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If you are a couple and you have arranged a meet would you expect the person, or couple your meeting to keep in touch with you, or would you keep in touch with them daily or every other day until the meet.
Or would you organize it on say a Monday for the following Saturday night
and then not make contact till the day or just assume they will remember and turn up.?
Or if you was a single guy, or maybe 2 guys doing a duo, lol,
meeting a couple etc, would you keep in touch with the couple? or would you expect the couple to keep in touch with the guy or guys,?
just to confirm your still interested and arrangements are still ok ?   
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I only meet people I feel comfortable with we would normally be chatting fairly regularly anyway. I wouldn't meet with someone who doesn't like that regular contact.....I don't mean reams of messages or anything just enough to keep the interest there plus it adds to the build up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to keep in touch as I find the build up to a meet exciting,If I don't hear anything I would assume nothings happening and interest had died off,id send message a couple of days before the meet to see if it was still on,making an arrangment and then not being in contact until the day of the meet does'nt sit comfortably with me |
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If we was meeting a Guy or Guys
We would expect them (the guys) to keep in touch with us to make sure they are interested leading up to the meet.
After all we are the couples inviting a guy or guys into our private life's and if they are really interested in meeting they would keep in touch with the couple
that's our a pinon   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well i'm not a couple or a single guy but if I arranged a meet I wouldn't want daily contact till the meet, there's really no need, if I arranged a meet on the Monday for Friday I would mail them Thursday night to comfirm it was still on, if I got the odd message off them through the week that would be ok but if they mailed me daily, several times a day that would pee me off to be honest and make me think twice about meeting them |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Most of our meets are arranged in advance (2+ weeks) Once the details have been finalised, we won't usually contact them until a few days before to check that things are still on.
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Should add that we have usually been chatting with them for quite a while before hand.
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"well i'm not a couple or a single guy but if I arranged a meet I wouldn't want daily contact till the meet, there's really no need, if I arranged a meet on the Monday for Friday I would mail them Thursday night to comfirm it was still on, if I got the odd message off them through the week that would be ok but if they mailed me daily, several times a day that would pee me off to be honest and make me think twice about meeting them"
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"well i'm not a couple or a single guy but if I arranged a meet I wouldn't want daily contact till the meet, there's really no need, if I arranged a meet on the Monday for Friday I would mail them Thursday night to comfirm it was still on, if I got the odd message off them through the week that would be ok but if they mailed me daily, several times a day that would pee me off to be honest and make me think twice about meeting them"
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If you ever come across two guys from folketone doing a duo pass them by as they are both time wasters
Arrangements made and moved things aboutto suit the meet.
Then bosh they decline the meet thats arranged
Undoing pre arranged meets is difficult so how do you explain that to baby sitters etc ?
I would advise keep away from them if you need to know more about them pm me if you want to know more  |
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