"Makes ya wonder what Hard swing is?! Suspect that very varied too lol   "
yes exactly, for example theres many peple that think only couples can swing and not singles (and before you all jump on me thats not our view lol ) its all about views . its just interesting to hear what people think. after all it may be that some see it as just having sex in the same room, or kiss and cuddle some may say its everything short of penile penetration.Aahh the mysteries of swinging !! |
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"Non penetrative sex  "
This is how we perceive it, however, to be absolutely clear as it's clear we all have different perceptions, we clarify with friends before we play with them. It's important to have that conversation as that helps make sure we are all in the same wavelength...
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"Doing everything and anything with someone else, short of fucking. When it's time to fuck soft swingers go back to their own partners."
Agree...but sometimes no fucking anyway because everyone has cum in one(or more) of many imaginative ways!!!  |
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"Doing everything and anything with someone else, short of fucking. When it's time to fuck soft swingers go back to their own partners.
Agree...but sometimes no fucking anyway because everyone has cum in one(or more) of many imaginative ways!!! "
Same here |
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"Boring. Too many restrictions x"
really?
without looking at your profile, do you do:
anal
watersports
scat
BDSM
knife play
no?
well neither do we, as soft swingers, but then, we only ad one more to that list, which is full sex.
soft play starts at watching each other, and stops just before a penis goes somewhere it isnt wanted, and everywhere in between.
people that say its too restricting or whatever are perpetuating a myth.
that said, if your mindset is that you HAVE to fuck someone else to enjoy swinging, then thats your own mindset.
people say swinging is about sexual liberation, but its not very liberating for every meet to HAVE to end the same way. |
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"I had my first meet with a soft swing couple last week. Had a great time. Penetration is nice but foreplay is so much nicer x  "
We both soft swing and full swap depending on the mood/other couple/how we feel etc but we have had some fantastic sexy erotic "dirty" fun with others when we have had soft swing....we have no problem with penetrative sex when all are happy but it can get a bit samey (if thats a word) and sometimes detract from a nice relaxed 3 or 4 or more sum evening |
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Doing everything and anything with someone else, short of fucking. When it's time to fuck soft swingers go back to their own partners
agreed this is our perception too clearly not the sole take though!! |
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"Doing everything and anything with someone else, short of fucking. When it's time to fuck soft swingers go back to their own partners
agreed this is our perception too clearly not the sole take though!! "
...so in other words, get someone round to put all the effort in, without getting any of the spoils.
It's why I dont like group meets this.. warm them up and someone jumps in. Fek that lol |
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