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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination ! |
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination !"
Because that's what turns some people on, we're all different you know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's your opinion and is valid of course as an opinion, lots of people swing, and love to be watched, and indeed to watch, it certainly doesn't make the pictures less classy than any others, to some its about being proud of their partners beauty, and showing each other off.
This is a sex site, not facebook or sunday school, being proud of your wife or partner is showing great trust and respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's your opinion and is valid of course as an opinion, lots of people swing, and love to be watched, and indeed to watch, it certainly doesn't make the pictures less classy than any others, to some its about being proud of their partners beauty, and showing each other off.
This is a sex site, not facebook or sunday school, being proud of your wife or partner is showing great trust and respect."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died"
Pure subjective claptrap, your opinion but still claptrap. ..
You should know by now it's whatever floats folks boats and you only make them self concious by spouting off. |
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I guess the same question could be posed of a male and an extreme closeup of his bellend.
Different people find different things attractive and moralising as to what people choose to show on their profile or not seems a little bit of a silly battle to fight on a site aimed at casual sex.
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination !"
Says the man with a close up looking INTO his cock!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well black cherry think i asked for that ! Lol
That pic i found funny and its myself im degrading not my life partner !
But i cannot be a hypocrite so will remove !
Bugger u got me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination !
Says the man with a close up looking INTO his cock! "
ahh, that's what it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well black cherry think i asked for that ! Lol
That pic i found funny and its myself im degrading not my life partner !
But i cannot be a hypocrite so will remove !
Bugger u got me"
Now having a life partner and being on a swinging site as single, is degrading and not at all classy  |
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"Well black cherry think i asked for that ! Lol
That pic i found funny and its myself im degrading not my life partner !
But i cannot be a hypocrite so will remove !
Bugger u got me"
Leave it up, take it down but understand different people find different things attractive and this will be the "reason" for nearly everything they do on here.
If you find something not to your own taste, block and move on, if its against site rules report it and move on but there is little point in getting upset about personal preference and what people FIND attractive, because its a question of that.
As for the "moral" question, I fail to see how pictures are any worse or better than the act of wife swapping/sharing in the first place. Fact is some people find the picture taking aspect incredibly hot for us we prize it amongst all during our meets and we know plenty of others who do as well. Mrs Cherry often takes and uploads the pictures herself at the best I give a bit of input as to what I think is hot or not but she controls them herself so the other idea that some horrible "husband" is taking advantage couldn't be further from the truth.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination !"
So pics of wife/partner with her face covered in Cum or with several guys is not degrading? |
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination !"
Close up gynaecological shots do nothing for me, but why lambast people for putting what they like on their profile? If it doesn't float your boat, move on to the next one! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination !"
How do you know the women in these couples didn't upload the pics themselves? Why are you assuming it's the man 'degrading' his wife? 
Do we like close up graphic pics? In general, No! Would we upload them on our profile? No!
Different people like different photos/things.
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"I guess the same question could be posed of a male and an extreme closeup of his bellend.
Different people find different things attractive and moralising as to what people choose to show on their profile or not seems a little bit of a silly battle to fight on a site aimed at casual sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination !"
Steady now Vicar lol |
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination !
Close up gynaecological shots do nothing for me, but why lambast people for putting what they like on their profile? If it doesn't float your boat, move on to the next one! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wait, so you've come to a SWINGING site, where people are advised to post dirty, kinky, sexy pictures of themselves, and you're upset about ANAL...?
Anal is... Softcore. Its not exactly pushing any boundaries. If my friend told me they tried anal, I wouldn't batter an eyelid compared to telling me they had several men at a time...
I think you may have the wrong end of the site dear! C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination !"
I don't have any photos as I'd be far to busy to stop to take photos.. but I can't see why it would be degrading to a woman.. and who says it's the guy posting the photos. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's your opinion and is valid of course as an opinion, lots of people swing, and love to be watched, and indeed to watch, it certainly doesn't make the pictures less classy than any others, to some its about being proud of their partners beauty, and showing each other off.
This is a sex site, not facebook or sunday school, being proud of your wife or partner is showing great trust and respect."
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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination !"
You know what site we are on? Lol |
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination !"
You talk as if the women are silent partners in this with no say at all, that is a little patronising to women and assumes that they aren't enjoying or even consenting to having their picture displayed. |
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"Is this thread serious?
Anal is degrading?
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Something is only degrading if its carried out with the intent to degrade. There is nothing that tells me that of the couples who post these pictures that was the mens intention. You can't project your own values on to everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are genuine cpls on here posting pics of close up anal !
Have these people no respect ?
Why would a gentleman degrade his wife and life partner by showing such pics !
Has respect and class finally died ?
Infact why parade your wife as a sex object ? The best profiles are the classy ones where somethings are left to the imagination !"
It's not a dating site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep ok I will. In my opinion and it is just mine.... I think that for somebody to criticise people for posting pics of either themselves or their partners is plain wrong. Firstly for me I really admire all the people who actually take the time to take and post pics in the first instance and for all the thousands that have been posted to each and every one I have total respect.
Secondly where does a person get off especially on a swinging site as already stated not a dating site making judgement and correct me if I am wrong basically saying that the male partner of a couple are treating their partner as a trophy or some sex object I think that is derogatory and plain wrong.
Yet the OP is quite happy to be on the site wanting to meet with females and couples, yet am sure, could be wrong does indeed look at the said photo's in the first instance.
In my opinion if this is something that makes this site exciting aswell as the banter, socials, the trepidation of arranging a meet etc. Just because some pics show different aspects of sex doesn't mean that, that person should be belittled by a comment of not having any respect for themselves or their partners. Everybody has their individual opinion and I totally respect that but I don't find the OP comments as respectful at all. |
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"Yep ok I will. In my opinion and it is just mine.... I think that for somebody to criticise people for posting pics of either themselves or their partners is plain wrong. Firstly for me I really admire all the people who actually take the time to take and post pics in the first instance and for all the thousands that have been posted to each and every one I have total respect.
Secondly where does a person get off especially on a swinging site as already stated not a dating site making judgement and correct me if I am wrong basically saying that the male partner of a couple are treating their partner as a trophy or some sex object I think that is derogatory and plain wrong.
Yet the OP is quite happy to be on the site wanting to meet with females and couples, yet am sure, could be wrong does indeed look at the said photo's in the first instance.
In my opinion if this is something that makes this site exciting aswell as the banter, socials, the trepidation of arranging a meet etc. Just because some pics show different aspects of sex doesn't mean that, that person should be belittled by a comment of not having any respect for themselves or their partners. Everybody has their individual opinion and I totally respect that but I don't find the OP comments as respectful at all. "
I was sort of saying a similar thing. The women in the pictures (one would hope and expect) are willing partners and not being degraded in any way, it isn't their husbands/partners showing them off as sex objects or certainly not in our case. I think the original post starts with the assumption that men are using women and women are unwilling participants and although that certainly is the case sometimes it isn't most of the time. |
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"Is this thread serious?
Anal is degrading?
that was my original point but u know what this place is like ! Lol"
You might want to take some time to make sure that your posts are a bit more clear then because unilaterally the responders to this thread have responded in the same way.
Also "is anal degrading ?" is very different to anything you put in your post.
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