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By *ick901 OP   Man  over a year ago

glasgow

Lots of true swinging gentlemen on here like to share there wife's and partners,

But does anyone think there is lots of couples where the guys wants to shag everything but won't let his partner shag other men, even though she would probably love to??

They say no single guys, when really it's just him that doesn't want single guys???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lots of true swinging gentlemen on here like to share there wife's and partners,

But does anyone think there is lots of couples where the guys wants to shag everything but won't let his partner shag other men, even though she would probably love to??

They say no single guys, when really it's just him that doesn't want single guys???"

Maybe the fear another man will show her what a real orgasm feels like lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Perhaps no singles because they want to meet couples as a couple?

Just a thought.

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By *reelove1969Couple  over a year ago

bristol

how do you know these women would love to ? ..lots of couples on here like to see 'each other' enjoying other people ...which rules single guys out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

it can work both ways..

some couples just arent good at getting into the sex side of things

I often find it weird cpls that are seeking cpls and only have men as their verifies(and often mention they cant get cpls meets).....there must be some issue there lol

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Lots of true swinging gentlemen on here like to share there wife's and partners,

But does anyone think there is lots of couples where the guys wants to shag everything but won't let his partner shag other men, even though she would probably love to??

They say no single guys, when really it's just him that doesn't want single guys???"

This will be true in some cases but not all. Use of the word sharing implies ownership and that isn't true swinging (whatever that is)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Perhaps no singles because they want to meet couples as a couple?

Just a thought. "

hey it does happen...no need to get defensive lol

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By *aveandkate35Couple  over a year ago

telford


"Lots of true swinging gentlemen on here like to share there wife's and partners,

But does anyone think there is lots of couples where the guys wants to shag everything but won't let his partner shag other men, even though she would probably love to??

They say no single guys, when really it's just him that doesn't want single guys???

Maybe the fear another man will show her what a real orgasm feels like lol"

Adding a lol at the end doesn't make that statement any less ridiculous...

In answer to the op, I'm sure it happens but in the whole no, not at all. I expect they meet couples because they both get to "shag" as you put it, others at the same time so why meet a single??

Don't get me wrong I understand why you'd want a single, but just because a lot of couples say no single men has got nothing to do with the bloke not liking his partner with another guy - it's just even nicer to watch while getting sucked off by HIS wife.

D

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Perhaps no singles because they want to meet couples as a couple?

Just a thought.

hey it does happen...no need to get defensive lol "

Lol. Not defensive at all. If you read our couples profile it clearly shows only the female plays.

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Perhaps no singles because they want to meet couples as a couple?

Just a thought.

hey it does happen...no need to get defensive lol

Lol. Not defensive at all. If you read our couples profile it clearly shows only the female plays.

Each to their own "

I didnt want to perv the profile..as the avatar already has me wanking..oops...

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By *leasures4Couple  over a year ago

East midlands

My fella is far from selfish. Up to press I have been the main player as he loves to see me receive pleasure. That's what its all about for him. I also want to see him pleasured too though... ladies??

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I have often had a chuckle at new friends with benefits couple profiles.... They often rant rant rant no single males.

Then when they split, the male is back complaining about life as a single male.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've yet to read a profile that says " no single females"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Personally i love women who are willing to share their husbands :D

and vis versa :p

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Really?....we don't play with single females,we don't need to say so though,we just use the filters

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By *leasures4Couple  over a year ago

East midlands


"I've yet to read a profile that says " no single females" "

Yes...i havent seen many either...

The females seem very elusive.

As the female half, its me that would love a female to join us. I love to play with a delicious pussy and have the fantasy of teaming up with my fella to give a lady a night to remember...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've yet to read a profile that says " no single females" "
ours does

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Really?....we don't play with single females,we don't need to say so though,we just use the filters "

good lord Jo has an amazing bottom :o

i should probably stop posting now .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Really?....we don't play with single females,we don't need to say so though,we just use the filters

good lord Jo has an amazing bottom :o

i should probably stop posting now ."

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Really?....we don't play with single females,we don't need to say so though,we just use the filters

good lord Jo has an amazing bottom :o

i should probably stop posting now ."

Your ass looks high and tight too, well done

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man  over a year ago

Brandon

Jo's pictures dont do her justice. I should know as I have seen her in the flesh

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By *ast_jjMan  over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Really?....we don't play with single females,we don't need to say so though,we just use the filters

good lord Jo has an amazing bottom :o

i should probably stop posting now ."

She does. One of the sexiest asses on Fab. Lol J

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"Lots of true swinging gentlemen on here like to share their wife's and partners,

But does anyone think there are a lot of couples where the guys wants to shag everything but won't let his partner shag other men, even though she would probably love to??

They say no single guys, when really it's just him that doesn't want single guys???"

I think there are a lot of assumptions in this OP.

Firstly if they are a couple and wanting to swap, then why would that include single fella's????

I would question this too...

but won't let his partner shag other men, even though she would probably love to??

Won't let his partner shag other men???

She probably would love to???

They are 2 mighty assumptions.

I'm sure there are some couples where one may lay down the law and the rules, but I would hope that the majority of couples nowa days, the rules (if they have any) are agreed between the two of them.

Speaking personally from our swinging experiences whilst I flip both ways, I do find females on the whole generally more appealing sexually. So it could quite easily be that the male in the couple finds the ladies attractive, where as the female finds it harder to find a correspondingly appealing male.

I do go both ways but just because a lady may find me and my husband appealing, it does not mean I'm always going to go for her man.

It's not a straight forward transaction in that fashion. I'd quite happily watch my man playing, if the other fella did not do it for me. Just as he would quite happily watch me ( or play with just me) if she did not take a fancy to my husband. We are not experienced by any means, but most people are pretty chilled out and there have been times when I have just wanted the lady and my hubby, there are other times when I've wanted everyone.

There has been the odd occasion that I've just sucked off the man on his own, but I don't think you can assume that a woman is dying to get her knickers off for the other couples fella.

Hope that made sense???

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By *ick901 OP   Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"how do you know these women would love to ? ..lots of couples on here like to see 'each other' enjoying other people ...which rules single guys out "

So how come the female is straight but they can meet single fem but no single guys?

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Perhaps no singles because they want to meet couples as a couple?

Just a thought. "

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"how do you know these women would love to ? ..lots of couples on here like to see 'each other' enjoying other people ...which rules single guys out

So how come the female is straight but they can meet single fem but no single guys?

"

Because she actually like watching him enjoy other women............

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Perhaps no singles because they want to meet couples as a couple?

Just a thought. "

Exactly! I quite like seeing my wife bang other guys (as per the photos on our account) but she has no interest in MMF's outside of a a couple couple senario. She's fine with a FFM though...guess I'm just lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

have seen more times were the guy not allowed to play just her as she gets jealous xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Jo's pictures dont do her justice. I should know as I have seen her in the flesh "

I hate you :p

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

OP should realise that in 99% of cases with couples it is the female that is in control

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"how do you know these women would love to ? ..lots of couples on here like to see 'each other' enjoying other people ...which rules single guys out

So how come the female is straight but they can meet single fem but no single guys?

Because she actually like watching him enjoy other women............"

Or she does not want another fella, if you are talking about a specific incident.

It's not unusual to come across wife watchers, so maybe if we are talking a specific couple she is a bit of a husband watcher? Maybe it turns her on to share him. It might be more unusual and less likely to get meetings that a couple where they both swap, but hey if it floats their boat why not.

I assumed you where talking generally about couples, now it sounds like a more specific point about one couple.

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By *uby0000Woman  over a year ago

hertfordshire


"have seen more times were the guy not allowed to play just her as she gets jealous xx "

my hubby don't want anyone else but me

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By *errynjuneCouple  over a year ago

Barnsley

My husband not allowed anyone but me

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By *ick901 OP   Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"Lots of true swinging gentlemen on here like to share their wife's and partners,

But does anyone think there are a lot of couples where the guys wants to shag everything but won't let his partner shag other men, even though she would probably love to??

They say no single guys, when really it's just him that doesn't want single guys???

I think there are a lot of assumptions in this OP.

Firstly if they are a couple and wanting to swap, then why would that include single fella's????

I would question this too...

but won't let his partner shag other men, even though she would probably love to??

Won't let his partner shag other men???

She probably would love to???

They are 2 mighty assumptions.

I'm sure there are some couples where one may lay down the law and the rules, but I would hope that the majority of couples nowa days, the rules (if they have any) are agreed between the two of them.

Speaking personally from our swinging experiences whilst I flip both ways, I do find females on the whole generally more appealing sexually. So it could quite easily be that the male in the couple finds the ladies attractive, where as the female finds it harder to find a correspondingly appealing male.

I do go both ways but just because a lady may find me and my husband appealing, it does not mean I'm always going to go for her man.

It's not a straight forward transaction in that fashion. I'd quite happily watch my man playing, if the other fella did not do it for me. Just as he would quite happily watch me ( or play with just me) if she did not take a fancy to my husband. We are not experienced by any means, but most people are pretty chilled out and there have been times when I have just wanted the lady and my hubby, there are other times when I've wanted everyone.

There has been the odd occasion that I've just sucked off the man on his own, but I don't think you can assume that a woman is dying to get her knickers off for the other couples fella.

Hope that made sense???"

Now firstly your are assuming that I am assuming??? I will narrow it down for you, males that are nearly 20 years older than there swing partner, yes swing partner, that don't want any other men fucking the fem, but actually only swing with them to keep them? You can spot them a mile, the post isn't meant to class every non seeking single male couple!!!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed

My husband is to shy to ask anyone but me.

Not really, but he is the quiet type so is not pushy. I however well I know what I like.

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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Because she actually like watching him enjoy other women............

Or she does not want another fella, if you are talking about a specific incident.

It's not unusual to come across wife watchers, so maybe if we are talking a specific couple she is a bit of a husband watcher? Maybe it turns her on to share him. It might be more unusual and less likely to get meetings that a couple where they both swap, but hey if it floats their boat why not.

I assumed you where talking generally about couples, now it sounds like a more specific point about one couple."

I meant to put ??? at end of comment...

OP assuming the guy making up the rules, when in the majority of cases it is the womans choice....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Each to there own , I love watching my man with another woman as long as he shares lol

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"

Now firstly your are assuming that I am assuming??? I will narrow it down for you, males that are nearly 20 years older than there swing partner, yes swing partner, that don't want any other men fucking the fem, but actually only swing with them to keep them? You can spot them a mile, the post isn't meant to class every non seeking single male couple!!! "

Right, like I said at first I thought it was a general comment about swinging couples. Now you say it like that, I have no clue on the matter. As a couple we have tended to meet just other couples.

However, we where in a club once where we did observe the opposite, where in the toilets the man was expressing his disappointment that she did not fuck another fella, they had been with and in their d*unken state he was goading her to go back and fuck the other guy to prove herself.

Not the most pleasant conversation we've heard in a club, in that situation the fella was in some sort of control. But as for your experience, never come across it, but we wouldn't.

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

Because she actually like watching him enjoy other women............

Or she does not want another fella, if you are talking about a specific incident.

"

I can only speak for myself....

No interest in inviting single men to join us...

This does not mean I dont want another man, we meet couples for that...

But I am perfectly happy to watch my OH with another woman without other men being there (though we do not actively seek single women)

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By *ick901 OP   Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"

Now firstly your are assuming that I am assuming??? I will narrow it down for you, males that are nearly 20 years older than there swing partner, yes swing partner, that don't want any other men fucking the fem, but actually only swing with them to keep them? You can spot them a mile, the post isn't meant to class every non seeking single male couple!!!

Right, like I said at first I thought it was a general comment about swinging couples. Now you say it like that, I have no clue on the matter. As a couple we have tended to meet just other couples.

However, we where in a club once where we did observe the opposite, where in the toilets the man was expressing his disappointment that she did not fuck another fella, they had been with and in their d*unken state he was goading her to go back and fuck the other guy to prove herself.

Not the most pleasant conversation we've heard in a club, in that situation the fella was in some sort of control. But as for your experience, never come across it, but we wouldn't."

Just seen your profile, why do you guys even swing, you've got it all with each other, very nice duo

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

OP I hope you are not insinuating that couple who swing dont have it all with each other

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"

Just seen your profile, why do you guys even swing, you've got it all with each other, very nice duo "

Well we are not very good swingers. We only play occasionally. But hopefully we'll have a little more time for it in the future.

Why do we swing?

The same reason we use vibrators and dildos and cock rings and sexy dresses. The same reason we tell each other naughty stories.

It all ads to the fun. It's not about replacing or even swapping partners for us. It's about adding to what we already have.

A bit like eating a chocolate cookie. I have a chocolate cookie and it is lovely, but on the odd occasion 2 or 3 chocolate cookies adds that little bit extra on top.

If I could not have any more cookies, I'd be happy with my one, but my cookie don't mind, in fact he likes it.

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By *ick901 OP   Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"OP I hope you are not insinuating that couple who swing dont have it all with each other "

Eh?? It's a compliment something you don't get on here much that's why you probably didn't recognise it!!!!!!!!!

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"OP I hope you are not insinuating that couple who swing dont have it all with each other

Eh?? It's a compliment something you don't get on here much that's why you probably didn't recognise it!!!!!!!!!"

Oh please........

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They say no single guys, when really it's just him that does't want single guys???"

Singles have their place, but it's a bit rich a single guy complaining about couples being selfish

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By *ick901 OP   Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"They say no single guys, when really it's just him that does't want single guys???

Singles have their place, but it's a bit rich a single guy complaining about couples being selfish "

Single guys on here are the most obliging I think you will find by a country mile, when they get the chance that is

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Lucky for most single guys that some of us dont tar them all with the antics and comments of some

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Here's a question for those who reject single guys,

What reasons put you off a single guy, what have they done to be part of the reject pile?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" when they get the chance that is"

Thats possibly true to couples who are into MMF that doesnt make those that wre not selfish

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Here's a question for those who reject single guys,

What reasons put you off a single guy, what have they done to be part of the reject pile?"

I "reject" single guys because I simply have no interest in MFM...

Be pointless meeting them...

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By *ick901 OP   Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"Lucky for most single guys that some of us dont tar them all with the antics and comments of some "

Your a single female who has a couple profile also you say??? Why ???

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"Here's a question for those who reject single guys,

What reasons put you off a single guy, what have they done to be part of the reject pile?"

I've never wanted to meet a single guy. I suppose if I did, I would just ask one, but the thought has never occurred.

Like I said above, I have a bigger preference for the female form. Men are ok but women tend to float my boat more.

You like what you like, you can't change that.

It would be daft to put single men on the profile, if I did not want to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"Lucky for most single guys that some of us dont tar them all with the antics and comments of some

Your a single female who has a couple profile also you say??? Why ???"

I think that's answered in her profile....

This is my "single" profile....

I use it simply to chat to the friends I have met already and those I have yet to meet at CJ's...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here's a question for those who reject single guys,

What reasons put you off a single guy, what have they done to be part of the reject pile?

I "reject" single guys because I simply have no interest in MFM...

Be pointless meeting them...

"

I've never been in a ffm but I wouldn't say it doesn't interest me because I haven't tried it to make that decision. I may or may not but until then it's an open decision until I've experienced it. If I don't like it then I will say it's not for me.

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Lucky for most single guys that some of us dont tar them all with the antics and comments of some

Your a single female who has a couple profile also you say??? Why ???"

Thought the profile was quite clear...

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"

I've never been in a ffm but I wouldn't say it doesn't interest me because I haven't tried it to make that decision. I may or may not but until then it's an open decision until I've experienced it. If I don't like it then I will say it's not for me.

"

I've never tried sitting on a spike, but I certainly can say without a shadow of a doubt that just because I have not experienced it, does not mean it's an open decision.

Do you get my point.

Oh come on that's worth a drum roll...

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

I've never been in a ffm but I wouldn't say it doesn't interest me because I haven't tried it to make that decision. I may or may not but until then it's an open decision until I've experienced it. If I don't like it then I will say it's not for me.

"

You are assuming I have never tried it...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I've never been in a ffm but I wouldn't say it doesn't interest me because I haven't tried it to make that decision. I may or may not but until then it's an open decision until I've experienced it. If I don't like it then I will say it's not for me.

I've never tried sitting on a spike, but I certainly can say without a shadow of a doubt that just because I have not experienced it, does not mean it's an open decision.

Do you get my point.

Oh come on that's worth a drum roll... "

Sitting on a spike?????? Really, that's your comparison?

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

Sitting on a spike?????? Really, that's your comparison? "

Have you seen some of the pics on here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are not interested in MMF mainly FF occasionally FFM, so single guys are blocked, if we have a fantasy that requires a single guy then it wont be hard to find one, but we probably would go for another couple and enjoy it as one of the permutations.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"

Sitting on a spike?????? Really, that's your comparison? "

I did start with another example, but I thought it was in bad taste.

My point (bum tish)

was that you don't have to experience everything to make a judgement on it.

I could have easily said, I don't want to try eating plastic, but that does not carry the same point.

Again (bum and tish)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's definitely a mans world inside a couple, he can enjoy another woman hey even two more in the bed.

The man wins either way single or taken.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"have seen more times were the guy not allowed to play just her as she gets jealous xx "

I've found this often.. or guys not allowed to Cum with me but my play partner is expected to Cum with them..

But it's not so much selfish as how they want to play xx

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

The man wins either way single or taken. "

Try telling that to all the guys complaining about not getting any meets

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's definitely a mans world inside a couple, he can enjoy another woman hey even two more in the bed.

The man wins either way single or taken. "

That's your _iew point... but you are wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's definitely a mans world inside a couple, he can enjoy another woman hey even two more in the bed.

The man wins either way single or taken.

That's your _iew point... but you are wrong "

You keep telling yourself that

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"It's definitely a mans world inside a couple, he can enjoy another woman hey even two more in the bed.

The man wins either way single or taken. "

My man would be more than happy to see me in a take on all comers gangbang, but it's not for me.

And no I've not experienced it either.

So if you are saying the man gets what he wants, then Mr Duck certainly does not get everything he wants.

But then neither do I as I've never seen him take on a man. But just because we are a couple it does not mean we will fulfill every wish or fantasy.

There are plenty of couples after single men. There is no rule that all couples have to be. I maybe after just pre-op transsexuals. It's our choice as a couple to set the parameters that we wish to have. If that's no whites, no black, no men, no women, just green aliens from outer space, then why should anyone not matching that care?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You keep telling yourself that"

Surely it's a bi's world... but it seems to me that those with their pick are the single fems on here, see a lot more single guys complaining about no messages / meets than you do single women

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By *riendly foeWoman  over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"It's definitely a mans world inside a couple, he can enjoy another woman hey even two more in the bed.

The man wins either way single or taken.

That's your _iew point... but you are wrong

You keep telling yourself that"

Couples playing with other couples.....

Everyone wins

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Everyone wins "

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"You keep telling yourself that

Surely it's a bi's world... but it seems to me that those with their pick are the single fems on here, see a lot more single guys complaining about no messages / meets than you do single women"

Cue the single women who get fed up with time wasters, fantasists and the one minute fucks.

The grass is always greener.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

The grass is always greener."

Nah WE like our grass just fine thank you, green enough to hide the aliens, and when we get time to play we generally find what we want,

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By *ick901 OP   Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"It's definitely a mans world inside a couple, he can enjoy another woman hey even two more in the bed.

The man wins either way single or taken.

My man would be more than happy to see me in a take on all comers gangbang, but it's not for me.

And no I've not experienced it either.

So if you are saying the man gets what he wants, then Mr Duck certainly does not get everything he wants.

But then neither do I as I've never seen him take on a man. But just because we are a couple it does not mean we will fulfill every wish or fantasy.

There are plenty of couples after single men. There is no rule that all couples have to be. I maybe after just pre-op transsexuals. It's our choice as a couple to set the parameters that we wish to have. If that's no whites, no black, no men, no women, just green aliens from outer space, then why should anyone not matching that care?"

Lots of couples are not related to this post, you seem to be trying to make it sound as if it was directed at you guys? Because you are fine with wot your doing doesn't mean all couples are like you? Think you need to go back to the beginning and decide if this post relates to you in anyway, if not then you really don't need to keep defending yourselves??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP no this doesn't relate to us, but we feel it doesn't relate to any other swinging couple either, you seem to think that choices are made without the female partner being involved, if they are that is not swinging.

Excluding single men for those that do, is a choice that you have no right to question.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"It's definitely a mans world inside a couple, he can enjoy another woman hey even two more in the bed.

The man wins either way single or taken.

My man would be more than happy to see me in a take on all comers gangbang, but it's not for me.

And no I've not experienced it either.

So if you are saying the man gets what he wants, then Mr Duck certainly does not get everything he wants.

But then neither do I as I've never seen him take on a man. But just because we are a couple it does not mean we will fulfill every wish or fantasy.

There are plenty of couples after single men. There is no rule that all couples have to be. I maybe after just pre-op transsexuals. It's our choice as a couple to set the parameters that we wish to have. If that's no whites, no black, no men, no women, just green aliens from outer space, then why should anyone not matching that care?

Lots of couples are not related to this post, you seem to be trying to make it sound as if it was directed at you guys? Because you are fine with wot your doing doesn't mean all couples are like you? Think you need to go back to the beginning and decide if this post relates to you in anyway, if not then you really don't need to keep defending yourselves??"

I was responding to a different comment on that post.

I get that your OP is now more specific than it sounded.

I'm not trying to defend ourselves. I'm trying to explain that if someone, me or one of these specific couples makes a choice, why should it matter.

There could be all sorts of reasons, that they have for their choices. Whether selfish or not, it's their choice.

I put most of it into the first person as I can't explain the reasoning of someone I don't know. But there choice is just as valid as mine.

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By *ick901 OP   Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"OP no this doesn't relate to us, but we feel it doesn't relate to any other swinging couple either, you seem to think that choices are made without the female partner being involved, if they are that is not swinging.

Excluding single men for those that do, is a choice that you have no right to question."

So what right do you have to dismiss my question as being in no relation to any other couple, wot are you the fab couples union?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"OP no this doesn't relate to us, but we feel it doesn't relate to any other swinging couple either, you seem to think that choices are made without the female partner being involved, if they are that is not swinging.

Excluding single men for those that do, is a choice that you have no right to question."

I'd say it's pointless to question rather than no right.

We all judge people so I guess we are all a little guilty of that, but in the end if a couple don't want single guys, the reason why is because it's their choice!

Whether it's us, you or someone else.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"OP no this doesn't relate to us, but we feel it doesn't relate to any other swinging couple either, you seem to think that choices are made without the female partner being involved, if they are that is not swinging.

Excluding single men for those that do, is a choice that you have no right to question.

So what right do you have to dismiss my question as being in no relation to any other couple, wot are you the fab couples union?"

No no no

The Fab couples Union are a bunch of splitters, we are the Union for fab couples.

A far more tolerant bunch.

We allow unmarried people and everything.

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By *ick901 OP   Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"OP no this doesn't relate to us, but we feel it doesn't relate to any other swinging couple either, you seem to think that choices are made without the female partner being involved, if they are that is not swinging.

Excluding single men for those that do, is a choice that you have no right to question.

So what right do you have to dismiss my question as being in no relation to any other couple, wot are you the fab couples union?

No no no

The Fab couples Union are a bunch of splitters, we are the Union for fab couples.

A far more tolerant bunch.

We allow unmarried people and everything."

Now now the union one also wasn't directed at you?? Lol you just can't help yourself lol the chat has been good though,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I thought we were the affiliation of fab couples?

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By *ick901 OP   Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"OP no this doesn't relate to us, but we feel it doesn't relate to any other swinging couple either, you seem to think that choices are made without the female partner being involved, if they are that is not swinging.

Excluding single men for those that do, is a choice that you have no right to question.

So what right do you have to dismiss my question as being in no relation to any other couple, wot are you the fab couples union?

No no no

The Fab couples Union are a bunch of splitters, we are the Union for fab couples.

A far more tolerant bunch.

We allow unmarried people and everything."

Also I'm a straight guy, but I've just peeved your pics and do you have very small hands or is that a massive cock?? Oh and that's a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There will always be discrimination on some level wherever you go.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

But choice is not discrimination, and a couples dynamic has to be discussed and agreed between two people which can take longer and require more effort than that of a single of either sex.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"OP no this doesn't relate to us, but we feel it doesn't relate to any other swinging couple either, you seem to think that choices are made without the female partner being involved, if they are that is not swinging.

Excluding single men for those that do, is a choice that you have no right to question.

So what right do you have to dismiss my question as being in no relation to any other couple, wot are you the fab couples union?

No no no

The Fab couples Union are a bunch of splitters, we are the Union for fab couples.

A far more tolerant bunch.

We allow unmarried people and everything.

Also I'm a straight guy, but I've just peeved your pics and do you have very small hands or is that a massive cock?? Oh and that's a compliment "

Now massive cocks that's a whole other thread.

Last time it was measured was some 10years ago.

As I recall it was 8.5 inches. Although there is an argument where you measure from.

Big is not always better though. He's never had my ass, and sometimes it can be too big for me. So ramming that home can cause pain, which ends sex pretty quickly when feeling nauseous.

Anyway. It's been nice to chat. And yes I did jump in on the last one, but only because I could not let a good monty python set up go to waste.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lots of true swinging gentlemen on here like to share there wife's and partners,

But does anyone think there is lots of couples where the guys wants to shag everything but won't let his partner shag other men, even though she would probably love to??

They say no single guys, when really it's just him that doesn't want single guys???"

There will be some like that but there also will be many other reasons for preferences stated on a profile. At the end of the day though its choice in the main and its unfair to dab someone with the selfish stick without really knowing the reasons for someones choices.

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By *ick901 OP   Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"OP no this doesn't relate to us, but we feel it doesn't relate to any other swinging couple either, you seem to think that choices are made without the female partner being involved, if they are that is not swinging.

Excluding single men for those that do, is a choice that you have no right to question.

So what right do you have to dismiss my question as being in no relation to any other couple, wot are you the fab couples union?

No no no

The Fab couples Union are a bunch of splitters, we are the Union for fab couples.

A far more tolerant bunch.

We allow unmarried people and everything.

Also I'm a straight guy, but I've just peeved your pics and do you have very small hands or is that a massive cock?? Oh and that's a compliment

Now massive cocks that's a whole other thread.

Last time it was measured was some 10years ago.

As I recall it was 8.5 inches. Although there is an argument where you measure from.

Big is not always better though. He's never had my ass, and sometimes it can be too big for me. So ramming that home can cause pain, which ends sex pretty quickly when feeling nauseous.

Anyway. It's been nice to chat. And yes I did jump in on the last one, but only because I could not let a good monty python set up go to waste.

"

See you should be trying smaller ones haha hopefully we can debate again soon

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By *he Happy ManMan  over a year ago

Merseyside


"I've yet to read a profile that says " no single females" "

I have read lots.

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