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By *i015 OP Man
over a year ago
Millbrook, Southampton |
First of all, DO NOT TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY.
NO RACIST COMMENTS PLEASE
I'm not doing this so I get people to look at my profile, nor am I expecting sympathy shags.
I've seen lots of profiles and forum posts that people are looking for either White or Black people but not seen many looking for Asians or Indian people.
Come on, what's wrong with us non White or Black people
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By *i015 OP Man
over a year ago
Millbrook, Southampton |
I know that it's all down to personal choice, but seriously how many profiles have you seen looking for Asian guys, looks like peoples personal choice is for Black or White, not in between |
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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago
Leeds. |
"I know that it's all down to personal choice, but seriously how many profiles have you seen looking for Asian guys, looks like peoples personal choice is for Black or White, not in between"
Are you suggesting it's a race thing ? |
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"I know that it's all down to personal choice, but seriously how many profiles have you seen looking for Asian guys, looks like peoples personal choice is for Black or White, not in between"
If that is true there isn't a great deal any of us can do about it really.
I haven't looked at profiles with that in mind so I can honestly say I haven't seen any. |
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By *i015 OP Man
over a year ago
Millbrook, Southampton |
"I know that it's all down to personal choice, but seriously how many profiles have you seen looking for Asian guys, looks like peoples personal choice is for Black or White, not in between
Are you suggesting it's a race thing ?"
I'm not saying it has anything to do with race, I'm just wondering how come non White or Black people are not considered as a option for what people are looking for, I've even seen Asians say Black or White people only |
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OP, you cant make people like you they will or they wont..
would suggest that your perceived lack of success will be more down to the fact that your married and want a bit extra on the side than your ethnicity for some folks.. |
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"OP, you cant make people like you they will or they wont..
would suggest that your perceived lack of success will be more down to the fact that your married and want a bit extra on the side than your ethnicity for some folks.."
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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago
Leeds. |
"You think that by stating you are married in your status is being honest. Most will think your a cheating chancer!"
He's not being bery honest with his poor wife though. In fact he's being incredibly deceptive with her. This alone would put many off meeting him. Nobody likes or trusts a blatantly deceptive person, even if they are being honest about their dishonesty. |
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"Do you think you would have better luck if some people stated Indian/Asian only???
Not really, but at least I'd know that I am what they are looking for. "
Thats like saying every white guy here is what I am looking for!  |
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"You think that by stating you are married in your status is being honest. Most will think your a cheating chancer!
He's not being bery honest with his poor wife though. In fact he's being incredibly deceptive with her. This alone would put many off meeting him. Nobody likes or trusts a blatantly deceptive person, even if they are being honest about their dishonesty."
^^^ This
... plus you look about as much fun as a fart in a spacesuit in your photos. Maybe some better pics would help... a little |
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Oh boy I'll probably get some stick for this but here goes. I don't have any problem with race or skin colour at my events. However several women / couples have said 'no Asians,' the reason given is usually that in clubs Asian men tend to be more 'aggressive / pushy" than the women are happy with. The same women have no problem with black men, the only other group of men they have a problem with are overweight men of any colour or racial background. Generally I prefer people who are capable of being in a social envirment. When I advertise an event I just go off the woman's preferences so no one finds them saying 'no not you' on the night!!! |
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". If you're going to claim to be a photographer, have some decent photos? "
This is a good point, its clear that you have exaggerated your profession and therefore entirely possible that it isn't your race that's responsible for you not meeting people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Purely attraction for me. I don't state on my profile but I rarely find any men attractive who are Indian, Pakistani, Chinese, Japanese and all the other countries in Asia.
I hope you don't feel this is racist.
I dont feel marginalised when men state their preferences that don't describe me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say the profiles who dont state any race preferences arent fussy and race and thats who u should be looking for
pardon..?
how do you deduct that..?"
maybe i said that badly.
i mean if they havent put any kind of race preference then that would be the profiles to concentrate on...
note to self.. dont reply when extremly tired |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say the profiles who dont state any race preferences arent fussy
I dont state race preferences, does that mean im not fussy!!  "
i meant not likely to have any race preference.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say the profiles who dont state any race preferences arent fussy and race and thats who u should be looking for"
that should say.. are likely to not be fussy about race |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think you would have better luck if some people stated Indian/Asian only???
Not really, but at least I'd know that I am what they are looking for. "
Yes as in colour/race but it boils down to more then that ...personality , attraction ...etc.... |
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