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cpls that dont meet single men
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What's the reason you don't?
is it the ladies decision or males?
we enjoy meeting guys and i (Mr) have no jealousy issues with seeing Nik get fucked by a man.im secure enough to know she is with me and not going to run off with a man we meet.
often think its men who cant handle the thought of a man doing what he cant to his wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't meet single men because Mrs liddy doesn't want to, she says she doesn't fancy other men, we are here simply for her bi side,
And not been big headed there's nothing another man can do to my wife I can't, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well we meet single guys but only if they are polite and if they tick all the boxes for the mrs
No jealousy issues here at all  "
same here and mrs not into other women so single males suit us fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the reason you don't?
is it the ladies decision or males?
we enjoy meeting guys and i (Mr) have no jealousy issues with seeing Nik get fucked by a man.im secure enough to know she is with me and not going to run off with a man we meet.
often think its men who cant handle the thought of a man doing what he cant to his wife."
If I was in a relationship and my partner was worried about them being better I would work with him to make him realise that trust and connection would always mean that what I shared with him was always better.
I'm only a play partner couple but even now I would say no one can come close and with others it's just physical totally...
Some women just don't want another guy... Some only want other guys. .
Sometimes it's a jealousy Thing but as long as the couple are doing what works for them what does it matter xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the reason you don't?
is it the ladies decision or males?
we enjoy meeting guys and i (Mr) have no jealousy issues with seeing Nik get fucked by a man.im secure enough to know she is with me and not going to run off with a man we meet.
often think its men who cant handle the thought of a man doing what he cant to his wife.
If I was in a relationship and my partner was worried about them being better I would work with him to make him realise that trust and connection would always mean that what I shared with him was always better.
I'm only a play partner couple but even now I would say no one can come close and with others it's just physical totally...
Some women just don't want another guy... Some only want other guys. .
Sometimes it's a jealousy Thing but as long as the couple are doing what works for them what does it matter xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the reason you don't?
is it the ladies decision or males?
we enjoy meeting guys and i (Mr) have no jealousy issues with seeing Nik get fucked by a man.im secure enough to know she is with me and not going to run off with a man we meet.
often think its men who cant handle the thought of a man doing what he cant to his wife."
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I think a lot do but put they don't on tier profile because they don't want inundated with messages and like to go look and pick who they meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The monkey actually really enjoys watching me get fucked...he has no jealousy or insecurity issues and we have been known to play with single men at clubs and parties but I generally other than that have absolutely no interest in single men outside of that...I often find that they don't like the way I play...I'm uninterested in kissing them and pretty much like them to leave fairly quickly so it's not very fair on those interested in more intimate encounters... |
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We really enjoy meeting single guys, as well as other scenarios. In fact we have found that singles guys by and large are far more reliable than couples or single fems and we have met some fantastic blokes. We do have quite a rigourous vetting process though for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're only here for other women. I like to embrace my bi side and there's no way I could do that in a monogamous straight relationship. We full swing when with couples if it feels right but the Mr doesn't really like seeing me with another man. Not out of jealousy or anything, I just don't think it turns him on, not like it does watching me with a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We will meet single guys when we feel like it. But we mainly meet couples because mrs mad likes to watch mr mad with a woman just as much as mr likes to see mrs with a man.
Also we only play now and then and if you put you meet single guys you get swamped with messages to the point it drives us mad. So if we want a guy, we go looking for one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the reason you don't?
is it the ladies decision or males?
we enjoy meeting guys and i (Mr) have no jealousy issues with seeing Nik get fucked by a man.im secure enough to know she is with me and not going to run off with a man we meet.
often think its men who cant handle the thought of a man doing what he cant to his wife."
Without critisism but I just cant get my head round guys who can do this for their wives - I truly just cant understand it - and the more I think about it - the less I could do it myself if I was in a proper relationship x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't meet single guys mainly couples then we all get to play although gilly gets off on watching me fuck another woman, I have suggested single guys but she is not interested at the moment and again she really likes playing with the ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never get couples who say things like, I get everything I need from my fella so I don't need to meet other men, yet they have 3sums with women where the guy fucks the other woman, does that mean the guy don't get everything he needs from his Mrs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...often think its men who cant handle the thought of a man doing what he cant to his wife."
To be honest, thats a hell of a leap to make!
We predominantly meet couples as we really get off on seeing each other being pleasured by someone whilst having the same done to us and thats not going to happen with a single guy as I'm not interested in being with another man.
We've met a single fem as well as J really enjoys her bi-side but meeting a single guy is something that neither of us is really that interested in doing.
I've no worries what so ever about another guy doing something that I can't. The guy half of some of the couples have made J cum quicker than I can, I've no hang ups about it. If he can do other things then great as Fab is all about new experiences.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The jealousy or insecurity issue is nonsense if a couple meets other couples then the female half of one of them,could literally have the time of her life with the other male.
I really don't see how that is any different from meeting a single male who could potentially,do exactly the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We swing mainly because I like doing it. Mrs N goes with the flow but says that satisfying 2 blokes at a time puts a lot of stress on her body so she'd rather only do that sort of thing occasionally.
Nothing I like more than the sound of loud moaning and rhythmic slapping noises coming from our bed but I have to ration my instinct to arrange naughty fun. Mrs N is also into her girly fun too so much prefers it when we meet couples. So sorry guys, it doesn't happen that much with us but when it does the single guys we meet often leave us with a big smile on their face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a lot of guys like to imagine that its the hubby putting his foot down and is jealous in case the other guy has better skills and can satisfy his partner much more than he ever could - if this works to soften the blow of rejection and keeps the ego intact then believe it.
We would meet single guys, couples, women, TVs. If we meet a person that we get on with, can have a laugh with etc, then we go with it. We dont have a set criteria set into stone. I have played with guys and my OH has watched and Ive also sat and watched him with other women. We dont tend to sit down and psychologically analyse it, its a case of if we like the people, are in the right situation, then thats it. We tend to go to parties and clubs and there is a big mix.
When we swing neither of us has to have sex with others, if it happens ok, if it doesnt ok, its the going out, dressing up, going to clubs, enjoying the atmosphere etc. Its actually not only about the actual act of sex.
If either of us decline to play with others, it is because the other person is not ideal for us, it isnt centred around sexual technique insecurities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't meet single guys not because we have a jealousy problem, we have happily verified a few from social events.
It's just not my thing I guess I'm almost the female version of a cuck guy as in I love to watch Silk with other women and get of on that rather then have any involvement myself. I would class myself as a domme cuckquean as i dont go in for the humiliation aspect.
Us not meeting single men is my decision and if my desires were to change me and Silk would have an open discussion and change our meet criteria accordingly.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think turning on the setting to stop single guys contacting couples is much better than the offensive "no single guys" wrote by the people. It is more polite and understood better, it's like the couple want to verbally control single guys to back off but if the setting blocks them from messaging anyway why write it in the first place? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"What's the reason you don't?
is it the ladies decision or males?
we enjoy meeting guys and i (Mr) have no jealousy issues with seeing Nik get fucked by a man.im secure enough to know she is with me and not going to run off with a man we meet.
often think its men who cant handle the thought of a man doing what he cant to his wife."
the truth is that is probably some of that with some couples.....
same as for example the wife not wanting to play with other men, but the man using it as an oppotunity to play with other women....
and probably the same as that in reverse..... which is why some couples look for single men
but heck... the majority of people just want to have fun with likeminded people, and sometime we lose that in over-analysing everything.....
whatever the reason, I am not going to have a go at them (and dont think I am having a go at you for asking... it's an interesting topic) because swinging is such a personal thing..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think turning on the setting to stop single guys contacting couples is much better than the offensive "no single guys" wrote by the people. It is more polite and understood better, it's like the couple want to verbally control single guys to back off but if the setting blocks them from messaging anyway why write it in the first place?"
Or perhaps it would be polite for single men to read people's profiles and respect their preferences? Or is that too much to ask? We don't filter them because we post on the forum and this can sometimes generate good conversation... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont mind single men but I definitely would prefer having another woman to play with. Or threesome with 2 girls obviously but the rarely happens. Not much I can do with a man being that I am straight but I do like seeing her get off with me and another.
My question back to single men would be, when you finally are not single are you going to share your love with just another man or would you prefer to share with a couple? Very easy to answer when you are the single guy getting play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think turning on the setting to stop single guys contacting couples is much better than the offensive "no single guys" wrote by the people. It is more polite and understood better, it's like the couple want to verbally control single guys to back off but if the setting blocks them from messaging anyway why write it in the first place?
Or perhaps it would be polite for single men to read people's profiles and respect their preferences? Or is that too much to ask? We don't filter them because we post on the forum and this can sometimes generate good conversation..."
That's what the filter is for, single men are in a minority regarding couples. When single men click "message" on couple profiles...straight away the warning appears and couples preference answered. Some men don't read your T@C and go straight to message. The website gives you the tools to keep them away. Having it wrote down is pointless, if they're still messaging you then your written preference is being ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do but don't put it as an interest to save being pestered. I am surprised at how many insecurities are revealed on here, doesn't seem the best place to be if you're not secure in yourself and your relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me if I was part of a couple I think it best not being here. As a single man I've my own concerns to think about. I think it's great couples here can sleep around with who they choose. Takes a lot of trust to be happy with that lifestyle and it works for some. More power to them.
When I'm in love with someone in a relationship I just want that person. As a single man I don't mind what the other person here do or want. I don't have to live with them. Just meet, talk, perhaps coffee maybe sex if it works and I'm gone. |
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Although it says on our profile that we are not looking for single guys, we do actually play with them.
The reason we don't advertise the fact is that it usually happens at parties, after some time spent getting to know them, and maybe with a nod from friends who know them as being decent.
Jayne has no interest in adding another guy to what we do together, she prefers to play at parties and go with the flow.
As for me, I like seeing her enjoying herself, whether that's with a girl or a guy, and I get to join in too, so its a "win-win" for me lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think turning on the setting to stop single guys contacting couples is much better than the offensive "no single guys" wrote by the people. It is more polite and understood better, it's like the couple want to verbally control single guys to back off but if the setting blocks them from messaging anyway why write it in the first place?
Or perhaps it would be polite for single men to read people's profiles and respect their preferences? Or is that too much to ask? We don't filter them because we post on the forum and this can sometimes generate good conversation...
That's what the filter is for, single men are in a minority regarding couples. When single men click "message" on couple profiles...straight away the warning appears and couples preference answered. Some men don't read your T@C and go straight to message. The website gives you the tools to keep them away. Having it wrote down is pointless, if they're still messaging you then your written preference is being ignored. "
The message comes up because we haven't indicated we're looking for single men...they could try reading that and seeing it as an indicator of preference...the filter prevents you from messaging at all...to suggest that we are impolite in expressing a preference but removing the opportunity for idiots to make a choice and not message is ridiculous... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think turning on the setting to stop single guys contacting couples is much better than the offensive "no single guys" wrote by the people. It is more polite and understood better, it's like the couple want to verbally control single guys to back off but if the setting blocks them from messaging anyway why write it in the first place?
Or perhaps it would be polite for single men to read people's profiles and respect their preferences? Or is that too much to ask? We don't filter them because we post on the forum and this can sometimes generate good conversation...
That's what the filter is for, single men are in a minority regarding couples. When single men click "message" on couple profiles...straight away the warning appears and couples preference answered. Some men don't read your T@C and go straight to message. The website gives you the tools to keep them away. Having it wrote down is pointless, if they're still messaging you then your written preference is being ignored.
The message comes up because we haven't indicated we're looking for single men...they could try reading that and seeing it as an indicator of preference...the filter prevents you from messaging at all...to suggest that we are impolite in expressing a preference but removing the opportunity for idiots to make a choice and not message is ridiculous..."
There you have it, if they're "idiots" then they're not gonna read it. But they'll get the message (or not lol) when they try to make contact. |
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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago
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We meet single guys and she meets them alone too and he has met couples and single girls. If there was any jealousy issue from either side then we would simply stop.
It's all about having fun so what combination that involves is ok. Down to mood and availability I suppose !! |
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"What's the reason you don't?
is it the ladies decision or males?
we enjoy meeting guys and i (Mr) have no jealousy issues with seeing Nik get fucked by a man.im secure enough to know she is with me and not going to run off with a man we meet.
often think its men who cant handle the thought of a man doing what he cant to his wife."
It's got nothing to do with any of what has been posted. It's simply our choice.
We don't play with TV's either but I've never noticed them raising it as an issue. |
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