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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK first and lets make this very clear to all those that may see this as a racist request.. We are far from racist in any form and do not promote this either.
Ok so we feel we are not getting the respect from this site as we should. We are fed up with what we call our non preference type messaging us over and over again without a care in the world. Fair enough guys will message but the amount of types that we don't look for that message saying have read your profile bla bla bla but happen to miss the part about what and who we don't look for.. So we politely message saying sorry your not what we look for as our profile states and then they go on and on and on about how it will be good it will be the best it will be your ultimate meet yet... Well erm nooo it wont chaps..not with they type we don't look for... Oh and again PREFERENCE ONLY..
They should have everyone state their culture background on signing up and have the option to not here from whatever background may not suit their needs..
Fed up with it and the motivation goes when its constant over and over all day long..
So just for the broken record.
We are not into Black or Asian types as this is our PREFERENCE..
Shall we leave this site on the grounds that this is increasingly frustrating or shall we stay ????
Mrs Play  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of guys just spend their day blanket messaging every piece of fanny in sight, I don't think you should reply to their messages, even a "no thanks" some take as a invitation that its game on. You should stay as there are some truly talented individuals and couples here, just delete those you're not interested in and hopefully they'll get the message from seeing it deleted in their outbox. Remember you gotta shift through shit before you find the diamonds. Classy photos by the way, they're more than likely the reason your getting all the attention, as they'll see all of them and be too excited to read the rest of your profile.
Chin up and have fun |
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over a year ago
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"A lot of guys just spend their day blanket messaging every piece of fanny in sight, I don't think you should reply to their messages, even a "no thanks" some take as a invitation that its game on. You should stay as there are some truly talented individuals and couples here, just delete those you're not interested in and hopefully they'll get the message from seeing it deleted in their outbox. Remember you gotta shift through shit before you find the diamonds. Classy photos by the way, they're more than likely the reason your getting all the attention, as they'll see all of them and be too excited to read the rest of your profile.
Chin up and have fun"
Thanks for the kind words..
Yeah maybe just delete and get on with it..But sooooo frustrating |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To save me the bother of reading your profile, what's your preference?  "
That will be in the forum post too that you read to know what we was asking so you know already |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK first and lets make this very clear to all those that may see this as a racist request.. We are far from racist in any form and do not promote this either.
Ok so we feel we are not getting the respect from this site as we should. We are fed up with what we call our non preference type messaging us over and over again without a care in the world. Fair enough guys will message but the amount of types that we don't look for that message saying have read your profile bla bla bla but happen to miss the part about what and who we don't look for.. So we politely message saying sorry your not what we look for as our profile states and then they go on and on and on about how it will be good it will be the best it will be your ultimate meet yet... Well erm nooo it wont chaps..not with they type we don't look for... Oh and again PREFERENCE ONLY..
They should have everyone state their culture background on signing up and have the option to not here from whatever background may not suit their needs..
Fed up with it and the motivation goes when its constant over and over all day long..
So just for the broken record.
We are not into Black or Asian types as this is our PREFERENCE..
Shall we leave this site on the grounds that this is increasingly frustrating or shall we stay ????
Mrs Play "
If it is such a problem for you getting messages from unwanted people, how about you block everyone from messaging you and then you can just contact those who meet your requirements? Simple solution if it bothers you that much. Most people would just ignore the message and move onto the next one as it isnt the worst thing ever is it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it's not what u want , just ignore it, and you do have the option of blocking them too, so it shouldn't be a big deal ."
No you cant go on and block everyone you don't want to hear from until the point of them messaging you first otherwise you will be sat there blocking people all day regardless weather they have messaged you or not.. point is they should not message..
so it is a big deal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OK first and lets make this very clear to all those that may see this as a racist request.. We are far from racist in any form and do not promote this either.
Ok so we feel we are not getting the respect from this site as we should. We are fed up with what we call our non preference type messaging us over and over again without a care in the world. Fair enough guys will message but the amount of types that we don't look for that message saying have read your profile bla bla bla but happen to miss the part about what and who we don't look for.. So we politely message saying sorry your not what we look for as our profile states and then they go on and on and on about how it will be good it will be the best it will be your ultimate meet yet... Well erm nooo it wont chaps..not with they type we don't look for... Oh and again PREFERENCE ONLY..
They should have everyone state their culture background on signing up and have the option to not here from whatever background may not suit their needs..
Fed up with it and the motivation goes when its constant over and over all day long..
So just for the broken record.
We are not into Black or Asian types as this is our PREFERENCE..
Shall we leave this site on the grounds that this is increasingly frustrating or shall we stay ????
Mrs Play
If it is such a problem for you getting messages from unwanted people, how about you block everyone from messaging you and then you can just contact those who meet your requirements? Simple solution if it bothers you that much. Most people would just ignore the message and move onto the next one as it isnt the worst thing ever is it? "
No why should we take the option away from those we do want to message us..
its the fact that those we don't should respect us and others in the same boat..
SIMPLES |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK first and lets make this very clear to all those that may see this as a racist request.. We are far from racist in any form and do not promote this either.
Ok so we feel we are not getting the respect from this site as we should. We are fed up with what we call our non preference type messaging us over and over again without a care in the world. Fair enough guys will message but the amount of types that we don't look for that message saying have read your profile bla bla bla but happen to miss the part about what and who we don't look for.. So we politely message saying sorry your not what we look for as our profile states and then they go on and on and on about how it will be good it will be the best it will be your ultimate meet yet... Well erm nooo it wont chaps..not with they type we don't look for... Oh and again PREFERENCE ONLY..
They should have everyone state their culture background on signing up and have the option to not here from whatever background may not suit their needs..
Fed up with it and the motivation goes when its constant over and over all day long..
So just for the broken record.
We are not into Black or Asian types as this is our PREFERENCE..
Shall we leave this site on the grounds that this is increasingly frustrating or shall we stay ????
Mrs Play
If it is such a problem for you getting messages from unwanted people, how about you block everyone from messaging you and then you can just contact those who meet your requirements? Simple solution if it bothers you that much. Most people would just ignore the message and move onto the next one as it isnt the worst thing ever is it?
No why should we take the option away from those we do want to message us..
its the fact that those we don't should respect us and others in the same boat..
SIMPLES"
Lol why dont you just message the ones you are interested in???? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OK first and lets make this very clear to all those that may see this as a racist request.. We are far from racist in any form and do not promote this either.
Ok so we feel we are not getting the respect from this site as we should. We are fed up with what we call our non preference type messaging us over and over again without a care in the world. Fair enough guys will message but the amount of types that we don't look for that message saying have read your profile bla bla bla but happen to miss the part about what and who we don't look for.. So we politely message saying sorry your not what we look for as our profile states and then they go on and on and on about how it will be good it will be the best it will be your ultimate meet yet... Well erm nooo it wont chaps..not with they type we don't look for... Oh and again PREFERENCE ONLY..
They should have everyone state their culture background on signing up and have the option to not here from whatever background may not suit their needs..
Fed up with it and the motivation goes when its constant over and over all day long..
So just for the broken record.
We are not into Black or Asian types as this is our PREFERENCE..
Shall we leave this site on the grounds that this is increasingly frustrating or shall we stay ????
Mrs Play
If it is such a problem for you getting messages from unwanted people, how about you block everyone from messaging you and then you can just contact those who meet your requirements? Simple solution if it bothers you that much. Most people would just ignore the message and move onto the next one as it isnt the worst thing ever is it?
No why should we take the option away from those we do want to message us..
its the fact that those we don't should respect us and others in the same boat..
SIMPLES
Lol why dont you just message the ones you are interested in???? "
Whats annoying is so many message that we don't look for as stated that the ones who we do like to message us cant get theirs seen because so many of the unwanted are appearing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whats annoying is so many message that we don't look for as stated that the ones who we do like to message us cant get theirs seen because so many of the unwanted are appearing."
Yeah get that but you just have to put up with few messages from blk/asian or you block all and pick who you speak to yourself. You get full control that way. Up to you. You will probably keep it as it is because its not a big deal. Waste two seconds of your life to click a message, see they are not for you and go to next message. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Whats annoying is so many message that we don't look for as stated that the ones who we do like to message us cant get theirs seen because so many of the unwanted are appearing.
Yeah get that but you just have to put up with few messages from blk/asian or you block all and pick who you speak to yourself. You get full control that way. Up to you. You will probably keep it as it is because its not a big deal. Waste two seconds of your life to click a message, see they are not for you and go to next message. "
Yeah we know.. just saying the option to block certain should be available by people having to state ethnic background on sign up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"cant you filter out black and asian guys like you can singles and stuff"
No shame though in a non racist way just to clarify to anyone new coming in here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whats annoying is so many message that we don't look for as stated that the ones who we do like to message us cant get theirs seen because so many of the unwanted are appearing.
Yeah get that but you just have to put up with few messages from blk/asian or you block all and pick who you speak to yourself. You get full control that way. Up to you. You will probably keep it as it is because its not a big deal. Waste two seconds of your life to click a message, see they are not for you and go to next message.
Yeah we know.. just saying the option to block certain should be available by people having to state ethnic background on sign up"
Disagree with that. I think you should be able to search for profile and use a race filter for that because that is your preference. But I dont think you should be able to block certain races from messaging you entirely. They may not be messaging you asking for shag which you are not looking for but doesnt mean you cant have a conversation with a black or asian person. Your having one with me right now. I should be able to message you regardless of my ethnicity. But I think you should be able to search potential meets with a race filter in place if that is your preference with regards to meets. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Whats annoying is so many message that we don't look for as stated that the ones who we do like to message us cant get theirs seen because so many of the unwanted are appearing.
Yeah get that but you just have to put up with few messages from blk/asian or you block all and pick who you speak to yourself. You get full control that way. Up to you. You will probably keep it as it is because its not a big deal. Waste two seconds of your life to click a message, see they are not for you and go to next message.
Yeah we know.. just saying the option to block certain should be available by people having to state ethnic background on sign up
Disagree with that. I think you should be able to search for profile and use a race filter for that because that is your preference. But I dont think you should be able to block certain races from messaging you entirely. They may not be messaging you asking for shag which you are not looking for but doesnt mean you cant have a conversation with a black or asian person. Your having one with me right now. I should be able to message you regardless of my ethnicity. But I think you should be able to search potential meets with a race filter in place if that is your preference with regards to meets. "
Personal choice again. we may not want pointless conversations with people and we by choice may only want to play and communicate with those we want..
and yes we know we are talking to you now hence NON racist people here..
But again only messaging you back because of thread that wouldn't count for general messages as we would black using a race filter like you say.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personal choice again. we may not want pointless conversations with people and we by choice may only want to play and communicate with those we want..
and yes we know we are talking to you now hence NON racist people here..
But again only messaging you back because of thread that wouldn't count for general messages as we would black using a race filter like you say.
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Yeah I suppose there will be people who only want to chat to potential meets. Fine, I concede you have a fair argument but I would prefer it to remain without race filter. Can see your point. |
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"If it's not what u want , just ignore it, and you do have the option of blocking them too, so it shouldn't be a big deal .
No you cant go on and block everyone you don't want to hear from until the point of them messaging you first otherwise you will be sat there blocking people all day regardless weather they have messaged you or not.. point is they should not message..
so it is a big deal"
Well, you misunderstood my comment , if they message , and u reply not interested , and they keep messaging you .... Then BLOCK them ... Simples .. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If it's not what u want , just ignore it, and you do have the option of blocking them too, so it shouldn't be a big deal .
No you cant go on and block everyone you don't want to hear from until the point of them messaging you first otherwise you will be sat there blocking people all day regardless weather they have messaged you or not.. point is they should not message..
so it is a big deal
Well, you misunderstood my comment , if they message , and u reply not interested , and they keep messaging you .... Then BLOCK them ... Simples .."
You don't get the point.
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