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over a year ago
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"what is reclaim sex?"
Sounds a bit too " ownie"
But I am guessing the wife plays seperately then comes back and tells the hubby, he then reclaims her via having sex with her!!
I could be very wrong though |
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"what is reclaim sex?
Sounds a bit too " ownie"
But I am guessing the wife plays seperately then comes back and tells the hubby, he then reclaims her via having sex with her!!
I could be very wrong though "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what is reclaim sex?
Sounds a bit too " ownie"
But I am guessing the wife plays seperately then comes back and tells the hubby, he then reclaims her via having sex with her!!
I could be very wrong though
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so is it that then?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what is reclaim sex?
You take her to the tip and have her up against the compostables skip."
No, it's when you pick a partner off of a conveyer belt, like baggage reclaim at the airport ... It's also know as Yo! Sushi sex |
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over a year ago
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well if so, it seems a little yuk.
must be a full swap thing as i have never felt i need to stick my dick in V's mouth better than the last bloke, or suck her pussy better to prove a point. |
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"well if so, it seems a little yuk.
must be a full swap thing as i have never felt i need to stick my dick in V's mouth better than the last bloke, or suck her pussy better to prove a point."
It's not about doing it better... As to be honest I can't see how anyone would better what a couple share together |
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"Don't you just love it , after a fantastic meet and your wife telling you all the details , then the reclaim sex,, totally mind blowing,, and that's why we simply love swinging x"
We get you. 
Its one of the best parts for us. |
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"well if so, it seems a little yuk.
must be a full swap thing as i have never felt i need to stick my dick in V's mouth better than the last bloke, or suck her pussy better to prove a point.
It's not about doing it better... As to be honest I can't see how anyone would better what a couple share together "
exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well if so, it seems a little yuk.
must be a full swap thing as i have never felt i need to stick my dick in V's mouth better than the last bloke, or suck her pussy better to prove a point.
It's not about doing it better... As to be honest I can't see how anyone would better what a couple share together exactly"
ok, this doesnt make it any clearer lol.
im not being purposely argumentative.
i jsut dont get it.
its not about doing something better
nothing gets close to what a couple has, which i agree with, btw
so what makes it reclaim sex?
surely its just horny sex basking in the light of what has been a good evening, either singularly or as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what is reclaim sex?
it's when the hubby/mrs stamps their mark on their spouse - post meet, I think"
dude, i got it wrong all on my own lol.
i dont need you to be here getting it wrong with me  |
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"what is reclaim sex?
it's when the hubby/mrs stamps their mark on their spouse - post meet, I think"
O think it's more a Dom/sub thing maybe. The Dom has leant his sub to someone else for fun and sex the he 'reclaims' her as his.
That's my take on it anyway |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"what is reclaim sex?
it's when the hubby/mrs stamps their mark on their spouse - post meet, I think
dude, i got it wrong all on my own lol.
i dont need you to be here getting it wrong with me "
ok, read the "exactly" response and yeaaaah.. I'll go catch the bus and sit, trying to look cool .. knowing that, I am on a bus  |
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Maybe reclaim is not the best term but I also get what the OP means by it.
We played with other couples on Saturday night and the Sunday morning hotel sex was unreal! We discussed all the naughty details and what we enjoyed about the swinging. That to me is reclaim sex and doesn't have to be a dom sub thing.
Seems pretty normal for most couples |
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"Maybe reclaim is not the best term but I also get what the OP means by it.
We played with other couples on Saturday night and the Sunday morning hotel sex was unreal! We discussed all the naughty details and what we enjoyed about the swinging. That to me is reclaim sex and doesn't have to be a dom sub thing.
Seems pretty normal for most couples "
Exactly |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe reclaim is not the best term but I also get what the OP means by it.
We played with other couples on Saturday night and the Sunday morning hotel sex was unreal! We discussed all the naughty details and what we enjoyed about the swinging. That to me is reclaim sex and doesn't have to be a dom sub thing.
Seems pretty normal for most couples
Exactly "
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We call it reclaiming and we both love it. It's our special time together, reaffirming our love, our togetherness and the fact that we are confident enough as a couple to play separately. It works whether its after an independent meet or playing as a couple with others. It's a time of tenderness and love for us and it's always a very special time.
Vixen xx
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"We call it reclaiming and we both love it. It's our special time together, reaffirming our love, our togetherness and the fact that we are confident enough as a couple to play separately. It works whether its after an independent meet or playing as a couple with others. It's a time of tenderness and love for us and it's always a very special time.
Vixen xx
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Can I reclaim some off you  |
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"We call it reclaiming and we both love it. It's our special time together, reaffirming our love, our togetherness and the fact that we are confident enough as a couple to play separately. It works whether its after an independent meet or playing as a couple with others. It's a time of tenderness and love for us and it's always a very special time.
Vixen xx
Well said.
To us, its getting each other back. Its extremely passionate. Very very special indeed...xx
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We really enjoy lending each other out to fuck others then 'reclaiming' each other after the meet for some fantastic reaffirming love making.
It makes us incredibly close to each other. In our eyes is the greatest expression of trust, allowing a partner to 'stray' knowing he/she is coming back. |
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We enjoy reacquainting ourselves with each other after a meet...memories of what happened enhance that as does open conversation about how we felt during it...no need to "reclaim" as nobody else has claimed any part of what we share...it's an important distinction to us... |
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"We enjoy reacquainting ourselves with each other after a meet...memories of what happened enhance that as does open conversation about how we felt during it...no need to "reclaim" as nobody else has claimed any part of what we share...it's an important distinction to us..."
We think you are saying pretty much the same as us in different words. In our eyes even with a meet outside our relationship there is a level of emotion involved. It is not just cold sex that we grant to others. Good sex with whomever needs a connection, and we guess that what we are saying is that we reclaim that emotion. If that makes sense. |
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I get it...but then I'm a single bloke who plays with couples. I think people may read too much into the word re-claim. I've often met ladies from cples where after an intial meet the wife/ g/f may fly solo. We have fun, but I know the "important" sex is what happens when they get back together afterwards. |
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"We enjoy reacquainting ourselves with each other after a meet...memories of what happened enhance that as does open conversation about how we felt during it...no need to "reclaim" as nobody else has claimed any part of what we share...it's an important distinction to us...
We think you are saying pretty much the same as us in different words. In our eyes even with a meet outside our relationship there is a level of emotion involved. It is not just cold sex that we grant to others. Good sex with whomever needs a connection, and we guess that what we are saying is that we reclaim that emotion. If that makes sense."
It does make sense but is not really similar..while we don't have cold sex, it doesn't touch our emotions at all so we have no need to reclaim anything because nothing has been exchanged emotionally... |
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"We call it reclaiming and we both love it. It's our special time together, reaffirming our love, our togetherness and the fact that we are confident enough as a couple to play separately. It works whether its after an independent meet or playing as a couple with others. It's a time of tenderness and love for us and it's always a very special time.
Vixen xx
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We've never called it 're-claiming' and can see why the word has different connotations for some.
Love those moments of intimacy with my boy after we've played, love discussing the details, talking about what we enjoyed and found horny and feeling the strength of the connection between us.
Agree with Cali too - it's not about being "better"
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"Don't you just love it , after a fantastic meet and your wife telling you all the details , then the reclaim sex,, totally mind blowing,, and that's why we simply love swinging x"
I don't know why people are struggling, I totally get what you mean despite not being a real swinger! When I was young I had a passionate lover for two years and we split for a month at my instigation and then got back together. The first time after was one of the most memorable of my life, the vibe from him was so intense! |
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