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over a year ago
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yes, tall, good-looking, nice body, nice cock. He even seemed like a sweet person. But I wasn't attracted at all, not like I'd hoped to be. I couldn't believe myself! And why...because the conversation was dull. Absolutely no finesse, no ability to seduce, no sensuality to him at all?  |
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"yes, tall, good-looking, nice body, nice cock. He even seemed like a sweet person. But I wasn't attracted at all, not like I'd hoped to be. I couldn't believe myself! And why...because the conversation was dull. Absolutely no finesse, no ability to seduce, no sensuality to him at all? "
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over a year ago
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"A question for the ladies - have you ever come across a guy who you thought was good looking, yet didn't feel attracted to?
What was missing?"
Sincerity. |
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Several times...have started chatting to some drop dead gorgeous looking guys, but when getting blood from a stone would be much easier than trying to get a conversation the attraction is replaced with frustration! There are also some that assume because they are so body beautiful then I will invite them straight over and should be grateful of their attention...again really off-putting.
On the other hand I have met some stunning guys who really do have the whole package and make me feel attractive too resulting in much fun being had! |
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you have it! so either, you're a natural with that...or your fishing for a compliment  but I'll play along...Charm, might be a good descriptive word. An ability to tantalise me with his wit, good conversation and adept flirtation skills, humour,a compliment that isn't generic but personal, a sense of confidence that's related to the man he is holistically, rather than just his massive cock, 'roid'body, or fat wallet. Something intriguing about him...
And no..it doesn't have to be all of the above, just something to set him apart a little, some special quality?! |
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Many years back was with a friend in a club. A man walked in, drop dead, tongues out gawjus!!! However once i had spoken to him it was an instant turn off! No personality, boring and with the persona of Mr Bean!! Taught me a lesson that night... I feel attraction comes from different things these days.. Firstly being fruit loops like us helps!!  |
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over a year ago
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Worst thing in the world is someone with no substance or personality!! That's why I'm still single! Haven't found a girl with the looks and the substance that equal each other. |
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"A question for the ladies - have you ever come across a guy who you thought was good looking, yet didn't feel attracted to?
What was missing?"
usually a brain but one very sexy muscular man I dated turned out to be a racist and full of hate for everyone and he had a masters IT so just a cunt basically. A gorgeous one but still a cunt....am I allowed to say cunt on the forums ? |
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"Worst thing in the world is someone with no substance or personality!! That's why I'm still single! Haven't found a girl with the looks and the substance that equal each other. "
I'm full of substance. It's creamy white and thick like me |
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"Worst thing in the world is someone with no substance or personality!! That's why I'm still single! Haven't found a girl with the looks and the substance that equal each other.
I'm full of substance. It's creamy white and thick like me "
Ha ha like a sexual ice cream now all u need is a black dong for your flake?  |
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"yes, tall, good-looking, nice body, nice cock. He even seemed like a sweet person. But I wasn't attracted at all, not like I'd hoped to be. I couldn't believe myself! And why...because the conversation was dull. Absolutely no finesse, no ability to seduce, no sensuality to him at all?
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perfectly worded
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Someone in the vanilla world tried to set me up with one of her friends recently.
Pics looked good, intelligent/smart based on what I know about how he earns his living, however, he is a bit of a gym bunny, and I have my reservations about gym bunnies.
It turned out he is very shallow and rather obsessed with looks, in that he would only consider meeting me if he found me physically attractive enough to tempt him, and kept asking my friend for pics of me.
I lost interest as I do not fit his profile of an ideal woman and not pretty enough to be his arm candy!
No wonder he is still single in his early 40s!
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Yes, I met my ideal "type" rugby player build, well endowed, profile wasn't half bad. Well, when I met him he had zero conversational skills, was crude "so how many men have you fucked so far then" this was his second or third sentence to me once we'd sat down and got a drink and so it went on and on and on.
I mean, obviously it's important to find out one anothers likes and dislikes but within context! I think that's why my meets are so sporadic. I'm not looking for Steven Hawkings but the ability to have some awareness of current affairs and a modicum of intelligence really is essential for me. |
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"Worst thing in the world is someone with no substance or personality!! That's why I'm still single! Haven't found a girl with the looks and the substance that equal each other.
I'm full of substance. It's creamy white and thick like me
Ha ha like a sexual ice cream now all u need is a black dong for your flake? "
If I get one will you lick me?  |
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"Yes, I met my ideal "type" rugby player build, well endowed, profile wasn't half bad. Well, when I met him he had zero conversational skills, was crude "so how many men have you fucked so far then" this was his second or third sentence to me once we'd sat down and got a drink and so it went on and on and on.
I mean, obviously it's important to find out one anothers likes and dislikes but within context! I think that's why my meets are so sporadic. I'm not looking for Steven Hawkings but the ability to have some awareness of current affairs and a modicum of intelligence really is essential for me. "
not as intelligent as mr hawkins, but i like to think i can hold my own, giggity. still puzzled by the trousers of time though...i mean are they jeans or chinos ???? |
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The most missed thing is pheromones, people who shave their pubes don't store pheromones in their hair follicles, so can be the most attractive guy in the world, but without the chemical attraction, nothing will happen, so don't shave em! |
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Me and my fb had a meet a while ago. The guy was gorgeous looking, nice body and good conversation. I went upstairs to change into sexy undies and came downstairs to find him with his pants round his ankles wanking to internet porn. I was turned off in a moment.
Wouldn't have minded us all watching porn together but that killed the mood.. |
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"Me and my fb had a meet a while ago. The guy was gorgeous looking, nice body and good conversation. I went upstairs to change into sexy undies and came downstairs to find him with his pants round his ankles wanking to internet porn. I was turned off in a moment.
Wouldn't have minded us all watching porn together but that killed the mood.."
Oh no, that would be a killer for most of us, whatever sex or sexuality |
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"Yes, I met my ideal "type" rugby player build, well endowed, profile wasn't half bad. Well, when I met him he had zero conversational skills, was crude "so how many men have you fucked so far then" this was his second or third sentence to me once we'd sat down and got a drink and so it went on and on and on.
I mean, obviously it's important to find out one anothers likes and dislikes but within context! I think that's why my meets are so sporadic. I'm not looking for Steven Hawkings but the ability to have some awareness of current affairs and a modicum of intelligence really is essential for me. "
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What do you ladies think the 'spark' is though? Is it one of those time when they just seem to tick all of your boxes without even realising it, ie the way they smile, the way the look at you, the answers they give to your questions, even their choice of aftershave? |
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"What do you ladies think the 'spark' is though? Is it one of those time when they just seem to tick all of your boxes without even realising it, ie the way they smile, the way the look at you, the answers they give to your questions, even their choice of aftershave?"
I think it's an amalgamation of all of those reasons. I always worry a large proportion of men on here are here for "instashag". But I can usually tell if I have social meet if that's their agenda. Sometimes I've forgone that social meet and got straight down to it if that animal instinct/lust is there. |
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