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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Similar to another posr sorry, but just wanted to rant .....
So u message a lady, u get talking, u move on to kik or watsapp then swap numbers, arrange a meet, then they change their mind !!!
If people have no intention of meeting y lead u on ....
The chats all good but lets face it we are all here for one thing ....
Rant over x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Similar to another posr sorry, but just wanted to rant .....
So u message a lady, u get talking, u move on to kik or watsapp then swap numbers, arrange a meet, then they change their mind !!!
If people have no intention of meeting y lead u on ....
The chats all good but lets face it we are all here for one thing ....
Rant over x "
It's called being a wind up merchant and some get off on it - not that many so ignore them and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Serious question, if you handle the rejection of someone deciding that they don't want to meet you this badly, how would you cope if yoy had met them and they didn't want to play?
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"Similar to another posr sorry, but just wanted to rant .....
So u message a lady, u get talking, u move on to kik or watsapp then swap numbers, arrange a meet, then they change their mind !!!
If people have no intention of meeting y lead u on ....
The chats all good but lets face it we are all here for one thing ....
Rant over x "
Maybe when it comes down to it, they decide you aren't who they want to meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People changing their mind? What a diabolical liberty! "
agree with this.
people can change their mind at any point.
would you have changed your mind had you not fancied her, or would you have gone through with it anyway? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People change their minds for many different reasons, it's their right on here, as it is in the 'real' world, we have changed our mind, for many reasons although some meets have HAD to be cancelled, which was genuinely unavoidable...
As people have also done to us.... Sometimes you have to give the benefit of the doubt....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Serious question, if you handle the rejection of someone deciding that they don't want to meet you this badly, how would you cope if yoy had met them and they didn't want to play?
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adding to this : what if they just aren't in the mood for sex. It happens to me a lot. Fine one day then can't even think about sex the next |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Serious question, if you handle the rejection of someone deciding that they don't want to meet you this badly, how would you cope if yoy had met them and they didn't want to play?
adding to this : what if they just aren't in the mood for sex. It happens to me a lot. Fine one day then can't even think about sex the next"
Yes true, I guess its just my sex drive is high 24/7 even to tge point of being sore and still wanting more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Serious question, if you handle the rejection of someone deciding that they don't want to meet you this badly, how would you cope if yoy had met them and they didn't want to play?
adding to this : what if they just aren't in the mood for sex. It happens to me a lot. Fine one day then can't even think about sex the next"
Don't think everyone is moaning about cancelling as it happens coz of loads of reasons but thinks its about being honest and just saying I'm not in the mood or what ever has happened lol |
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I think with experience you get s feel for those who are going to be no shows. So when they do cancel last minute you just shrug your shoulders because you were expecting it. Plenty of people who do show in my experience. The other week I had someone cancel late on for a meet after I'd got the feeling they were a messer, (never came up with a phone number). That night they contacted me saying how about tomorrow, had the pleasure of saying sorry but I've got a meet with someone else then, (and I had ). |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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Sometimes you can initially be attracted to a person, then as you bat a couple of messages back and forth you realise that they are a complete nincompoop.
I have a feeling this happens to me quite a bit, as I am a complete nincompoop of the highest order  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Similar to another posr sorry, but just wanted to rant .....
So u message a lady, u get talking, u move on to kik or watsapp then swap numbers, arrange a meet, then they change their mind !!!
If people have no intention of meeting y lead u on ....
The chats all good but lets face it we are all here for one thing ....
Rant over x "
We have changed our mind a few times after chatting for a while, even when a meet has been confirmed.
People are entitled to change their minds at any time!
Also had people change their minds on meeting us, it's one of those things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes you can initially be attracted to a person, then as you bat a couple of messages back and forth you realise that they are a complete nincompoop.
I have a feeling this happens to me quite a bit, as I am a complete nincompoop of the highest order "
NINCOMPOOP
my word of the day.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes you can initially be attracted to a person, then as you bat a couple of messages back and forth you realise that they are a complete nincompoop.
I have a feeling this happens to me quite a bit, as I am a complete nincompoop of the highest order "
I love that I now know how to spell nincompoop!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you said something that made them change their mind?
I honestly dont think so ppl just after the chase not the actual play I think x"
from a males point of view, I was chatting to a couple, moved on to msn going well then they said they only did bareback! not my thing, good bye see you later. They said something I didn't agree with so I didn't meet them. Their profile stated safe sex only but they wanted bareback so I felt not my thing. its hard enough for us guy to get meets but they must be right, Move on forget it each to their own.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People have lives and don't live to swing and at times life gets in the way of play time . Play is play family jobs and normal life comes first to a lot of people and family to me comes first every time. |
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"People have lives and don't live to swing and at times life gets in the way of play time . Play is play family jobs and normal life comes first to a lot of people and family to me comes first every time."
yep and in time you can also realise that you dont actually like them, or have someone different come along and catch your interest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Similar to another posr sorry, but just wanted to rant .....
So u message a lady, u get talking, u move on to kik or watsapp then swap numbers, arrange a meet, then they change their mind !!!
If people have no intention of meeting y lead u on ....
The chats all good but lets face it we are all here for one thing ....
Rant over x "
Sometimes when chatting it transpires that you're actually not compatible with the bloke. Shopping pics and exchanging a few messages is not a contract to meet. Guys who pester completely turn me off, sometimes they will say something that makes me think yuck and so I'll politely tell them that I don't wish to meet. That's life. We can't all like everybody. It's not instshag! |
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