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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Works for some.
Between that and writing a message, you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't.
I tend to use both. What I have discovered (and what you can 100% rely on) is that people are different and will like different things.
Mix it up and hope for the best!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a decent way of saying that you like the look of someone. The most fun I've had on here has started with a wink.
On the other hand, some people get really @rsey about them and will block just on having seen a wink. To those I say....Lighten up.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wink and send messages just depends but get the same response with both nothing lol"
Lol. Keep looking mate. You'll be fine.
This simply highlights that sometimes you just can't win with some people!  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
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Theres no right or wrong answer,,, its a feature the site provides some use some don t, some dislike them,,
I dont send winks, thats a personal choice, I do like to receive them along with messages and fabs, it tells me someone likes something about me,
if I do receive them I ll message the Lady or couple ,, |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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We used to just mass delete winks but have started looking at them.
Will wink back if they are localish and we like what they see. Then leave the ball in their court to message us....
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I clearly state why I would wink on my profile and when I get a wink I search for that explanation on the user's profile. It helps me decide what my next move will be..99.9% of the time I ingore...but then there is that one 'wink' that tells me exactly what the person means and there is no 'Grey' area.
Straight forward and to the point is how I was brought up. Pussy footing aroung makes me edgy and uncomfortable. I need thing to be clear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I notice quite a few couples use winks as their first engagement with me. I then reply back to say 'hi, thanks for the wink, what can I do for you? Here are some pics' Or something like that. They then either continue on to messaging or just don't reply. Either way it's cool.
So winks are fine with me. However I rarely use them myself as a form of engagement.
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"I notice quite a few couples use winks as their first engagement with me. I then reply back to say 'hi, thanks for the wink, what can I do for you? Here are some pics' Or something like that. They then either continue on to messaging or just don't reply. Either way it's cool.
So winks are fine with me. However I rarely use them myself as a form of engagement.
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