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Why does he lock the door?
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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
When me & my partner play in the club he always locks the door so nobody else comes in. We struggled to find a room Sunday & I suggested the couples room but he dismissed it & we finally found one. It's not that he's shy cos an hour earlier he'd had a blow job off a woman in the jacuzzi
Any thoughts?
Julie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps he just wanted some alone time. We sometimes have a public play and go to a private room for some time alone where I can throw her about and reward her for being a good girl. We lock the door as people wandering in can ruin the mood. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe try a different club or even meet a few select couples or singles for a social first. I get a few guys who like watching me pleasure their partners then join in  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Have you asked him? Did you think we could read his mind in this thread?
Have you asked him yourself?
Oh did i mention...... "Have you asked him?"
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Could you repeat that please? I didn't quite get it  |
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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
You misunderstand. I wondered if it was just that he wanted the intimacy we share at home.
Venus, i don't need permission to play it just didn't/hasn't happened for me yet. And in all fairness the thought of him getting a BJ in the jacuzzi has been getting my rocks off since we went.
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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Have you asked him? Did you think we could read his mind in this thread?
Have you asked him yourself?
Oh did i mention...... "Have you asked him?"
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Maybe i should ask him?
I did and he does it with every woman he plays with...not just me! Maybe he's shy pmsl  |
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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Prize for the most pointless thread...... "
Thanks, that's a great encouragement for a newbie who hasn't got much idea apart from the fact that swingers get to fuck a lot! |
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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"He seems to want his cake and est it he gets bj off another yet wants u to himself. Why not ask him?"
No i asked apparently whichever lady he takes in a room he locks the door, he doesn't want others in there.
And i never once said he wanted me not to enjoy myself, just that i hadn't had fun with anyone else that night. The last thing my OH is is selfish either sexually or any other way
Julie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prize for the most pointless thread......
Thanks, that's a great encouragement for a newbie who hasn't got much idea apart from the fact that swingers get to fuck a lot!"
Well I didn't understand why you don't just ask him....he would know? Not us.....and it was meant in a jokey way.....hence the big grin......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Prize for the most pointless thread......
Thanks, that's a great encouragement for a newbie who hasn't got much idea apart from the fact that swingers get to fuck a lot!
Well I didn't understand why you don't just ask him....he would know? Not us.....and it was meant in a jokey way.....hence the big grin...... "
Sounds to me like you shouldn't have let him cum earlier. Sharing your wife with strangers can be less appealing once you've shot your bolt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You misunderstand. I wondered if it was just that he wanted the intimacy we share at home.
Venus, i don't need permission to play it just didn't/hasn't happened for me yet. And in all fairness the thought of him getting a BJ in the jacuzzi has been getting my rocks off since we went.
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sorry, yes, misunderstood.
reading your post i got from it that he enjoyed himself, then when it came to you wanting a bit, he locked you both away in a room.
now its a little clearer.
who knows why he does it.
maybe he doesnt want to share whoever he is playing with at that particular time.
we have spoken to a couple on here who meet couples, but the guy doesnt like being naked with other men, so things aret always straight froward lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He seems to want his cake and est it he gets bj off another yet wants u to himself. Why not ask him?
No i asked apparently whichever lady he takes in a room he locks the door, he doesn't want others in there.
And i never once said he wanted me not to enjoy myself, just that i hadn't had fun with anyone else that night. The last thing my OH is is selfish either sexually or any other way
Julie "
Confused now you say you asked him so what was point of original post am i missing something  |
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