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By *leasures4 OP Couple
over a year ago
East midlands |
When you're part of a couple, who kisses their playmates?
I suppose we are pretty new to the lifestyle and up to now we havent kissed our playmates.(not purposely..it just hasn't happened) Apart from fem on fem...
But not sure how we feel about it. We are more no than yes at this present time... |
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over a year ago
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"When you're part of a couple, who kisses their playmates?
I suppose we are pretty new to the lifestyle and up to now we havent kissed our playmates.(not purposely..it just hasn't happened) Apart from fem on fem...
But not sure how we feel about it. We are more no than yes at this present time..."
I consider Kissing an essential part of foreplay so yes i would want to |
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By *leasures4 OP Couple
over a year ago
East midlands |
Its not the attraction thing for us on why we haven't kissed others as yet...I think it feels that its that something that we both have with each other that others don't or even shouldnt? Like I say, we are newbies and still getting a feel for it at the moment. Small steps... xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its not the attraction thing for us on why we haven't kissed others as yet...I think it feels that its that something that we both have with each other that others don't or even shouldnt? Like I say, we are newbies and still getting a feel for it at the moment. Small steps... xx" i can understand that 100% and i think its an each to their own thing |
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By *leasures4 OP Couple
over a year ago
East midlands |
"Its not the attraction thing for us on why we haven't kissed others as yet...I think it feels that its that something that we both have with each other that others don't or even shouldnt? Like I say, we are newbies and still getting a feel for it at the moment. Small steps... xx i can understand that 100% and i think its an each to their own thing"
Thanks I do sometimes question myself. All the more reason to share it with you guys... xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are the same.. We both consider kissing very intimate so don't kiss on meets. As with many other things it's choice. Will be right for some, not for others.
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Kissing is a big part of sexual play for me, I like lots of it; before, during and after. If I don't find someone attractive enough to want to kiss them, I certainly couldn't do anything else with them.
Kissing is a very intimate act, and I can understand why some couples will reserve this for their partners only, but I will only play with women who do kiss others. |
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By *ob55Man
over a year ago
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I love kissing and it is a very big part of the meet for me, however if she was still happy to meet and said no kissing then I would accept that, but hopefully she would be happy with me kissing her neck etc |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I wouldnt play with someone who wasnt willing to kiss me,kissing is all part of the fun."
I agree wholeheartedly. We are fairly new to this (well i am newer to this than him) & we do kiss people we are playing with.
I'd not consider playing with someone who wasn't into kissing as part of the sex
Julie x |
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"When you're part of a couple, who kisses their playmates?
I suppose we are pretty new to the lifestyle and up to now we havent kissed our playmates.(not purposely..it just hasn't happened) Apart from fem on fem...
But not sure how we feel about it. We are more no than yes at this present time..."
This is YOUR relationship, the two of you have to set ground rules, work out what works for YOU. What works for others won't necessarily work for you. Some couples only soft swap in clubs while others play separately, going away with playmates leaving the other at home.
Whatever you do talk it through together not with people on here.
Have fun! |
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