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Does anyone care about newbies ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seriously being new on here is hard work . Yes I will take the criticism for posting this post not a problem . We are what we are .im just looking to have some fun . Not worried about size or shape . Not looking for Kate or Bella . Just someone that wants the same as me . Heaven lol x get in touch x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont be so bloody negative! Your profile tells us nothing only that ur having a good old winge! You need to be appealing in your profile text and entice people in!! Mrs B  |
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Shit profile... There are so many single guys on here you need your profile to stand out...
Gets some pics, tell people what you like and what you have to offer. Go to a club and see if you can get a verification... And yes you are right being married isn't going to help... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you changed your profile since you joined? I imagine so, the reason I ask is due to you having a verification dated within around a month of joining. That is good going for any newbie, especially a single male. Take another look at your profile and think positively x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would you want to lick someone dry?
Surely getting them soaking wet would be better?
As a man you need to understand that you're in a majority, ppl do like new ppl if they're genuine and honest, get a pic up at least and sell yourself, nobody will do that for you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi people thanks for the profile advice . Will sort it and the pics Kate moss and Bella embers lol . Fruit I have a good attitude. Bit thanks anyway x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously being new on here is hard work . Yes I will take the criticism for posting this post not a problem . We are what we are .im just looking to have some fun . Not worried about size or shape . Not looking for Kate or Bella . Just someone that wants the same as me . Heaven lol x get in touch x "
Your profile is just one big negative statement. Try at least to put something into it and you just get something out of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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why should anybody care about newbies?
especially those that dont help themselves.
do a search and see how many newbies, and in fact long termers, that complain about not getting anywhere, read the advice and then look at their profiles, you will see that the vast majority of them take absolutely no notice, or only take on board the advice given that makes them feel good about themselves.
its been said before, the profile is the advert you offer up for someone to want your product (in this case, yourself) so you need to offer your best characteristics in their best light |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously being new on here is hard work . Yes I will take the criticism for posting this post not a problem . We are what we are .im just looking to have some fun . Not worried about size or shape . Not looking for Kate or Bella . Just someone that wants the same as me . Heaven lol x get in touch x "
Care about them how? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got to be positive and keep on smiling.
Some fugly people on here have got laid so theres hope for us all "
where is your proof?
you have no verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got to be positive and keep on smiling.
Some fugly people on here have got laid so theres hope for us all
where is your proof?
you have no verifications."
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By *bacusMan
over a year ago
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"Got to be positive and keep on smiling.
Some fugly people on here have got laid so theres hope for us all
where is your proof?
you have no verifications.
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Proof of what? I havent had any meets either. Others have so i'm staying positive and thinking it'll happen eventually! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got to be positive and keep on smiling.
Some fugly people on here have got laid so theres hope for us all
where is your proof?
you have no verifications.
Proof of what? I havent had any meets either. Others have so i'm staying positive and thinking it'll happen eventually!"
proof of a fugly getting ameet.
as said, you have no veri's.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got to be positive and keep on smiling.
Some fugly people on here have got laid so theres hope for us all
where is your proof?
you have no verifications.
Proof of what? I havent had any meets either. Others have so i'm staying positive and thinking it'll happen eventually!
proof of a fugly getting ameet.
as said, you have no veri's...."
Went over his head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got to be positive and keep on smiling.
Some fugly people on here have got laid so theres hope for us all
where is your proof?
you have no verifications.
Proof of what? I havent had any meets either. Others have so i'm staying positive and thinking it'll happen eventually!
proof of a fugly getting ameet.
as said, you have no veri's....
Went over his head. "
i know.
im often accused of being too subtle lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get aproached by people, mainly guys that fall into the following categories, all of which are rejected -
1. "U ok" or similar lazy message
2. Been here more than about a month - no pics
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you're not concerned about size or shape but don't want thin women (Kate) or fat women (Bella)? That seems a bit contradictory. Or have I misunderstood?  "
Think he means he isn't specifically looking for Kate or Bella. But anyone will do! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you're not concerned about size or shape but don't want thin women (Kate) or fat women (Bella)? That seems a bit contradictory. Or have I misunderstood?
Think he means he isn't specifically looking for Kate or Bella. But anyone will do! "
well, bella emburg is dead, and i dont think kate moss is on the boards, although i may be wrong, so not sure he would have a chance with either anyway.
although out of the 2, i suppose kate would be the only one able to refuse...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you're not concerned about size or shape but don't want thin women (Kate) or fat women (Bella)? That seems a bit contradictory. Or have I misunderstood?
Think he means he isn't specifically looking for Kate or Bella. But anyone will do!
well, bella emburg is dead, and i dont think kate moss is on the boards, although i may be wrong, so not sure he would have a chance with either anyway.
although out of the 2, i suppose kate would be the only one able to refuse......"
And even then, she's not sure to refuse! Pete Docherty? Lol. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"why should anybody care about newbies?
especially those that dont help themselves.
do a search and see how many newbies, and in fact long termers, that complain about not getting anywhere, read the advice and then look at their profiles, you will see that the vast majority of them take absolutely no notice, or only take on board the advice given that makes them feel good about themselves.
its been said before, the profile is the advert you offer up for someone to want your product (in this case, yourself) so you need to offer your best characteristics in their best light"
they have touched on something that I was going to say...
it is all well and good getting others to help... but it helps if you can do the best to "help yourself help yourself"...
in a way a lot of people who first come on thing well swingers will just shag anything.... to be honest it tends to be the exact opposite, in that they are more picky because they know exactly what they want.......
the expectations vs the reality.....
sometimes it is good to get a pen and paper and just sit down and write something that reflects you...... I know some don't like to "think" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously being new on here is hard work . Yes I will take the criticism for posting this post not a problem . We are what we are .im just looking to have some fun . Not worried about size or shape . Not looking for Kate or Bella . Just someone that wants the same as me . Heaven lol x get in touch x "
this site gives you back what you put in.
i set up a single male profile and got a meet that night,so the sob stories from men saying they cant get a meet are laughable |
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