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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well im gonna admit it I cant orgasm with anyone but myself..always worrying bout what i look like..if im doing things ok..arghh its been years..really wanna get this shit sorted..suggestions..(ITS MRS G btw !) xx  |
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"well im gonna admit it I cant orgasm with anyone but myself..always worrying bout what i look like..if im doing things ok..arghh its been years..really wanna get this shit sorted..suggestions..(ITS MRS G btw !) xx "
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"well im gonna admit it I cant orgasm with anyone but myself..always worrying bout what i look like..if im doing things ok..arghh its been years..really wanna get this shit sorted..suggestions..(ITS MRS G btw !) xx "
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By *ussGailCouple
over a year ago
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Try and focus your attention to what the other person is doing to you. how is makes u feel at the time. Possibility stop getting urself off for a while. A band for yourself might make experience of someone else touching u more exciting.
Or show the other person what u are doing that gets u off. Guide their hands . |
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"well im gonna admit it I cant orgasm with anyone but myself..always worrying bout what i look like..if im doing things ok..arghh its been years..really wanna get this shit sorted..suggestions..(ITS MRS G btw !) xx "
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if you are worrying about what your doing, stop doing it, just lay back and let him do the work. If you are worried about what you look like, turn the lights off, if he needs guiding, guide him. If you believe its not possible unless you are doing it yourself then that thought is probably blocking his chances too. Don't try too hard, enjoy whatever pleasures it brings and maybe be surprised. Good Luck.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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haa haa..if only!
Really dunno whats changed tbh many years ago i never had a problem..and can i make it clear..its not just with my partner but with anyone i have sex with!!..and ive tried alot i can tell you!! lol..I figure its a "mind" thing? |
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Ask your man to take you to the very edge of orgasm with a vibrator 3 times a night for as long as you can every night for a week. (Hitachi magic wand works wonders for many).
He can use other methods if they work, oral, his own hands, watch you while he helps himself out.
You are not allowed to orgasm on your own at any time during that period.
The following weekend your partner takes you to the edge of orgasm your prefered way before penetration.
Mrs P is usually panting with need by midweek
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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yeah have a magic wand so cud try that..thing is I cant even seem to orgasm with my toys with him there?? how silly do i feel..but like the idea of getting right too the edge then letting him step in or thrust his cock in, I shud say!! worth a shot!!  |
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"yeah have a magic wand so cud try that..thing is I cant even seem to orgasm with my toys with him there?? how silly do i feel..but like the idea of getting right too the edge then letting him step in or thrust his cock in, I shud say!! worth a shot!! "
Ok so there's the first target.
You play on your own but not allowed to orgasm. He walks in if he feels like it or not but you won't know if he is going to.
Then move to he's in the room from the start.
Then lose the toy and use his mouth.
The point is to go to the edge every night for a week without orgasm. By the end of the week you should be gagging!
Sexy texts during the day can have you squirming in a moment by the end of the week lol.
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try watching yourself as you cum playing on your own, get to learn what you look like.
maybe make yourself cum while our partner watches and plays with himself so you can see he is enjoying watching you as you cum. |
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