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Attention seeking people

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

After all these years it still amazes me some of the status updates people display about leaving the site stating they're dissolutioned with the lifestyle or the site.

They either remain or do leave and then low and behold reappear within days....

Nothing stranger than folk!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

....and this causes you a problem how?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it's addictive

i've seen so many leave and come back

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By *lackCherryCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"....and this causes you a problem how?

I think the key is "discussion forum"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it is a bit sad.

maybe they are feeling a bit down and lonely at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"....and this causes you a problem how?

I think the key is "discussion forum"

...hence my question.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes is for discussion stay out the forums if your just gonna be awkward towards people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes is for discussion stay out the forums if your just gonna be awkward towards people"

Excuse me for having the temerity to ask a question of an OP....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not a problem Cowboy.... Just find it strange behavior and in most cases it's people using it has a method to generate interest... Especially those who state 'had enough of this site', leave the site and return in a day or two!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This site dont get me wrong i love and been in the lifestyle for a long time on and off,

For single men, couples and single women i can see it can be hard and for the genuine ones who want to meet and get into it, i guess at times its like hitting a head on a brick wall as some single men are looking for a quick fix or get scared or just have no intention of meeting

this works in all ways and yes we all get negative we all get on a downer BUT if u like the lifestyle and enjoy the biz it gives you its worth it in the end

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's simply people who tend to take themselves far too seriously,quite easy to work out really.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Don't sweat it....people do what they please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all require some form of attention I think and what better way to get it with thousands of like minded and extremely horny people on one site

Although yes there are some that take the biscuit lol

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By *hyllyphyllyMan over a year ago

Bradford

Forget about that... Just look at me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not a problem Cowboy.... Just find it strange behavior and in most cases it's people using it has a method to generate interest... Especially those who state 'had enough of this site', leave the site and return in a day or two!"

Thanks dude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"yes is for discussion stay out the forums if your just gonna be awkward towards people

Excuse me for having the temerity to ask a question of an OP....

It's Swingers Chat forum! Hence, discussion.... The beautiful world of democracy!

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By *oulou45Woman over a year ago

Bucks

People do get down and maybe it's their way of trying to strike a conversation. I get down from time to time and have to say it's the nicepeople on fabs who have helped me. It might just be a quick natter. So please don't put anyone down. X

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By *oulou45Woman over a year ago

Bucks

Sorry if I killed your thread. Wasnt intended. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry if I killed your thread. Wasnt intended. X"
lol you attention seeking loulou lol he he

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By *oulou45Woman over a year ago

Bucks

Lol hell no.x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes is for discussion stay out the forums if your just gonna be awkward towards people"

Some of the best forum posts involve people "being awkward" I'd describe it more as having an opinion and wanting to put different views across.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just posting in a thread could be deemed as attention seeking a big long rant in a reply to a post must get a few profile hits, winks, fabbed pics, and even the odd friends request and or message

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just posting in a thread could be deemed as attention seeking a big long rant in a reply to a post must get a few profile hits, winks, fabbed pics, and even the odd friends request and or message

Lol

this

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Leave you lot alone for a few hours and the thread just goes all silly!!

Trying to have a serious thread discussion these days is such damn hardwork!!

Spanks his own arse just to gain attention!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all have reasons to be here or not. We never know what is going on in other peoples private life. It's down to the individual. I know a few that have left and then come back. Some have wished they just hid their profile rather than delete it. Individual choice.

Me personally I would send a message to some of my friends and expalin but other than that I would back out quietly. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After all these years it still amazes me some of the status updates people display about leaving the site stating they're dissolutioned with the lifestyle or the site.

They either remain or do leave and then low and behold reappear within days....

Nothing stranger than folk!

If anything amazed me I would pack it in instantly.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are all attention seekers, otherwise we wouldn't be here.

Apologies if this has already been said, but I couldn't be bothered to read the rest of the thread!!!

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By *.nottsbloke..Man over a year ago

the vale

how about same picture deleted and uploaded every day !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"how about same picture deleted and uploaded every day ! "

I gave blocked for that reason x don't want to see it everytime I open updates for weeks on end x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We tend to use it as a filter...do a search, read negative status or flouncy post about leaving, or on local updates, ignore or block...easy peasy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"it's addictive

i've seen so many leave and come back"

And thats the truth.

People may leave for whatever reasons they want.. a change in relationship, circumstances in life.. but may return when things have changed again. I know i have

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