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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
I'm hoping to take a cock up my arse for the first time this weekend. Any suggestions as to the best position so it slips in easily and without too much pain? Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best position someone else's arse lol, I've only had one meet who's managed anal with me without causing pain, I'd suggest you on top though so you have the control and can go at your own pace lots and lots of lube as well, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plenty of lube and I find it easier to be in control... Much easier to relax yourself if your in charge ... And find a position that suits u best x good luck it can be very good x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you dont need poppers. If you lay on your side you will be more relaxed for the first time. Fingers first or if you have a toy or something use that on yourself. It's a matter of getting used to it. If he is experienced he will know to go slow and wait for you to let him in. sometimes pushing out a little helps as you don't close around him so tight. You may find you will take him quite easily. My male buddy didn't take long to take my strap on. Hope you have an enjoyable experience |
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It is all about the speed!! Make sure he goes slowly and that he is making sure you are ok all the way through! Remember the pain will go away, even when it feels like a bus has just hit you but it really doesn't stay long and the pleasure will soon out weigh the pain!!
Make me need a fuck now!!!! |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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Hopefully he is someone gentle and patient. A lot of relaxing foreplay for your anus will definitely help be it from a fingers or a tounge. As others have said plenty of lube, ideally one specifically designed for anal, which tend to be a bit thinker. If this is to occur at your place I would make sure the room is at a comfortable temperature as well.
Position wise I find it easier to lie on my front with my
legs hanging over the side. Pillows can also be useful for adjusting the height and angle.
Personally I find poppers help but their not for everyone and definetly not a good idea for anyone using ed meds or with heart conditions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd agree with lying on your side, or go on top and control the pace. If they're experienced they'll go slowly and it won't hurt (much), but once they've got to a point the feeling is amazing.
I'd recommend every straight guy and female to try, it could change you for ever lol
Also Lube+++ |
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Just loads of lube. I find it difficult to initially take anal but once in properly I can't get enough. I used to hate anal because it wasn't done properly. Now I love it and ask for it harder...lol! Wine helps...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Cum juice siliva..on all fours..gently finger first..the tip of the cock glide in gentle very gentle thrust..keeping inside and out moist..gently easing in for as.much as.you can.enjoy...i wouldnt suggest fast hard penetration the first time..a couple of times like that..n you will enjoy ..however you must be in good control of your enjoyment or it could hurt...certain lubes sting i would suggest your own body fluids..nette  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to say
I have NEVER used lube ever lol
neither have I.
If you have vaginal sex first the cock is often so well lubricated you don't need lube!"
After some good vaginal sex youll be way more relaxed and he will be lubed up from your juices. Breathe, as it can hurt first going in, but then it changes into pleasure |
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"Cum juice siliva..on all fours..gently finger first..the tip of the cock glide in gentle very gentle thrust..keeping inside and out moist..gently easing in for as.much as.you can.enjoy...i wouldnt suggest fast hard penetration the first time..a couple of times like that..n you will enjoy ..however you must be in good control of your enjoyment or it could hurt...certain lubes sting i would suggest your own body fluids..nette "
That's it...you've made want anal now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would suggest lots and lots of solo practise. that way you know what to expect and you can actually train you ass. i have mine jumping through hoops. so to speak. |
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