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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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not a pushy idiot but people asking for specific locations after being on the site for a year and not verified would raise a concern.
people take risks dogging and their security and privacy is paramount.
no offence to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a quick straw poll...
If someone advertises a dogging meet giving only a city name as the place, and you ask for a more detailed location, does that make you a pushy idiot?..."
Not at all ... however it can be that the dogging couple have had a bad experience when the exact location has been shared with all sorts .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your approach was only asking for the location without even attempting to engage with the people who were advertising the meet then yes id find that pushy and assumptive |
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I was in their friends list and we had swapped messages before so they were aware of the verification issue before and basic engagement had taken place. I appreciate discretion an issue, but would have thought this was more relevant to home meets; when dogging isn't half the fun the unknown element? Thanks for feedback |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not a pushy idiot but people asking for specific locations after being on the site for a year and not verified would raise a concern.
people take risks dogging and their security and privacy is paramount.
no offence to you."
This says it all OP 
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