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By *r_BigHead OP Man
over a year ago
The Naughty Step (aka Northampton) |
Why is it that sometimes we find our selves desperately horny?
Now normally I would say that I'm 90% straight, but like to suck the occasional cock. However if I go for any length of time without sex I find myself gagging for any kind of sexual experience. For example I have in the past been out to cruising spots hunting for cock to deepthroat in the middle of the day just because I'm that horny.
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By *r_BigHead OP Man
over a year ago
The Naughty Step (aka Northampton) |
That has crossed my mind and does fit in with previous behaviour which has had a negative impact on my day to day life. The problem is if you try to search for anything serious about it on line you seen to get porn!!!! |
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"Why is it that sometimes we find our selves desperately horny?
Now normally I would say that I'm 90% straight, but like to suck the occasional cock. However if I go for any length of time without sex I find myself gagging for any kind of sexual experience. For example I have in the past been out to cruising spots hunting for cock to deepthroat in the middle of the day just because I'm that horny.
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You ain't straight.
Now that we have got that out of the way.....
No...i've never been that horny/desperate, and i have an abnormally high sex drive. |
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"There must be somewhere that you can go for help, or too see if you do need help.
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Why are you turning this into 'medical' issue. The OPs behaviour is not that uncommon.
I think you are more bi than you care to admit. You could just as easy find an escort for relief. Deep breaths and enjoy your bi side.  |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Ok I am sorry for thinking it an issue.
It wasn't with bi side that I was concerned about it was how much he needed the relief.
I stand corrected.
More and more I'm seeing that horny people have looser boundaries, I guess that's just a lesson I needed to learn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well good for you. im always horny, if i meet a couple of men for sex, i want it again by the evening. its not possible for me to meet anyone at the moment though. |
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welcome to my world. My urge for cock and cum has gone through the room since the start of the year, it's slowly becoming a nightmare as i'm on edge all the time.
Why can't someone think of the idea of cum in a bottle, never seen it on dragons den. There is a gap in the market for it lol |
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"welcome to my world. My urge for cock and cum has gone through the room since the start of the year, it's slowly becoming a nightmare as i'm on edge all the time.
Why can't someone think of the idea of cum in a bottle, never seen it on dragons den. There is a gap in the market for it lol"
There is a website where you can buy that, and many other things, usually banned on other sites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think possibly that's the begining of sex addiction.
I may be wrong, I hope I am, but that does seem concerning."
I was going to answer this earlier but was on my phone and its a nightmare to try to make a long post on there.
I have a quite severe sexual addiction.. MOST of my adult life it has controlled me.. on a bad binge.. I was totally out of control. no real limits, no concern for myself. .. as long as I got my fix..
Thing is at one point my fix was meaning that I was doing stuff every day... when i wasnt actually having sex or doing something sexual.. I was either playing with myself or looking for it.
It got to where I would even resent my family for needing to be there.. rather than be out having sex.. ( That is not something I am proud of)
Over the last few years I did FORCE myself to calm down a little.. but I still often did things for all the wrong reasons.. and when i got depressed on top of the addiction.. it led to me hitting a bottom that nearly cost me my life..
Luckily for me I met some good people.. one in particular that has helped me learn to control it... now dont get me wrong.. I am not cured by any means.. but I have some control back... I think it was partly why I devoted myself so much to a d/s relationship.. as I found through that I could control it.. because someone else was at the helm.
It can destroy you both mentally and physically and in my case has led to me having serious emotional damage..
when I am stressed.. or upset or cross.. the first thing I want to do is go and be sexual.. I dont care who, what or where... HOWEVER, for the past half a year or more I have been able to control that..
However it does take accepting you have a problem first.. Thing is in my life men I was in contact with took advantage of it... here was a woman that would do anything, anywhere, anytime... but it has killed every serious relationship I have had.. and nearly cost me my children too.
So please... if you think that you have an issue with sexual addiction.. please take it seriously...
I am about as recovered as I will get.. but its a day in day out battle with me...one which I am lucky to have a great play partner that understands this... and tends to give me a look or talking to if I am heading off the rails.
cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that sometimes we find our selves desperately horny?
Now normally I would say that I'm 90% straight, but like to suck the occasional cock. However if I go for any length of time without sex I find myself gagging for any kind of sexual experience. For example I have in the past been out to cruising spots hunting for cock to deepthroat in the middle of the day just because I'm that horny.
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I have loose boundaries even though im def not sex starved...you Sir are simply a slut...welcome to the club x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have quite a high sex drive - always have and hopefully always will. But I've never felt that desperate that I'd do something I wouldn't normally do, or consider lowering my standards.
Luckily I have two very good friends I can call on for help. And if 'she' is busy or I'm away on my travels - then 'friend number two' is always attached to my wrist!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think possibly that's the begining of sex addiction.
I may be wrong, I hope I am, but that does seem concerning.
I was going to answer this earlier but was on my phone and its a nightmare to try to make a long post on there.
I have a quite severe sexual addiction.. MOST of my adult life it has controlled me.. on a bad binge.. I was totally out of control. no real limits, no concern for myself. .. as long as I got my fix..
Thing is at one point my fix was meaning that I was doing stuff every day... when i wasnt actually having sex or doing something sexual.. I was either playing with myself or looking for it.
It got to where I would even resent my family for needing to be there.. rather than be out having sex.. ( That is not something I am proud of)
Over the last few years I did FORCE myself to calm down a little.. but I still often did things for all the wrong reasons.. and when i got depressed on top of the addiction.. it led to me hitting a bottom that nearly cost me my life..
Luckily for me I met some good people.. one in particular that has helped me learn to control it... now dont get me wrong.. I am not cured by any means.. but I have some control back... I think it was partly why I devoted myself so much to a d/s relationship.. as I found through that I could control it.. because someone else was at the helm.
It can destroy you both mentally and physically and in my case has led to me having serious emotional damage..
when I am stressed.. or upset or cross.. the first thing I want to do is go and be sexual.. I dont care who, what or where... HOWEVER, for the past half a year or more I have been able to control that..
However it does take accepting you have a problem first.. Thing is in my life men I was in contact with took advantage of it... here was a woman that would do anything, anywhere, anytime... but it has killed every serious relationship I have had.. and nearly cost me my children too.
So please... if you think that you have an issue with sexual addiction.. please take it seriously...
I am about as recovered as I will get.. but its a day in day out battle with me...one which I am lucky to have a great play partner that understands this... and tends to give me a look or talking to if I am heading off the rails.
cali "
Thank you Cali for sharing, when people are addicted to drugs the get help, when addicted to sex there is no real help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that sometimes we find our selves desperately horny?
Now normally I would say that I'm 90% straight, but like to suck the occasional cock. However if I go for any length of time without sex I find myself gagging for any kind of sexual experience. For example I have in the past been out to cruising spots hunting for cock to deepthroat in the middle of the day just because I'm that horny.
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Give in...come to the bi-side.    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the opposite with me, the longer I've gone without sex the less I'm bothered about it.
What's that all about?
Reckon I'd have made a good Monk!  R
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By *r_BigHead OP Man
over a year ago
The Naughty Step (aka Northampton) |
"I think possibly that's the begining of sex addiction.
I may be wrong, I hope I am, but that does seem concerning.
I was going to answer this earlier but was on my phone and its a nightmare to try to make a long post on there.
I have a quite severe sexual addiction.. MOST of my adult life it has controlled me.. on a bad binge.. I was totally out of control. no real limits, no concern for myself. .. as long as I got my fix..
Thing is at one point my fix was meaning that I was doing stuff every day... when i wasnt actually having sex or doing something sexual.. I was either playing with myself or looking for it.
It got to where I would even resent my family for needing to be there.. rather than be out having sex.. ( That is not something I am proud of)
Over the last few years I did FORCE myself to calm down a little.. but I still often did things for all the wrong reasons.. and when i got depressed on top of the addiction.. it led to me hitting a bottom that nearly cost me my life..
Luckily for me I met some good people.. one in particular that has helped me learn to control it... now dont get me wrong.. I am not cured by any means.. but I have some control back... I think it was partly why I devoted myself so much to a d/s relationship.. as I found through that I could control it.. because someone else was at the helm.
It can destroy you both mentally and physically and in my case has led to me having serious emotional damage..
when I am stressed.. or upset or cross.. the first thing I want to do is go and be sexual.. I dont care who, what or where... HOWEVER, for the past half a year or more I have been able to control that..
However it does take accepting you have a problem first.. Thing is in my life men I was in contact with took advantage of it... here was a woman that would do anything, anywhere, anytime... but it has killed every serious relationship I have had.. and nearly cost me my children too.
So please... if you think that you have an issue with sexual addiction.. please take it seriously...
I am about as recovered as I will get.. but its a day in day out battle with me...one which I am lucky to have a great play partner that understands this... and tends to give me a look or talking to if I am heading off the rails.
cali "
Thank you for sharing your story, some aspects do sound familiar worryingly |
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I have this exactly!!
Its how I lost my anal cherry. Hadn't had any in a while, was d*unk, and so got fucked in the back of a car.
Now whenever I haven't had any in about a month I start getting more n more bicurious again. Start getting off the bi/trans/gay porn, and have cock sucking cravings.
I don't really think it is a problem. Everyone likes sex, and for someone with a high drive who isn't getting any this is frustrating. Just means you're open minded that you're thinking bout cock too.
Saying that, anyone out there want their cock sucked....? Hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the opposite with me, the longer I've gone without sex the less I'm bothered about it.
What's that all about?
Reckon I'd have made a good Monk! R
XX"
I'm exactly the same. I dont have a high sex drive anyway and I obviously don't have to go out looking for it.
OP when you're extra horny, do you ever go out looking for women or when you feel like this is it only men you crave  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say sex cannot be addictive as your body is not physically digesting anything so therefor it's normal and the less you get the more you want lol but Don't count on meeting off here to replace what you are not getting mate because it's a dream land lol !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say sex cannot be addictive as your body is not physically digesting anything so therefor it's normal and the less you get the more you want lol but Don't count on meeting off here to replace what you are not getting mate because it's a dream land lol !!! "
Sex is very addictive... It alters brain chemicals and that in itself can be addictive. It can ruin your life like any other addiction.. But is very hard to control because it isn't something you don't need. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went through a stage before finding swinging of wanking 3 to 6 times a day ad had to do it! It never satisfied, now I get good sex more often with a few friends it's much less important, I have the ability to control te urge if I know I'm getting some soon! I do find though I crave anal more when I'm sex starved  lol it's so flipping horny!!
Real addiction does sound awful mind, do what feels good but not what controls ur life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone seen the film Shame ? About a man addicted to sex he was even thinking about fooking his sister  "
I have that to watch. I do love fassbender but not sure about this film |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say sex cannot be addictive as your body is not physically digesting anything so therefor it's normal and the less you get the more you want lol but Don't count on meeting off here to replace what you are not getting mate because it's a dream land lol !!! "
Correction sex is addictive, hence nymphomaniac. Having sex releases natural chemicals into the brain which stimulates the sexual organs & causes the climax and it is this that is addictive, not the actual act of having sex.
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I think people can be addicted to sex, maybe it is the chemical release, maybe the excitement or to fill an emotional void in their lives?
I find though that if I have a really good session , and I can go like an express train , and completely wear myself out. Then that will keep me satisfied for weeks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone seen the film Shame ? About a man addicted to sex he was even thinking about fooking his sister
I have that to watch. I do love fassbender but not sure about this film "
It was pretty boring, the best bit was when he had a threesome with two women.
I thought it was his sister who wanted to have sex with him actually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say sex cannot be addictive as your body is not physically digesting anything so therefor it's normal and the less you get the more you want lol but Don't count on meeting off here to replace what you are not getting mate because it's a dream land lol !!!
Correction sex is addictive, hence nymphomaniac. Having sex releases natural chemicals into the brain which stimulates the sexual organs & causes the climax and it is this that is addictive, not the actual act of having sex.
xx"
See this is why my addiction is bad. I rarely in the past had the climax. I was addicted to the act... Making it very hard to control as I was always chasing something more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone seen the film Shame ? About a man addicted to sex he was even thinking about fooking his sister
I have that to watch. I do love fassbender but not sure about this film
It was pretty boring, the best bit was when he had a threesome with two women.
I thought it was his sister who wanted to have sex with him actually."
Actually yes it was she wanted sex with him |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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I was getting very selfish wanting to fulfil my needs im not so bad now as I have one lover who understands my every thought and hes so very understanding and thoughtful ... known him years but this past week when I really needed him hes been there for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was getting very selfish wanting to fulfil my needs im not so bad now as I have one lover who understands my every thought and hes so very understanding and thoughtful ... known him years but this past week when I really needed him hes been there for me "
this would be wonderful to have
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"Why is it that sometimes we find our selves desperately horny?
Now normally I would say that I'm 90% straight, but like to suck the occasional cock. However if I go for any length of time without sex I find myself gagging for any kind of sexual experience. For example I have in the past been out to cruising spots hunting for cock to deepthroat in the middle of the day just because I'm that horny.
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"It's the opposite with me, the longer I've gone without sex the less I'm bothered about it.
What's that all about?
Reckon I'd have made a good Monk! R
XX"
Likewise. To be honest I'd rather be this way than be so consumed by lust it takes over my life to the point I'd fuck anything. |
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"welcome to my world. My urge for cock and cum has gone through the room since the start of the year, it's slowly becoming a nightmare as i'm on edge all the time.
Why can't someone think of the idea of cum in a bottle, never seen it on dragons den. There is a gap in the market for it lol"
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Likewise. To be honest I'd rather be this way than be so consumed by lust it takes over my life to the point I'd fuck anything.[/quo
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Really"
Yes, really. Sex for me is like alcohol, something I enjoy now and then. I don't fall asleep with a bottle in my hand, walk with a hip flask, go on pub crawls, stand outside Threshers looking at the booze on offer. Neither do I pick up and bring home any Tom, Dick or Harriet because I'm addicted to sex. |
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