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over a year ago
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Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone! |
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Definitely not unreasonable! You've made the effort, why would you waste time talking with them again and risk them doing a no show again, when you can move on to pastures new and meet somebody who WILL show up? Sorry that happened to you, I've had it done to me. |
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"Definitely not unreasonable! You've made the effort, why would you waste time talking with them again and risk them doing a no show again, when you can move on to pastures new and meet somebody who WILL show up? Sorry that happened to you, I've had it done to me. "
I'm not overly fussed they couldn't meet, I just expect a message an hour or so before scheduled time saying they can't do it! Not enough people have courtesy and respect for others I'm afraid! |
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"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone! "
Kindly ask them? Waw you're polite. I would have reported them for a no show and blocked them! Better luck next time ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone!
Kindly ask them? Waw you're polite. I would have reported them for a no show and blocked them! Better luck next time "
I have done now
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone! "
No hun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone!
Kindly ask them? Waw you're polite. I would have reported them for a no show and blocked them! Better luck next time "
what does reporting them actually do ,, ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone!
Kindly ask them? Waw you're polite. I would have reported them for a no show and blocked them! Better luck next time
A very good point
what does reporting them actually do ,, ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone! "
If we have met them previously then we will accept a cancellation, anyone who cancels first meet is immediately blocked especially as our first meets are always socials with no pressures to play |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone!
Kindly ask them? Waw you're polite. I would have reported them for a no show and blocked them! Better luck next time
what does reporting them actually do ,, ?"
If they're serial no shows and get reported every time admin will take action! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some folks do have genuine reasons why they can't meet, but I do think it's rude not to at least call/text a reasonable time before hand, especially if the other party has had to travel any distance. I would hate to have driven 50 or so miles to a meet, then not have them show up. |
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Love the title
Up to you, allow then to explain or block.
Ample others on here
I wouldn't like to say without knowing a little back story, and as it's on here I dont want or need a back story.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it wrong to kindly ask someone to not contact you again after someone fails to show? If I make the effort to get myself looking sharp I expect to see someone!
Kindly ask them? Waw you're polite. I would have reported them for a no show and blocked them! Better luck next time "
and thats exactly what i did when i was stood up yday |
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