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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't and never have had 100s a day but I think it depends on how you run your profile and how open it is as to how many messages you get
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if I go in chat room and put my web cam on I can easily get 100+ in a very short space of time, if i'm just on the forums I don't get that many 40/50 maybe, I don't believe anyone with no pics gets 300+ |
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I've received 5 new ones in last half hour, new as in from people I've never had contact with before.
Yesterday I got one or two, I find it depends on time of day and days of the week to how many you get.
I have logged off before as got bombarded and couldn't be bothered with them |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"depends what is written in their 'updates' for some..."
Agree with this! Status updates seem to attract all and sundry!
Also if I upload a new pic, I get loads, but normally maybe half dozen a day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends if I have a meet up, if I'm on cam etc I can get 80+ but on a quiet day it's about 20. I'm rubbish at replying to people and once had 2000 in my inbox over a few months...  |
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It depends on what we are doing, we have a very very heavily restricted profile (filters) and when Mrs Cherry puts a new pic up or goes on cam can easily be 40-50 messages same if we have a meet up.
If we have nothing new on the profile and nothing going on its probably around 15 or so a day.
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Starting a new profile on here is harsh  Before adding text I got 30 +. Within the first few days hundredS.
After a few months it settles down enough to take off filters. (mostly)
I think when women cam they get a lot of attention 
I dont make many pics public now a days but after updating my status re tat, I got a fair few, so I made it public  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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who could be bothered to count them though, especialy if they have that many i would say the most i get is about 7. if you go on cam you get more or when you down load pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Living near army quarters I can normally tell when there has been a changeover in personnel as I will get a little flurry then. never had anywhere near a hundred in a day though.....maybe the most would be 10-20 new ones. |
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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago
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"I probably get about 1 a week... if that 
You defiantly should get more;) surprised you haven't got the knights table wanting to pork sword ya!!!  "
I have my filters set so imagine thats why, I still get the odd one from couples trying " to tempt me"
I am meeting a lovely lady this week though so would rather only have few than too many to handle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I probably get about 1 a week... if that
You defiantly should get more;) surprised you haven't got the knights table wanting to pork sword ya!!!
I have my filters set so imagine thats why, I still get the odd one from couples trying " to tempt me"
I am meeting a lovely lady this week though so would rather only have few than too many to handle "
You sound far too hot to handle for my liking, just thinking of what you'd be like girl on girl! pretty damn mind blowing to be honest yuuum  |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
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It didnt actually dawn on me that it doesn't automatically count them but yeah, glad to know fab isn't as spam happy as I thought, (got watching Terminator 2 so only just remembered this thread)  |
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20 to 30 depending on new pics / status update etc ..... i admit im hopeless at ans mail usually do the top five then give up so i have never have an empty inbox unless i mass delete it .. did once end up with 1700 unread mail before i discovered filters. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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I got just over 20 yesterday but that included one from a friend and several from the same guy.
I have noticed that if I post a new pic or status I get more interest. And a lot more if I posr for a meet.
If I stay offline for a while I get far fewer.
So I would say that regular activity on a profile produces more interest.
Having filters and a profile written to deliberately put off those you don't want to meet does the trick.
When I first joined and didn't know about filters I got pages and pages of messages. As soon as I answered one another three popped up. Had to delete a lot without reading. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple we maybe get one or two a week from guys..we did get a message from one couple saying 'nice photos' last week but it was over a year ago from a couple asking if we'd like to meet. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"No more than a couple a day usually. I'm scary! "
Welshphoenix you are far from scary. Your pictures are sizzling hot. If you don't get that many messages you must have your filters on. X  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its crazy how many messages you ladies get lol but i suppose there are far more single males on here than anything else so......
I might get one a week from what i'm looking for but about 10 a week from guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No more than a couple a day usually. I'm scary!
Welshphoenix you are far from scary. Your pictures are sizzling hot. If you don't get that many messages you must have your filters on. X x"
Very kind but no filters only age. I'm glad I don't get a silly amount of messages from unwanted people though. I think where I am is a problem too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... that many messages?
I constantly see updates about 300 messages in one night, even when their profiles have no pictures on!
Whats the most you've had/get... ?? "
Junk mail  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont get hundreds of messages but I agree that it depends on how you run your profile
I never go on chat or on cam so I dont capture that market, I only post on the forums in public so I dont indulge in the private messaging very often, I dont start threads when ive put new pics up or get involved in the most fabbed obsession.
So the messages I get are genuine messages of interest to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the afternoon I first joined I had 600 by the evening !! I swear to god it was unreal x I get around 100-150 a day but Im on this constantly dealing with 5-10 every time I log on xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... that many messages?
I constantly see updates about 300 messages in one night, even when their profiles have no pictures on!
Whats the most you've had/get... ?? "
lol maybe 3!
Last one was two weeks ago. |
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"On the afternoon I first joined I had 600 by the evening !! I swear to god it was unreal x I get around 100-150 a day but Im on this constantly dealing with 5-10 every time I log on xx "
Sorry, I've told my hubby to stop sending them.
He told me he had cut down.
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
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"... that many messages?
I constantly see updates about 300 messages in one night, even when their profiles have no pictures on!
Whats the most you've had/get... ??
lol maybe 3!
Last one was two weeks ago."
Never knew the English countryside was so big, to not have Fab locals |
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"On the afternoon I first joined I had 600 by the evening !! I swear to god it was unreal x I get around 100-150 a day but Im on this constantly dealing with 5-10 every time I log on xx "
so you have had 54,000 messages this year then ? 4500 a month ?
you are very very popular |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the afternoon I first joined I had 600 by the evening !! I swear to god it was unreal x I get around 100-150 a day but Im on this constantly dealing with 5-10 every time I log on xx
so you have had 54,000 messages this year then ? 4500 a month ?
you are very very popular "
You have reminded me to check current whats app count - in last 18 months - messages received 123,708 and sent 83209 so yeah - I guess I am x |
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You have reminded me to check current whats app count - in last 18 months - messages received 123,708 and sent 83209 so yeah - I guess I am x "
I commend you, is this all on 3 hours of sleep a night ? its impressive levels of dedication |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You have reminded me to check current whats app count - in last 18 months - messages received 123,708 and sent 83209 so yeah - I guess I am x
I commend you, is this all on 3 hours of sleep a night ? its impressive levels of dedication "
Its bloody crap waste of time for ide hands but at least it stops me eating and keeps me trim tho ! 80% of messages are from time wasters etc x ive really slowed down on the amount I chat to now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... that many messages?
I constantly see updates about 300 messages in one night, even when their profiles have no pictures on!
Whats the most you've had/get... ??
lol maybe 3!
Last one was two weeks ago.
Never knew the English countryside was so big, to not have Fab locals"
I think they're shy. |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
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You have reminded me to check current whats app count - in last 18 months - messages received 123,708 and sent 83209 so yeah - I guess I am x
I commend you, is this all on 3 hours of sleep a night ? its impressive levels of dedication
Its bloody crap waste of time for ide hands but at least it stops me eating and keeps me trim tho ! 80% of messages are from time wasters etc x ive really slowed down on the amount I chat to now x "
do you block or just delete? I cant believe they are form new people all the time? Why not save yourself the effort of wading through them all..? |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
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"... that many messages?
I constantly see updates about 300 messages in one night, even when their profiles have no pictures on!
Whats the most you've had/get... ??
lol maybe 3!
Last one was two weeks ago.
Never knew the English countryside was so big, to not have Fab locals
I think they're shy."
or afraid of dirt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have reminded me to check current whats app count - in last 18 months - messages received 123,708 and sent 83209 so yeah - I guess I am x
I commend you, is this all on 3 hours of sleep a night ? its impressive levels of dedication
Its bloody crap waste of time for ide hands but at least it stops me eating and keeps me trim tho ! 80% of messages are from time wasters etc x ive really slowed down on the amount I chat to now x
do you block or just delete? I cant believe they are form new people all the time? Why not save yourself the effort of wading through them all..?"
Babes ive no idea - dealing with those volumes - having 5 seconds to reply or delete - I havent a clue a lot of the time ( just wish fab messages all went into the same thread not a new message ) xx |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
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You have reminded me to check current whats app count - in last 18 months - messages received 123,708 and sent 83209 so yeah - I guess I am x
I commend you, is this all on 3 hours of sleep a night ? its impressive levels of dedication
Its bloody crap waste of time for ide hands but at least it stops me eating and keeps me trim tho ! 80% of messages are from time wasters etc x ive really slowed down on the amount I chat to now x
do you block or just delete? I cant believe they are form new people all the time? Why not save yourself the effort of wading through them all..?
Babes ive no idea - dealing with those volumes - having 5 seconds to reply or delete - I havent a clue a lot of the time ( just wish fab messages all went into the same thread not a new message ) xx "
post it in the site suggestions. great way to tell who you are communicating with or who's spamming you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... that many messages?
I constantly see updates about 300 messages in one night, even when their profiles have no pictures on!
Whats the most you've had/get... ?? "
Some probebly do if they are online a lot but talk to people who use filters and have personal informative as to what they want on their profile then they will get less. I think many like to give the impression they are mowed out and fair play if that's who they want to feel its their own choice. I was told by a couple of women at a social though they could expect it peaking at 30 an hour if unanswered but more if they replied. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You have reminded me to check current whats app count - in last 18 months - messages received 123,708 and sent 83209 so yeah - I guess I am x
I commend you, is this all on 3 hours of sleep a night ? its impressive levels of dedication
Its bloody crap waste of time for ide hands but at least it stops me eating and keeps me trim tho ! 80% of messages are from time wasters etc x ive really slowed down on the amount I chat to now x
do you block or just delete? I cant believe they are form new people all the time? Why not save yourself the effort of wading through them all..?
Babes ive no idea - dealing with those volumes - having 5 seconds to reply or delete - I havent a clue a lot of the time ( just wish fab messages all went into the same thread not a new message ) xx "
Great idea - one message thread |
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