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"Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate" Does if you after a big black cock!!! | |||
"Good luck to those who use it as a marketing tool I use it as a filter." | |||
"6 of one, half a dozen of the other. I REALLY hope this is something that stops being discussed one day. I can live in hope right?" so do i... but it will never happen, because it has in the past made me feel dehumanised in the playing experiences I had when I was much more nieve... now, I suppose it has made me stronger in the beliefs and processes and filters I now apply.... | |||
"Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate Does if you after a big black cock!!! " ??????? So every cock, that happens to be big and a black mans is Guaranteed to be a good play??? I stand corrected, I said earlier today that something else was the stupidest thing I'd ever heard. I was wrong. People, their individual soh, taste, ability and everything else before their skin colour  | |||
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"BBC is not offensive,just like I don't feel offended being called a bbw I have got a Bigbum x just like BBC may have a big cock Not all blk men have big cocks and not all big woman are beautiful x " I think the thread title and some of the comments posted do not support your theory. | |||
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"The subject heading speaks for itself!" A human being with a big black cock? Are people allowed to say that? | |||
"BBC is not offensive,just like I don't feel offended being called a bbw I have got a Bigbum x just like BBC may have a big cock Not all blk men have big cocks and not all big woman are beautiful x I think the thread title and some of the comments posted do not support your theory. Why is that ? I was relating to some of the comments eg size,a lot threads abt BBC etc and of course talking abt myself as an example of another 'label' and just saying it's not ment in a nasty way,BBC are fab x " | |||
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"Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate Does if you after a big black cock!!! "
Perfect... my guy likes to see big black cock in me as do hundreds of other couples..so im afraid it does make a good meet for lots of us ..
for us its the visual..both the size and colour..so completely disagree with the comment it doesnt make good playmate...for many it actually does!!! | |||
"Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate Does if you after a big black cock!!!
Perfect... my guy likes to see big black cock in me as do hundreds of other couples..so im afraid it does make a good meet for lots of us ..
for us its the visual..both the size and colour..so completely disagree with the comment it doesnt make good playmate...for many it actually does!!!"So essentially what I got from that is you, as a couple, consider any guy a good playmate as long as they are big and black. If answer is yes, then I believe you see these type of men merely as an objects without looking at any other human qualities. And if your answer is no then surely there is more to it than just being "bbc". Behaviour, personality possibly?  | |||
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"Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate Does if you after a big black cock!!!
Perfect... my guy likes to see big black cock in me as do hundreds of other couples..so im afraid it does make a good meet for lots of us ..
for us its the visual..both the size and colour..so completely disagree with the comment it doesnt make good playmate...for many it actually does!!!
So essentially what I got from that is you, as a couple, consider any guy a good playmate as long as they are big and black.
If answer is yes, then I believe you see these type of men merely as an objects without looking at any other human qualities.
And if your answer is no then surely there is more to it than just being "bbc". Behaviour, personality possibly? "
its not the fact that some people like BBC that is the problem it is the objectification of men who have them. how many women hate to be treated like sex toys with no regard for hem as a person? this is the same thing. | |||
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"Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate Does if you after a big black cock!!!
Perfect... my guy likes to see big black cock in me as do hundreds of other couples..so im afraid it does make a good meet for lots of us ..
for us its the visual..both the size and colour..so completely disagree with the comment it doesnt make good playmate...for many it actually does!!!
So essentially what I got from that is you, as a couple, consider any guy a good playmate as long as they are big and black.
If answer is yes, then I believe you see these type of men merely as an objects without looking at any other human qualities.
And if your answer is no then surely there is more to it than just being "bbc". Behaviour, personality possibly?
its not the fact that some people like BBC that is the problem it is the objectification of men who have them. how many women hate to be treated like sex toys with no regard for hem as a person? this is the same thing."Exactly | |||
"we had numerous work and drink mates since the 80`s - That went from Being offended to being called Black - as they prefered to be called Coloured.. And now they want to be Called Black Again.. Whats that all about ??? "Sincerely.....please shut up about this. If you can't educate yourself then don't deflect and just watch the thread go by. Why people feel it is okay to post crap like this, i'll never know. | |||
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"we had numerous work and drink mates since the 80`s - That went from Being offended to being called Black - as they prefered to be called Coloured.. And now they want to be Called Black Again.. Whats that all about ???
Sincerely.....please shut up about this.
If you can't educate yourself then don't deflect and just watch the thread go by.
Why people feel it is okay to post crap like this, i'll never know."Here you go again being boringly holier than thou. From a profile that uses 'black' in its title. You don't see white people uing their skin colour to sell themselves. | |||
"Will any black guy admit on here to having a small or average cock? The ones we have seen fall into this category!" There have been posts from some that have in the past. Don't know if they are still on the site. | |||
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"we had numerous work and drink mates since the 80`s - That went from Being offended to being called Black - as they prefered to be called Coloured.. And now they want to be Called Black Again.. Whats that all about ???
Sincerely.....please shut up about this.
If you can't educate yourself then don't deflect and just watch the thread go by.
Why people feel it is okay to post crap like this, i'll never know.
Here you go again being boringly holier than thou. From a profile that uses 'black' in its title. You don't see white people uing their skin colour to sell themselves. "Don't be obtuse. My use of the descriptor in my profile name is merely that. It isn't a selling point. It barely gets mentioned at all in the rest of my profile. It immediately helps filter out those that don't want to meet black people. As for the last part of your comment, please do tell me more about the status quo and privilege. | |||
just enjoy what ever your preference big or small...cause it will either be good..or..well it may not be!! | |||
"Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate Does if you after a big black cock!!! " Haha that tickled me | |||
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"we had numerous work and drink mates since the 80`s - That went from Being offended to being called Black - as they prefered to be called Coloured.. And now they want to be Called Black Again.. Whats that all about ???
Sincerely.....please shut up about this.
If you can't educate yourself then don't deflect and just watch the thread go by.
Why people feel it is okay to post crap like this, i'll never know.
Here you go again being boringly holier than thou. From a profile that uses 'black' in its title. You don't see white people uing their skin colour to sell themselves. "I have just down a search and I think you will find your wrong type white in the search box you will see pages of results. | |||
"The subject heading speaks for itself!" The OP has hit the ball out of the park on this topic in fact not just the BBC out look but with any fantasy fuck mentality . You see not all guys feel comfortable being used for sex as a tool . He understands any BBC will do for those who are into this sexual fantasy . he as a human being understands he is being rejoiced down to the level of a sex tool like a vibrator for the sexual pleasure and fun of another and its not a role he feels comfortable in playing . Fair dues to him yes he would get sex by inhabiting a fantasy role for the pleasure of another but obviously because he started this post such a role doesn't deliver the sexual experience he needs to have . Its not uncommon for guys no matter what there colour to feel like this I for one will play with no one who makes me feel like a walking cock so I can fully understand his distaste for being treated in this way by white couples looking for a tool to fore fill a sexual fantasy for there gratification . A fuck is not enough for all guys some of us like to feel like we are liked past what pleasure we can give someone .  | |||
"we had numerous work and drink mates since the 80`s - That went from Being offended to being called Black - as they prefered to be called Coloured.. And now they want to be Called Black Again.. Whats that all about ???
Sincerely.....please shut up about this.
If you can't educate yourself then don't deflect and just watch the thread go by.
Why people feel it is okay to post crap like this, i'll never know.
Here you go again being boringly holier than thou. From a profile that uses 'black' in its title. You don't see white people uing their skin colour to sell themselves.
Don't be obtuse. My use of the descriptor in my profile name is merely that. It isn't a selling point. It barely gets mentioned at all in the rest of my profile. It immediately helps filter out those that don't want to meet black people.
As for the last part of your comment, please do tell me more about the status quo and privilege."It isn't obtuse, we are being direct and stating a fact. If your colour was irrelevant to the person you are why reference it? | |||
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"It isn't obtuse, we are being direct and stating a fact. If your colour was irrelevant to the person you are why reference it?" Read my comment again, the answer is there. In plain english.
Actually......don't. I lack the patience for this anymore. Whatever the hell helps you sleep at night. | |||
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Everyone on here is a human being, we know we're looking for other human brings. If those humans can bring something to the table (so to speak) whether it's a BBC or a big pair of boobs then great, but everyone on here knows there human beings first and foremost.
If guys are uncomfortable with the whole sex toy thing then they should state it on their profiles. That way couples/women can skip them and continue their search for men that are happy to be used for sex  | |||
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"well my wife prefers nbc (normal ((sized)) black cock) so which camp do we fit in then ??" The I like cock camp? Lol | |||
"well my wife prefers nbc (normal ((sized)) black cock) so which camp do we fit in then ?? The I like cock camp? Lol " have to do then lol | |||
"well my wife prefers nbc (normal ((sized)) black cock) so which camp do we fit in then ?? The I like cock camp? Lol have to do then lol" Well that's two of us in that camp, so far   | |||
"well my wife prefers nbc (normal ((sized)) black cock) so which camp do we fit in then ?? The I like cock camp? Lol have to do then lol Well that's two of us in that camp, so far "(sings) "come & join us, come & join us" | |||
"well my wife prefers nbc (normal ((sized)) black cock) so which camp do we fit in then ?? The I like cock camp? Lol have to do then lol Well that's two of us in that camp, so far
(sings) "come & join us, come & join us""Think we must have logged into the wrong site today! No one else likes cock  . Off to refresh my browser | |||
"well my wife prefers nbc (normal ((sized)) black cock) so which camp do we fit in then ?? The I like cock camp? Lol have to do then lol Well that's two of us in that camp, so far
(sings) "come & join us, come & join us"
Think we must have logged into the wrong site today! No one else likes cock . Off to refresh my browser "the wife wonders if you need a hand | |||
"The subject heading speaks for itself!" | |||
"well my wife prefers nbc (normal ((sized)) black cock) so which camp do we fit in then ?? The I like cock camp? Lol have to do then lol Well that's two of us in that camp, so far
(sings) "come & join us, come & join us"
Think we must have logged into the wrong site today! No one else likes cock . Off to refresh my browser
the wife wonders if you need a hand "Oh yes I like other people helping me push buttons | |||
"well my wife prefers nbc (normal ((sized)) black cock) so which camp do we fit in then ?? The I like cock camp? Lol have to do then lol Well that's two of us in that camp, so far
(sings) "come & join us, come & join us"
Think we must have logged into the wrong site today! No one else likes cock . Off to refresh my browser
the wife wonders if you need a hand
Oh yes I like other people helping me push buttons "yep... she's really good at pushing buttons | |||
"well my wife prefers nbc (normal ((sized)) black cock) so which camp do we fit in then ?? The I like cock camp? Lol " big, little, fat, thin V likes cock. its rather annoying that SOME (no matter colour) use their cock size to sell themselves. if they would just spend a bit of time and analyse things they would realise a lot of women dont actually care if they have a club between their legs, or not, just that it can get hard and is useful. we always delete messages that state the size of the cock in it | |||
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"well my wife prefers nbc (normal ((sized)) black cock) so which camp do we fit in then ?? The I like cock camp? Lol big, little, fat, thin V likes cock. its rather annoying that SOME (no matter colour) use their cock size to sell themselves. if they would just spend a bit of time and analyse things they would realise a lot of women dont actually care if they have a club between their legs, or not, just that it can get hard and is useful. we always delete messages that state the size of the cock in it" I like to think mine gets stiff and is useful. Plenty you can do with it. | |||
"BBC is of no interest to us. If that's all you have to offer then its going to be a crap meet. Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate" | |||
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"It isn't obtuse, we are being direct and stating a fact. If your colour was irrelevant to the person you are why reference it? Read my comment again, the answer is there. In plain english.
Actually......don't. I lack the patience for this anymore. Whatever the hell helps you sleep at night. "I read perfectly well.... You call it a 'descriptor' but I doubt if anyone white on here uses that as a 'descriptor' hence you do use it to define yourself. Or why bother? Just dealing in simple facts. | |||
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"It isn't obtuse, we are being direct and stating a fact. If your colour was irrelevant to the person you are why reference it? Read my comment again, the answer is there. In plain english.
Actually......don't. I lack the patience for this anymore. Whatever the hell helps you sleep at night.
I read perfectly well.... You call it a 'descriptor' but I doubt if anyone white on here uses that as a 'descriptor' hence you do use it to define yourself. Or why bother?
Just dealing in simple facts."*sigh* Caucasians are way in the majority here, so don't need to define themselves as such. For him to add the description 'black' is, as the poster says, helps others to use it as a filter. Yes there will be some who use their race as a selling point, and why not? Some people ask precisely for that ingredient, so if that helps a black guy to get meets, then kewl. But not all want to play that card. | |||
"Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate Does if you after a big black cock!!!
Perfect... my guy likes to see big black cock in me as do hundreds of other couples..so im afraid it does make a good meet for lots of us ..
for us its the visual..both the size and colour..so completely disagree with the comment it doesnt make good playmate...for many it actually does!!!
So essentially what I got from that is you, as a couple, consider any guy a good playmate as long as they are big and black.
If answer is yes, then I believe you see these type of men merely as an objects without looking at any other human qualities.
And if your answer is no then surely there is more to it than just being "bbc". Behaviour, personality possibly? "It's a preference thing H loves black guys and also loves big cocks.. so if they are a BBC then she gets both, so she's very happy!! BBC is just a term to describe something your trying to sell much like BBW, it tells people about you and make it easier for people with those preferences to find you. We have also met white guys with big cocks and black guys with average cocks, H especially liked the BBC among them all. On the objectification of people, we have found (in general) the black guys to be great fun, friendly and very attentive, we are social friends with many we have met. But on another point swinging can be about fantasy, and looking for something different from the norm. In some cases our meet at clubs have been brief, so finding their other human qualities could be difficult in such a short time. We usually find out these qualities over time, meeting them at parties where there is more time to socialise and get to know them better. We are looking for fun and friendship with black guys, with hopefully a big cock, which is our choice, we understand some black guys don't like this term but they don't have to meet with us either, but luckily for us there seems plenty that do. | |||
"Will any black guy admit on here to having a small or average cock? The ones we have seen fall into this category!" Ahabs has 2" does that count lol  | |||
"Will any black guy admit on here to having a small or average cock? The ones we have seen fall into this category! Ahabs has 2" does that count lol "I approve this message! | |||
"Good luck to those who use it as a marketing tool I use it as a filter." | |||
"Will any black guy admit on here to having a small or average cock? The ones we have seen fall into this category! Ahabs has 2" does that count lol
I approve this message! "but which 2 inches is she referring to? lol | |||
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"Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate Does if you after a big black cock!!!
Perfect... my guy likes to see big black cock in me as do hundreds of other couples..so im afraid it does make a good meet for lots of us ..
for us its the visual..both the size and colour..so completely disagree with the comment it doesnt make good playmate...for many it actually does!!!
So essentially what I got from that is you, as a couple, consider any guy a good playmate as long as they are big and black.
If answer is yes, then I believe you see these type of men merely as an objects without looking at any other human qualities.
And if your answer is no then surely there is more to it than just being "bbc". Behaviour, personality possibly?
It's a preference thing H loves black guys and also loves big cocks.. so if they are a BBC then she gets both, so she's very happy!!
BBC is just a term to describe something your trying to sell much like BBW, it tells people about you and make it easier for people with those preferences to find you.
We have also met white guys with big cocks and black guys with average cocks, H especially liked the BBC among them all.
On the objectification of people, we have found (in general) the black guys to be great fun, friendly and very attentive, we are social friends with many we have met. But on another point swinging can be about fantasy, and looking for something different from the norm. In some cases our meet at clubs have been brief, so finding their other human qualities could be difficult in such a short time. We usually find out these qualities over time, meeting them at parties where there is more time to socialise and get to know them better.
We are looking for fun and friendship with black guys, with hopefully a big cock, which is our choice, we understand some black guys don't like this term but they don't have to meet with us either, but luckily for us there seems plenty that do." | |||
"Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate Does if you after a big black cock!!!
Perfect... my guy likes to see big black cock in me as do hundreds of other couples..so im afraid it does make a good meet for lots of us ..
for us its the visual..both the size and colour..so completely disagree with the comment it doesnt make good playmate...for many it actually does!!!
So essentially what I got from that is you, as a couple, consider any guy a good playmate as long as they are big and black.
If answer is yes, then I believe you see these type of men merely as an objects without looking at any other human qualities.
And if your answer is no then surely there is more to it than just being "bbc". Behaviour, personality possibly?
It's a preference thing H loves black guys and also loves big cocks.. so if they are a BBC then she gets both, so she's very happy!!
BBC is just a term to describe something your trying to sell much like BBW, it tells people about you and make it easier for people with those preferences to find you.
We have also met white guys with big cocks and black guys with average cocks, H especially liked the BBC among them all.
On the objectification of people, we have found (in general) the black guys to be great fun, friendly and very attentive, we are social friends with many we have met. But on another point swinging can be about fantasy, and looking for something different from the norm. In some cases our meet at clubs have been brief, so finding their other human qualities could be difficult in such a short time. We usually find out these qualities over time, meeting them at parties where there is more time to socialise and get to know them better.
We are looking for fun and friendship with black guys, with hopefully a big cock, which is our choice, we understand some black guys don't like this term but they don't have to meet with us either, but luckily for us there seems plenty that do." | |||
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"The subject heading speaks for itself! The OP has hit the ball out of the park on this topic in fact not just the BBC out look but with any fantasy fuck mentality . You see not all guys feel comfortable being used for sex as a tool . He understands any BBC will do for those who are into this sexual fantasy . he as a human being understands he is being rejoiced down to the level of a sex tool like a vibrator for the sexual pleasure and fun of another and its not a role he feels comfortable in playing . Fair dues to him yes he would get sex by inhabiting a fantasy role for the pleasure of another but obviously because he started this post such a role doesn't deliver the sexual experience he needs to have . Its not uncommon for guys no matter what there colour to feel like this I for one will play with no one who makes me feel like a walking cock so I can fully understand his distaste for being treated in this way by white couples looking for a tool to fore fill a sexual fantasy for there gratification . A fuck is not enough for all guys some of us like to feel like we are liked past what pleasure we can give someone . " | |||
"This is exactly why I proudly state the exceedingly average size cock in my profile. It seems to have done the trick. In the past I would get sick and tired of people constantly asking (more often than not it's the husband's/boyfriends that ask) me how big my cock is. I get no pleasure fucking a woman that has an any black cock will do approach. I only fuck women that I like as a person and where the feeling is mutual. On the flip side and maybe it makes me a bit of a hypocrite I really do enjoy the interracial element with couples as I love role-play. I like women of all shades. So as long as it is just that, an element like fancying tall guys or women with nice curves I'm fine with it. " That's the thing though, you are being hypocritical. You enjoy interracial play yet don't like being seen as a BBC: interracial play no?!! I doubt if a person has a preference for a certain "type" they don't fancy all! There's still an element of chemistry needed to enjoy sex. | |||
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"I've gone one further... I state I have never measured mine and have no intention of doing so.... so if anyone asks me what size my cock size... its a swift goodbye... like as said.. some may use it as a marketing tool, others use it as a filter... and the irony of it all is depending on how the preference for black guys for example is written... you may well be turning off the very people you are trying to attract..... " Lol, am on the same page with Fabio on this one - I have never mentioned mine and don't see what I could gain by knowing the dimensions: it neither improves nor diminishes my "performance", nor does it make me a better human being (if anything, the "ego" aspect has more risk to qualify me an honourary member of twatville). I don't wanna be one of those guys that emails people going "Fancy my xxx inch cock" and changing my profile name to describe my cock. I am more than my cock - its weight and total mass is less than 1% of who I am.. so why should it be a priority, when there's so much more about me as a person? And to anyone that has emailed inquiring the size, my answer has and will always remain the same: 2 inches. If they can't see I'm trying to be humorous, then I'd rather send them a butcher's frankfurter than meet them. | |||
"This is exactly why I proudly state the exceedingly average size cock in my profile. It seems to have done the trick. In the past I would get sick and tired of people constantly asking (more often than not it's the husband's/boyfriends that ask) me how big my cock is. I get no pleasure fucking a woman that has an any black cock will do approach. I only fuck women that I like as a person and where the feeling is mutual. On the flip side and maybe it makes me a bit of a hypocrite I really do enjoy the interracial element with couples as I love role-play. I like women of all shades. So as long as it is just that, an element like fancying tall guys or women with nice curves I'm fine with it. That's the thing though, you are being hypocritical. You enjoy interracial play yet don't like being seen as a BBC: interracial play no?!! I doubt if a person has a preference for a certain "type" they don't fancy all! There's still an element of chemistry needed to enjoy sex. "I think I can see how this is: yes I liek the interracial scene (ie, women that want black guys), but no I don't like being seen as ONLY a BBC (ie, the women that want ANY black guy as long as has a big cock). I liek to think most people are more discerning? Similarly, I Like curvy women, but that does not mean ANY lady that is a bbw catches my eye. Neither does that mean I rule out every woman that is not a bbw. At the end of the day its down to chemistry and how we get on.. yes, its about the whole person, the whole package. If a lady says "only seeking 12+ inches" and I happen to be only 11 inches, does that mean I'm not good enough? If that's the case I certainly won't embarrass myself nor waste my time ... if they still want t get in contact, they will still get the same answer: "its 2 inches" and let them decide | |||
"This is exactly why I proudly state the exceedingly average size cock in my profile. It seems to have done the trick. In the past I would get sick and tired of people constantly asking (more often than not it's the husband's/boyfriends that ask) me how big my cock is. I get no pleasure fucking a woman that has an any black cock will do approach. I only fuck women that I like as a person and where the feeling is mutual. On the flip side and maybe it makes me a bit of a hypocrite I really do enjoy the interracial element with couples as I love role-play. I like women of all shades. So as long as it is just that, an element like fancying tall guys or women with nice curves I'm fine with it. That's the thing though, you are being hypocritical. You enjoy interracial play yet don't like being seen as a BBC: interracial play no?!! I doubt if a person has a preference for a certain "type" they don't fancy all! There's still an element of chemistry needed to enjoy sex. " | |||
"I've gone one further... I state I have never measured mine and have no intention of doing so.... so if anyone asks me what size my cock size... its a swift goodbye... like as said.. some may use it as a marketing tool, others use it as a filter... and the irony of it all is depending on how the preference for black guys for example is written... you may well be turning off the very people you are trying to attract..... " | |||
"I've gone one further... I state I have never measured mine and have no intention of doing so.... so if anyone asks me what size my cock size... its a swift goodbye... like as said.. some may use it as a marketing tool, others use it as a filter... and the irony of it all is depending on how the preference for black guys for example is written... you may well be turning off the very people you are trying to attract..... Lol, am on the same page with Fabio on this one - I have never mentioned mine and don't see what I could gain by knowing the dimensions: it neither improves nor diminishes my "performance", nor does it make me a better human being (if anything, the "ego" aspect has more risk to qualify me an honourary member of twatville). I don't wanna be one of those guys that emails people going "Fancy my xxx inch cock" and changing my profile name to describe my cock. I am more than my cock - its weight and total mass is less than 1% of who I am.. so why should it be a priority, when there's so much more about me as a person? And to anyone that has emailed inquiring the size, my answer has and will always remain the same: 2 inches. If they can't see I'm trying to be humorous, then I'd rather send them a butcher's frankfurter than meet them." | |||
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"The subject heading speaks for itself!" I agree totally, that if a guy is approached and referred to as BBC it can be understandably offensive, but many black guys have approached Sandra offering their services as BBC. We don't find that offensive, as its their choice to describe themselves as such, and I dare say pays dividends in some cases. | |||
"Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate Does if you after a big black cock!!! " Exactly. | |||
"Cock size or colour doesn't make you a good play mate Does if you after a big black cock!!! ??????? So every cock, that happens to be big and a black mans is Guaranteed to be a good play??? I stand corrected, I said earlier today that something else was the stupidest thing I'd ever heard. I was wrong. People, their individual soh, taste, ability and everything else before their skin colour "Some people are that shallow though, and experiencing a BBC is just something on their "to do" list. Not saying its right, or that I agree with it. Its just how some people are. To those people, its just one more thing they can say they have tried. | |||
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"I'm a BBW, but before this thread, the only thing I thought BBC meant was a TV channel "The main difference is that you don't need to buy a licence for this type of BBC | |||
"I'm a BBW, but before this thread, the only thing I thought BBC meant was a TV channel
The main difference is that you don't need to buy a licence for this type of BBC "Well, maybe a licence to thrill ? | |||
"I'm a BBW, but before this thread, the only thing I thought BBC meant was a TV channel
The main difference is that you don't need to buy a licence for this type of BBC " | |||
"I've gone one further... I state I have never measured mine and have no intention of doing so.... so if anyone asks me what size my cock size... its a swift goodbye... like as said.. some may use it as a marketing tool, others use it as a filter... and the irony of it all is depending on how the preference for black guys for example is written... you may well be turning off the very people you are trying to attract..... " I understand what you're saying as I've never asked a playmate the size of his cock as it's not and never will be a deciding factor in whether I meet or not. Likewise I avoid men with usernames like 10inches4u. Another group I avoid are those that on contacting me start of telling me they aren't very big and they don't want me to be disappointed after being with black men. I've only ever been with and seen one black cock: my husbands, and I haven't seen that in 12 years, so their assumption is way off! | |||
"This is exactly why I proudly state the exceedingly average size cock in my profile. It seems to have done the trick. In the past I would get sick and tired of people constantly asking (more often than not it's the husband's/boyfriends that ask) me how big my cock is. I get no pleasure fucking a woman that has an any black cock will do approach. I only fuck women that I like as a person and where the feeling is mutual. On the flip side and maybe it makes me a bit of a hypocrite I really do enjoy the interracial element with couples as I love role-play. I like women of all shades. So as long as it is just that, an element like fancying tall guys or women with nice curves I'm fine with it. That's the thing though, you are being hypocritical. You enjoy interracial play yet don't like being seen as a BBC: interracial play no?!! I doubt if a person has a preference for a certain "type" they don't fancy all! There's still an element of chemistry needed to enjoy sex.
I think I can see how this is: yes I liek the interracial scene (ie, women that want black guys), but no I don't like being seen as ONLY a BBC (ie, the women that want ANY black guy as long as has a big cock). I liek to think most people are more discerning?
Similarly, I Like curvy women, but that does not mean ANY lady that is a bbw catches my eye. Neither does that mean I rule out every woman that is not a bbw. At the end of the day its down to chemistry and how we get on.. yes, its about the whole person, the whole package.
If a lady says "only seeking 12+ inches" and I happen to be only 11 inches, does that mean I'm not good enough? If that's the case I certainly won't embarrass myself nor waste my time ... if they still want t get in contact, they will still get the same answer: "its 2 inches" and let them decide "You've basically said what I did. Those that are seeking BBC don't fancy every black guy, they still need to be an attraction.
As for size that could apply to anything. I've seen profiles with no bigger than a size 18: depending where you shop you can be 16 in one and 20 in another: it's silly, but *shrugs* personal preferences again. | |||
"At the end of the day we believe it is all about choice. If a woman, or couple, prefers their meets to involve a black guy, and the woman obtains more sexual gratification from a certain sized penis, then why shouldn't this be a valid factor in their decision making process in finding a suitable partner from the site. If this is the case then why isn't BBC a suitable acronym for describing the attributes of a potential partner? Like described earlier it is just a filtering tool, one of many on here that allow people to make the choice they want. We are not suggesting that this is necessarily the only factor that should be considered but it seems a fair starting point. As for any guy who feels like they are being objectified on here by possibly fitting into the BBC category, well to a certain degree you are and it should be obvious to you that you are, we all are objectified on here. This would seem fairly obvious given the nature of the site, a site that promotes sex amongst strangers, and the fact that it uses photos as a way of promoting a members profiles and for the purposes of this thread their actual member. We are fairly confident that most people post pictures of themselves that they are sure will show them in a good light and not post pictures of themselves that are, for want of a better word, minging. We use the pictures on a profile to see if we are attracted to the other member enough to meet up. If we don't find them physically attractive then we move on, going back to our notion that its all about personal choice. Physical attraction is another element to choosing a meet. It should be too we believe, after all we are on here for our desire to perform a physical act, with a physically able and physically pleasing person or persons. We are not on this site for any real emotional needs or connections, we just want to meet up have a laugh and fulfil a physical need we as a couple share. To those guys looking for more emotional meets, where they want to connect on a deeper, more personal level, we suggest you try one of the vast array of dating sites out there. To those guys who are offended when asked about the size of their cock, we feel you should get over it. This is just one factor in deciding a meet for those members stating a preference for a black guy with a big cock. It seems perfectly acceptable to say you want a meet from a person of a particular size or age but heaven forbid don't ask about the actual thing that provides most of the physical pleasure, no let's keep that a secret until the grand unveiling on the day or night in question. By asking for a big cock and if you prefer it to hang off a black guy, then all the person doing the asking is doing, is using it as a tool, no pun intended, to obtain what you want from a physical encounter of a sexual nature with a partner selected specifically for this purpose. That's why your profile states age, height, build, sexual orientation etc, it enables freedom of choice amongst all the members on Fab. It only seems fair to us if females or couples who say they meet single guys, and state their preference on their profile for guys who are vwe/vvwe/vvvvvvvvwe, should be entitled to ask 'how big?' Guys who contact such members shouldn't be upset by this, they have obviously read the profile, know what the other party is after and will not have just looked at the pictutes (feel we might be a little naïve here). So if you are one of these guys that are upset about revealing the dimension of your appendage, then just a little suggestion, do not contact such couple/females and if you are lucky enough to have been contacted by them in the first place and are upset by this then simply reply declining their offer or ignore them. So rant over, if there is a BBC out there, about 11 inches and very thick, get in touch she is horny now after thinking about all this x" | |||
"I'm a BBW, but before this thread, the only thing I thought BBC meant was a TV channel "TV is a whole other thread! | |||
"At the end of the day we believe it is all about choice. If a woman, or couple, prefers their meets to involve a black guy, and the woman obtains more sexual gratification from a certain sized penis, then why shouldn't this be a valid factor in their decision making process in finding a suitable partner from the site. If this is the case then why isn't BBC a suitable acronym for describing the attributes of a potential partner? Like described earlier it is just a filtering tool, one of many on here that allow people to make the choice they want. We are not suggesting that this is necessarily the only factor that should be considered but it seems a fair starting point. As for any guy who feels like they are being objectified on here by possibly fitting into the BBC category, well to a certain degree you are and it should be obvious to you that you are, we all are objectified on here. This would seem fairly obvious given the nature of the site, a site that promotes sex amongst strangers, and the fact that it uses photos as a way of promoting a members profiles and for the purposes of this thread their actual member. We are fairly confident that most people post pictures of themselves that they are sure will show them in a good light and not post pictures of themselves that are, for want of a better word, minging. We use the pictures on a profile to see if we are attracted to the other member enough to meet up. If we don't find them physically attractive then we move on, going back to our notion that its all about personal choice. Physical attraction is another element to choosing a meet. It should be too we believe, after all we are on here for our desire to perform a physical act, with a physically able and physically pleasing person or persons. We are not on this site for any real emotional needs or connections, we just want to meet up have a laugh and fulfil a physical need we as a couple share. To those guys looking for more emotional meets, where they want to connect on a deeper, more personal level, we suggest you try one of the vast array of dating sites out there. To those guys who are offended when asked about the size of their cock, we feel you should get over it. This is just one factor in deciding a meet for those members stating a preference for a black guy with a big cock. It seems perfectly acceptable to say you want a meet from a person of a particular size or age but heaven forbid don't ask about the actual thing that provides most of the physical pleasure, no let's keep that a secret until the grand unveiling on the day or night in question. By asking for a big cock and if you prefer it to hang off a black guy, then all the person doing the asking is doing, is using it as a tool, no pun intended, to obtain what you want from a physical encounter of a sexual nature with a partner selected specifically for this purpose. That's why your profile states age, height, build, sexual orientation etc, it enables freedom of choice amongst all the members on Fab. It only seems fair to us if females or couples who say they meet single guys, and state their preference on their profile for guys who are vwe/vvwe/vvvvvvvvwe, should be entitled to ask 'how big?' Guys who contact such members shouldn't be upset by this, they have obviously read the profile, know what the other party is after and will not have just looked at the pictutes (feel we might be a little naïve here). So if you are one of these guys that are upset about revealing the dimension of your appendage, then just a little suggestion, do not contact such couple/females and if you are lucky enough to have been contacted by them in the first place and are upset by this then simply reply declining their offer or ignore them. So rant over, if there is a BBC out there, about 11 inches and very thick, get in touch she is horny now after thinking about all this x" Brilliant points made | |||
"I'm a BBW, but before this thread, the only thing I thought BBC meant was a TV channel
TV is a whole other thread! " | |||
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"People use this site as a means of playing out their fantasies and exploiting their kinks or fetishes. Now you single guys/girls couples even ourselves all exploit this. For us we look for people that fit a certain criteria, contact them, meet up and then decide if we are going to play or not. At that point it doesn't matter whether you are VVWE, a BBC, BBW, TV ,Italian stallion, Bi girl or Couple, whatever! if you are a complete knob/you won't stand a chance with us. We choose people by criteria then play depending on connection/personality. We are not looking for anything more than great sex but if we gain a friendship along the way then that's just a bonus. We're going to get crucified for this but you guys moaning that you are being objectified or feel you are used as a sex toy, maybe match.com would be a better place to find a Kiss and a cuddle x "Hang on.. so you're saying there are only 2 options: 1) Accept being labelled a BBC and only being sought on the only merit of being "BBC" (not even who I am as a person),.. otherwise 2) Go find my thrill on match dot com. What? No middle ground? | |||
"People use this site as a means of playing out their fantasies and exploiting their kinks or fetishes. Now you single guys/girls couples even ourselves all exploit this. For us we look for people that fit a certain criteria, contact them, meet up and then decide if we are going to play or not. At that point it doesn't matter whether you are VVWE, a BBC, BBW, TV ,Italian stallion, Bi girl or Couple, whatever! if you are a complete knob/you won't stand a chance with us. We choose people by criteria then play depending on connection/personality. We are not looking for anything more than great sex but if we gain a friendship along the way then that's just a bonus. We're going to get crucified for this but you guys moaning that you are being objectified or feel you are used as a sex toy, maybe match.com would be a better place to find a Kiss and a cuddle x
Hang on.. so you're saying there are only 2 options:
1) Accept being labelled a BBC and only being sought on the only merit of being "BBC" (not even who I am as a person),.. otherwise
2) Go find my thrill on match dot com.
What? No middle ground?"Only if you advertise as a BBC. | |||
"People use this site as a means of playing out their fantasies and exploiting their kinks or fetishes. Now you single guys/girls couples even ourselves all exploit this. For us we look for people that fit a certain criteria, contact them, meet up and then decide if we are going to play or not. At that point it doesn't matter whether you are VVWE, a BBC, BBW, TV ,Italian stallion, Bi girl or Couple, whatever! if you are a complete knob/you won't stand a chance with us. We choose people by criteria then play depending on connection/personality. We are not looking for anything more than great sex but if we gain a friendship along the way then that's just a bonus. We're going to get crucified for this but you guys moaning that you are being objectified or feel you are used as a sex toy, maybe match.com would be a better place to find a Kiss and a cuddle x
Hang on.. so you're saying there are only 2 options:
1) Accept being labelled a BBC and only being sought on the only merit of being "BBC" (not even who I am as a person),.. otherwise
2) Go find my thrill on match dot com.
What? No middle ground?"I read it a little differently as they've basically said what I have: without the Match.com bit.
For some of us this is fantasy: nothing more, nothing less. When playing, I pick my playmates to my fantasy criteria: older, white, tall, sub men. It doesn't mean all older, white...men will pass muster with me, there has to be chemistry, a meeting of the minds for me to play.
I don't want a cuddle, I don't want to know their life stories although I'm very close to most of them, but the bottom line is they're playthings, one I call t for toy, a name he gave himself.
I do understand some people wanting to be wanted for them, some of us only want fantasy, doesn't mean you think less of or don't respect those you come in contact with. | |||
"People use this site as a means of playing out their fantasies and exploiting their kinks or fetishes. Now you single guys/girls couples even ourselves all exploit this. For us we look for people that fit a certain criteria, contact them, meet up and then decide if we are going to play or not. At that point it doesn't matter whether you are VVWE, a BBC, BBW, TV ,Italian stallion, Bi girl or Couple, whatever! if you are a complete knob/you won't stand a chance with us. We choose people by criteria then play depending on connection/personality. We are not looking for anything more than great sex but if we gain a friendship along the way then that's just a bonus. We're going to get crucified for this but you guys moaning that you are being objectified or feel you are used as a sex toy, maybe match.com would be a better place to find a Kiss and a cuddle x
Hang on.. so you're saying there are only 2 options:
1) Accept being labelled a BBC and only being sought on the only merit of being "BBC" (not even who I am as a person),.. otherwise
2) Go find my thrill on match dot com.
What? No middle ground?
I read it a little differently as they've basically said what I have: without the Match.com bit.
For some of us this is fantasy: nothing more, nothing less. When playing, I pick my playmates to my fantasy criteria: older, white, tall, sub men. It doesn't mean all older, white...men will pass muster with me, there has to be chemistry, a meeting of the minds for me to play.
I don't want a cuddle, I don't want to know their life stories although I'm very close to most of them, but the bottom line is they're playthings, one I call t for toy, a name he gave himself.
I do understand some people wanting to be wanted for them, some of us only want fantasy, doesn't mean you think less of or don't respect those you come in contact with."Exactly!!! All of the people we've met the initial attraction to them was because their profile fit our criteria and we got turned on by the fact we could play out our fantasies with them nothing more nothing less. Luckily most we've met have become close friends and regular playmates. | |||
"6 of one, half a dozen of the other. I REALLY hope this is something that stops being discussed one day. I can live in hope right?" | |||
" Only if you advertise as a BBC. " but that is the point... I don't, and neither have a lot of the black guys here but it seems to be a label that is being foisted on me, and to be honest I am no ones label and I get to define what I am, no one else..... and that is the point, I am an individual, same as you two are.... I am me! not some pigeon holed niche..... and as for the match.com reference... thanks for being condescending!! | |||
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"Ok so single guys get a bad rep and unfortunately because there are so many of you on here and other sites looking for action you do get pigeonholed as basically extra cocks for the pleasure of certain ladies. The girls can basically take their pick from who they do and don't want to do and that's fine because it's an adult sex site. You single guys are on here for exactly the same thing nsa sex with loose women right? So sorry if we sound condescending but if you are seriously looking for something more meaningful you may be better off looking somewhere a little more vanilla . As for the bbc thing, if we were looking for a single black guy we'd choose because he looked hot not because we expected him to be hung." | |||
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"6 of one, half a dozen of the other. I REALLY hope this is something that stops being discussed one day. I can live in hope right?" | |||
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"We think the term BBC does not define an individual but it is just one generic label to describe certain physical attributes. For those guys that are upset by the term, are they more upset by the world black or the word big? We don't stipulate what type of guys we prefer, but we do stipulate that they are v/w/e. Out of all the replies we have had we have never had one complaining that the guy feels he is more than just v/w/e cock. If someone advertises for guys who are v/w/e or BBC then that is their preference, just one factor in them choosing a potential playmate. Why can't the guys, who may satisfy part of the criteria for BBC, see this as them having an advantage over the other single guys on here. If you are a black guy, have a cock, then surely it's just negotiation over the size that may get you shortlisted, to get to the top of that list will almost always require more but be happy guys you are already half way there. What the guys need to realise is that there is a 'want' list for anyone seeking to meet up on here. If the profile mentions that size of penis is important to them, then why shouldn't they get what they want. This is not the reality for most people on here, it's about the fantasy, something they may not get in their everyday lives and yet some guys seem to think that this is wrong, but it's not. It's all about personal choice. What seems to be the issue here is that some guys seem to want to employ a kind of 'sexual censorship' here. They seem to think that just because they say that they feel penis size should not be a primary choice factor, that it should not be mentioned because they are so much more than just a cock. However when we looked at the profile of some of the guys stating that they felt this way, they all have set an age range on their profiles. So all these guys would meet woman under a certain age but does that mean that they will not anyone over their upper age limits. Come on guys you cannot have it both ways, complaining that people judge you as being just a cock, yet you judge others just by a number, because they are too old for you. Surely these woman can utilise the same argument as you, you are ageist, that they are so much more than just a number, surely there are sexy, desirable woman throughout the whole age range found on Fab, yet you guys refuse to give these woman a chance, how dare you? Well actually these woman can't use this argument, you guys are free to choose to meet who you want based on your preferences, just like those who advertise for BBC." | |||
Though i liked the title it's kind of getting a bit boring now. The same discussions, the same people, the same points of _iew.
Guys who advertise themselves as having a BBC, that's their choice and if that's all you have to offer then whoever takes you up on that offer good luck to them.
Though i will say the whole BBC thing is a myth as, just as in any race, not all black guys are big so people need to get that myth out of their minds as non-black guys can be big too.
Wish someone would start an ITV or Ch.4 thread instead, they're interesting too | |||
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"See... I'm still not sure if you fully understand... I don't have an issue with preference, but I do have an issue with how the preference is expressed.... I am going to use a word I abhor in the example so if it offends I am sorry... But it gets the point across There is a difference between saying " no black guys" and saying "no niggers"..... I bet one offends more that the other As I said further up that I think some have missed, the irony being that if the preference was expressed in a different way, it would likely attract interest that it wouldn't do otherwise If you think that is sexual censorship, so be it.... It's funny that we talk fairly regularly about tarring ppl with the same brush... And the normal reply is "rubbish you are an individual! " and yet in this case you are lumping ppl together whether they like it or not........ Maybe a lot of the target audience are speaking up... And if it makes people think more about how they express things then the thread is not in vain I am out of this thread......." The acronym BBC is just that, an acronym, it simply saves people typing out the phrase big, black cock. As far as we are aware it is not meant as an offensive phrase. We agree that if it were it would be counter productive to use, after all who would want to offend a potential playmate. Indeed there are hundreds of black guys on this site, who consider themselves to have a large cock and use the phrase themselves on their own profiles. We concede that it may be annoying if you are a black guy who has not stated the size of his cock, and you keep getting inundated by people asking you how big you are, then that may become tedious. You may feel a little pissed off that people are making an assumption about your size just based upon your skin colour and ethnic origin. But this is no more annoying then all the couples on here who are inundated by single guys, when they have not asked for single guys and some have even requested that they are not to be contacted by single guys, period. If this is the case and a guy is pestered about his manhood, based purely on his ethnicity and they take offence with this then just ignore or bloke those who are contacting you. But don't judge those that advertise themselves as BBC or those that like to play with BBC's, it's all about personal choice. This applies equally to those guys who take issue with it that it removes any element of their individuality or humanity. Make your choice by not associating with those that use this term. | |||
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"It isn't obtuse, we are being direct and stating a fact. If your colour was irrelevant to the person you are why reference it? Read my comment again, the answer is there. In plain english.
Actually......don't. I lack the patience for this anymore. Whatever the hell helps you sleep at night.
I read perfectly well.... You call it a 'descriptor' but I doubt if anyone white on here uses that as a 'descriptor' hence you do use it to define yourself. Or why bother?
Just dealing in simple facts.
*sigh* Caucasians are way in the majority here, so don't need to define themselves as such. For him to add the description 'black' is, as the poster says, helps others to use it as a filter. Yes there will be some who use their race as a selling point, and why not? Some people ask precisely for that ingredient, so if that helps a black guy to get meets, then kewl. But not all want to play that card."Why not? Because it helps perpetuate inequality and institutional racism. | |||
"No black guy would be offended by the word bbc if they indeed have a big cock. Some people would fuck any black guy as long as they have a big cock and that is fine. I wouldn't refuse an attractive white or Asian woman's offer to fuck me because i have a big black cock. It doesn't mean she loves me but maybe it's just her fantasy so let it be fulfilled. But like everyone has stated, not every black guy has a big cock and not every black guy is good at using it. " | |||
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"you'll get shouted down and hate mail from the "brothers" who play up to it..... trust me!! hater!!!! lol " are those the dudes who knock on locked doors or push you out of the action in a group environment in a club? | |||
