"To me, vanilla is a phrase used by BDSM people to describe non-BDSM people, which seems to have been co-opted by swingers to describe non-swingers."
BDSM word for 'normal' sex, you know, the boring kind  |
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over a year ago
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As with anything, it's all relative.
I love the fact that there's some people on here that seem really experienced and erm exciting... but there's things that I have done that they haven't.
Everyone's view of vanilla will be different, is what I am trying to say... |
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"What we need is a sticky with swinging terms to cut down the "whats......." threads. My favourite is "what is cuck holding?".   "
My car has a cuck holder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vanilla ice cream is just delicious. I like it sometimes - has to be Haagen Dazs though. Premium Vanilla!
Then sometimes I like raspberry ripple with a flake in. 
Depends on my mood |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Vanilla - plain
non vanilla - all the wonderful flavours out there
The flavour vanilla is not plain. Plain is a packet of salt and shake crisps without the salt. "
Do they still do them ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think most on here would term that as boring sex...could be wrong, im sure if i am someone will put me straight"
Oh boy I would love to put you straight pet !  |
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"To me, vanilla is a phrase used by BDSM people to describe non-BDSM people, which seems to have been co-opted by swingers to describe non-swingers."
The above is what it means to us but it has been adopted by the swinging world.. The bdsm world would consider swinging to be vanilla..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I could Google it, but I'd rather hear it from you lot.
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Its a term that is used by one group to describe another group in a slightly condescending way. |
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"To me, vanilla is a phrase used by BDSM people to describe non-BDSM people, which seems to have been co-opted by swingers to describe non-swingers."
Agreed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Vanilla sex is what a culture regards as standard or conventional sexual behaviour. Different cultures, subcultures and individuals have different ideas about what constitutes this type of sex. Often, it is interpreted as sex which does not involve such elements as BDSM, kink, or fetish activities. |
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By *essaMayWoman 7 days ago
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Although this is an very old thread Vanilla i guess means different things to different people. Generally i think it means relationship based sex not including other parties or kinks. Certainly doesn't mean boring |
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