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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This has always made me think......how the hell did anyone on here introduce their partner onto the swinging scene if they had never done it before? I can just imagine bringing it up in conversation to someone and being smacked lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started together, so it was not a shock conversation. Not sure it would be so easy if a single swinger needed to introduce a new vanilla partner then I suspect the diplomacy skills need to be good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex was bisexual and so am I, we did speak about how we missed playing without our own genders, she mentioned she'd once been to a swingers club, so we decided fuck it we'd go :p
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My partner used to swing before I met him and when I found out I couldn't believe anyone could do such a thing with someone they love
He asked a few times over the years but I never wanted to do it
7 years later I decided to try it and haven't looked back since
Its a very strange conversation to have when you have never done it before but I found it did help me as he could warn me of what to expect when going to our first club together and the general things that happen in the swinging world  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have only been together 15 months We are very open about sex & talk about allsorts .... Both very highly sexed had a convo about 3 somes & fantasies the next thing u know we looked the site up , talked about it shitloads and joined up ... 3 meets on and we are having great fun obviously only early days and loads of things are new to us but we are having a FAB time  |
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We have been together for 20 months. Ruth before then was a virgin to swinging and Glenn (me) had had his past moments with previous playmates.
I introduced the topic by asking Ruth, "when is an affair not an affair?". My argument being that providing there was complete honesty and trust between us then having sex with others for fun could work. A lot of conversation followed and during a chat on fantasies Ruth revealed that she would quite like to try two guys at the same time. "I can make that happen" was the gist of my reply.
The rest is history now. The phrase 'like a duck to water' comes to mind. We are having a fantastic time now. The trust and honesty is very much still there and swinging has bought us incredibly close to each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We both met each other in this site so it was not an issue for us.
It was more of a case of introducing our special kinks to each other.
Silk"
that's what I want
*stomps feet*  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been together for 20 months. Ruth before then was a virgin to swinging and Glenn (me) had had his past moments with previous playmates.
I introduced the topic by asking Ruth, "when is an affair not an affair?". My argument being that providing there was complete honesty and trust between us then having sex with others for fun could work. A lot of conversation followed and during a chat on fantasies Ruth revealed that she would quite like to try two guys at the same time. "I can make that happen" was the gist of my reply.
The rest is history now. The phrase 'like a duck to water' comes to mind. We are having a fantastic time now. The trust and honesty is very much still there and swinging has bought us incredibly close to each other. "
its made us closer if anything |
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