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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not done a couple meet in hotel, but met another guy in a hotel, split the room 50/50 along with a few drinks/some food etc out before hand, just did rounds.
It's a meet not a date not sure why some fems/couples expect the guy to pay for everything on here.
I mean if your paying for drinks/food for three, then a hotel room as well fuck it may as well have hired yourself a hooker or two |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not done a couple meet in hotel, but met another guy in a hotel, split the room 50/50 along with a few drinks/some food etc out before hand, just did rounds.
It's a meet not a date not sure why some fems/couples expect the guy to pay for everything on here.
I mean if your paying for drinks/food for three, then a hotel room as well fuck it may as well have hired yourself a hooker or two"
 exactly my point I made on another thread. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have not met any couples yet, but if I was booking the room I would pay in full and if they was booking it then I would offer to pay in full for the room."
Why would you feel the need to do that? |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I've only had one meet in a hotel. It was a 3 girly meet and the room was paid for by the firm that one of them worked for as she was in Nottingham with work.
TBH, I hated it. I had to turn up in drab mode and frankly it did my head in.  |
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"I have not met any couples yet, but if I was booking the room I would pay in full and if they was booking it then I would offer to pay in full for the room."
Why??? You're both on the meet you shouldn't pay for a room on your own. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Im curious guys. Interested to hear from guys who meet couples in hotels.
Have you paid for the room, shared the cost or have the couple paid ?"
rarely meet at them nowadays, but I have always used them in the past and the cost has always been shared |
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It had been said before on various threads, but everyone is different.
if I am travelling and using the hotel room after a meet, I will pay for it and I do not want a contribution.
if a couple / lady are travelling to meet me I would expect them to book the room and I would offer to share the costs, but certainly not pay for it all.
certainly what I would never do is book a room in my name, pay for it and leave a couple to use it after I left ! |
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"Not done a couple meet in hotel, but met another guy in a hotel, split the room 50/50 along with a few drinks/some food etc out before hand, just did rounds.
It's a meet not a date not sure why some fems/couples expect the guy to pay for everything on here.
I mean if your paying for drinks/food for three, then a hotel room as well fuck it may as well have hired yourself a hooker or two"
I wouldn't expect the guy to pay for everything even if it was a date.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It had been said before on various threads, but everyone is different.
if I am travelling and using the hotel room after a meet, I will pay for it and I do not want a contribution.
if a couple / lady are travelling to meet me I would expect them to book the room and I would offer to share the costs, but certainly not pay for it all.
certainly what I would never do is book a room in my name, pay for it and leave a couple to use it after I left !"
This is what I'm waiting to hear - your last paragraph. Are any guys paying for rooms and letting the couple stay the night after you leave ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We usually get the room and they never offer to put towards even if they know we're not sleeping over. Doesn't matter, we don't ask.
If it's just me meeting someone I ask if we can go halves. Seems fair. I wouldn't let them pay in full though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It had been said before on various threads, but everyone is different.
if I am travelling and using the hotel room after a meet, I will pay for it and I do not want a contribution.
if a couple / lady are travelling to meet me I would expect them to book the room and I would offer to share the costs, but certainly not pay for it all.
certainly what I would never do is book a room in my name, pay for it and leave a couple to use it after I left !
This is what I'm waiting to hear - your last paragraph. Are any guys paying for rooms and letting the couple stay the night after you leave ?"
If they are, they must be crazy!!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It had been said before on various threads, but everyone is different.
if I am travelling and using the hotel room after a meet, I will pay for it and I do not want a contribution.
if a couple / lady are travelling to meet me I would expect them to book the room and I would offer to share the costs, but certainly not pay for it all.
certainly what I would never do is book a room in my name, pay for it and leave a couple to use it after I left !
This is what I'm waiting to hear - your last paragraph. Are any guys paying for rooms and letting the couple stay the night after you leave ?
If they are, they must be crazy!! "
Another thread running prompted this. A guy actively approached a couple who had on their profile, guys either pay for hotels or their babysitting costs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet a great couple in a 5 star hotel in Manchester I offered to pay something towards it but they said no the room was amazing and a great night was had by all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im curious guys. Interested to hear from guys who meet couples in hotels.
Have you paid for the room, shared the cost or have the couple paid ?"
None of the above !
Work pay! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im curious guys. Interested to hear from guys who meet couples in hotels.
Have you paid for the room, shared the cost or have the couple paid ?"
Done it twice and shared both times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im curious guys. Interested to hear from guys who meet couples in hotels.
Have you paid for the room, shared the cost or have the couple paid ?"
In the past I've quite happily paid for hotel rooms, especially if I've travelled a good distance for a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im curious guys. Interested to hear from guys who meet couples in hotels.
Have you paid for the room, shared the cost or have the couple paid ?
Done it twice and shared both times. "
Did either party stay the night in the room ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It had been said before on various threads, but everyone is different.
if I am travelling and using the hotel room after a meet, I will pay for it and I do not want a contribution.
if a couple / lady are travelling to meet me I would expect them to book the room and I would offer to share the costs, but certainly not pay for it all.
certainly what I would never do is book a room in my name, pay for it and leave a couple to use it after I left !
This is what I'm waiting to hear - your last paragraph. Are any guys paying for rooms and letting the couple stay the night after you leave ?
If they are, they must be crazy!!
Another thread running prompted this. A guy actively approached a couple who had on their profile, guys either pay for hotels or their babysitting costs. "
seems we're missing a trick here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It had been said before on various threads, but everyone is different.
if I am travelling and using the hotel room after a meet, I will pay for it and I do not want a contribution.
if a couple / lady are travelling to meet me I would expect them to book the room and I would offer to share the costs, but certainly not pay for it all.
certainly what I would never do is book a room in my name, pay for it and leave a couple to use it after I left !
This is what I'm waiting to hear - your last paragraph. Are any guys paying for rooms and letting the couple stay the night after you leave ?
If they are, they must be crazy!!
Another thread running prompted this. A guy actively approached a couple who had on their profile, guys either pay for hotels or their babysitting costs.
seems we're missing a trick here "
Oi  Salisbury  NO 
I'm watching your profile like a hawk as of now giving us couples bad names tut ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im curious guys. Interested to hear from guys who meet couples in hotels.
Have you paid for the room, shared the cost or have the couple paid ?"
If I was staying there all night then I would pay. If it had been invited to their room I would offer to share costs |
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"I have not met any couples yet, but if I was booking the room I would pay in full and if they was booking it then I would offer to pay in full for the room.
Why would you feel the need to do that?"
I don't feel I need to but I like to, when I'm round other people I have no problems spending on myself and others actually enjoy it to be honest.
I work hard for every penny and it's just my personality I like to spread the love lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have not met any couples yet, but if I was booking the room I would pay in full and if they was booking it then I would offer to pay in full for the room."
Even if they're going to be staying in it overnight? |
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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago
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go halves by all means, but it seems to me that the couple profiles seem to expect the invited person to pay to play...some seem to come across as divas or playing with them is a privilege
SOD OFF...
id rather find someone more realistic and not up own ass
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What some don't take into acoount is we all have different incomes and responsibilities in life.
If a single male who has a decent income with limited expenses meets a couple with several children to support, mortgage, bills, etc basic common sense should come into the equation.
In these circumstances it would be a nice gesture if the male offered to pay for the room, regardless of what goes on at the meet.
If the couple declines then fine but money should never be an issue imo, this is all about having fun after all. |
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"I have not met any couples yet, but if I was booking the room I would pay in full and if they was booking it then I would offer to pay in full for the room.
Even if they're going to be staying in it overnight? "
If that was the case then I would offer to pay half. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the general consensus that will be reached is - whoever intends on actually using the room is the one with the obligation to front most, if not all of the cost. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im curious guys. Interested to hear from guys who meet couples in hotels.
Have you paid for the room, shared the cost or have the couple paid ?"
I have met two.couples and a single girl and always insist on paying the room. If a couple, once fun has finished i allow them to stay and i vanish so they can fuck/chat about the fun we have all had.J.x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im curious guys. Interested to hear from guys who meet couples in hotels.
Have you paid for the room, shared the cost or have the couple paid ?
I have met two.couples and a single girl and always insist on paying the room. If a couple, once fun has finished i allow them to stay and i vanish so they can fuck/chat about the fun we have all had.J.x"
Blimey some of you guys are very generous.
One other thing in this scenario. What if the couple trash the room once you've left. The booking is in your name so your responsibility ? |
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"Im curious guys. Interested to hear from guys who meet couples in hotels.
Have you paid for the room, shared the cost or have the couple paid ?
I have met two.couples and a single girl and always insist on paying the room. If a couple, once fun has finished i allow them to stay and i vanish so they can fuck/chat about the fun we have all had.J.x
Blimey some of you guys are very generous.
One other thing in this scenario. What if the couple trash the room once you've left. The booking is in your name so your responsibility ? "
Hopefully by the time you meet them you will already have an idea if they are decent people and hopefully they would treat you and the hotel with some respect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im curious guys. Interested to hear from guys who meet couples in hotels.
Have you paid for the room, shared the cost or have the couple paid ?
I have met two.couples and a single girl and always insist on paying the room. If a couple, once fun has finished i allow them to stay and i vanish so they can fuck/chat about the fun we have all had.J.x
Blimey some of you guys are very generous.
One other thing in this scenario. What if the couple trash the room once you've left. The booking is in your name so your responsibility ?
Hopefully by the time you meet them you will already have an idea if they are decent people and hopefully they would treat you and the hotel with some respect."
Well I hope so too. If you enjoy doing this and don't feel put out by paying that's fine. I hope no one ever takes advantage of your generosity though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What some don't take into acoount is we all have different incomes and responsibilities in life.
If a single male who has a decent income with limited expenses meets a couple with several children to support, mortgage, bills, etc basic common sense should come into the equation.
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And some couples have two decent wages coming in.
Look at the bigger picture peeps  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What some don't take into acoount is we all have different incomes and responsibilities in life.
If a single male who has a decent income with limited expenses meets a couple with several children to support, mortgage, bills, etc basic common sense should come into the equation.
And some couples have two decent wages coming in.
Look at the bigger picture peeps "
Yes I can understand this. I suppose it's how it's arranged and if there are expectations from people that I wouldn't like. If I want to do something I don't expect someone else to cough up for me. If its explained that you can't afford a hotel meet and the other party offer that's different.
Question of manners I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It had been said before on various threads, but everyone is different.
if I am travelling and using the hotel room after a meet, I will pay for it and I do not want a contribution.
if a couple / lady are travelling to meet me I would expect them to book the room and I would offer to share the costs, but certainly not pay for it all.
certainly what I would never do is book a room in my name, pay for it and leave a couple to use it after I left !
This is what I'm waiting to hear - your last paragraph. Are any guys paying for rooms and letting the couple stay the night after you leave ?
If they are, they must be crazy!!
Another thread running prompted this. A guy actively approached a couple who had on their profile, guys either pay for hotels or their babysitting costs.
seems we're missing a trick here
Oi Salisbury NO
I'm watching your profile like a hawk as of now giving us couples bad names tut !"
oops. ... Did I say that out loud??? |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"It should be a three way think I think
thank you I agree 100%
rant over"
you are meeting them as a couple though. They come as one. Otherwise they would meet singularly. As much as I am only there for the woman, the male 1/2 of the couple does need to enjoy themselves too. To split is in 3rd's is effectively like meeting 3 single people, which they are not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What some don't take into acoount is we all have different incomes and responsibilities in life.
If a single male who has a decent income with limited expenses meets a couple with several children to support, mortgage, bills, etc basic common sense should come into the equation.
And some couples have two decent wages coming in.
Look at the bigger picture peeps
Yes I can understand this. I suppose it's how it's arranged and if there are expectations from people that I wouldn't like. If I want to do something I don't expect someone else to cough up for me. If its explained that you can't afford a hotel meet and the other party offer that's different.
Question of manners I think. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It should be a three way think I think
thank you I agree 100%
rant over
you are meeting them as a couple though. They come as one. Otherwise they would meet singularly. As much as I am only there for the woman, the male 1/2 of the couple does need to enjoy themselves too. To split is in 3rd's is effectively like meeting 3 single people, which they are not. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What some don't take into acoount is we all have different incomes and responsibilities in life.
If a single male who has a decent income with limited expenses meets a couple with several children to support, mortgage, bills, etc basic common sense should come into the equation.
In these circumstances it would be a nice gesture if the male offered to pay for the room, regardless of what goes on at the meet.
If the couple declines then fine but money should never be an issue imo, this is all about having fun after all."
If I wanted to pursue a hobby in my spare time, part of my reasoning behind it would be can I afford to do it bearing in mind my home circumstances...if I wanted to take up skiing for example, the costs of doing so would have to be factored in...I wouldn't ask or expect my skiing companions to contribute to my costs and if I couldn't afford to pay for myself then, do you know what? I wouldn't do it...
Plus, it would put me under an enormous sense of obligation if someone had paid for a hotel room...not a comfortable position for me...what if after all that, you really didn't want to fuck them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What some don't take into acoount is we all have different incomes and responsibilities in life.
If a single male who has a decent income with limited expenses meets a couple with several children to support, mortgage, bills, etc basic common sense should come into the equation.
In these circumstances it would be a nice gesture if the male offered to pay for the room, regardless of what goes on at the meet.
If the couple declines then fine but money should never be an issue imo, this is all about having fun after all.
If I wanted to pursue a hobby in my spare time, part of my reasoning behind it would be can I afford to do it bearing in mind my home circumstances...if I wanted to take up skiing for example, the costs of doing so would have to be factored in...I wouldn't ask or expect my skiing companions to contribute to my costs and if I couldn't afford to pay for myself then, do you know what? I wouldn't do it...
Plus, it would put me under an enormous sense of obligation if someone had paid for a hotel room...not a comfortable position for me...what if after all that, you really didn't want to fuck them?"
we sing from the same hymn sheet! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Clearly some people just like being taken advantage of......all for sex.
Shaking my damn head "
Please send us first class tickets to Montreal, then we can fuck... Possibly ! Oh and we need a very posh hotel too please  okay ? |
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We mostly do hotel meets now:
We book the hotel so we pay because we'll be sleeping there. We ask nothing from those that come to meet us except that they actually show up and bring your own protection.
If we're meeting you at YOUR hotel then we don't expect to pay towards the cost so why would we charge you for meeting at ours? |
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"Clearly some people just like being taken advantage of......all for sex.
Shaking my damn head
Please send us first class tickets to Montreal, then we can fuck... Possibly ! Oh and we need a very posh hotel too please okay ?"
Only if you promise to wear those french knickers  |
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"Clearly some people just like being taken advantage of......all for sex.
Shaking my damn head
Please send us first class tickets to Montreal, then we can fuck... Possibly ! Oh and we need a very posh hotel too please okay ?
Only if you promise to wear those french knickers "
Lol bottle of Beaujolais ?  |
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"Clearly some people just like being taken advantage of......all for sex.
Shaking my damn head
Please send us first class tickets to Montreal, then we can fuck... Possibly ! Oh and we need a very posh hotel too please okay ?
Only if you promise to wear those french knickers
Lol bottle of Beaujolais ? "
Deal! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly some people just like being taken advantage of......all for sex.
Shaking my damn head
Please send us first class tickets to Montreal, then we can fuck... Possibly ! Oh and we need a very posh hotel too please okay ?
Only if you promise to wear those french knickers
Lol bottle of Beaujolais ?
Deal! "
Someone is assuming the female half is talking.... unless....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Clearly some people just like being taken advantage of......all for sex.
Shaking my damn head
Please send us first class tickets to Montreal, then we can fuck... Possibly ! Oh and we need a very posh hotel too please okay ?
Only if you promise to wear those french knickers
Lol bottle of Beaujolais ?
Deal!
Someone is assuming the female half is talking.... unless.... "
Hey what happened here. I just got back and mr notts was speeding out the driveway waving his passport and chuckling to himself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"depends on what the room is being used for afterwards...
if i am staying... I pay
if they are staying... I don't
if no one is staying.... half's"
all fair I like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I only ever meet in my playroom, so hotel bills never a consideration, if a guy is travelling a distance he is welcome to stay, having no electric or gas, I always suggest they bring a flask! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Met a couple once who said they tell prospective meets that the guy is to pay and make it clear that there is no guarantee of play....they said its a great way of putting off the wannabees....
I had a great time with them  |
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"Im curious guys. Interested to hear from guys who meet couples in hotels.
Have you paid for the room, shared the cost or have the couple paid ?
I have met two.couples and a single girl and always insist on paying the room. If a couple, once fun has finished i allow them to stay and i vanish so they can fuck/chat about the fun we have all had.J.x
Blimey some of you guys are very generous.
One other thing in this scenario. What if the couple trash the room once you've left. The booking is in your name so your responsibility ?
Hopefully by the time you meet them you will already have an idea if they are decent people and hopefully they would treat you and the hotel with some respect.
Well I hope so too. If you enjoy doing this and don't feel put out by paying that's fine. I hope no one ever takes advantage of your generosity though. "
There will always be people who will try to take advantage of all situations you just got to use a bit of common sense and be careful! |
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"Clearly some people just like being taken advantage of......all for sex.
Shaking my damn head
Please send us first class tickets to Montreal, then we can fuck... Possibly ! Oh and we need a very posh hotel too please okay ?
Only if you promise to wear those french knickers
Lol bottle of Beaujolais ?
Deal!
Someone is assuming the female half is talking.... unless....
Hey what happened here. I just got back and mr notts was speeding out the driveway waving his passport and chuckling to himself "
Have you checked on your knicker drawer?
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"Clearly some people just like being taken advantage of......all for sex.
Shaking my damn head
Please send us first class tickets to Montreal, then we can fuck... Possibly ! Oh and we need a very posh hotel too please okay ?
Only if you promise to wear those french knickers
Lol bottle of Beaujolais ?
Deal!
Someone is assuming the female half is talking.... unless....
Hey what happened here. I just got back and mr notts was speeding out the driveway waving his passport and chuckling to himself "
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"What some don't take into acoount is we all have different incomes and responsibilities in life.
If a single male who has a decent income with limited expenses meets a couple with several children to support, mortgage, bills, etc basic common sense should come into the equation.
In these circumstances it would be a nice gesture if the male offered to pay for the room, regardless of what goes on at the meet.
If the couple declines then fine but money should never be an issue imo, this is all about having fun after all.
If I wanted to pursue a hobby in my spare time, part of my reasoning behind it would be can I afford to do it bearing in mind my home circumstances...if I wanted to take up skiing for example, the costs of doing so would have to be factored in...I wouldn't ask or expect my skiing companions to contribute to my costs and if I couldn't afford to pay for myself then, do you know what? I wouldn't do it...
Plus, it would put me under an enormous sense of obligation if someone had paid for a hotel room...not a comfortable position for me...what if after all that, you really didn't want to fuck them?
we sing from the same hymn sheet!"
totally agree!
being cynical what if the couple who've booked the room have arranged for more than one to turn up at different times? profit? profit? profit? |
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"What some don't take into acoount is we all have different incomes and responsibilities in life.
If a single male who has a decent income with limited expenses meets a couple with several children to support, mortgage, bills, etc basic common sense should come into the equation.
In these circumstances it would be a nice gesture if the male offered to pay for the room, regardless of what goes on at the meet.
If the couple declines then fine but money should never be an issue imo, this is all about having fun after all."
not at all.
so, as a single bloke, if you have a basic wage, and large overheads, then you wouldnt expect to pay anything towards your accommodation?
it should never be done on an income related basis.
if anyone wants to meet in a hotel, then they should make sure they can afford the room on their own first.
would never organise to do something knowing i couldnt afford to carry it through |
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over a year ago
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totally agree!
being cynical what if the couple who've booked the room have arranged for more than one to turn up at different times? profit? profit? profit?"
Have you given some couples a good idea? |
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"What some don't take into acoount is we all have different incomes and responsibilities in life.
If a single male who has a decent income with limited expenses meets a couple with several children to support, mortgage, bills, etc basic common sense should come into the equation.
In these circumstances it would be a nice gesture if the male offered to pay for the room, regardless of what goes on at the meet.
If the couple declines then fine but money should never be an issue imo, this is all about having fun after all.
not at all.
so, as a single bloke, if you have a basic wage, and large overheads, then you wouldnt expect to pay anything towards your accommodation?
it should never be done on an income related basis.
if anyone wants to meet in a hotel, then they should make sure they can afford the room on their own first.
would never organise to do something knowing i couldnt afford to carry it through"
I think what all these posts go to prove is that people look at things differently. For some finances is the be all and end all. For others they get a hotel via work and then the subject of costs does not rear its ugly heads.
If all things being equal (financially) then the suggestion of who stays in the room decides the fee payer is a sensible one. |
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I think there is a big difference between anybody, male female or couple, offering to cover expenses of friends who are a bit skint and somebody else making it a condition of the meet.
I've done it when I was single:
"Are you going to soandso's party next weekend"
"No it's a week before payday, can't afford it"
"Well if you want to go I'll cough for the petrol if we can go in your car"
I only had a van at the time so I couldn't just offer a lift. It was a regular couple and I also used to pay for meals if we were out anywhere, only fair as they fed me when we were at theirs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met a couple once who said they tell prospective meets that the guy is to pay and make it clear that there is no guarantee of play....they said its a great way of putting off the wannabees....
I had a great time with them "
yeah, wannabes and any man with a sense of self respect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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totally agree!
being cynical what if the couple who've booked the room have arranged for more than one to turn up at different times? profit? profit? profit?
Have you given some couples a good idea?"
I just got it.
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over a year ago
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I usually pay for the room because most of the people they tend to head back after meet and few of them avoid paying saying they are already broke.
I don't mind paying but sometimes I say to couples that room is on me and drinks is on you.
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If they are staying in it overnight we expect them to pick up the tab. Not sure if that is politically correct or not but they are well aware of the fact if they ever ask us. Their choice. |
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If they're there for work then I don't offer as their work is paying and they'd be staying anyway.
If they're already there when the meet is arranged I don't offer as they were staying anyway.
But if the hotel is arranged solely for our meet at a time to suit us then I offer to go halves. On many occasions that offer has been declined, sometimes in a very definite manner that suggests they'd be offended if I insisted.
Oh and there have been meets when I've paid. |
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"depends on what the room is being used for afterwards...
if i am staying... I pay
if they are staying... I don't
if no one is staying.... half's
all fair I like this "
We ask for flowers for the lady if your coming to ours , other than that we pay for the drinks meal etc. if you offer that is fine if not never mind .
We always if someone is driving buy them soft drinks just in case we need a lift home lol
No way would we ask anyone to pay for anything, you would be our guest for us to use as our fantasies allow us within reason of course .
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"depends on what the room is being used for afterwards...
if i am staying... I pay
if they are staying... I don't
if no one is staying.... half's
all fair I like this
We ask for flowers for the lady if your coming to ours , other than that we pay for the drinks meal etc. if you offer that is fine if not never mind .
We always if someone is driving buy them soft drinks just in case we need a lift home lol
No way would we ask anyone to pay for anything, you would be our guest for us to use as our fantasies allow us within reason of course .
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You actually ask for flowers? |
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"depends on what the room is being used for afterwards...
if i am staying... I pay
if they are staying... I don't
if no one is staying.... half's
all fair I like this
We ask for flowers for the lady if your coming to ours , other than that we pay for the drinks meal etc. if you offer that is fine if not never mind .
We always if someone is driving buy them soft drinks just in case we need a lift home lol
No way would we ask anyone to pay for anything, you would be our guest for us to use as our fantasies allow us within reason of course .
You actually ask for flowers?"
The age of romance is not dead! |
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if he is staying in a hotel here anyway.i wouldnt offer any money towards cost.but if its a room to be booked i will always pay my half.i dont expect men to pay all of it. |
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I met a guy in a hotel. He booked it and when we got there he found that he'd brought the wrong credit card (how does that happen) so I put it on my card.
I was a bit miffed when he then didn't offer to at least pay half
My own fault, I know, for being naive.
Never again!!!! |
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"I met a guy in a hotel. He booked it and when we got there he found that he'd brought the wrong credit card (how does that happen) so I put it on my card.
I was a bit miffed when he then didn't offer to at least pay half
My own fault, I know, for being naive.
Never again!!!!"
You busy this weekend, my treat lol? |
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"I dont do hotels as its to expensive, we would fuck in my bed or in the park if they fancied outdoor sex lol.
Form an orderly queue ladies."
I'm sorry but i committed earlier to a knee trembler in an alley behind some bins. Well beggars can't be choosers |
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"I dont do hotels as its to expensive, we would fuck in my bed or in the park if they fancied outdoor sex lol.
Form an orderly queue ladies.
I'm sorry but i committed earlier to a knee trembler in an alley behind some bins. Well beggars can't be choosers "
Lmao! I saw that post! |
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"I dont do hotels as its to expensive, we would fuck in my bed or in the park if they fancied outdoor sex lol.
Form an orderly queue ladies.
I'm sorry but i committed earlier to a knee trembler in an alley behind some bins. Well beggars can't be choosers "
I've only had knee tremblers in the shower |
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