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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No man in their right mind would walk up to a woman or a couple in a wine bar, show them a photo of his cock and say "wanna fuck?"
But a great many men think it's acceptable to do exactly that online
Why is that?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fair comment. I'm just really interested in the psychology behind it. It's quite like trolls who say things in the online world that they would never dream of saying to someone's face. What is it about the online world that creates this unreal behaviour?
Any psychologists out there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fair comment. I'm just really interested in the psychology behind it. It's quite like trolls who say things in the online world that they would never dream of saying to someone's face. What is it about the online world that creates this unreal behaviour?
Any psychologists out there?"
Sorry but I am not a psychologist...all I can say is with the amount that are sent I think it must work for some people because if I bother to look at their profiles some have lots of veri's...but for me it is a complete turn off...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No man in their right mind would walk up to a woman or a couple in a wine bar, show them a photo of his cock and say "wanna fuck?"
But a great many men think it's acceptable to do exactly that online
Why is that?
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i was wondering about that last night
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I think its because they think that's all this site is about when in reality for alot of people the social side of it, meeting new peeps and having fun together is just as important as the sex at the end.
A nice message goes along way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No man in their right mind would walk up to a woman or a couple in a wine bar, show them a photo of his cock and say "wanna fuck?"
But a great many men think it's acceptable to do exactly that online
Why is that?
i was wondering about that last night
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The mind boggles as to what is going through their heads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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agree with what everyone is saying, but it must work I've found people that rather meet than send messages and I'm like woah hold up I've only said Hi haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People think that the online world is comepletely different to the "real" world. Which is complete bullshit. Theres always consquences to the acts which any person makes, weathers it is good or bad. However, people know the consquence aren't the same and generally online the consquence has a smaller impact. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm amazed it works. Tonight I'm gonna pop down to my local wine bar with a photo and see how many windows I get thrown through. On the law of averages it will work eventually but there might be a lot of glass to clean up  |
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They get instantly blocked by us, its a complete lack of respect and im not a piece of meat which to me these people think i am, it also pisses me off when they only message me, there are two of us here ffs!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good friend of mine showed the numerous messages from guys she had got
95% were "hi, you ok, fancy a fuck, like my cock pic " or a variation thereof
Nearly none had a face pic and not one gave any idea what the guy was like
And some single guys whine that they don't get meets |
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"A good friend of mine showed the numerous messages from guys she had got
95% were "hi, you ok, fancy a fuck, like my cock pic " or a variation thereof
Nearly none had a face pic and not one gave any idea what the guy was like
And some single guys whine that they don't get meets "
Thats another good point! They send these messages with no pics so u cant actually see what they look like and expect a reply! No wonder they dont get meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A good friend of mine showed the numerous messages from guys she had got
95% were "hi, you ok, fancy a fuck, like my cock pic " or a variation thereof
Nearly none had a face pic and not one gave any idea what the guy was like
And some single guys whine that they don't get meets "
My sentiments excactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A good friend of mine showed the numerous messages from guys she had got
95% were "hi, you ok, fancy a fuck, like my cock pic " or a variation thereof
Nearly none had a face pic and not one gave any idea what the guy was like
And some single guys whine that they don't get meets "
Wow, I was gonna ask in here how many of these messages girls get. Expected maybe 10-20% but that is ridiculous. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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Because those guys just see this as a 'sex site', they just want to get laid instead of bothering with the social side of things. Maybe they will learn and realise that treating the site like a free brothel gets them nowhere! Bet none of the 'fancy a fuck' brigade are reading this....hmmmm....thinking about it, can they read??   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A good friend of mine showed the numerous messages from guys she had got
95% were "hi, you ok, fancy a fuck, like my cock pic " or a variation thereof
Nearly none had a face pic and not one gave any idea what the guy was like
And some single guys whine that they don't get meets
Wow, I was gonna ask in here how many of these messages girls get. Expected maybe 10-20% but that is ridiculous. "
In 3 days she had over 300 messages
Virtually all written by west yorkshire's Neanderthal male community |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No man in their right mind would walk up to a woman or a couple in a wine bar, show them a photo of his cock and say "wanna fuck?"
But a great many men think it's acceptable to do exactly that online
Why is that?
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I do this daily, I went to tesco earlier for some milk and the lady behind the til was a solid 7 ... So out came the phone with my collection of cock picks, when she asked if I wanted cashback I asked if she wanted sex ... It works everytime 70% of the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This isn't a dating site, it's a swinging site, so the "cock out in a wine bar" analogy doesn't really make sense. It's the equivalent of a cock out at a swinging club or party, which to me doesn't seem so beyond the pale. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No man in their right mind would walk up to a woman or a couple in a wine bar, show them a photo of his cock and say "wanna fuck?"
But a great many men think it's acceptable to do exactly that online
Why is that?
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By *fordMan
over a year ago
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i have a cock pic as my picture but have face pic in private for me to send to people i would like to meet and after verifying they are not timewaster i will sen it message this doesnt alway sguarantee a reply even a straight no thanks i understand people get lots of messages but replying with no thanks isnt hard to do |
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I think there are a minority who must respond,generally we all have higher sex drives or enjoy meeting different folk etc,but a select few must just be here to shag anything,as it would surely be different if NO ONE replied to it? However i have yet to meet these girls! Maybe its just in hope as they probably cant think while wanking away? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*le sigh* t'internet, the place where a human can hide behind a screen and be blunt/righteous/insensitive/opinionated/self-appointed/rude etc etc
... And why? Well, my guess is it is very easy to be a keyboard warrior, the likelihood of sender and receiver actually meeting is very slight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a combination of the fact that single men are very unlikely to obtain a meet, be they polite and erudite, or rude and crude, added to the shotgun approach of if you message 1000 people, then one may say : "ok, lets f^^^"
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I've got to agree. While the main reason we are here is for sex it doesn't mean you don't have to have manners!
It gets worse if they send another message complaining that you didn't reply to the first one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some odd ones out there to say the least. Definitely with the instant blockers on this one.
We got a message the other day and all it said was "I'm a mile away from you"
Wrote back "congratulations"
Was going to do the block but he did us first after sending a shitty message back that he took more time over than the first. lol |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
"i have a cock pic as my picture but have face pic in private for me to send to people i would like to meet and after verifying they are not timewaster i will sen it message this doesnt alway sguarantee a reply even a straight no thanks i understand people get lots of messages but replying with no thanks isnt hard to do "
This is from the the official site FAQs...
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
Annoys me when us ladies get called 'rude' or 'ignorant' for not replying, especially to the 3 word, mis-spelt, copy and paste messages! Get a grip lads, make it worth our while replying! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No man in their right mind would walk up to a woman or a couple in a wine bar, show them a photo of his cock and say "wanna fuck?"
But a great many men think it's acceptable to do exactly that online
Why is that?
I do this daily, I went to tesco earlier for some milk and the lady behind the til was a solid 7 ... So out came the phone with my collection of cock picks, when she asked if I wanted cashback I asked if she wanted sex ... It works everytime 70% of the time"
Ha ha superb! |
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