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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a little thing with some on here that confuses me (it's not hard to confuse lol)
I always try to be polite and show respect but whenever I send anyone a message I hardly ever get any reply
So I'm confused as how am I supposed to meet new people when getting ignored?
I do have a few friends on here and I know some men can get a little pushy but not all of us are like that and it does spoil this site for the genuine men on here.
Not a rant life's too short to rant just wanna have fun and not sure how to on here lol   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if i looked in my mailbox and there was a message from you ...your user name would put me off before even looking at the message or the profile "
It's just the best I could think off haha open to new suggestions. Tried to think of something funny. Guess I failed haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a little thing with some on here that confuses me (it's not hard to confuse lol)
I always try to be polite and show respect but whenever I send anyone a message I hardly ever get any reply
So I'm confused as how am I supposed to meet new people when getting ignored?
I do have a few friends on here and I know some men can get a little pushy but not all of us are like that and it does spoil this site for the genuine men on here.
Not a rant life's too short to rant just wanna have fun and not sure how to on here lol "
The problem with replying you often get...but why and on and on and on till you have to block. Sometimes its easier just not to reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if i looked in my mailbox and there was a message from you ...your user name would put me off before even looking at the message or the profile "
I'm no expert (far from it) but your av I imagine would put people off too. I think women would much rather have a face and/or a body pic to catch their eye. Like I say I'm no expert and definitely no lothario, but putting everything on show before a word has been spoken probably isn't the best way to introduce yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just a little thing with some on here that confuses me (it's not hard to confuse lol)
I always try to be polite and show respect but whenever I send anyone a message I hardly ever get any reply
So I'm confused as how am I supposed to meet new people when getting ignored?
I do have a few friends on here and I know some men can get a little pushy but not all of us are like that and it does spoil this site for the genuine men on here.
Not a rant life's too short to rant just wanna have fun and not sure how to on here lol
The problem with replying you often get...but why and on and on and on till you have to block. Sometimes its easier just not to reply. "
Totally understand what you mean. Like i said I got friends on here. Female and couples. And I know some can go on and on and on. Just think it's spoiling it for genuine men on here. I'm the sort of bloke that can take a no as no! Shame others can't that's my point |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"if i looked in my mailbox and there was a message from you ...your user name would put me off before even looking at the message or the profile
I'm no expert (far from it) but your av I imagine would put people off too. I think women would much rather have a face and/or a body pic to catch their eye. Like I say I'm no expert and definitely no lothario, but putting everything on show before a word has been spoken probably isn't the best way to introduce yourself "
Fair point but my line of work does prevent me putting my face on show on here. And I'm totally honest my body is worse than what showing now haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if i looked in my mailbox and there was a message from you ...your user name would put me off before even looking at the message or the profile
It's just the best I could think off haha open to new suggestions. Tried to think of something funny. Guess I failed haha "
how about keeping the name but changing the avatar pic to something else?
there's been quite a few threads in the past as to what women think is appealing, maybe look at those for inspiration...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if i looked in my mailbox and there was a message from you ...your user name would put me off before even looking at the message or the profile "
We thought it was quite a funny name actually!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if i looked in my mailbox and there was a message from you ...your user name would put me off before even looking at the message or the profile
It's just the best I could think off haha open to new suggestions. Tried to think of something funny. Guess I failed haha
how about keeping the name but changing the avatar pic to something else?
there's been quite a few threads in the past as to what women think is appealing, maybe look at those for inspiration... "
I'll try and think of something else. But like I said earler can't put a face pic on and to be honest quite ashamed of my body. So really can't think what to have on  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"if i looked in my mailbox and there was a message from you ...your user name would put me off before even looking at the message or the profile
We thought it was quite a funny name actually!!"
Glad you said that. Nearly changed it to billy-no-mates haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if i looked in my mailbox and there was a message from you ...your user name would put me off before even looking at the message or the profile
I'm no expert (far from it) but your av I imagine would put people off too. I think women would much rather have a face and/or a body pic to catch their eye. Like I say I'm no expert and definitely no lothario, but putting everything on show before a word has been spoken probably isn't the best way to introduce yourself
Fair point but my line of work does prevent me putting my face on show on here. And I'm totally honest my body is worse than what showing now haha Then put face pics in private. "
I do have a face pic in private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just get used to the fact we outnumber fems by prob 5 to 1 and as as single blokes. ..we have unspeakable diseases that can spread through the message system. ....a pre preemptive block can can prevent the spread apparently...id wear garlic instead  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if i looked in my mailbox and there was a message from you ...your user name would put me off before even looking at the message or the profile
I'm no expert (far from it) but your av I imagine would put people off too. I think women would much rather have a face and/or a body pic to catch their eye. Like I say I'm no expert and definitely no lothario, but putting everything on show before a word has been spoken probably isn't the best way to introduce yourself
Fair point but my line of work does prevent me putting my face on show on here. And I'm totally honest my body is worse than what showing now haha Then put face pics in private.
I do have a face pic in private "
Nothing wrong with your actual written profile, but like others have said, profile name/avatar is offputting, sorry. Im not small and don't think im all that either bodywise but I do have bodyshots in public, you could do the same. Hope you aren't offended by my suggestions, if so, sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aesthetics go a long way on here no matter what people say. The profile pic would put us off do some research on here and take another pic.
Inject a bit more confidence into your profile and away you go. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if i looked in my mailbox and there was a message from you ...your user name would put me off before even looking at the message or the profile
I'm no expert (far from it) but your av I imagine would put people off too. I think women would much rather have a face and/or a body pic to catch their eye. Like I say I'm no expert and definitely no lothario, but putting everything on show before a word has been spoken probably isn't the best way to introduce yourself
Fair point but my line of work does prevent me putting my face on show on here. And I'm totally honest my body is worse than what showing now haha Then put face pics in private.
I do have a face pic in private Nothing wrong with your actual written profile, but like others have said, profile name/avatar is offputting, sorry. Im not small and don't think im all that either bodywise but I do have bodyshots in public, you could do the same. Hope you aren't offended by my suggestions, if so, sorry "
No not offended at all. Thanks for replying. Think I'll try get some body pics done. Try and get my best side lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It often amuses me when people (male AND female) put " I can't put a picture on because of my job"! Do you work for MI5 or The Royal Household? If your job is that sensative, perhaps a rethink about being on a swinging site may be in order?
Just my 2 pence worth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It often amuses me when people (male AND female) put " I can't put a picture on because of my job"! Do you work for MI5 or The Royal Household? If your job is that sensative, perhaps a rethink about being on a swinging site may be in order?
Just my 2 pence worth."
there is a difference to having a full face pic ON the profile.Yes someones job is important to them, many companies have codes of conduct, they dont want their employees embarrassing them..which essentially may lose them money.To say people need to rethink their time on a swinging site because they wont display a face pic is mighty silly and disrespectful to everyones right to privacy. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"It often amuses me when people (male AND female) put " I can't put a picture on because of my job"! Do you work for MI5 or The Royal Household? If your job is that sensative, perhaps a rethink about being on a swinging site may be in order?
Just my 2 pence worth.
there is a difference to having a full face pic ON the profile.Yes someones job is important to them, many companies have codes of conduct, they dont want their employees embarrassing them..which essentially may lose them money.To say people need to rethink their time on a swinging site because they wont display a face pic is mighty silly and disrespectful to everyones right to privacy."
Saved me some typing |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"if i looked in my mailbox and there was a message from you ...your user name would put me off before even looking at the message or the profile
We thought it was quite a funny name actually!!"
So do I, it made me chuckle. |
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By *oody39Man
over a year ago
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It is generally hard for single men to get a reply purely because there are so many on here.
You also have to remember just because this is a swinging site it does not mean everyone you mail would want to meet you.
I am aware my profile is short dull n boring but i try to inject the real me into any mails i send.
If i don't get a reply then i just move on and try again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It often amuses me when people (male AND female) put " I can't put a picture on because of my job"! Do you work for MI5 or The Royal Household? If your job is that sensative, perhaps a rethink about being on a swinging site may be in order?
Just my 2 pence worth.
there is a difference to having a full face pic ON the profile.Yes someones job is important to them, many companies have codes of conduct, they dont want their employees embarrassing them..which essentially may lose them money.To say people need to rethink their time on a swinging site because they wont display a face pic is mighty silly and disrespectful to everyones right to privacy."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All your pics have your cock in them try some variation.
I would come up with another profile pic as well mate that one is not flattering you. Get someone else to take it.
Your name has some comedy value but many women say if they see Cock, Hung etc instant delete.
Look at some other mens pics for some ideas.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All your pics have your cock in them try some variation.
I would come up with another profile pic as well mate that one is not flattering you. Get someone else to take it.
Your name has some comedy value but many women say if they see Cock, Hung etc instant delete.
Look at some other mens pics for some ideas.
Good luck"
Thanks for the advice. Name just changed to best I could think of at moment. New pics will follow. Cheers everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is a difference to having a full face pic ON the profile.Yes someones job is important to them, many companies have codes of conduct, they dont want their employees embarrassing them..which essentially may lose them money.To say people need to rethink their time on a swinging site because they wont display a face pic is mighty silly and disrespectful to everyones right to privacy."
I suggest you re-read my comment.....carefully before making daft replies! |
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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago
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"there is a difference to having a full face pic ON the profile.Yes someones job is important to them, many companies have codes of conduct, they dont want their employees embarrassing them..which essentially may lose them money.To say people need to rethink their time on a swinging site because they wont display a face pic is mighty silly and disrespectful to everyones right to privacy.
I suggest you re-read my comment.....carefully before making daft replies! "
Appears majority of people did read your comment and come to the same conclusion = DAFT |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as I've had more replies on here than I get to my inbox think ill use the forum more now
Anyone up for a game of eye spy lol "
The forums are the ideal way to get known and show more of your personality. Use them to your advantage. Nothing wrong with the user name, just change the avatar... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there is a difference to having a full face pic ON the profile.Yes someones job is important to them, many companies have codes of conduct, they dont want their employees embarrassing them..which essentially may lose them money.To say people need to rethink their time on a swinging site because they wont display a face pic is mighty silly and disrespectful to everyones right to privacy.
I suggest you re-read my comment.....carefully before making daft replies! "
I completely apologize for not not reading it incorrectly |
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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago
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"there is a difference to having a full face pic ON the profile.Yes someones job is important to them, many companies have codes of conduct, they dont want their employees embarrassing them..which essentially may lose them money.To say people need to rethink their time on a swinging site because they wont display a face pic is mighty silly and disrespectful to everyones right to privacy.
I suggest you re-read my comment.....carefully before making daft replies!
I completely apologize for not not reading it incorrectly"
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