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if there were no stis?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Was having this conversation earlier with a vanilla friend...

After she was shocked that I play safer than her.... We were talking about reasons.. she doesn't really think sti is an issue these days as most Things are treatable.. I disagree but that's not what this is about..

So if there were no risks of infection.. would you play bare...?

I would more often but to be honest like that it's something that I give as an extra to my regular play mate and I like that I'm the only lady that gets it in return.. so while it would enable occasional messy play on the whole of still restrict it x

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By *irtyDee33Woman over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Yeh I think if I knew I was completely safe from STI's then I would go bare, it does feel different and more intimate!

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman over a year ago

kinky land

Id honestly still insist he cover up.

Only a real partner gets to cum inside me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there was 100% no chance of STIs I definately would.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I've practiced safe sex all my life so it's just habit now. I have only done BB with regular long term partners and even then not always.

BB is well overrated imo and if you put too much emphasis on something like that,it does tend to spoil the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

are we putting babies under the sti banner?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Id definitely go bare if there were om chance of getting a disease. I'm on the pill and it just opens up more avenues for playtime.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope...not for swinging...some things we just like to keep for ourselves...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes as i have a coil to stop babies. if i was younger id still use condoms as no contraception is 100% so id use two forms

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not really fussed about wether the guy used a condom or not if there were no STIs at all. Does not make a difference for my pleasure (I can't really tell it, the condom, is there actually) so it would be up to the guy to decide.

I can't get pregnant anymore so that would not be an issue either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Id honestly still insist he cover up.

Only a real partner gets to cum inside me

See I'm pretty much in that camp now except as I don't do relationships it's my play partner's gift..

But i mostly do not have full sex as with a condom is crap.... But I would still I think mostly go safe x maybe the odd 4sum with all bare would be nice x

Or occasional multiple cream pie but only a rare thing x

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By *ecretescapeCouple over a year ago

Cheshire

if i had 100% reliable contraception and there were no STI'd I would be filled with cum as much and as often as physically bloody possible!!!!!! I LOVE it.

HATE condoms!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No risk of pregnancy for me...oh yes I'd LOVE to go without. Hate the Blimming things.

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By *uby0000Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

love to go bareback if there were no sti s

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

As Bill Hicks said, the day they cure AIDS there will be fucking in the street!

I would definitely go BB if there was no risk. I love the flexibility and, quite frankly, loathe the taste of condoms, even after its come off après shag.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even if there was no risk of sti's I would still have to as I've tried almost every form of birth control and none of it agrees with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I use condoms as a way to protect myself if i had nothing to protect myself against i wouldn't use them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always practice safe sex but hate it !!!! I have had the snip so the baby issue is out !!!!

There was a report in todays paper that syphilis is making a big comeback !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I don't want random children scattered about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you can't catch an STI and can't get her pregnant why on earth would you bother buying a plastic bag to put over it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there was no std's I sure would fuck her with no condom and cum in her pussie lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have to worry about having babies anymore and yes I would go bareback. But not with one offs I don't think

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By *aithlessangelCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

I definitely would go bareback if no chance of STI's love being filled with cum, but until then will just be my bf filling me lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd bareback with men I trusted and were a bit special but not with every man.

I can't get pregnant but would still like to keep BB special xx

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By *i_sm234Man over a year ago

Bargoed

Think the majority of us would bb if there was no STI`s about and no chance of the lady getting pregnant. Personally i find it more intimate and sensual to bb

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By *appyfuckerMan over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

well chance might do bare back but ive no intentions of more children so still condoms

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, my usual contraception method is reliable, but not a hundred percent. Whilst I am happy with those odds in my marriage, they are not good enough for meets.

Likewise, my husband would not be willing to risk other women's contraception without doing his own bit.

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By *r Mahogany70Man over a year ago

Leicester

"I'd bareback with men I trusted and were a bit special but not with every man.

I can't get pregnant but would still like to keep BB special xx"

Really? Is that like how some save kissing for their partners?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd bareback with men I trusted and were a bit special but not with every man.

I can't get pregnant but would still like to keep BB special xx"

That's kinda how I feel.. I spent too many years not caring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd bareback with men I trusted and were a bit special but not with every man.

I can't get pregnant but would still like to keep BB special xx

Really? Is that like how some save kissing for their partners? "

I guess so, if I met someone who I was seeing regularly and built a trusting friendship with, why not? xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeh I think if I knew I was completely safe from STI's then I would go bare, it does feel different and more intimate!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd bareback with men I trusted and were a bit special but not with every man.

I can't get pregnant but would still like to keep BB special xx

Really? Is that like how some save kissing for their partners? "

I can't meet without kissing. For me it is part of the fore play and arouses me very much. Without it it's just too mechanical and not a turn on !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope, happy with condoms, and wouldn't just rely on my pill, so would only be happy to ditch them if how relationship. Also think it makes sex cleaner. Not a huge fan of the mess afterwards without

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Condoms every time but you can still get an std from oral sex so we are all at risk really

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Condoms every time but you can still get an std from oral sex so we are all at risk really "

Did you even read the original post.. ?

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By *infulDesiresCouple over a year ago

"Yeh I think if I knew I was completely safe from STI's then I would go bare, it does feel different and more intimate!

Same for us - much prefer bare, but as long as STI's exist we will be playing safe.

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