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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, so I've been on here a few months now and to no avail. I've had minimal contact with women to couples and I rarely get a reply if I send a message out. I'm never rude and I'm always subtle in the way I word my messages as well so I'm bewildered as to what I'm doing wrong  .
Please could anyone give me some advice in regards to improving my profile or pictures? Would be extremely appreciated!
Thank you in advance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go check out some guy profiles and write some more- say whats good about you, what you like, what you'd like to do etc.
Oh and BBC means big black cock round here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with the pics. No cock shots !! Hooray
Write a bit about your self, what you like/what your looking for.
Also try socials/clubs to actually meet people. Also use the forums to chat to people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its hard for men on here ! But even harder for men as young as you .... Try try and try again you will get there  good luck Hx
Not very helpful I know !! Soz !! |
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
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If it is hard for men on this site, my advise is to take the site as bonus. At 20 you can enjoy yourself elsewhere and take here as somewhere you can come to discuss topics you may be capable of talking about in every day life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in the same boat to be honest I'm beginning to think I'm completely undesirable. I've not had a single bit of attention from any females on the site and very few replies to msgs. However I do seem to get a LOT of attention from gay men and ts's even tho I'm straight as my profile says which is flattering but not what I'm after haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patience, patience, patience!
Listen to the advice others have given as well and patience!
FAB is hard work for a single guy, even more so for one as young as you. As long as you stay nice and respectful, dont complain or come to the forums to bitch then it will happen.
There are women on here who like em young, and you are prime fillet matey.
Dont get down hearted when your messages go unread or just deleted without reply, its par for the course and makes those ones that do reply all the more special |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One line profile and way too young, too far too so whilst your pictures are nice and you are not bad looking, if I was into your age group there is nothing to tempt me to drive for over 2 hrs |
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The first thing to say is DO NOT let this site affect your self exteem, it isn't a real reflection of the social interaction taht goes on in person.
You need to take the "I implore" out of your profile it sounds like begging and just write a small paragraph about what you can offer people and what you are looking for from them.
Your age will put people off but not everyone, so see this as a distraction, a hobby if you like and I wish you good luck |
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"I'm in the same boat to be honest I'm beginning to think I'm completely undesirable. I've not had a single bit of attention from any females on the site and very few replies to msgs. However I do seem to get a LOT of attention from gay men and ts's even tho I'm straight as my profile says which is flattering but not what I'm after haha"
Never let a site like this make you feel undesirable, same advice to you as the op and good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm in the same boat to be honest I'm beginning to think I'm completely undesirable. I've not had a single bit of attention from any females on the site and very few replies to msgs. However I do seem to get a LOT of attention from gay men and ts's even tho I'm straight as my profile says which is flattering but not what I'm after haha
Never let a site like this make you feel undesirable, same advice to you as the op and good luck "
thanks. I never take it personally if people don't reply different people like different things it just got to me a bit last night |
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"Ok, so I've been on here a few months now and to no avail. I've had minimal contact with women to couples and I rarely get a reply if I send a message out. I'm never rude and I'm always subtle in the way I word my messages as well so I'm bewildered as to what I'm doing wrong .
Please could anyone give me some advice in regards to improving my profile or pictures? Would be extremely appreciated!
Thank you in advance. "
When I look at a profile I want to get an idea of what that person is like, what they are into and what they have to offer. Profiles that say to message for that information put me right off as I don't want to have to interrogate someone to find out basic information. I would probably just move on to the next one.
I don't think many women here do send out first messages so you could be waiting a long time for that to happen.
On the plus side you are very good looking (would be nice to see a smile though!) and have some good pictures. |
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"Ok, so I've been on here a few months now and to no avail. I've had minimal contact with women to couples and I rarely get a reply if I send a message out. I'm never rude and I'm always subtle in the way I word my messages as well so I'm bewildered as to what I'm doing wrong .
Please could anyone give me some advice in regards to improving my profile or pictures? Would be extremely appreciated!
Thank you in advance.
When I look at a profile I want to get an idea of what that person is like, what they are into and what they have to offer. Profiles that say to message for that information put me right off as I don't want to have to interrogate someone to find out basic information. I would probably just move on to the next one.
I don't think many women here do send out first messages so you could be waiting a long time for that to happen.
On the plus side you are very good looking (would be nice to see a smile though!) and have some good pictures. "
This!
Op you're up against thousands of men. Your age will be against you and your lazy profile will cut your chances even more.
I look at the profile before the message, if there's no information I delete without reading. Put some effort in op! |
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My advice is to continue to buy clinique for men and Lush products as they are very good. 3 toothbrushes and 2 razors is a little excessive and you look like you have lipstick on.
Patience, young Jedi....it's more a lifestyle this recreational sex lark, not a site for instant sex although it may seem like that sometimes. Go to a social and meet likeminded peeps. |
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