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No you are not alone. There are a lot of married men, and women, who are on Fab, playing alone. Many won't meet married/attached though because it is seen as cheating if you are doing so without permission/knowledge. |
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It is much easier when people are honest. I ended up seeing someone who told me he was single, everything pointed to him being single, but it turned out he was seeing someone, with a view to moving in with her when he was posted down south. So, you can never really tell on here! I have married friends, I just choose not to meet any more now. |
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over a year ago
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"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? 
I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun
It's not, but it's honest!!!
I'll give you that  "
Just that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?
I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun
It's not, but it's honest!!!
I'll give you that
Just that? "
I'll have to check with my hubby |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?
I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun
It's not, but it's honest!!!
I'll give you that
Just that?
I'll have to check with my hubby "
You win!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?
I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun
It's not, but it's honest!!!
I'll give you that
Just that?
I'll have to check with my hubby
You win! "
Usually do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is a married person who is not particularly looking for full on carnal shenanagins, I hold my hand up, a nuisance to all the genuine swingers who are trying to meet a bi fem.
I apologise whole heartedly if so, but I feel I could say I haven't wasted anyone's time.
Except for the guy who rang me about PPI, I kept him talking for 5 mins before I put the phone down. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?
I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun
It's not, but it's honest!!!
I'll give you that
Just that?
I'll have to check with my hubby
You win!
Usually do "
But not always!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?
Lmaooooooooooooooooooo that made me 
Honesty the best policy! "
Even better when it's stated on a profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? "
Hell no. Trust me you are not alone. There are loads down here in the SW. Just some are honest about being married or in partnership, whilst other claim to be totally songle with no attachemtns but can't accommodate for whatever reason. It's geting easier to spot the one that are married. xx |
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if your other half knows...cool but if not thats not swinging its cheating....and with so many unattached people on here...we wouldnt consider it....anyway from a completly male selfish point of view id be thinking so you can have fun with my Mrs...but i cant with yours....pffft i dont think so... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are people in complicated situations, so while it is easy to judge it may not always be fair or appropriate.
There are so many lucky people on here in fabulous relationships. Please don't judge others who are not quite so fortunate. |
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Married but clearly state that on my profile, and fully understand that some will not want to meet due to that, but it's only fair that they know from the outset, strange that I feel the need to be honest on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if your other half knows...cool but if not thats not swinging its cheating....and with so many unattached people on here...we wouldnt consider it....anyway from a completly male selfish point of view id be thinking so you can have fun with my Mrs...but i cant with yours....pffft i dont think so..."
Straight to the point an totally how we feel about the married men and I will say women to that are on here alone as its just not the men
In our opinion we don't want to be the ones who they get cought out with , and become known as a marriage wrecker,
That's just our opinion
Its like marmite some like it some don't
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and many state they are married and have no problem getting meets..
its suprising how many say on profile wont meet married - but they do"
Mine says won't meet married, and I won't |
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"Married but clearly state that on my profile, and fully understand that some will not want to meet due to that, but it's only fair that they know from the outset, strange that I feel the need to be honest on here"
You find it strange you need to be honest??????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As I see it, there is only one rule on fab, and rightly so. That rule is: Only enjoy what you what to you enjoy.
This means that there is everyone from A to Z here.
However, this also means that everyone has their own rules. Some may think a meet with a married person is just a meet. Some may think a meet with a married person is a breach of trust of a third party.
Everyone is different, and in no position to lecture anyone else. As with anything in the Lifestyle/online, I think two personal questions are good tests:
1) Am I being true to myself?
2) Am I really, really being true to myself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Married but clearly state that on my profile, and fully understand that some will not want to meet due to that, but it's only fair that they know from the outset, strange that I feel the need to be honest on here
You find it strange you need to be honest???????"
Yes as I'm dishonest at home |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? "
My first ever meet was with a woman and after we had sex she told me she was married yet her profile said she was single and then said if i stop seeing her she would tell her hubby |
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"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?
My first ever meet was with a woman and after we had sex she told me she was married yet her profile said she was single and then said if i stop seeing her she would tell her hubby"
That is awful and should not be done ever |
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"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?
My first ever meet was with a woman and after we had sex she told me she was married yet her profile said she was single and then said if i stop seeing her she would tell her hubby
That is awful and should not be done ever "
Could of been worse, her husband could of been wanking in the wardobe |
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That has always made me smile. I have always been up front about my marital status. I have never seen the point in lying about that, cock size or anything else for that matter it would be too much hard work trying to remember what lie one told to what person lol
"and many state they are married and have no problem getting meets..
its suprising how many say on profile wont meet married - but they do"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?
My first ever meet was with a woman and after we had sex she told me she was married yet her profile said she was single and then said if i stop seeing her she would tell her hubby
That is awful and should not be done ever "
It nearly put me off fab for good as it was my first meet but i was told by a few nice people that not everyone is like her and how true were those words ive since met two stunning girls and had some amazing fun too and made some good freinds along the way but it tought me a leson early on to never straight away belive what your told |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met a married woman once who boasted that one guy was talking on the phone to his girlfriend while he had his fingers in her!
She thought it was hilarious  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there are lots on here married,I won't meet them.if they are not Dominant enough to get the love of there life to her knees I'm dam sure I won't do it lol |
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