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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What things put single males off couples....?
Knowing this won't be the case, but it would be great if the answers came from single males who want to meet couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it works then."
couples dont usually want single guys, its always the elusive single bi female that are sort after so I dont bother even looking even though I may be interested  |
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If you know each other well enough to be a couple you develop a subtle form of communication that you're not even aware of. Unfortunately I haven't found a way to tell peoples body language to shut up. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"What things put single males off couples....?
Knowing this won't be the case, but it would be great if the answers came from single males who want to meet couples."
Probably the same thing that puts couples off single guys, their preferences. Though given the rep single guys have if you messaged i'm sure they'd jump at the chance of a shag  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I seem to find a problem with most couples profiles not VWE they are looking for bi looking for fit guys people to far away the list goes on. as a nice chap I don't just send generic messages out to everyone so even if I like the look of a couple but don't think I fit I stay my hand as I don't want to be thought of a time waster  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"What things put single males off couples....?
Knowing this won't be the case, but it would be great if the answers came from single males who want to meet couples."
there are a multitude of things for me... lists of demands like i am a piece of meat is a biggie... I want to get as much out of the experience as the couple does... and sometimes couples forget that..
the attitude of it being a contest, or that they are doing me some sort of favour by them gracing me with their appearence so to speak...
and the strong vibe that one half of the couple is being co-ersed into it to please the other is the one stronges turn off... which is why I meet socially and try to get a vibe for both people..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As Fabio has said some couples sometimes think because you are a single guy you are desperate so they can make unreasonable demands.
Anything I am involved in has to be shared experience I am not battery operated.
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Main thing that puts me off is the somewhat obvious, to me, thing of not fancying the female half of it. Or of thinking she's out of my league. Which does leave quite a small selection that fall in between, even before I start looking at their other preferences etc... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The feedback i seem to pick up is most couples don't like pushy guys... In general your invading there space and it's up to us as single guys to be thoughtful, considerate and appealing to both of them... You will never be the icing on the cake for all but we all need to be sociable and take things as they come ( No pun intended ) !
For many it's a big step to allow another man to be intimate with the lady or both and respect is always something in mind, it should be a shared fun experience for all... Most of my meets have been couples and i'm pretty sure we all have enjoyed then as it never seems to be a one of meeting  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What things put single males off couples....?
Knowing this won't be the case, but it would be great if the answers came from single males who want to meet couples.
there are a multitude of things for me... lists of demands like i am a piece of meat is a biggie... I want to get as much out of the experience as the couple does... and sometimes couples forget that..
the attitude of it being a contest, or that they are doing me some sort of favour by them gracing me with their appearence so to speak...
and the strong vibe that one half of the couple is being co-ersed into it to please the other is the one stronges turn off... which is why I meet socially and try to get a vibe for both people....."
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