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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A lot if ladies profiles state 'must be able to hold a decent conversation' . But in return these same people reply with one word answers , also state 'must have face picture' but on there profile there are NO pictures , bit hypocritical , seems one rule for one , another rule for others , does any one else find this or similar double 'FAB' standards ? |
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over a year ago
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polite, but not interested, explains the one word answer.
take the hint maybe, especially if that one word doesnt require a retort.
the face pics thing, no, we dont get it either, but if thats how they like to go about their business then thats their choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"polite, but not interested, explains the one word answer.
take the hint maybe, especially if that one word doesnt require a retort.
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Or the message you've sent required a short retort and they are awaiting for you to stimulate them enough to carry out a message of epic proportions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tolerance often runs dry on here, I'm sure many genuine single men have been blown out perhaps rather harshly as a result of the previous 20 males sending mails with a cock pic asking for a fuck
So we apologise for offending the few  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i consider my self a good conversation starter , i think I'm interesting , i dont ask smut, always polite , if the lady isn't interested then why reply , personally i'd tell that person so there are no grey areas |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tolerance often runs dry on here, I'm sure many genuine single men have been blown out perhaps rather harshly as a result of the previous 20 males sending mails with a cock pic asking for a fuck
So we apologise for offending the few "
..i do have cock shots but for friends only , and i do warn before adding , by the way ur pics are very sensual  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tolerance often runs dry on here, I'm sure many genuine single men have been blown out perhaps rather harshly as a result of the previous 20 males sending mails with a cock pic asking for a fuck
So we apologise for offending the few ..i do have cock shots but for friends only , and i do warn before adding , by the way ur pics are very sensual "
Thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i consider my self a good conversation starter , i think I'm interesting , i dont ask smut, always polite , if the lady isn't interested then why reply , personally i'd tell that person so there are no grey areas "
then you will be posting about your messages just being deleted without a reply.
just cant win with some people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i consider my self a good conversation starter , i think I'm interesting , i dont ask smut, always polite , if the lady isn't interested then why reply , personally i'd tell that person so there are no grey areas "
Maybe she replied out of boredom? 
Maybe she hoped for more than polite small talk?
There is likely to be a dozen or so..more interesting offers and messages for her to browse through at her leisure..lol,
Did yours stand out?? 
Maybe its simpler to ask her instead of us.  |
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I keep getting 'hi how are you' messages which I'm sure people think equates to a polite conversation starter but it does my head in, I say on my profile to please not send me just this! So if I reply it will usually just be a 'yes, you? ' which they probably think is rude  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You moan about getting no response and then you moan about short responses. I wonder what the next moan will be .
In response to the type of mail you send out, I'd look at your profile and if you didn't tick my boxes I would simply delete. If you had included my "magic" word and you failed to tick my boxes, I'd thank you and wish you luck.
That's me, everyone is different. No matter how much you moan about it (or how you disguise your moans), it won't change people's ways of going about things.
Sorry to sound harsh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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believe I'm not moaning , just asking , maybe is my blunt wording , but as a forum comment i try to make so my point comes cross easy to understand ,  |
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"i consider my self a good conversation starter , i think I'm interesting , i dont ask smut, always polite , if the lady isn't interested then why reply , personally i'd tell that person so there are no grey areas "
...and this is a prime example of why many don't reply! Rather than ignore you someone has replied, yet you're complaining because they've not set a date to meet? |
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"i consider my self a good conversation starter , i think I'm interesting , i dont ask smut, always polite , if the lady isn't interested then why reply , personally i'd tell that person so there are no grey areas
then you will be posting about your messages just being deleted without a reply.
just cant win with some people"
Exactly!!! |
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?"
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying! |
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!"
.... Noted , thank you  |
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!"
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think the asymmetric standards are funnier: "must have face pic, be smooooth and well-groomed, fit and able to talk in sentences" ...and then you see their profile. Erm...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way?"
i can feel the double standards from here lol, sorry, that was meant to be I |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way?
i can feel the double standards from here lol, s orry, that was meant to be I"
I Agree, I Did Notice No CAPITAL EYES . I use full stops etc . Is It Really That Much Of A Problem ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way?"
Not everyone has had the benefit of good education, many adults have raised themselves, some have had to look after siblings rather than attend school...
I think its foolish to judge people on such petty things. Maybe i'm naïve...but when did hunni or princess become insulting??
I'll always prefer "princess", "hunni" even "doll" to cum slut, durty whore and fuck hole!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way?
Not everyone has had the benefit of good education, many adults have raised themselves, some have had to look after siblings rather than attend school...
I think its foolish to judge people on such petty things. Maybe i'm naïve...but when did hunni or princess become insulting??
I'll always prefer "princess", "hunni" even "doll" to cum slut, durty whore and fuck hole!! "
 here here ,i had to leave school at 13 get a job and take care of my mother , I may not be academically educated , but ,I'm qualified , Brickie, Scaffolder, Plumber, Tiler, Carpenter I also trained as chef for 5 years . I'm very good with my hands xx |
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way?
Not everyone has had the benefit of good education, many adults have raised themselves, some have had to look after siblings rather than attend school...
I think its foolish to judge people on such petty things. Maybe i'm naïve...but when did hunni or princess become insulting??
I'll always prefer "princess", "hunni" even "doll" to cum slut, durty whore and fuck hole!! here here ,i had to leave school at 13 get a job and take care of my mother , I may not be academically educated , but ,I'm qualified , Brickie, Scaffolder, Plumber, Tiler, Carpenter I also trained as chef for 5 years . I'm very good with my hands xx "
and indecisive lol.
just pick one and stick to it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way?
Not everyone has had the benefit of good education, many adults have raised themselves, some have had to look after siblings rather than attend school...
I think its foolish to judge people on such petty things. Maybe i'm naïve...but when did hunni or princess become insulting??
I'll always prefer "princess", "hunni" even "doll" to cum slut, durty whore and fuck hole!! here here ,i had to leave school at 13 get a job and take care of my mother , I may not be academically educated , but ,I'm qualified , Brickie, Scaffolder, Plumber, Tiler, Carpenter I also trained as chef for 5 years . I'm very good with my hands xx
and indecisive lol.
just pick one and stick to it. "
I much prefer being multi skilled I could build a house ,fit the kitchen the cook 5* quality food . |
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way?
Not everyone has had the benefit of good education, many adults have raised themselves, some have had to look after siblings rather than attend school...
I think its foolish to judge people on such petty things. Maybe i'm naïve...but when did hunni or princess become insulting??
I'll always prefer "princess", "hunni" even "doll" to cum slut, durty whore and fuck hole!! "
What you consider foolish is of no importance to me. How I choose playmates should be of no concern to you. I don't care about the back story of playmates: this isn't X Factor!
Who said hunni or princess were insulting? I don't like it, so don't respond to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way?
Not everyone has had the benefit of good education, many adults have raised themselves, some have had to look after siblings rather than attend school...
I think its foolish to judge people on such petty things. Maybe i'm naïve...but when did hunni or princess become insulting??
I'll always prefer "princess", "hunni" even "doll" to cum slut, durty whore and fuck hole!!
What you consider foolish is of no importance to me. How I choose playmates should be of no concern to you. I don't care about the back story of playmates: this isn't X Factor!
Who said hunni or princess were insulting? I don't like it, so don't respond to it. "
That's where we differ...
I like to hear "the back story" as you call it, I like to know the people I spend my time with!
You are of NO interest at all to me...I was mearly using your point of view to make my own....its kinda what grown up people do when discussing differing view points. |
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way?
Not everyone has had the benefit of good education, many adults have raised themselves, some have had to look after siblings rather than attend school...
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Oh tosh, I don't believe there is a single person on here who does not know that 'I' and the first letter of each sentence are supposed to be caps. They just don't give a damn, or they can't be bothered, and either way it is offputting to many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way?
Not everyone has had the benefit of good education, many adults have raised themselves, some have had to look after siblings rather than attend school...
Oh tosh, I don't believe there is a single person on here who does not know that 'I' and the first letter of each sentence are supposed to be caps. They just don't give a damn, or they can't be bothered, and either way it is offputting to many."
and i'm sure they will all cry their little i's out!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Oi you lot calm down . Its not worth falling out over . My subject was not about spelling, punctuation or grammar . So wether to use 'I' or ''i'' is irrelevant |
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way?
Not everyone has had the benefit of good education, many adults have raised themselves, some have had to look after siblings rather than attend school...
Oh tosh, I don't believe there is a single person on here who does not know that 'I' and the first letter of each sentence are supposed to be caps. They just don't give a damn, or they can't be bothered, and either way it is offputting to many."
I think it would be a more accurate statement to say its irritating to a few, not many at all.
can almost guarantee a choice between starting sentences with lower case letters and self referencing with lower case 'I's are much less annoying than text speak.
Jesus,. even English teachers dont generally care |
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"when i introduce my self its something like this ......hi hunnie I'm Stewie , nice to meet you , I'm single honest and very genuine , I'm 39 and live in Bromsgrove , i love to tease please and give pleasure , how are u princess , did you have a good weekend ?
Hunni and princess in a message guarantees a delete without replying!
i'm afraid not using a capital i is also a criminal offense as far as i am concerned. if they can't be bothered to do that much in a first message to me am i really going to find they measure up in any other way?
Not everyone has had the benefit of good education, many adults have raised themselves, some have had to look after siblings rather than attend school...
I think its foolish to judge people on such petty things. Maybe i'm naïve...but when did hunni or princess become insulting??
I'll always prefer "princess", "hunni" even "doll" to cum slut, durty whore and fuck hole!! here here ,i had to leave school at 13 get a job and take care of my mother , I may not be academically educated , but ,I'm qualified , Brickie, Scaffolder, Plumber, Tiler, Carpenter I also trained as chef for 5 years . I'm very good with my hands xx
and indecisive lol.
just pick one and stick to it. I much prefer being multi skilled I could build a house ,fit the kitchen the cook 5* quality food . "
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