I have noticed in the last 5 years that I have been swinging (both alone and with my ex) that the swinging scene is becoming less and less of a social thing and more of a 121 thing.
I found swinging through the fetish scene, or more to the point, I went to a fetish club and loved the sex with and without the kink.
Since burning both ends of the candle on the fetish scene I found this and a few other sites and stuck to swinging.
Now it seems there are very few successful socials compared to a year ago, if any are held at all (London isn't the hub of sexual activity) and everyone is meeting 121.
I am considering getting back into the fetish scene as it is a constant, but only in light of the lack of swinging happening on this scene.
Thoughts? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I find its the opposite for me. I am meeting one on one much less than I used to, and going to a lot more clubs and socials. In the last few months I've been to socials in Manchester, Sheffield, and York.
I think with this lifestyle you get out what you put in. Yes, I have to travel to these socials, but its either that or wait for single men in York to be available, and I don't have the time for that. I'd rather spend my time visiting great clubs and meeting great people. |
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Maybe I should have angled this t the London forum but as popular fashions go, the friends I have on here haven't been to a swingers party for months, they have retreated to the fetish scene where play is in abundance at clubs.
I personally want that back! |
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We are very much into the BDSM & fetish scene as well as swinging.We tend to lean more to one at any one time otherwise we would never be at home!
The majority of the BDSM & fet parties that we go to do not involve sex anyway. So if we fancy a bit of a break from the sex we will attend more munches, which are monthly in our area.
Having said that the swinging scene in Wales is alive and kicking. socials what seems like every week and an abundance of swinging parties. Maybe it's all the rain that makes the welsh sex mad  |
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We find it's quite the opposite. We have a large network of gorgeous friends from London and all over the U.K. that meet and play together, it seems almost weekly. Everyone seems to know or be connected to one another somehow. We find it frustrating as there's always something happening but we can't always make it.
So we would say the Scene is very much alive and kicking x |
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over a year ago
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I'd say that's because many people view this more as essentially casual sex than 'swinging' as a lifestyle.
For me personally, I have to say there are few things I would rather do less than attend a 'social'.
Now I daren't say everyone feels that way but I'd bet you a lot more feel more closely affiliated to the notion of 'sex is fun huh?' than the statement 'I am a swinger'. |
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