read the profile, read it again and when you choose to ignore the part about being uninterested in single men and decide to message anyway, heed the big red warning that flashes up on the screen reminding you that they're not interested in you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't shy away from your preferences, be honest in your likes and dislikes and what you are looking for. You'll eliminate the majority but be far more appealing to the minority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you had to give one piece of advice to a single male on this site, what would it be?"
Be honest with people and don't make assumptions rather than asking for clarification. |
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"Don't shy away from your preferences, be honest in your likes and dislikes and what you are looking for. You'll eliminate the majority but be far more appealing to the minority. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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treat every profile as individual.
copy n paste rarely gets anyone far
and, as has been said, ensure you are at least at the outer limits of what people are looking for.
if someone is looking for BBC, dont message saying you have a small white willy, you wont like the knockback |
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Put enough information (written and pictoral) in your profile so I can actually get some sense of you when deciding whether or not to reply, and write at least a couple of lines, just for me.
Be honest - the first petty lie turns me off like a light.
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"Get a fucking partner.....this is a swingers (with an s on the end) site not a "looking for sex" site!
Rant over!  "
Just wondering, would you give the same advice to single girls?
The only advice I have for single guys is let your profile & pics reflect your personality, most girls & couples want to meet a person, not just a cock. |
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"If you had to give one piece of advice to a single male on this site, what would it be?"
too many answers to read through them all so if its already been said, I apologise, but my advice is... dont appear to be desparate. |
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over a year ago
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"Get a fucking partner.....this is a swingers (with an s on the end) site not a "looking for sex" site!
Rant over! "
Swinging can be whatever you make of it, not JUST exclusively for couples or else how do MMF happen |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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"Get a fucking partner.....this is a swingers (with an s on the end) site not a "looking for sex" site!
Rant over! "
A quick 'browse' shows that there are many couples seeking single males. This swingers site caters for this.
The OP as a single person wants to meet those Fab couples, as do I ... erm with the exception of one couple now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you had to give one piece of advice to a single male on this site, what would it be?"
Lots of patience and understanding.I think the perception of swinging and swingers is that its all casual fun. The reality is that most people really aren't as casual as they may think they are. This isn't a personal dig, or a criticism of anyone. We are as guilty as most. Try to be very realistic in your expectations. We are all human and therefore we all disappoint at times. I think some people set their sights too high also. |
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"Get a fucking partner.....this is a swingers (with an s on the end) site not a "looking for sex" site!
Rant over! "
May I respectfully ask why a single guy shouldn't offer his services on a swingers site ? There are couples and ladies who are looking to be joined by guys. Not many, I grant you, but when we were active, we sought guys. If the site had been for couples only, we wouldn't be here. I understand that's no loss to anyone. Just my honest opinion. |
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"Get a fucking partner.....this is a swingers (with an s on the end) site not a "looking for sex" site!
Rant over!
Swinging can be whatever you make of it, not JUST exclusively for couples or else how do MMF happen "
Our _iew entirely |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Don't lie on your profile. If I read that you love giving oral, are in fact the NE UK Champion two years running at giving oral, then we meet and you tell me you don't enjoy giving oral, I will be a tad upset.
Read the profile. Then read it again. In fact do 'ctrl f' and check whether your likes come up. If they don't, don't send a message.
Do not assume sending a wink means someone will message you.
Do not get huffy if you have messaged someone even though you don't match their desirables, and they don't reply.
Above all, keep a sense of perspective. It's sex, not oxygen or food. You don't *need* it. |
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"Get a fucking partner.....this is a swingers (with an s on the end) site not a "looking for sex" site!
Rant over! "
very narrow minded _iew!  Id say the majority of profiles are looking for singles, whether that be male or female. Just because you aren't doesn't mean singles should be banned. I assume that your statement includes women too.
I do agree that just because a single person (male or female) is on a swinging site that it doesn't make them a 'swinger'.
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"Get a fucking partner.....this is a swingers (with an s on the end) site not a "looking for sex" site!
Rant over! "
The S is plural as in more than one swinger not the number of people in the profile that are looking. And since when has swinging been a couples only pass time ? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Don't let other members treat you like shit. You've as much right to be here as they do.
Don't drive 100s of miles for a meet in a carpark at 2.30am. It's either a bloke or a wind-up. |
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over a year ago
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"Don't let other members treat you like shit. You've as much right to be here as they do.
Don't drive 100s of miles for a meet in a carpark at 2.30am. It's either a bloke or a wind-up."
Unless you don't mind meeting blokes at 2.30am in a carpark of course! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. Be yourself at all times
2. Never lower your standards just for a fuck, any hole isn't a goal
3. Be polite
4. Accept rejection gracefully
5. Enjoy"
6. Don't send an unsolicited picture of your cock to anyone, ever.
7. If it seems too good to be true, it will be.
8. There are very few 19 year old blonde Russian gymnastic twins on here....so treat what people tell you with a pinch of salt.
9. Give clubs and socials a try....great way to meet people & a lot more interesting then looking at a computer screen day in day out.
10. When you get a meet, be freshly showered and smelling nice, it can be the difference between a one off or regular fun.
Good luck & enjoy the site.
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"Get a fucking partner.....this is a swingers (with an s on the end) site not a "looking for sex" site!
Rant over! "
Oh ok then. So you as a couple aren't looking for sex? Sadly you're so typical of too many holier than thou couples. Must be nice up on your cloud.
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Would you say the same to single females?
