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Every single day I get asked......
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!! |
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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago
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I get the same yet I find myself giggling when I start to get angry about it.
I think back to all of the profiles from single women where I have tried my luck (some successfully).
A polite no thanks is all I hope for from my initial contact, at the least. Just say no thanks, can't fault a tryer! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get the same yet I find myself giggling when I start to get angry about it.
I think back to all of the profiles from single women where I have tried my luck (some successfully).
A polite no thanks is all I hope for from my initial contact, at the least. Just say no thanks, can't fault a tryer!"
Yeah I'm nice at first but then I start having mass debate with them ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get the same yet I find myself giggling when I start to get angry about it.
I think back to all of the profiles from single women where I have tried my luck (some successfully).
A polite no thanks is all I hope for from my initial contact, at the least. Just say no thanks, can't fault a tryer!"
Yeah I'm nice at first but then I start having mass debate with them ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never say never, a hole is a hole 
Yeah but I don't want a hairy one that's no doubt covered in shit!!! 
Is yours? "
No mines smooth and covered in shit  |
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I get messages from bi, married, couples etc none of which I'm interested in meeting. I don't get stressed or annoyed I simply ignore them.
Most of us will be contacted by people outwith our meet criteria, getting your panties in a twist is pretty pointless in my view. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get messages from bi, married, couples etc none of which I'm interested in meeting. I don't get stressed or annoyed I simply ignore them.
Most of us will be contacted by people outwith our meet criteria, getting your panties in a twist is pretty pointless in my view. "
Message filters sort all that out!!
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I get the same yet I find myself giggling when I start to get angry about it.
I think back to all of the profiles from single women where I have tried my luck (some successfully).
A polite no thanks is all I hope for from my initial contact, at the least. Just say no thanks, can't fault a tryer!"
I disagree, although I don't get stressed about those trying their luck; I just delete the messages.
I wrote my profile for a reason and it's quite clear on what I'm looking for. Messages from, for example, smokers - and I get quite a few - just waste my time. Sometimes it's because they haven't bothered to read the profile or they've decided to ignore it. Either way I certainly can fault a trier
Messages from people who clearly don't fit what I'm looking for don't get a reply; they just get deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!"
Use filters to stop men messaging lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a bi man.... If a guy says straight on his profile I don't send a message but may wink to show appreciation for a sexy pic.
I do, however, get guys who say they are straight messaging me to say they want to try some bloke on bloke fun.... So it works both ways...
Guys are notoriously pushier than girls when it comes to sex, if it really is pissing you off then set your filters....
Personally I like the banter and the offers and on the odd occasion if there is mutual attraction then bring it on!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a bi man.... If a guy says straight on his profile I don't send a message but may wink to show appreciation for a sexy pic.
I do, however, get guys who say they are straight messaging me to say they want to try some bloke on bloke fun.... So it works both ways...
Guys are notoriously pushier than girls when it comes to sex, if it really is pissing you off then set your filters....
Personally I like the banter and the offers and on the odd occasion if there is mutual attraction then bring it on!
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I can see what your saying about supposedly "straight" guys, I'm guessing some guys on here are that desperate that they would fuck a barbers floor!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol I'm sure we get similar messages.... A barbers floor .. Even after the hairs been swept up! "
Haha probably mate you know what they're like on here !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Block males from contacting you , no more messages then "
Yes quite obvious. All these men complain about bi/gay guys contacting them but for some reason don't have them blocked.
The man doth protest too much ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Block males from contacting you , no more messages then
Yes quite obvious. All these men complain about bi/gay guys contacting them but for some reason don't have them blocked.
The man doth protest too much ? "
I didn't even know here was a block option
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"I get messages from bi, married, couples etc none of which I'm interested in meeting. I don't get stressed or annoyed I simply ignore them.
Most of us will be contacted by people outwith our meet criteria, getting your panties in a twist is pretty pointless in my view.
Message filters sort all that out!!
Age
Gender
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I have age filters, but you can't filter out married or bi men for example. Some men outside my age range have contacted random men within it asking them to contact me on their behalf.
My point is there will always be chancers and getting het up about it is an exercise in futility. |
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"I get the same yet I find myself giggling when I start to get angry about it.
I think back to all of the profiles from single women where I have tried my luck (some successfully).
A polite no thanks is all I hope for from my initial contact, at the least. Just say no thanks, can't fault a tryer!
I disagree, although I don't get stressed about those trying their luck; I just delete the messages.
I wrote my profile for a reason and it's quite clear on what I'm looking for. Messages from, for example, smokers - and I get quite a few - just waste my time. Sometimes it's because they haven't bothered to read the profile or they've decided to ignore it. Either way I certainly can fault a trier
Messages from people who clearly don't fit what I'm looking for don't get a reply; they just get deleted."
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I have age filters, but you can't filter out married or bi men for example. Some men outside my age range have contacted random men within it asking them to contact me on their behalf.
My point is there will always be chancers and getting het up about it is an exercise in futility. "
That's happened to me.... Where guys have asked me to send messages to a lady who has blocked them.... I just threaten to report them... I can't imagine how stalking someone would get you into their pants? ... For every perfect sphere there's always a couple of oddballs! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Either block all males or if you don't want to do that then each one that contacts you delete and block their message so they won't do it again.
Fruit x"
It's funny how they try different approaches , but think I'll be using that block button a bit x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!"
Why not just set your mail filters to block single guys messaging you....no more messages then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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quite a few "straight" males have contacted me wanting to play, i've met one guy a couple of times now for mutual oral.he only puts up verifications from couples and ladies but told me he has more meets with guys.he says a lot of ladies won't meet if he says he is bi curious |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!"
Just block all men and it wont happen. ..not rocket science  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!
Why not just set your mail filters to block single guys messaging you....no more messages then?"
This post has become about block filters lol , I was just posting to get people's opinions as to why they think guys ask ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"quite a few "straight" males have contacted me wanting to play, i've met one guy a couple of times now for mutual oral.he only puts up verifications from couples and ladies but told me he has more meets with guys.he says a lot of ladies won't meet if he says he is bi curious"
He should be proud of what he is |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!"
It happens to us straight girls with bi-women too.
My partner & others suggested I try it I might like it. I tell all the straight guys who suggest it to let me watch them giving a man a bj then I'll have a go myself. Until then, my preference is cock
Julie x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!
It happens to us straight girls with bi-women too.
My partner & others suggested I try it I might like it. I tell all the straight guys who suggest it to let me watch them giving a man a bj then I'll have a go myself. Until then, my preference is cock
Julie x"
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Any attention is better than none. And you can always politely refuse
And as for blocking. I've had guys message me asking for help with a woman ( when I was single)
You wouldn't want to block that would you...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Any attention is better than none. And you can always politely refuse
And as for blocking. I've had guys message me asking for help with a woman ( when I was single)
You wouldn't want to block that would you...
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Very good point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!"
The thing that surprises me when I get these offers is that on checking the guys profile 9 out 10 times he will claim to be straight!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!
The thing that surprises me when I get these offers is that on checking the guys profile 9 out 10 times he will claim to be straight!!"
Exactly!!! It's like "fuck this I can't get a girl so anything will do" |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
****news flash*****news flash****** news flash**
Not everything written in a profile is true,,
Some of the straight guys Will be straight, and have told the truth 
some of the straight guys will have fibbed,, ( I know shocking,,) so the guys contacting you about m2m fun are seeing if you re a or a fibber, delete block set filters or reply politely the choice is yours,, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"****news flash*****news flash****** news flash**
Not everything written in a profile is true,,
Some of the straight guys Will be straight, and have told the truth
some of the straight guys will have fibbed,, ( I know shocking,,) so the guys contacting you about m2m fun are seeing if you re a or a fibber, delete block set filters or reply politely the choice is yours,, "
Well we're all supposedly adults so just be honest!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!"
Block all single guys ...simple ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!
Block all single guys ...simple !"
Ffs stop going on about blocking!!! The point of the original thread was to see what peoples thoughts were as to why this happens!! Fuck me I give up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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See the recent (and not so recent) forum topics re "straight" guys who like cock! for some reason there seems to be quite a few bi guys who don't want to admit they are bi. So naturally they will ignore others preferences too.
Block is the best way, but ignore or 1 reply and block seems effective too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!"
I get this , last one said " you don't have to do anything just cum and go . Leave it all to me" wtf?. Filters set so men can't contact me but they do. Some very desperate , sad individuals on here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"See the recent (and not so recent) forum topics re "straight" guys who like cock! for some reason there seems to be quite a few bi guys who don't want to admit they are bi. So naturally they will ignore others preferences too.
Block is the best way, but ignore or 1 reply and block seems effective too. "
Right that's it I'm going to give the next person £1000 cash if they don't mention the word "block" go on who's going to take the prize |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!
I get this , last one said " you don't have to do anything just cum and go . Leave it all to me" wtf?. Filters set so men can't contact me but they do. Some very desperate , sad individuals on here "
Lol@ sad individuals |
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Any attention is better than none. And you can always politely refuse
And as for blocking. I've had guys message me asking for help with a woman ( when I was single)
You wouldn't want to block that would you...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or does anyone else think this is just another attention seeking thread ?
Oh I've contributed now it does work lol"
How is it attention seeking? , I thought this was a forum for discussions? Oh shit I've got it wrong damn me!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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Getting back to your original question.... Pre pies, prizes and blocks....
My gay mates say that a straight guy is a challenge... A prize worth winning..... It may be that they like the challenge or it could be that you do have quite nice pecs!
Given a pie or cock choice I'd probably go for a pie.... I'm originally from Wigan and miss them terribly! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Getting back to your original question.... Pre pies, prizes and blocks....
My gay mates say that a straight guy is a challenge... A prize worth winning..... It may be that they like the challenge or it could be that you do have quite nice pecs!
Given a pie or cock choice I'd probably go for a pie.... I'm originally from Wigan and miss them terribly! "
Ahhhhh at last a sensible reply lol
I suppose the challenge thing does make sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most gay men are looking for a straight guy, a guy who can make babies, fuck women, be strong, the alpha male.
This is just a fantasy, and can never be realised, because as soon as you do get a straight man, the fantasy is over |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Most gay men are looking for a straight guy, a guy who can make babies, fuck women, be strong, the alpha male.
This is just a fantasy, and can never be realised, because as soon as you do get a straight man, the fantasy is over "
This is getting going now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That sounds to me like complete sense.
I have however received a number of messages over the last few years from gay/bi/tv guys who have suggested that I am in some kind of denial about my sexuality as it is apparently a well known fact that all guys are at least to some extent gay!!
No offence to anyone but that is ridiculous.
Additionally where do these guys get the belief that although complete strangers they are able to make judgements on my sexuality.
For some at least they seem to believe however this nonsense is true & this I suspect is behind them propositioning straight guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hang on, this is getting confusing now... So Bi Guys state on their profile they are straight, gay guys prefer straight guys to gay guys, and some guys prefer pies...
SO a few questions:-
1 If a woman happens to be looking for a straight guy, should she message those who say gay or bi?
2 If a straight guy doesn't want approaches from other guys who want to suck him off, should he put gay on his profile to make himself unattractive to them?
3 When are Admin going to add Pies to the sexuality choices?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hang on, this is getting confusing now... So Bi Guys state on their profile they are straight, gay guys prefer straight guys to gay guys, and some guys prefer pies...
SO a few questions:-
1 If a woman happens to be looking for a straight guy, should she message those who say gay or bi?
2 If a straight guy doesn't want approaches from other guys who want to suck him off, should he put gay on his profile to make himself unattractive to them?
3 When are Admin going to add Pies to the sexuality choices? "
My head hurts now , wish I just ouch the usual "fuck snog avoid " thread like the usual bell ends post |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In all seriousness the problem is people putting straight onto the sexuality question who just are not, they then message more honest bi guys, who get the impression that straight guys are all bi.
This spirals until straight guys are propositioning other straight guys and the entire universe has become silly!
What is needed to resolve this situation is a bit of honesty on profiles.
I have only every been a straight guy but J is Bi, however I have noticed that even when sometimes she has wanted to she is able to resist the temptation to fuck every woman she see's so I assume that if 1 guy in a 4 some happens to be bi and the other doesn't then just like any sexual preferences expressed on a meet bi male play won't be happening.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In all seriousness the problem is people putting straight onto the sexuality question who just are not, they then message more honest bi guys, who get the impression that straight guys are all bi.
This spirals until straight guys are propositioning other straight guys and the entire universe has become silly!
What is needed to resolve this situation is a bit of honesty on profiles.
I have only every been a straight guy but J is Bi, however I have noticed that even when sometimes she has wanted to she is able to resist the temptation to fuck every woman she see's so I assume that if 1 guy in a 4 some happens to be bi and the other doesn't then just like any sexual preferences expressed on a meet bi male play won't be happening.
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Well said!! Just be honest and it makes life so much easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!"
Use your filters its that simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Hi mate nice profile , fancy a suck. , you don't have to do anything , just let me suck you"
Now it says I'm straight on my profile so surely they understand I am not interested in men?!?!? When I politely refuse and point out my sexuality , I get told to the usual "you don't have to touch me" like that makes it ok does it?? I think not !
It's kind of like saying to a vegetarian "I know you don't eat meat but if you close your eyes and just swallow it it's fine"
What's everyone's views on this I'll be interested to see ..... Discuss!!
Use your filters its that simple. "
And what can you suggest if you are a couple & like to meet single guys(straight)? |
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over a year ago
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"Hang on, this is getting confusing now... So Bi Guys state on their profile they are straight, gay guys prefer straight guys to gay guys, and some guys prefer pies...
SO a few questions:-
1 If a woman happens to be looking for a straight guy, should she message those who say gay or bi?
2 If a straight guy doesn't want approaches from other guys who want to suck him off, should he put gay on his profile to make himself unattractive to them?
3 When are Admin going to add Pies to the sexuality choices?
My head hurts now , wish I just ouch the usual "fuck snog avoid " thread like the usual bell ends post "
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over a year ago
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The more this thread goes on, the more attractive the sheep in the field are looking...
Everyone has the right to be who they want to be publicly or privately.... Totally straight, totally gay or somewhere on the wide scale in between is cool... Although... Sexuality can change with age and experience....
I have three close male friends, one was a homosexual all his married life but NEVER acted on it or admitted to it until he lost his wife. He realised his preferences during his engagement but a baby and social pressures mapped out his life for him. Only now is he honest with himself.
The second was staunchly heterosexual until he got his cock sucked by someone's husband in a 3 way.... That awakened a curiosity he never knew he had and now he identifies with being bisexual but only if a woman is present.
The third, is as straight as a die. Doesn't even like the thought of a man looking at him in that way and wouldn't consider same sex fun ever....
I guess what I'm saying is it takes a lot of different chocolates to fill a box.... If they were all the same it would be very boring!
Embrace people for who they are, respect their wishes and enjoy sex with people who are on the same wavelength. |
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