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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You're playing with your partner, perhaps with others, perhaps in a club, all is well, you're horny, you're turned on watching your partner with another, and then you cum, but she's still going, as some women do.
And now you're no longer turned on. You might even want to go. But some other man is still playing with her.
How do you handle that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There have been occasions when we've been playing with a guy and I've just left them to it once I've done my bit 
I'm not the jealous type, I'm not a watcher and I'm not bi so I don't see any point in hanging around like a fart in a lift.
As I said earlier, I'll go and have a beer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just let Mrs N carry on, however it's not arisen very often as being an old fart like me, I often last for ages and ages.
"You're playing with your partner, perhaps with others, perhaps in a club, all is well, you're horny, you're turned on watching your partner with another, and then you cum, but she's still going, as some women do.
And now you're no longer turned on. You might even want to go. But some other man is still playing with her.
How do you handle that?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're playing with your partner, perhaps with others, perhaps in a club, all is well, you're horny, you're turned on watching your partner with another, and then you cum, but she's still going, as some women do.
And now you're no longer turned on. You might even want to go. But some other man is still playing with her.
How do you handle that?"
I'd give it 5 mins and go and play with someone else |
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From a womans point of view I would feel uncomfortable if I knew that as soon as it was over for my man his mindset changed like that and I wouldn't want to play at all. If one of us isn't happy we don't repeat the experience it could cause resentment. |
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in my humble opinion, I don't think swinging is for you, at least not yet anyway. Fantasies are sometimes kept as that. I would suggest that if you have any doubt about how you would feel about seeing your girl enjoying other partners then don't do it.
Maybe takes things slowly and gently push your boundaries. Maybe just watching and being watched first, then move on to soft swing. The main thing to do is talk to each other after the sessions and work out what you like and what you didn't.
Communication is most definitely the key...
good luck and have fun. And just remeber .. ther is no rush! |
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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago
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"in my humble opinion, I don't think swinging is for you, at least not yet anyway. Fantasies are sometimes kept as that. I would suggest that if you have any doubt about how you would feel about seeing your girl enjoying other partners then don't do it.
Maybe takes things slowly and gently push your boundaries. Maybe just watching and being watched first, then move on to soft swing. The main thing to do is talk to each other after the sessions and work out what you like and what you didn't.
Communication is most definitely the key...
good luck and have fun. And just remeber .. ther is no rush!"
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