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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Had a vanilla night out last night with my non swinger friends and realised why I don't go out anymore with vanilla people, saw some strippers which in all honesty bored me as couldn't do anything with them so a bit pointless.
My supposed best friend who knows my lifestyle choice got d*unk and decided to shout out in a full pub about me swinging as justification for her cheating on her husband 
She then stole my phone which is thankfully password protected to be nosey as she noticed me texting a FB of mine and my partner.
The night ended with her grabbing my tit under my top and her pulling a chunk of my hair out when I tried to leave before I did something I'd regret.
Give me a night out at a swingers club with normal people any day, anyone agree that normal nights out are no longer fun now you know what is out there? |
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doesn't sound like a fun night for you, what a "friend" i hope she's suitably apologetic this morning.
I still enjoy regular nights out but definitely enjoy the company of like minded people.
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"Being a swinger makes you realise how sexually immature and narrow-minded some vanilla people really are."
I have to say that reading these forums sometimes makes me realise the same thing about swingers. Present company excepted of course. |
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"Being a swinger makes you realise how sexually immature and narrow-minded some vanilla people really are.
I have to say that reading these forums sometimes makes me realise the same thing about swingers. Present company excepted of course."
Couldn't agree more.
Sounds like the OP needs a new "friend", one that values discretion. |
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"Being a swinger makes you realise how sexually immature and narrow-minded some vanilla people really are.
I have to say that reading these forums sometimes makes me realise the same thing about swingers. Present company excepted of course."
Yep some immature people in all walks of life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being a swinger makes you realise how sexually immature and narrow-minded some vanilla people really are.
I have to say that reading these forums sometimes makes me realise the same thing about swingers. Present company excepted of course."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think it was due to your friend not swinging it is due to that fact that she, like many others simply can't handle her drink "
She certainly can't, but I think its more at least with like minded people I don't have to worry about my private life being shouted about.
Certainly learned a valuable lesson in who I can trust. |
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By *himanMan
over a year ago
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"Had a vanilla night out last night with my non swinger friends and realised why I don't go out anymore with vanilla people, saw some strippers which in all honesty bored me as couldn't do anything with them so a bit pointless.
My supposed best friend who knows my lifestyle choice got d*unk and decided to shout out in a full pub about me swinging as justification for her cheating on her husband
She then stole my phone which is thankfully password protected to be nosey as she noticed me texting a FB of mine and my partner.
The night ended with her grabbing my tit under my top and her pulling a chunk of my hair out when I tried to leave before I did something I'd regret.
Give me a night out at a swingers club with normal people any day, anyone agree that normal nights out are no longer fun now you know what is out there?"
couldnt agree more |
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True mixing with like minded folks can make you feel more relaxed/comfotable but good company is good company, players or straight at the end of the day.
But If you choose to play with hand grenades at some point they are going to go off!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find myself on nights out, looking at other people and wondering if any of them are swingers, is this just me ?
From the OP's tale, seems the friend was somehow trying to justify her cheating by highlighting OP swinging |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find myself on nights out, looking at other people and wondering if any of them are swingers, is this just me ?
From the OP's tale, seems the friend was somehow trying to justify her cheating by highlighting OP swinging"
I think you hit the nail on the head there, I believe she was looking for me to condone her behaviour because of my lifestyle unfortunately for her she also knows I believe theres a huge difference between the two.
I don't know give me a night out where I can get laid rather than being teased by strippers any day, that said the cheeky one did offer to take me home but he wasn't my type  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a swinger makes you realise how sexually immature and narrow-minded some vanilla people really are.
I have to say that reading these forums sometimes makes me realise the same thing about swingers. Present company excepted of course.
Couldn't agree more.
Sounds like the OP needs a new "friend", one that values discretion."
A perfect example of why I will never tell anyone about my personal life.   |
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Usually it's the people who haven't the bottle to or have issues in their own relationships that react like this. In life, in our experience it's normally born out of ignorance or jealousy that you are secure, happy, with good things happening in your life that brings out the worst in people.....they want what you have or are striking out at their life as in this case. I suspect a biiig apology from a very contrite friend. She needs good friends now, more than ever.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think it was due to your friend not swinging it is due to that fact that she, like many others simply can't handle her drink
She certainly can't, but I think its more at least with like minded people I don't have to worry about my private life being shouted about.
Certainly learned a valuable lesson in who I can trust."
And that's exactly the reason why I don't tell anyone what I get up to in my private life. You tell one very good close trusted friend and then in a moment of d*unken madness, she tells someone else [or others in this case] and before you know it your private life is no longer private.
I hope she hasn't made things difficult for you and that you were able to shrug it off as her d*unken behavior |
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