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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've struck upon a recent trend on here.
I'll message a lady, she'll message back, we'll end up having a lengthy conversation over messages that evening or maybe over a night or two. We'll add each other as friends and swap pics and talk about a possible meet. Then one day you message and say hi and nothing, leave it a day or two and say hi again and message is deleted immediately. Anyone want to try and explain this? These are not fake profiles either these are profiles with lots of verifications. I'm not losing sleep over it as I just delete then from my friends but just curious if this happens to anyone else, guys or girls? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've struck upon a recent trend on here.
I'll message a lady, she'll message back, we'll end up having a lengthy conversation over messages that evening or maybe over a night or two. We'll add each other as friends and swap pics and talk about a possible meet. Then one day you message and say hi and nothing, leave it a day or two and say hi again and message is deleted immediately. Anyone want to try and explain this? These are not fake profiles either these are profiles with lots of verifications. I'm not losing sleep over it as I just delete then from my friends but just curious if this happens to anyone else, guys or girls?"
no such thing as a Lady on here mate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't take it personally bud. People just click with different people at different times. That's just the nature of the site. Don't dwell on it. Stay positive, move on and have fun!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've struck upon a recent trend on here.
I'll message a lady, she'll message back, we'll end up having a lengthy conversation over messages that evening or maybe over a night or two. We'll add each other as friends and swap pics and talk about a possible meet. Then one day you message and say hi and nothing, leave it a day or two and say hi again and message is deleted immediately. Anyone want to try and explain this? These are not fake profiles either these are profiles with lots of verifications. I'm not losing sleep over it as I just delete then from my friends but just curious if this happens to anyone else, guys or girls?"
Strike while the iron is hot. Though you have to balance that with not being pushy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This happened to me this week with a scouse girl...got on really well..its looking good then nothing...vanished..really weird..but girls can be weird....its probably down to the sheer volume/ratio of guys to girls on here....end of the day..they get the pick...were just like sweets in a sweet shop Haha |
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I think sometimes at the start of an exchange you think "yeah, ok, nice" but sometimes the messages can turn you off a bit. I'm having that right now with someone. Everything was good but now... not so sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've struck upon a recent trend on here.
I'll message a lady, she'll message back, we'll end up having a lengthy conversation over messages that evening or maybe over a night or two. We'll add each other as friends and swap pics and talk about a possible meet. Then one day you message and say hi and nothing, leave it a day or two and say hi again and message is deleted immediately. Anyone want to try and explain this? These are not fake profiles either these are profiles with lots of verifications. I'm not losing sleep over it as I just delete then from my friends but just curious if this happens to anyone else, guys or girls?"
Happens a lot. No matter what you do they will be some that do not like it. Ask for a meet and ignored do not ask and ignored, you just cannot win. some will say a nice no thank you after chatting for a bit. These are the one with manners.
Just take a deep breath and more on. Some men have manners as well after all.
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By *lliesCouple
over a year ago
edinburgh |
Single women are bad for doing this, they love the pic sharing, flirting and even the naughty chat, but mention meeting, they either don't turn up or never answer messages... Be honest if you only want to be turned on say so.....
Happy hunting
elle x |
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"I've struck upon a recent trend on here.
I'll message a lady, she'll message back, we'll end up having a lengthy conversation over messages that evening or maybe over a night or two. We'll add each other as friends and swap pics and talk about a possible meet. Then one day you message and say hi and nothing, leave it a day or two and say hi again and message is deleted immediately. Anyone want to try and explain this? These are not fake profiles either these are profiles with lots of verifications. I'm not losing sleep over it as I just delete then from my friends but just curious if this happens to anyone else, guys or girls?"
Happens all the time. I've lost count of the times it has happened, but I don't loose any sleep over it. I used to wonder why, but it doesn't bother me now |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
Exchanging messages / photos does not always turn into a meet.
We have chatted with people before and at the start been very keen. Then they might say or do something that puts us off.
Maybe they changed their mind but didn't know how to tell you so simply just ignored your messages.
Don't worry about it....
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"The difference is, fantasy V reality... They love the idea, but no follow through... There called attention seekers...."
So if you change your mind for whatever reason...you are an attention seeker?  |
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"This happened to me this week with a scouse girl...got on really well..its looking good then nothing...vanished..really weird..but girls can be weird....its probably down to the sheer volume/ratio of guys to girls on here....end of the day..they get the pick...were just like sweets in a sweet shop Haha "
Now that is a perfectly good way to put it.
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"I've struck upon a recent trend on here.
I'll message a lady, she'll message back, we'll end up having a lengthy conversation over messages that evening or maybe over a night or two. We'll add each other as friends and swap pics and talk about a possible meet. Then one day you message and say hi and nothing, leave it a day or two and say hi again and message is deleted immediately. Anyone want to try and explain this? These are not fake profiles either these are profiles with lots of verifications. I'm not losing sleep over it as I just delete then from my friends but just curious if this happens to anyone else, guys or girls?"
Yes it does. It happens to me all the time which is why I never accept a friend's invite until after we have met (if we clicked). No big deal, there are plenty of other people on this site. I usually give someone a min of 5 days to respond because work and life does take over sometimes. If he/she has been online past the 5 days and still no response....delete and block! I think I am very nice to give them 5 days.
Dont beat yourself up about it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've struck upon a recent trend on here.
I'll message a lady, she'll message back, we'll end up having a lengthy conversation over messages that evening or maybe over a night or two. We'll add each other as friends and swap pics and talk about a possible meet. Then one day you message and say hi and nothing, leave it a day or two and say hi again and message is deleted immediately. Anyone want to try and explain this? These are not fake profiles either these are profiles with lots of verifications. I'm not losing sleep over it as I just delete then from my friends but just curious if this happens to anyone else, guys or girls?
Yes it does. It happens to me all the time which is why I never accept a friend's invite until after we have met (if we clicked). No big deal, there are plenty of other people on this site. I usually give someone a min of 5 days to respond because work and life does take over sometimes. If he/she has been online past the 5 days and still no response....delete and block! I think I am very nice to give them 5 days.
Dont beat yourself up about it. "
E eekkk! *checks* when I was last in touch with miss oooo la la |
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I've had the same thing happen to me, even exchanged phone numbers and then it's no response to messages on here and no response to text messages
Does it bother me?
No
Life's too short to get worked up by time wasters |
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"I've struck upon a recent trend on here.
I'll message a lady, she'll message back, we'll end up having a lengthy conversation over messages that evening or maybe over a night or two. We'll add each other as friends and swap pics and talk about a possible meet. Then one day you message and say hi and nothing, leave it a day or two and say hi again and message is deleted immediately. Anyone want to try and explain this? "
They changed their mind. Men do it too, we all have a right to think - 'Hmm, maybe he's not as hot/witty/perfect as I first thought now I've slept on it'.
Maybe life took over. Maybe they wandered off 'cos the hot blond from No 23 popped round and they haven't got the balls to say. But if that's the reason they always come back. I don't block, I just leave them to it, though I wouldn't message more than once.
However, if I have been in conversation with someone I agree it is damn rude to delete and not reply. In that case, fuck 'em. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have had this happen to me a couple of times but i don't take it personally either. The women have so much choice here they can just move on if they think there is someone better around. You just have to move on yourself. |
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